I need someone and he doesn't feel me at all

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How can I make a person far away from me and rejecting to listen to me aware of my deep feelings to him, how can I make him feel me and feel my pain. We were once so close to each other, but now, everything has changed. I want him back, what can I do to soften his heart without humiliating myself? I reaaly need him, and I want him to know that. How can I do that without directly saying it?

― m.r., Thursday, 11 March 2004 20:04 (twenty-two years ago)

You can't make anyone do anything, don't try. You can either tell him straight out and hope for the best (but be prepared for the worst), or you can lay it aside and try to move on with your life.

― luna (luna.c), Thursday, 11 March 2004 20:07 (twenty-two years ago)

Get a hold of yourself. You don't need him. You are a fine woman. You can take care of yourself. If he can't see all the beauty that everybody here appreciates, then he's not worth your time.

― The Huckle-Buck (Horace Mann), Thursday, 11 March 2004 20:08 (twenty-two years ago)

Or head.

― head, Thursday, 11 March 2004 20:08 (twenty-two years ago)

I think you can soften his heart, but likely not without himiliating yourself (and losing a bit of respect for yourself). I guess you'll have to decide which is more important.

― Barry Bruner (Barry Bruner), Thursday, 11 March 2004 20:22 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm worried that, if he's refusing to listen to you, any attempts you make to contact him about this might end up with you hurt. Or maybe he isn't willing to communicate with you because he is hurting. I don't know. Hurt hurts.

― nickalicious (nickalicious), Thursday, 11 March 2004 20:26 (twenty-two years ago)

Someone quoted Jello Biafra around here yesterday - paraphrasing - 'you regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did do.'

Also, having recently been on the other end of that problem and still dealing with it, I wished I had known sooner. Tell him.

― dave225 (Dave225), Thursday, 11 March 2004 20:55 (twenty-two years ago)

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