Feel free to discuss other things that you wonder why they are deemed too private to talk about.
― oops (Oops), Saturday, 20 March 2004 22:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Saturday, 20 March 2004 22:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― oops (Oops), Saturday, 20 March 2004 23:00 (twenty-two years ago)
― strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Saturday, 20 March 2004 23:00 (twenty-two years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Saturday, 20 March 2004 23:00 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 20 March 2004 23:01 (twenty-two years ago)
― cozen (Cozen), Saturday, 20 March 2004 23:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― t\'\'t (t\'\'t), Sunday, 21 March 2004 00:05 (twenty-two years ago)
I 'made' $11k last year, I'm just going to claim whatever makes me break even on taxes.
― miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Sunday, 21 March 2004 00:13 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sick Nouthall (Nick Southall), Sunday, 21 March 2004 00:28 (twenty-two years ago)
― roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Sunday, 21 March 2004 01:53 (twenty-two years ago)
― Matt (Matt), Sunday, 21 March 2004 02:36 (twenty-two years ago)
― jim wentworth (wench), Sunday, 21 March 2004 03:20 (twenty-two years ago)
― Joe (Joe), Sunday, 21 March 2004 03:28 (twenty-two years ago)
the foregoing applies to both questions re sizes of paychecks and sexual organs.
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Sunday, 21 March 2004 05:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― Andrew (enneff), Sunday, 21 March 2004 05:52 (twenty-two years ago)
― Jordan (Jordan), Sunday, 21 March 2004 06:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 21 March 2004 08:12 (twenty-two years ago)
― oops (Oops), Sunday, 21 March 2004 08:23 (twenty-two years ago)
― oops (Oops), Sunday, 21 March 2004 08:24 (twenty-two years ago)
Plus, people try to make you buy the drinks if they think you earn more than them. ;-)
I mean, sure, partly it's the insecurity of feeling inadequate and not wanting to discuss salary, in case your colleagues are getting more than you and you feel like you have a smaller penis or something.
But really, it's perpetuated from above. If your employees have a strong taboo against discussing what they earn, they are unlikely to notice any inequalities, and the corporate infrastructure can perpetuate the gender pay gap, the classist pay gap and the middle management bloat as long as they like.
I'd never ask a complete stranger. I think that's just rude. But I do discuss it with friends, and I do try to discuss it with colleagues, because we all have a mutual interest in it. I'd never ask someone I'd only just met, but if I'd been talking to someone for a while, and found out they were also a programmer or whatever, I'd ask what their daily rate was. You know, so I can feel underpaid.
Anyway, if you ask people, they just flat out lie. I ran into someone recently who remarked on what a third party mutual friend was making. I flat out laughed, and replied that I had done their accounts, and sat down with the spreadsheets, and that was *not* what they made.
― The River Kate (kate), Sunday, 21 March 2004 09:17 (twenty-two years ago)
thats what i'm saying. its not like "ain't the weather fine"
― The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 21 March 2004 10:22 (twenty-two years ago)
also, i notice that in america, the salary never seems to be mentioned in the job advert?
― Wrought Iron God (gareth), Sunday, 21 March 2004 10:46 (twenty-two years ago)
how you come to the inverse of what i said is beyond me.
Actually, the refusal to discuss income *supports* classism and inequality in pay.
your argument is firm (for within an occupation or a company) but you fail to take into account the reality that some people are very ashamed of what they earn because it isn't very much. i don't blame them for not wanting to talk about it.
― The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 21 March 2004 10:53 (twenty-two years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Sunday, 21 March 2004 11:01 (twenty-two years ago)
I'm really quite interested in the whole "lying about how much you earn" culture that seems to permeate the arts/music/etc. professions. I mean, yeah, it's a form of bragging and the whole "my dick is bigger than yours" bling thing. But in a way, it really perpetuates the culture of exploitation. And it glamourises an intensely unfair system - how many people would actually continue to want to be "famous" if they knew what most musicians, artists, writers, etc. actually scraped by on. Yeah, sure, the perks make up for it, but when you find out what, say, managers, record company executives, agents, galleries actually make off the same transaction, it does make you a bit sick.
Anyway, I'm getting off topic, sorry.
― The River Kate (kate), Sunday, 21 March 2004 12:54 (twenty-two years ago)
yes but you make it sound like a personal neurosis. some people really *DO* judge you by how much/little you earn. but you imply that if one refuses to discuss it, one is supporting classism, its kind of blaming the victim. i dunno, its fucking late, am i making ANY sense?
― The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 21 March 2004 13:02 (twenty-two years ago)
Whomever's dick is biggest? Mine is bigger.
― ModJ (ModJ), Sunday, 21 March 2004 17:25 (twenty-two years ago)
well maybe because all you said was "because classism exists". Not a very thorough explanation. In any case, for this to be about classism, classism would either have to not exist or have to not be based on money in either America or Thailand.
― oops (Oops), Sunday, 21 March 2004 22:54 (twenty-two years ago)
― El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Monday, 22 March 2004 01:12 (twenty-two years ago)
― mandee, Monday, 22 March 2004 02:37 (twenty-two years ago)
What differs from place to place (say America v. Thailand) is how we treat class. Americans are brought up to, and our society is directed toward, avoiding issues of class.
― miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Monday, 22 March 2004 02:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― suzy (suzy), Monday, 22 March 2004 08:43 (twenty-two years ago)
Wait, let me rephrase that... is being completely obsessed with class and earning potential a personal neurosis or a societal neurosis? If someone is going to dismiss me out of hand because I don't earn enough, I think that's their personal problem, not mine.
It's a class issue that a person doesn't earn as much as another. It is to me, however, complete sick and yes, neurotic to treat that as an indication of personal worth or status to the exclusion of any other considerations. That's not blaming the victim, that's blaming assholes who can see no other worth to a person than their pocketbook. Sorry if that was not misunderstood.
― The River Kate (kate), Monday, 22 March 2004 09:06 (twenty-two years ago)
― oops (Oops), Monday, 22 March 2004 09:35 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Monday, 22 March 2004 09:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― stevem (blueski), Monday, 22 March 2004 10:34 (twenty-two years ago)
― mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 22 March 2004 11:10 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Monday, 22 March 2004 12:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― Markelby (Mark C), Monday, 22 March 2004 12:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― The River Kate (kate), Monday, 22 March 2004 13:09 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Monday, 22 March 2004 13:09 (twenty-two years ago)
― Bunged Out (Jake Proudlock), Monday, 22 March 2004 13:13 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Monday, 22 March 2004 13:18 (twenty-two years ago)
― The River Kate (kate), Monday, 22 March 2004 13:25 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Monday, 22 March 2004 13:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ricardo (RickyT), Monday, 22 March 2004 13:55 (twenty-two years ago)
I don't count my money from the bar since mr. IRS doesn't know about it.
Predicted income come end of May: $0
(oh and my tits are quite nice, thank you)
― Ask For Samantha (thatgirl), Monday, 22 March 2004 14:44 (twenty-two years ago)
(is that cause the US is awake?)
― mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 22 March 2004 14:45 (twenty-two years ago)
As soon as I realized what I had I closed it in horror, thought about whether I wanted to know and........deleted it. I thought nothing good could come of knowing, yet knew that if I kept it, I would be tempted to look one day.
― Dr. C (Dr. C), Monday, 22 March 2004 22:06 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 22 March 2004 22:09 (twenty-two years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Monday, 22 March 2004 22:14 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 22 March 2004 22:21 (twenty-two years ago)
Right now, in NYC, a lower-end entry-level salary for a college grad type person would be around $30,000. What would the equivalent be in London?
― Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 04:44 (twenty-two years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 04:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― jim wentworth (wench), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 04:48 (twenty-two years ago)
We get longer paid holidays too.
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 04:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― Allyzay, Tuesday, 23 March 2004 04:54 (twenty-two years ago)
oh really, ms kearney?
― Columbia Financial Aid Officebär (llamasfur), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 04:58 (twenty-two years ago)
― oops (Oops), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 05:00 (twenty-two years ago)
― Allyzay, Tuesday, 23 March 2004 05:01 (twenty-two years ago)
What would an average salary for a doctor/lawyer/financial type in London be (in U.S. currency please)?
― Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 05:02 (twenty-two years ago)
At the current rate of exchange, about 2k less than that maybe even 3k less.
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 05:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 05:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 05:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 05:34 (twenty-two years ago)
― anthony kyle monday (akmonday), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 05:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 06:06 (twenty-two years ago)
― jaymc (jaymc), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 06:57 (twenty-two years ago)
I could offer very rough ballpark figures but maybe someone else would be in a better position to answer curious Mary. The latter two in paricular seem a bit 'how long is a piece of string?' though.
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 13:22 (twenty-two years ago)
― stevem (blueski), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 13:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― teeny (teeny), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 13:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― chris (chris), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 13:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 13:51 (twenty-two years ago)
although technically my job involves persuading sad old codgers to spend their pension money on the gee-gees, ah well...
― stevem (blueski), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 14:00 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ed (dali), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 14:01 (twenty-two years ago)
― chris (chris), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 14:04 (twenty-two years ago)
Ed on Thursday I swear I'll change my address at the bank.
If you demote Ed he will become more powerful than you could possibly imagine.
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 14:13 (twenty-two years ago)
― Markelby (Mark C), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 14:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― nickalicious (nickalicious), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 14:36 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 14:46 (twenty-two years ago)
My career arc is kind of odd, though. I don't expect most people here are willing or able to go through the process of getting a TS clearance with the US federal government. I basically dropped out of college, tripped, fell over and wound up in this career field. I'm just a lucky bastard, I think.
― TOMBOT, Tuesday, 23 March 2004 15:05 (twenty-two years ago)
I'll also be just about $100k in debt for undergrad and grad school.
― webcrack (music=crack), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 16:28 (twenty-two years ago)
― TOMBOT, Tuesday, 23 March 2004 16:30 (twenty-two years ago)
However, I now pay ridiculous rent.
― Jerry the Nipper (Jerrynipper), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 16:35 (twenty-two years ago)
― webcrack (music=crack), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 16:37 (twenty-two years ago)
ally, can't you be declared independant after living on yr own for so many years?
― Ask For Samantha (thatgirl), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 16:38 (twenty-two years ago)
However I am in the middle of investigating a good new opportunity to earn a salary for a three-day week ;-).
― suzy (suzy), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 16:40 (twenty-two years ago)
Depends on experience. Don't know about doctors starting salaries, but a med.reg should be on £40-£50K and a consultant maybe £70-80K.
Lawyers - I only know one. She's a partner in a city firm with maybe 10 yrs experience. She says she earns 'a six figure salary starting with a 3'. And she's not bullshitting.
Financial Types - varies obv. MEGA-salaries are still possible I believe, but fewer to go round. Someone with 10 years in the city doing say, bond trading, merchant banking, commodities would be unlucky not to be making £100K basic + at least that in bonuses.
For US dollars just X2 the above.
― Dr. C (Dr. C), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 16:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― mandee, Tuesday, 23 March 2004 16:49 (twenty-two years ago)
Not as stupid as putting an incorrect mobile number on my CV mind. Idiot Matt DC! Still, they went to the trouble of emailing me to invite me for interview despite this so it can't have put them off that much.
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 16:49 (twenty-two years ago)
Other locations are available. Check atlas for details.
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 16:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― Markelby (Mark C), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 17:56 (twenty-two years ago)
London is much much more expensive than other areas in the uk. Ridiculously so, actually.
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 18:00 (twenty-two years ago)
I think an "average" (whatever that it) starting salary in the UK is about 15k.
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 18:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― Miranda H, Sunday, 4 April 2004 00:43 (twenty-one years ago)
― gabbneb (gabbneb), Sunday, 4 April 2004 00:45 (twenty-one years ago)
― Miranda H, Sunday, 4 April 2004 01:16 (twenty-one years ago)
― badger Kitten (badger Kitten), Sunday, 4 April 2004 10:45 (twenty-one years ago)