What is morbid fascination?

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I find myself being compelled by morbid occurances, which is rather unsettling to say the least. For example, I can't help but stare if there is a car accident. Is this just simple human nature? Is it just that you can't get what has happened to actually compute? When I think back to 9/11, i found myself watching every piece of footage & report. I am sure that for me it is just complete disbelief of the situation.

PinXor (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 29 July 2004 12:57 (twenty-one years ago)

Think YOUR morbid? I just read one of your sentences as:

i found myself wanking over every piece of footage & report

That's morbid!

*hangs self*

dog latin (dog latin), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:02 (twenty-one years ago)

Most people are fascinated by unusual things, things they don't normally see. You don't normally see dead people (unless you're the kid from Sixth Sense). It's called "morbid" because you *shouldn't* be fascinated by such things. Why? Partly because dying and corpses and such stuff have become a taboo in the Western societies, and partly, of course, because death isn't nice.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:04 (twenty-one years ago)

Morbid fascination is coming to ILE today and hitting F5 every five minutes, getting my hopes up that somebody'll have posted something interesting. And finding it dull as compressed air but doing it again, five minutes later.

x j e r e m y (x Jeremy), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:07 (twenty-one years ago)

it is quite normal, my gf is the same, she used to subscribe to a morbid fact of the day email list for her fix. she also has a gig of kitten photos on her computer.

kephm, Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:08 (twenty-one years ago)

What does "hitting F5" mean? Is this some sort of weird sex-related euphemism I haven't yet heard of?

Tuomas (Tuomas), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Most ppl are aware of the godawful website that is rotten.com. well that portrays no end of horrific images of mutilated dead bodies. One afternoon, myself & a work colleague were rather bored at work & methodically worked our way through all of the pictures on this site. At the time I found it fascinating. there were pictures of murder victims, train crash victims, gun shot to the head victims etc etc. It was only after looking through them that I had trouble with what I had seen. Images in my head just would not disappear. I am more weary of what i look at now as I know certain images stick in my head & affect me. That said, I will still look at a car accident on the other side of the road.

PinXor (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:10 (twenty-one years ago)

f5 i presume = page refresh shortcut.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:12 (twenty-one years ago)

i think just about everyone turns their head at an accident scene.

xpost

kephm, Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:13 (twenty-one years ago)

What, if you hit the "f" and the "5" button together, the page will refresh?

Tuomas (Tuomas), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:14 (twenty-one years ago)

no, "f5" as in the fifth of the row of function keys above the keyboard (i just tried it, and it worked)

Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:15 (twenty-one years ago)

Wow, you mean those weird buttons there actually do something? I have to try this too...

Tuomas (Tuomas), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:16 (twenty-one years ago)

It worked! Cool!

Tuomas (Tuomas), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:17 (twenty-one years ago)

i think just about everyone turns their head at an accident scene

I consciously try not to indulge that part of myself. Whether that's trying to gloss over it or not, I don't know. I'm fully aware that its there, it just doesn't feel right to feed it.

Is it the same part of the brain that likes to watch horror movies, do you think?

hobart paving (hobart paving), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:17 (twenty-one years ago)

f5 does work! more stealth powers!

kephm, Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:17 (twenty-one years ago)

I consciously try not to indulge that part of myself

I'm the same way. I almost posted 'people who slow down and stare at traffic accidents, impeding the flow of automobiles, aka rubberneckers' that in the 'things you hate' thread a few days back, but for some reason I felt that it would incite somebody.

x j e r e m y (x Jeremy), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:18 (twenty-one years ago)

Do the other F-buttons do something too? Like turn my computer into an aeroplane, Transformers-stylee?

Tuomas (Tuomas), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:19 (twenty-one years ago)

yeah hobart i'm with you. i never look over at an accident scene myself. but i swear they seem to follow me around. i still cant get the image i saw once of a decapitated cow and the remains spread out over the interstate. i dont even look at dead people in photographs , it feels invasive.

kephm, Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:20 (twenty-one years ago)

f12 is the eject button

kephm, Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:21 (twenty-one years ago)

F1-F6 seem to do something, but F7-F12 don't. I really should be somewhere else, doing something more contructive.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:24 (twenty-one years ago)

I almost posted 'people who slow down and stare at traffic accidents, impeding the flow of automobiles, aka rubberneckers' that in the 'things you hate' thread a few days back, but for some reason I felt that it would incite somebody.

I'm not saying it's right am I? When I say I look at an accident scene, I do not stop the car, get out & have a good look.

PinXor (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:27 (twenty-one years ago)

No, I know. I wasn't implying that. It's just that, having been in an accident where I was gawked at for twenty-five minutes, I'm extremely sensitive to this particular situation. And I'm often more irritated by the fact that a traffic jam'll be caused by people slamming on the brakes to take a closer look than the fact that they're actually looking.

x j e r e m y (x Jeremy), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:30 (twenty-one years ago)

Like I said, I don't stop the car [read slam my brakes on] to have a good gawp. You were concerned about the ppl staring after you were in an accident??

PinXor (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:33 (twenty-one years ago)

But why isn't it right? What's inherently wrong with wanting to see a corpse, if you had nothing to do with the death? I've read some social history, and the thing is, we have become less and less accustomed of facing death. Before, when death was a more common and everyday thing, people weren't afraid of seeing corpses and death. In fact, corpses were often put on public display for everyone to see. We can't turn back time, obviously, put I don't think people should feel wrong about being occasionally fascinated by death.

(x-post)

Tuomas (Tuomas), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:33 (twenty-one years ago)

f11 is the rubberneck key

kephm, Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:35 (twenty-one years ago)

You were concerned about the ppl staring after you were in an accident?? Yeah, I was 17 and the tire blew, I hydroplaned and spun 360 before exploding the car on the high-speed lane. My sweater was destroyed and it was pouring; I was half-nekkid on the side of the road and in no small amount of discomfort - physical and emotional - and people came to a full stop just to grin and point.

x j e r e m y (x Jeremy), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:36 (twenty-one years ago)

Ppl stopped to grim & point? Your car had exploded but yet ppl found this funny? If this is the case I am rally surprised.

Tuomas - I meant rubbernecking isn't right.

PinXor (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:39 (twenty-one years ago)

What Tuomas said.

I got over being slightly shocked at naked strangers when I started life drawing classes, and I got over seeing naked dead strangers when I started the anatomy component of my (art) degree, which was held in the dept of human anatomy with the results of the first-year medics' incompetent dissection. It doesn't necessarily make you callous, but you lose that horrified abjection to do with the insides of people's bodies being where you feel they oughtn't.

Blimey jeremy, I wrote that about nakedness before you posted. That sounds terrible. Obv. injured strangers are more likely to feel imposed upon than dead ones. Umm.

Liz :x (Liz :x), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:40 (twenty-one years ago)

The thought that I might one day see a real corpse scares the shit out me, tbh.

I don't usually get this morbid fascination thing - the last time I did was around the time of the Bali bombing, where I found myself drawn to all these pictures of people just before the bomb went off, was fascinated by the biographies, the random chains of events that had led to these particular people being in this one particular place at that one particular time, and how uncomfortable I felt with it.

On the Sniper News thread a couple of years ago I wrote:

Do we really need to gorge ourselves on stories of how some bloke had just proposed to his girlfriend and she'd said yes and they'd gone out to celebrate and they were only in the Sari club because they were two minutes too late to get into their first choice bar and both died, or whatever? I know we don't, but somehow I find my eye drawn towards these stories, the seeming terrible randomness of them (more so than on 9/11, when these were people going about their daily routine), and its something that I'm not comfortable with at all.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:44 (twenty-one years ago)

The Evening Standard is the worst for this sort of voyeurism - walking past a board saying MURDERED FAMILY - FIRST PICTURE in huge bold letters is pretty much a weekly event.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:46 (twenty-one years ago)

I mean, why do we need to see a picture of a family who were later gunned down at a barbeque or whatever? What possible use would this be for us, how could this possibly affect our lives in any meaningful way?

Matt DC (Matt DC), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:48 (twenty-one years ago)

morbid fascination is not much more than curiosity, no? since death is one of the few unsolved mysteries in life, it makes sense if some of the living seek out whatever scenarios, details, images that are made available to them?

kephm, Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:51 (twenty-one years ago)

But I always feel a bit ghoulish afterwards!

PinXor (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:52 (twenty-one years ago)

this is normal. if you felt turned on or excited afterwards then you might have a few issues

kephm, Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:54 (twenty-one years ago)

Tuomas - I think there's a distinction between seeing a corpse and being fascinated by it. Also, I think your being fascinated and my being repelled might be different facets of the same reaction.

What would be a healthy response? I honestly don't know - perhaps the ability to recognise a dead body for what it was, and then let the thought out of your mind, rather than indulging it, or pushing it away. But hey, my responses aren't all that healthy. I never want to see a corpse and I know this is down to the fact that I couldn't deal with it so perhaps I'm not the best person to say what is right.

hobart paving (hobart paving), Thursday, 29 July 2004 13:57 (twenty-one years ago)

I got over being slightly shocked at naked strangers when I started life drawing classes, and I got over seeing naked dead strangers when I started the anatomy component of my (art) degree, which was held in the dept of human anatomy with the results of the first-year medics' incompetent dissection. It doesn't necessarily make you callous, but you lose that horrified abjection to do with the insides of people's bodies being where you feel they oughtn't.

You see, maybe you have the healthy reaction... the reaction you're describing isn't morbid fascination, or it doesn't sound like it.

As for naked bodies - Odd that we're comparing the two. Its certainly possible to have a fascination with nakedness - but is that morbid?? Maybe, if its done for titillation - but then, don't most people like a bit of naked titillation?

hobart paving (hobart paving), Thursday, 29 July 2004 14:01 (twenty-one years ago)

Haha not with most life models mate - standard is scrawny old flasher-mac men.

I don't know if I don't have enough reaction to blood & guts, but I'm more or less comfortable.

Liz :x (Liz :x), Thursday, 29 July 2004 14:07 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm strangely fascinated by morbid happenings, I have a tendacy to stand gawping at street brawls and such.

On another note I have never experienced the loss of a close friend or relative and am not at all looking forward to the feeling or my reaction as and when this will happens (touches every bit of wood in sight)

Ste (Fuzzy), Thursday, 29 July 2004 14:48 (twenty-one years ago)

she also has a gig of kitten photos on her computer

That's just SICK!

Onimo (GerryNemo), Thursday, 29 July 2004 14:54 (twenty-one years ago)

What is morbid fascination?

Clicking on a C-Man thread.

latebloomer (latebloomer), Thursday, 29 July 2004 15:39 (twenty-one years ago)

Damn it! I just made this REALLY f'n long post and lost it. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Sarah McLusky (coco), Thursday, 29 July 2004 16:33 (twenty-one years ago)

one year passes...
It's a bit like with the Holocaust. I'm a history major and have a really morbid fascination with anything to do with it - documentaries, newspaper articles, autobiographies. Especially all the really gruesome facts. It's a case of being horrified and saddened but also absolutely mesmerised.

saleXander / sophie (salexander), Wednesday, 19 October 2005 11:46 (twenty years ago)


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