T/S: Hating yourself vs Hating everyone else around you

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Where do you stand on this crucial divide?

― Kingfish Disraeli (Kingfish), Monday, 10 May 2004 17:50 (twenty-one years ago)

And what if you choose both?

― Kingfish Disraeli (Kingfish), Monday, 10 May 2004 17:50 (twenty-one years ago)

i'm ok once you get to know me. other people would be okay if i didn't know them.

― stevem (blueski), Monday, 10 May 2004 17:53 (twenty-one years ago)

sometimes I feel that my hating of everyone around me is just misdirected self-loathing. And then I remind myself that, no, everyone else is a dick.

― The Huckle-Buck (Horace Mann), Monday, 10 May 2004 17:54 (twenty-one years ago)

I can have both.

― El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Monday, 10 May 2004 17:55 (twenty-one years ago)

they go together, i think.

― lauren (laurenp), Monday, 10 May 2004 18:00 (twenty-one years ago)

imagine me hating you me hating me
no matter how we toss the dice it's meant to be
the only thing to hate is you or to hate me
so happyyyy togeeeeethaaaaaaaaaaaaah

― nickalicious (nickalicious), Monday, 10 May 2004 18:04 (twenty-one years ago)

They're not necessarily mutually exclusive.

― Alex in NYC (vassifer), Monday, 10 May 2004 18:05 (twenty-one years ago)

TS: Fancying yourself vs Fancying everyone else around you

― oops (Oops), Monday, 10 May 2004 18:07 (twenty-one years ago)

I got over a lot of my self loathing a lot faster once I realised some people were born to be hated on.

― Barima (Barima), Monday, 10 May 2004 18:22 (twenty-one years ago)

"I have a little black book full of telephone numbers I never call
Now I know it's my friends I hate and not myself at all"

― Super-Kate (kate), Monday, 10 May 2004 18:25 (twenty-one years ago)

TS: Fancying yourself vs Fancying everyone else around you

Divinyls to thread etc etc etc phwor blah blah

― VengaDan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 10 May 2004 18:32 (twenty-one years ago)

Nicole and Alex speak wisdom.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 10 May 2004 18:40 (twenty-one years ago)

Obviously, it's better to hate everyone else. If you hate yourself then it'll take a lot longer to sort yourself out before you can work on curbing your misanthroponistic tenadancies. I'm sticking my neck out and saying it's a good thing to like yourself, and at least 10-15% of the human race.

― jel -- (jel), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:21 (twenty-one years ago)

I think my take on this is quite clear:

The occasional and overwhelming urge to kill everyone around you

― Rob Bolton (Rob Bolton), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:36 (twenty-one years ago)

every "everyone else is a dickhead" is another man's dickhead.

― RJG (RJG), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:37 (twenty-one years ago)

Mind your own, dickhead.

― Barima (Barima), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:40 (twenty-one years ago)

Mind your, own dickhead.

― Barima (Barima), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:40 (twenty-one years ago)

Mind your own head of dick.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:41 (twenty-one years ago)

Mind your head, dick.

― NA (Nick A.), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:41 (twenty-one years ago)

Own your head, dickmind.

― Barima (Barima), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:43 (twenty-one years ago)

Head of dick, farm of cock.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:43 (twenty-one years ago)

I know what you're all like, you greedy, cowardly perverts. I know your secret thoughts and sneaky hole-and-corner ways. You'd all boink your own sister, if you could. And I know one of you stole my strawberries, too, you sneering, fawning liars. How do I know this? Elementary, my dear lads and lasses. Introspection!!

― Aimless (Aimless), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:44 (twenty-one years ago)

I did not steal your strawberries!

― jel -- (jel), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:46 (twenty-one years ago)

Repent and ye shall be saved.

― Barima (Barima), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:47 (twenty-one years ago)

Did you steal his cherry *ILX groans* ?

― Barima (Barima), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:51 (twenty-one years ago)

What about on a larger scale? Do haters blow stuff up while self-haters write books? Is a serial killer a hater or a self-hater?

Mmmmm...strawberries....

― Evanston Wade (EWW), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 15:59 (twenty-one years ago)

I read an article in some psychology journal or another (it was a slow day at work), it basically stipulated that Narcissus actually hated himself, coz the extent of his self-love meant he could never be happy or have the one he loved. I've probably got this all wrong, I shall have to find the article again.

― jel -- (jel), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 16:03 (twenty-one years ago)

Is that like when you masturbate so much that it hurts?

― NA (Nick A.), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 16:04 (twenty-one years ago)

oh well, can't find the reference anywhere, was pretty sure I found it on Proquest, I'll have a look in psycINFO.

― jel -- (jel), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 16:28 (twenty-one years ago)

These are very caught up with one another and each feeds into and causes the other.

― roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 16:44 (twenty-one years ago)

I am having a lot of fun working out the referrants of "these".

― Aimless (Aimless), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 16:46 (twenty-one years ago)

Mmmmm...strawberries....
-- Evanston Wade

― roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 16:53 (twenty-one years ago)

I give up on my search.

― jel -- (jel), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 16:55 (twenty-one years ago)

jel OTM re: liking yourself and 10 percent of the population.

there isnt a good reason to hate yourself.
there cant be a good reason to hate everyone on the planet besides yourself
however, there are plenty of good reasons to hate 90 percent of the world, mostly cause most people suck

― todd swiss (eliti), Tuesday, 11 May 2004 17:16 (twenty-one years ago)

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