3000 beers (your social life question)

i have a local pub but never go in it. i often think i should as it might be nice to get to know some of the regulars...then again this could be a huge mistake as the clientele do not seem all that appealing.

i don't think my social life revolves around booze as such, but it's usually involved a fair bit, especially as i do not smoke anything.

One thing that struck me about London was that the tube system meant that people could have a local that was miles away.

Andrew, I know those are positive associations where did I even say otherwise, my point is that they can't be broken easily, honestly you are a wanker online 99 percent of the time.

anyway this is a happy thread.

October is, indeed, a month of ruin. And sausage sickness. I urge you to stay far, far away from Bau Waus, Edinburgh's gourmet hot dog outlet and Martino's chip shop in East Kilbride, which gave me washing machine tummy two nights running at the weekend.

Proper community spirit, in and out of each others' houses the whole time? Bollocks to it.

The best part about a local is being drunk and saying "how's it going" and cracking a hahaha joke with people as they walk by where even if they didn't hear what you said they'd laugh anyway cos it was something funny.

That's a good point, and part of why I dislike the idea: I don't need my social structures to make my jokes for me (yet).

Andrew, I know those are positive associations where did I even say otherwise

You were talking about focussing on 'the positives', then started talking about these things. What am I supposed to infer?

honestly you are a wanker online 99 percent of the time.

Where did I even say otherwise?

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I'm generally finding drinking in places other than the pub less and less enjoyable these days, and consequently hardly ever really drink at home. But equally, I'm going out more and more, pretty much always to the pub, and especially in winter. I'm sure having a lack of public spaces to meet with people in comforting surroundings is a major factor, as of course is the beer.

From what I know about London ILX I'd say the majority of us have social lives that revolve around the pub - its a convenient social centre.

I think I've had maybe 500+ beers in my life.

To what extent is drinking actual alcohol integral to being in the pub? I rarely drink soft drinks in the pub, but that's because they're usually so extortionately-priced that I feel its a waste NOT to drink.

I guess it was the cameraderie that appeals, being able to sound off about fellw colleagues, or work situations, but with people I knew well and could talk non-work with too. I know it's awful to leave work and then talk about it for ages in the pub, but it can be quite theraputic, especially with a bit of booze inside you to losen tongues and relax everyone.

Our work local has just changed landladies and it's very weird. Things keep changing - staff, positions of tables and chairs, she's getting rid of the pool tables upstairs, and clientele are changing too. It's quite upsetting in a way, but there's now a pub bulldog, so it's not all bad.

I realised after I stopped going to the pub after work so much that I was drinking a lot more at home mid-week than I'd ever done before, but I blame that on Chris's bad example, and I've tried to cut down. For me, and chris, booze is an important part of winding down after a hard day at the office.

I've recently found myself very comfortable with having a sit and read by myself in the pub, but only when waiting for other people. It wouldn't really occur to me to go by myself when I could go home for cheaper. Then again if trains are delayed @ London Bridge I see no reason why I shouldn't attempt to pop down the Royal Oak. It's KINDA local.

That was me! (not really)

Andrew's one of the few people I know who can go to the pub, drink nothing but blackcurrant all night and still appear as drunk and mentalist as everyone else by the end of the night (dancing ahem...)

http://www.bbc.co.uk/comedy/theoffice/renaissance/images/db_dancing.jpg

Me dancing at the end of the night (at a pub quiz).

Yeah, I am agitating a bit for "You can have fun without booze", but I know I'm unusual like that, and it's not like I have a secret plan for booze-free fun that I can teach people.

Also the company I keep is intoxicant enough. </cheese>

I probably drank (conservative estimate) 3000 beers in two years at university. Consequently my guts are now fucked and I can't drink more than four in one session these days.

btw I think the 43 bus is my new local. I met two nice young ladies last night, very friendly with good suggestions about getting into plays for free. And upper-deck boozing was in full-swing. Luckily the puke-trenches were clean.

The beer is nothing special there but The Pub is more important than The Beer and CAMRA can bite me.

I never tire of telling people that they also have a mummified cat, which is blatantly not Dick Whittington's real actual cat but could be if you wanted it to be.

For a slightly more refined experience you could wander up the hill to Highgate village where there are one or two sound boozers in plain sight. I would say the company is sometimes questionable but I fear the wrath of MarkC.

The Swimmers in Holloway is a good one, too, thought I could live without their exposed kitchen.

(btw I have never seen Tim in a Peckham pub --> he has had only 3 beers in his life (all outdoors))

Sarah and Lixi, you should try the pubs between Peckham and Camberwell by the South London Gallery on Peckham Road. One of them is bound to be okay.

It's horrifying, it'd be like me bringing a dead cat everywhere I go. I mean clearly Bentham is insane; it's not even like he's donating his body to a good cause, he's just being full of himself thinking people would want to see his rotted corpse for all time, but that doesn't excuse other people sending bits of his skin about as an exhibit of kinds, nor does it excuse that whole photo I saw with his disembodied head sitting between his feet.

Well, I don't know, maybe a little bit.

Was that Fez picture really in the Swimmers??

I've never really drunk in any of my locals, except for when I lived in Wood Green and went to the sadly missed Lord Nelson a few nights a week - your standard mid-90s Britpop boozer with loud jukebox, quizzer, good snack range etc. - unfortunately I never really got to 'regular' status there because i) we only lived there eight months and ii) it changed its name to the (shudder) Rattle And Hum, and had a big refit.

Kate: That is DISGUSTING!!! Eeek. Maybe they were just all drunk.

the old man piano bar referenced above, you can give him $1 and do a karaoke on the song of your choice (if he knows it). i would do the bacharach standard "walk on by" but have him play it in F instead of G (at least i think it's in G, at any rate, i'm no dionne warwick).

http://www.rivereuphrates.demon.co.uk/littletomfez.jpg

How do people in the UK determine what their "local" is? Is there one assigned to each neighborhood or what?

How do people elsewhere know which bar to go to?

yes, i drink a lot, i blame TOM EWING'S FRIENDS who have led me astray.

however, tom OTM re 20 vs 30 and ronan is right that in actuality it is a thin line, but i think we like to kid ourselves it isn't.

Yeah, I know it's sad and pathetic. THat's why I stopped.

Yeah everybody does that, absolutely everybody. But they may not have been that wrecked in reality.

Ronan the 20/30 thing is to do with expectations - when I set out on a night out at 20 the expectation/hope was that it would provide a drunken story or two, an exploit for later storytelling. So drinking to excess was definitely part of it. Nowadays the night outs are much more about sitting and chatting - and then maybe noticing that you're shitfaced, but the level of drunkenness reached makes little difference to a good night out these days.

I think sometimes there are exploits or funny drunken happenings, but I would say I set out for a night wanting to have some beers and chat and mess until such point as I am too tired to do so anymore.

The difference I suppose Tom is that I have special nights for exploits, ie when I go clubbing, and other nights are for drinking and chatting. My social life is very much split like that but I can see the get as hammered as possible thing a bit in college, it's just I've more of an excuse when I go clubbing, I'm going to see a DJ of course, haha!

Sod the beer, give me white wine any day....

Obviously, the more content and happy you become with your life (a la Tom and Isabel), this side of things becomes less and less important to you, but of course a good night in the pub is as fun as its ever been, but I suspect you don't attach the same sense of anticipation to it.

Likewise I think if I was genuinely spending my lifetime trecking around Nepal or whatever I would find less need to go out on the razz every so often than I do working in an office five days a week.

But it's just a meme.

Ahem.

When does it stop? Should I have already stopped loving the ruin? My social life involves much ruin and I don't really see it changing.

Sure thing!

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The man who lived there seems to be back on his feet. We spoke to him today and he says he's completely stopped drinking. He was welcomed back to his old job a few months ago, and his co-workers speak highly of him.