Oral sex: do you do it mainly to please your partner, or is it a sexual turn-on in itself?

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And yes, pleasing your partner of course can be a sexual turn-on in itself, but above and beyond that, do you find going down on someone a turn-on? Have you ever fantasised about it, for example? Have you ever felt frustrated because someone didn't want you to go down on them?

― going down..., Monday, 15 March 2004 16:46 (twenty-two years ago)

Definite turn on.

― luna (luna.c), Monday, 15 March 2004 16:49 (twenty-two years ago)

Aye. I love it.

― hmmm (hmmm), Monday, 15 March 2004 16:49 (twenty-two years ago)

Yes. Update tomorrow, godda go!

― mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 15 March 2004 16:49 (twenty-two years ago)

Luna's right. And sadly I think I'd be a bit too selfish to bother a lot of the time if it wasn't.

― Anna (Anna), Monday, 15 March 2004 16:50 (twenty-two years ago)

Definitely better to give than to receive for me, anyway.

― Pashmina (Pashmina), Monday, 15 March 2004 16:51 (twenty-two years ago)

Definitely a huge turn-on! I guess I'm lucky cos I enjoy doing it, so I don't ever have a problem doing it!

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Monday, 15 March 2004 16:52 (twenty-two years ago)

just to have someone to either/both give to/receive from would be great just now!

― ken c (ken c), Monday, 15 March 2004 16:54 (twenty-two years ago)

Not during her period, and not if she hasn't had a shower in a while, to be honest. Otherwise, I like it plenty.

― Bill T. Bones, Monday, 15 March 2004 16:56 (twenty-two years ago)

Do you order her to have a shower before you do it? What about you, do you have to have a shower before she'll do it?

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Monday, 15 March 2004 16:57 (twenty-two years ago)

i can't stand doing it.
totally turns me off.
only about 1/3rd of the girls i've slept with have been worthy of such luxurious treatment.

― dyson (dyson), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:00 (twenty-two years ago)

"Do you order her to have a shower before you do it? What about you, do you have to have a shower before she'll do it?"

No, I don't order her to have a shower! I mean, having had a shower in the last 24 hours or so, or if she's had a tough day at work running around all day or something, then it'd be great if she has a shower when she gets home. And I'd say exactly the same about myself.

― Bill T. Bones, Monday, 15 March 2004 17:03 (twenty-two years ago)

dyson has trouble switching from suck to blow.

― ken c (ken c), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:04 (twenty-two years ago)

I unconditionally love everything about it, giving, receiving, doesn't matter.

― Markelby (Mark C), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:05 (twenty-two years ago)

It's (usually) best when the giving and receving are happening simultaneously. It's also v. cool if the girl is petite enough that you can do the 69 standing up.

*It is entirely possible that I have been looking at too much porn as of late. Strictly for erm... educational purposes. *ahem*

― Will (will), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:13 (twenty-two years ago)

Will, it's hard to concentrate on both ends simultaneously. Though chicks are supposed to be good at multitasking I guess.

― Markelby (Mark C), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:18 (twenty-two years ago)

i've seen one girl in a video once who really was quite talented at multitasking.

― ken c (ken c), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:21 (twenty-two years ago)

do the 69 standing up

i'm with mark on this one.

― toby (tsg20), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:21 (twenty-two years ago)

eww

― RJG (RJG), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:22 (twenty-two years ago)

i'll repeat...

i eat the pussy
i eat the ass
i eat every mother fuckin thang.

― Chris 'The Velvet Bingo' V (Chris V), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:22 (twenty-two years ago)

but not all at the same time.

― ken c (ken c), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:23 (twenty-two years ago)

thanks Chris for stating what I was just thinking.

― Bryan B Sure (Bryan), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:23 (twenty-two years ago)

true. if you're concentrating too hard on your skillz, it can make it hard to fully enjoy your partner's efforts. It's still cool though.

― Will (will), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:23 (twenty-two years ago)

An enjoyable activity in and of itself. I don't consider it foreplay, necessarily.

― Begs2Differ (Begs2Differ), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:25 (twenty-two years ago)

kind of like an exotic dance, you know?

― Will (will), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:26 (twenty-two years ago)

Toby, I was basically referring to the 69 in general, not the petite standing up version (I'm not strong enough to even consider that, and anyway, wouldn't all the blood run to her, uh, head?). It's one of those things which is just better in theory than in practice.

― Markelby (Mark C), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:29 (twenty-two years ago)

sigh. i always feel self-conscious about posting on these threads, but wtf.

suffice to say, with the right partner, it's a major turn-on, a wonderful fabulous vicarious thrill.

― stockholm cindy (Jody Beth Rosen), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:42 (twenty-two years ago)

a dirty, vicarious thrill

― ken c (ken c), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:44 (twenty-two years ago)

Pretty much all of the above with extra smileys.

― donut bitch (donut), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:54 (twenty-two years ago)

smiling at the same time is a nice touch.

― ken c (ken c), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:58 (twenty-two years ago)

IN the shower!
except you have to careful, if she's standing up and you're on your knees in front, because you might choke from all the water and having your head bent up.

― The Huckle-Buck (Horace Mann), Monday, 15 March 2004 17:58 (twenty-two years ago)

Only a problem if you're deep-throatin'.

― Markelby (Mark C), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:02 (twenty-two years ago)

and she's a lady boy

― ken c (ken c), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:03 (twenty-two years ago)

I love it - a major turn on to give and receive. And I've found the 69 to be fine in practice. Many personal oral sex highlights have resulted from the 69 (a simultaneous orgasm is a wonderful thing).

I have felt dissapointed in cicumstances when a partner didn't want me to go down on her.

― Rob Bolton (Rob Bolton), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:05 (twenty-two years ago)

I know, cuz usually, if my partner doesn't want me to go down on her, I've already been thinking about it for a while, like setting everything up.

― The Huckle-Buck (Horace Mann), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:06 (twenty-two years ago)

(i'm actually going to possibly offend some folks here and suggest that if my future partner is not into oral sex, I don't think that partner and I will go very far at all)

― donut bitch (donut), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:08 (twenty-two years ago)

Rob B vs Martin S (sword)FITE!!

― Markelby (Mark C), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:09 (twenty-two years ago)

throw in a little salad tossing and im game.

― Chris 'The Velvet Bingo' V (Chris V), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:09 (twenty-two years ago)

I enjoy the giving a lot more when she is enjoying the receiving, and I find that she enjoys the receiving a lot more when I remember to shave.

― nickalicious (nickalicious), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:16 (twenty-two years ago)

Oh, I dunno...

― luna (luna.c), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:17 (twenty-two years ago)

Dan "NO BEARD = NO HOT SEX WHAT WILL I DOOOOOOOOOO" Perry to thread.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:18 (twenty-two years ago)

I have a beard!

― The Huckle-Buck (Horace Mann), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:19 (twenty-two years ago)

>Rob B vs Martin S (sword)FITE!!

Um, Martin hasn't posted here yet! I'm confused. I'm ain't from around here, eh?

― Rob Bolton (Rob Bolton), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:20 (twenty-two years ago)

I once got smacked in the side of the face (considering where my face was I find this a remarkable feat of aim) when face stubble brushed against that which it should not brush against.

― nickalicious (nickalicious), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:22 (twenty-two years ago)

I LOVE TO MACK BOX!!!

― Pablo Cruise (chaki), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:23 (twenty-two years ago)

my whiskers are soft and luxurious.
actually they're not, but they're not as prickly as they were a week ago.

― The Huckle-Buck (Horace Mann), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:23 (twenty-two years ago)

Nick, was this a smack of love though?

― donut bitch (donut), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:25 (twenty-two years ago)

Love smack! Love smack BABY!

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:26 (twenty-two years ago)

If by "love smack" you mean "I love you but that hurts and don't ever let it happen again or else next time I'm using teeth", sure.

― nickalicious (nickalicious), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:33 (twenty-two years ago)

Let me be the first to say I only do it grudgingly/to please the other person. Whos w/me?

― christhamrin (christhamrin), Monday, 15 March 2004 18:38 (twenty-two years ago)

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yes

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rimjob

― negotiable, Thursday, 10 May 2007 17:54 (eighteen years ago)

Depends. Are you using your mouth?

― kenan, Thursday, 10 May 2007 17:54 (eighteen years ago)

Among other sexual acts stated in the Starr Report, Monica Lewinsky and Bill Clinton "engaged in oral-anal contact as well".

i did not know that. very interesting.

― negotiable, Thursday, 10 May 2007 17:57 (eighteen years ago)

http://www.indiamart.com/press-section/mediasays/gifs/cio.gif
http://www.my-hebrew-name.com/images/kenan.gif

― ^@^, Thursday, 10 May 2007 17:58 (eighteen years ago)

who was it was talking about what constituted good oral sex, saying "i like to pretend my tongue's a police detective, and her clit is the guy who killed my partner"??

8-1 slocki
7-4 strongo

― nickalicious, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:01 (eighteen years ago)

s1ocki OTM

― David R., Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:04 (eighteen years ago)

whoever said that might inspire the descrip "sucks like an attorney"

― Dr Morbius, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:05 (eighteen years ago)

you'll be sitting there, making plenty of noise and appreciating things

Similar to the chick who insists on blowing you like her last boyfriend. "Lady, check out MY cues, k?" After a while you end up just flat out telling them what's good and what's not.

― Michael White, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:11 (eighteen years ago)

lol hoes be doing it wrong

― Jimmy The Mod Awaits The Return Of His Beloved, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:12 (eighteen years ago)

I had no idea that Bill Clinton was a tossed salad man.

― milo z, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:12 (eighteen years ago)

By comparison, either smoking or drinking increases the risk of such cancer by about threefold.

i'm just completely screwed on this throat cancer thing, aren't

As long as you don't inhale you should be ok.

― Billy Dods, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:16 (eighteen years ago)

Have you ever felt frustrated because someone didn't want you to go down on them?

Not for very long. Definitely a deal breaker.

― Michael White, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:17 (eighteen years ago)

who was it was talking about what constituted good oral sex, saying "i like to pretend my tongue's a police detective, and her clit is the guy who killed my partner"??

don't remember who but I remember mark s asking for an urgent and v funny clarification

― RJG, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:18 (eighteen years ago)

Momus to release new version of "Coming in a Girl's Mouth" entitled "Now I Am Giving You Cancer."

― Eppy, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:19 (eighteen years ago)

Someone find the clit detective thread pls.

― Jordan, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:20 (eighteen years ago)

I find extra brownie points for going down on her again after you've been actually sexing for a while (at least 2 orgasms in is usually a good time).

― The Wayward Johnny B, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:47 (eighteen years ago)

you go out w/ masonic boom don't you?

― RJG, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:51 (eighteen years ago)

I misread that as 'browneye'.

― Michael White, Thursday, 10 May 2007 18:55 (eighteen years ago)

noooo, i don't think kate would stand for any of that nonsense.

― The Wayward Johnny B, Thursday, 10 May 2007 19:02 (eighteen years ago)

maybe lying down though

― M@tt He1ges0n, Thursday, 10 May 2007 19:10 (eighteen years ago)

rimshot.gif

― Jordan, Thursday, 10 May 2007 19:12 (eighteen years ago)

Oral sex is anagram of Axl Rose.

― Abbott, Thursday, 10 May 2007 19:13 (eighteen years ago)

i'll be here all week!

― M@tt He1ges0n, Thursday, 10 May 2007 19:21 (eighteen years ago)

girls who are too embarrassed or insecure about their parts to let you go down on them = total fucking dud

― max, Thursday, 10 May 2007 19:33 (eighteen years ago)

Oh man I really didnt need to read this thread at the moment arrghhhhh aaarghhh too many good visuals ARGH.

― Trayce, Thursday, 10 May 2007 22:54 (eighteen years ago)

Erm in other words, OH YES CLASSIC.

But that article, gah. The new findings should encourage people to consistently use condoms during oral sex

There is no way I wd ever give head with a condom, thats just revolting.

― Trayce, Thursday, 10 May 2007 22:55 (eighteen years ago)

It's like eating an egg salad sandwich in a ziploc bag. As someone once said.

― Casuistry, Thursday, 10 May 2007 23:07 (eighteen years ago)

i'm pretty sure the police detective tongue thing was from moley, he was probably still colin s. barrow back then.

― estela, Thursday, 10 May 2007 23:14 (eighteen years ago)

i love moley.

― estela, Thursday, 10 May 2007 23:14 (eighteen years ago)

awww thanks estela. Apologies in advance for being crass, but a girl once gave me a hickey on my johnson. I took a shower in the morning and went, 'holy shit, my wang - my wang! WTF??' But then I calmed down when I realised what had happened. Yes, it was a very good night. I've teased her about it relentlessly ever since.

― moley, Friday, 11 May 2007 09:30 (eighteen years ago)

wish I could remember what the urgent and v funny clarification was

― RJG, Friday, 11 May 2007 09:37 (eighteen years ago)

dude, if the dicks you put in your mouth are in any way similar to an egg sandwich somebody better get to steppin' to the free clinic.

also: hi tracer! when is memorial day weekend?!

― roxymuzak, Monday, 14 May 2007 03:26 (eighteen years ago)

LOL roxy :D

― Trayce, Monday, 14 May 2007 03:42 (eighteen years ago)

Either that, roxy or you'd better avoid that deli.

― Michael White, Monday, 14 May 2007 04:30 (eighteen years ago)

It's like eating an egg salad sandwich in a ziploc bag. As someone once said.

Haha, isn't that from Eighty-Sixed?

― C0L1N B..., Monday, 14 May 2007 05:44 (eighteen years ago)

Wow. Yes.

― Casuistry, Monday, 14 May 2007 05:52 (eighteen years ago)

Great book. No wonder that sounded familiar.

― Ned Raggett, Monday, 14 May 2007 05:56 (eighteen years ago)

i wonder if the critics of this simile are fixated on the egg salad component and aren't factoring in the textures of the bread and the lettuce and the plastic bag and the zip, maybe that makes it work, i can't see how though.

― estela, Monday, 14 May 2007 05:56 (eighteen years ago)

it iz the weekend of may 26, roxy

― Tracer Hand, Monday, 14 May 2007 09:15 (eighteen years ago)

Anchovies are not unwelcome in an egg salad sandwich in a zip lock bag. Let us factor this into our metaphor.

― moley, Monday, 14 May 2007 10:31 (eighteen years ago)

Wait, now are we talking about condoms or dental dams on women?

― Trayce, Monday, 14 May 2007 10:47 (eighteen years ago)

I LIKE GIVE BLOWJOB

― ralph, Monday, 14 May 2007 11:01 (eighteen years ago)

dental clams?

― Mark C, Monday, 14 May 2007 12:16 (eighteen years ago)

mental drams?

― C J, Monday, 14 May 2007 12:18 (eighteen years ago)

rental prams?

― Tracer Hand, Monday, 14 May 2007 12:19 (eighteen years ago)

gentle lambs?

― C J, Monday, 14 May 2007 12:21 (eighteen years ago)

I did actually read it as dental clams, though :(

― Mark C, Monday, 14 May 2007 12:22 (eighteen years ago)

Lisa needs braces?

― Trayce, Monday, 14 May 2007 12:23 (eighteen years ago)

it iz the weekend of may 26, roxy

I'll be in Durham, Raleigh, and Chapel Hill, North Carolina. :(

― roxymuzak, Tuesday, 15 May 2007 08:05 (eighteen years ago)

Do braces usually hinder oral sex? Or completely render it impossible?
I have never asked somebody with braces, as it is usually the case that they are not in the mood...

― o-ess, Tuesday, 15 May 2007 10:42 (eighteen years ago)

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