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Anyone here live (or have lived) in a different country from the one you grew up in?

Where? How easy was it to find a job? What were your reasons for leaving?

Just wondering since I'm starting to get a little antsy to try something different.....I lived in Paris for 6 months as a student, but I wouldn't call that being an expat.

waxyjax (waxyjax), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 19:14 (twenty-two years ago)

*waves*

*shrugs*

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 19:16 (twenty-two years ago)

No. Nobody here like that. Uh-oh. No way.

(Gobs n' gobs of us, actually.)

Colin Meeder (Mert), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 19:33 (twenty-two years ago)

what's the difference between being an expatriate and an immigrant? The intention to return?

Elliot (Elliot), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 19:34 (twenty-two years ago)

I count myself as both.

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 19:35 (twenty-two years ago)

hmm immigrant should be emigrant

Elliot (Elliot), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 19:36 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm a migrant.

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 19:36 (twenty-two years ago)

Anyone here who was once a proud patriot, but is no longer?

Sym (shmuel), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 19:39 (twenty-two years ago)

[i]No. Nobody here like that. Uh-oh. No way.
(Gobs n' gobs of us, actually.)

-- Colin Meeder (amisrau...), February 11th, 2004.[/i]

yeah, that's why i figured i'd go and post this question on this board.


[i]what's the difference between being an expatriate and an immigrant? The intention to return?
-- Elliot (elliotsi...), February 11th, 2004.[/i]

damn, that's a good question....i just tried looking it up and realized that i spelled it wrong--it's EXPATRIATE. the dictionary meanings are pretty similar...i guess, when i think of immigrant i think of someone who moves to another country where the economy, society or political climate is more suited to their needs--whereas, with expatriates, curiosity, or need for change of environment seem to be equally (if not more) important.

waxyjax (waxyjax), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 19:54 (twenty-two years ago)

...sooooo....anyone wanna share how their experiences were moving to another country? how was it finding a job and securing the proper papers for it?

waxyjax (waxyjax), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 20:02 (twenty-two years ago)

My situation was pretty luxurious and unusual: first a foundation and then a fancy-ass law firm took care of all the formalities, and I'm married to an EU citizen which also makes things easier. I'm sure others have more DIY stories to tell.

Colin Meeder (Mert), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 20:06 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm originally from Ireland (Dublin), but I've been living in the US for about five years (first Boston, now NYC). Before that I lived in Brussels for just over three years. Spent just under a year in London before that. I kind of fell into a pattern of moving city every couple of years (although NYC is proving to be pretty sticky), but I’m glad that I did. Dublin is a great place, but I think I’d have gone crazy if I had stayed there all this time.

Finding a job in a new city is not that much more difficult than finding a new job in the same city. You'll probably want to have some kind of work authorization sorted out first. Start looking into this (at least find out if it is necessary) as soon as you know you want to go somewhere. Not having a visa that permits you to work will limit the kinds of jobs you’ll be able to find, but doesn’t necessarily mean you won’t find anything. If all you can get is a tourist visa it might still be worth going. Similarly, not having a reasonable grasp of the language will also limit you as far as jobs are concerned, but shouldn't make you rule out going somewhere you'd really like to be.

It's nice to have enough money (or access to money through credit cards / family / whatever) to cover food and rent (plus security deposit and realtor fees) for at least two months. If you don’t have that then at least make sure you have a return ticket. Do as much research into jobs and apartments as you can do online before hand. Talk to anyone you know that has been there. Book yourself a room in a cheap hotel or hostel for the first week (do this before you go). Try to find one that is as close to the city center and public transport but as far away from central bus or train terminals as possible. Bring the addresses of alternative hotels / hostels and internet café’s in the same area. Don’t bring too much stuff with you (you can always have your first couple of visitors bring stuff over to you).

Meeting people can be difficult. If you already know people who are living in the place you want to go to (or even know people who know people who live there) everything will be much, much easier. If you do go somewhere where you know nobody, be prepared to spend a month or so of Saturday afternoons wondering around shops on your own and nights feeling sorry for yourself. You’ll eventually meet people, through work, going to gigs or bars or just hanging out in the same shops every week looking lonely.

mmmmsalt (Graeme), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 20:24 (twenty-two years ago)

erm, could just be me, but i think it takes more like a year than a month to make friends in a new country, if you come knowing no-one.

paulhw (paulhw), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 20:30 (twenty-two years ago)

Getting work authorization papers is generally a huge pain in the arse, by the way. It appears to be much tougher for American's going to Europe than vice versa. Tourist visas will get you where you want to go and are easy enough to come by. Student visas are a little better as many of them will allow you to work legally as well. Temporary work visas often require sponsorship from an employer and permanent visas seem to be the reserve of people whose name has been pulled out of a hat, who married a citizen or who are deposed dictators former colonies. Different countries will have totally different requirements, which may even shift depending on where you are coming from.

xpost..

mmmmsalt (Graeme), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 20:34 (twenty-two years ago)

I think it takes more like a year than a month to make friends in a new country

It's been a while since I moved anywhere totally new, but I've generally averaged about six or seven weeks before I at least got a co-worker / fellow student to feel sorry enough for me to ask if I wanted to come out for drinks. Thinking about it though, it was at least a year before I knew people that I was close enough friends with to be able to properly rely on...

mmmmsalt (Graeme), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 20:37 (twenty-two years ago)

It appears to be much tougher for American's going to Europe than vice versa.

yeah, that's my biggest concern. apparently they have programs where you can get a 6-month work visa and job placement (mainly in bars or resorts) but that's only if you're a student or if you've graduated within the past 6 months.

it may be fun to go back to school--but being that i'm not the academic type, i'd prefer not to. i'm also not very interested in teaching english abroad since i've never seen myself as being a very good instructor.

...i heard there are certain countries that are pretty lax about granting work visas to foreigners (even americans). apparently new zealand is one such place--although this could all be rumor.

waxyjax (waxyjax), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 20:41 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm a bit bored of telling my expat story, but I have been here about 6 months now. It was NOT easy to find a job, but I guess that all depends on what skills you have. I do not have many.

My reasons for leaving were many, but mostly I/we just like the Bay Area and wanted to live in a smaller city (than London) for a while.

All visa stuff is by nature a HUGE pain in the butt. poor choice of words.

It has not been easy to meet new people, though I am lucky in that there are many nice ILXors here that don't occasionally mind tolerating my presence. I don't have any non-ILX friends yet. It helps that I have lived (briefly) abroad before, and so am somewhat used to this feeling. I hear culture shock of any kind (and I know we're not talking about a massive difference in cultures here, though you'd be surprised) takes a year to get over.

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 20:49 (twenty-two years ago)

for me, culture shock is exciting at first, then a bit frustrating, and then eventually goes away as I get used to things.

The one thing that made living in a foreign country difficult was that I had enough of a grasp of the language to have conversations, but not enough to communicate or understand certain nuances of the language (ie humor, sarcasm, etc...) so I felt like part of my personality was lost--and vice versa. There were a couple people who were so linguistically and culturally well-acquainted with American culture and language that they could pick up on my sense of humor and cultural references...but in general, it was hard to connect with people on that level--and I felt like a nerd not being able to pick up on other people's jokes.

...But still, I have a lot of fond memories living abroad and am eager to do it again.

waxyjax (waxyjax), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 21:16 (twenty-two years ago)

I've been in Britain for two years now and I haven't made any friends other than the ones I arrived already knowing.

Catty (Catty), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 21:53 (twenty-two years ago)

Coming up to one year in Berlin. No visa problems because it's Europe. Am liking it more all the time. Whenever I go out I'm pleasantly surprised. Meet people every time. Tonight I met about six new people, none of them Germans, all of them artists, all extremely friendly and bright and interesting.

Momus (Momus), Wednesday, 11 February 2004 22:42 (twenty-two years ago)

Moved here to London exactly one year ago from Toronto. Some hassles to start. Seem to have settled in OK. Met people, got a job, life marches on...

Rob Bolton (Rob Bolton), Thursday, 12 February 2004 17:44 (twenty-two years ago)

My experience -- even with big moves within a country -- is that it takes around two years to feel comfortable, with the emphasis on the "feel" part. Sure, you can luck out and do well finding work, etc., and even hang out with sympathetic colleagues, but it's that subjective sense of belonging that usually takes a while.

(Oh, I'm a Limey who's lived in and around Vancouver for much, much longer than two years. It hasn't always been easy, but I love it here. As far as papers, etc, it took about 18 months between my first application to emigrate and the moment I stepped off the 747 onto BC blacktop.)

David A. (Davant), Friday, 13 February 2004 08:30 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm emigrating again, this time to Austria.

Colin Meeder (Mert), Friday, 13 February 2004 08:48 (twenty-two years ago)

Lived for extended periods in three countries, crapped out in all of them. Have only lately realised that this is the result of (and not the solution to) an inability to cope with things like 'jobs' and 'fixed addresses'

dave q, Friday, 13 February 2004 13:25 (twenty-two years ago)

three months pass...
mwurgh

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 May 2004 19:53 (twenty-one years ago)

posh!

hstencil (hstencil), Friday, 21 May 2004 19:55 (twenty-one years ago)

The other day, a girl asked me if I was from Rhode Island. How's that for assimilation?

-- @d@ml (nordicskilla@hotmail.com), December 11th, 2003.

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 May 2004 19:57 (twenty-one years ago)

Haha! Eat that, Jon Williams!

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 May 2004 19:57 (twenty-one years ago)

NEW ENGLAND.

hstencil (hstencil), Friday, 21 May 2004 19:57 (twenty-one years ago)

NOT the same.

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 May 2004 19:59 (twenty-one years ago)

Does New England have roundabouts?

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 May 2004 20:00 (twenty-one years ago)

New England sure as shit has roundabouts, dude.

hstencil (hstencil), Friday, 21 May 2004 20:00 (twenty-one years ago)

and funny accents.

hstencil (hstencil), Friday, 21 May 2004 20:00 (twenty-one years ago)

REALLY?

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 May 2004 20:01 (twenty-one years ago)

WHY DO YOU THINK THEY CALLED IT NEW ENGLAND YOU POSH SPICE YOU?

hstencil (hstencil), Friday, 21 May 2004 20:02 (twenty-one years ago)

Do they have THESE?

http://ezyinfo.co.nz/listings/images/r124.gif

or THESE?

http://www.tomas-katz.com/images/HappyEater.jpg

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 May 2004 20:03 (twenty-one years ago)

probably?

hstencil (hstencil), Friday, 21 May 2004 20:04 (twenty-one years ago)

No.

El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Friday, 21 May 2004 20:07 (twenty-one years ago)

Arthur Treacher's?

hstencil (hstencil), Friday, 21 May 2004 20:09 (twenty-one years ago)

HAPPY EATER!

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 May 2004 20:18 (twenty-one years ago)

three months pass...
How are you all?

adam. (nordicskilla), Wednesday, 15 September 2004 22:34 (twenty-one years ago)

I thought there would be more Kate and Suzy and Colette on this thread.

jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 15 September 2004 23:08 (twenty-one years ago)

I thought they were english or british.

RJG (RJG), Wednesday, 15 September 2004 23:09 (twenty-one years ago)

expat, yo.

supercub, Thursday, 16 September 2004 03:03 (twenty-one years ago)

dave q otm

adam. (nordicskilla), Thursday, 16 September 2004 03:23 (twenty-one years ago)

i'm not but i have been, maybe

gaz (gaz), Thursday, 16 September 2004 03:26 (twenty-one years ago)

or maybe i am. i'm uk born live and work in australia but have also worked in uk and am an australian resident with a brit passport.

gaz (gaz), Thursday, 16 September 2004 03:27 (twenty-one years ago)

I thought Colette was from Michigan and Suzy was from Minnesota? I don't remember Kate's whole story, but I know she's lived for long periods of time in both the US and the UK.

jaymc (jaymc), Thursday, 16 September 2004 03:35 (twenty-one years ago)

I thought Kate was cdn.

adam. (nordicskilla), Thursday, 16 September 2004 03:37 (twenty-one years ago)

Sure, that too.

jaymc (jaymc), Thursday, 16 September 2004 03:39 (twenty-one years ago)

You...don't know what "cdn" is, do you?

adam. (nordicskilla), Thursday, 16 September 2004 03:52 (twenty-one years ago)

Camden?

jaymc (jaymc), Thursday, 16 September 2004 03:59 (twenty-one years ago)

No, no, I know.

jaymc (jaymc), Thursday, 16 September 2004 04:00 (twenty-one years ago)

Home: Toronto, Canada
Current Residence: Nagoya, Japan
Length of Stay: Sep-2000 to present

Adjectives which describe living abroad:

wonderful,challenging,frustrating,exciting,maddening,illuminating,humbling,encouraging,fun.

Hardest Part: Being away from friends and family, not enough hockey in Japan and falling in love with people and things I know I'm going to have to leave behind one day.

J-rock (Julien Sandiford), Thursday, 16 September 2004 06:37 (twenty-one years ago)

I've been living in Japan for 2 months as a teacher. I'd always been interested in the culture and language. Got food poisoning and cried for the first two days, had a rough first month but finally started to make friends (about 70% foreign, 30% Japanese) and now I'm loving it. Every day is a holiday, every meal is a banquet etc.

Seriously, every day I learn something, about either Japan or myself. Very, very valuable life experience. I'd recommend living outside the country to anyone who can handle it.

Laura E (laurae55), Thursday, 16 September 2004 06:54 (twenty-one years ago)

Japan's pretty wacky eh? I've been here for a while and I still have those "ohmygodwhatthefuck!" moments at least a couple times a week. Once you learn a bit of Japanese, things will get really interesting.

J-rock (Julien Sandiford), Thursday, 16 September 2004 07:05 (twenty-one years ago)

eight years pass...

JetBlue is running a "Election Protection" special right now.

An airline says it will help voters distraught over backing the losing candidate in next month's presidential contest flee the country — for free.

JetBlue Airways' new "Election Protection" promotion allows voters the chance to win a free round-trip ticket to one of the airline's 21 international destinations if the election doesn't go their way. Contestants first must preregister at http://www.jetblueelectionprotection.com. After the Nov. 6 results are in, the airline will give away 1,006 roundtrip certificates — that's 2012 seats — to participants whose candidate lost.

"We've all heard it said before: if my candidate does not win, I'm leaving the country," said Marty St. George, senior vice president of marketing and commercial strategy for JetBlue. "Fun is one of our five founding values, and in this spirit, we decided to give people a chance to recover from the political noise and follow through on their claim to skip town if their candidate comes up short."

http://www.jetblueelectionprotection.com

Elvis Telecom, Thursday, 4 October 2012 03:59 (thirteen years ago)

Should be one-way tickets, really.

Temporarily Famous In The Czech Republic (ShariVari), Thursday, 4 October 2012 18:11 (thirteen years ago)

smart PR effort

Aimless, Thursday, 4 October 2012 18:16 (thirteen years ago)

three years pass...

Hoping JetBlue runs this offer again in 2016.

Elvis Telecom, Thursday, 10 December 2015 05:07 (ten years ago)

eleven months pass...

I'm staying here and fighting, but I do confess to reading https://www.reddit.com/r/IWantOut/ at least once a day.

Elvis Telecom, Friday, 18 November 2016 01:38 (nine years ago)

Obligatory :( xp

Elvis Telecom, Friday, 18 November 2016 01:38 (nine years ago)


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