Neediness: Classic or Dud?

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Dud dud dud motherf***ing dud, obviously. But I've got a great big load of it right now, and it's so toxic that I even repulse myself. Any advice on how to cope with/cure this condition?

― j.lu, Friday, 9 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Shopping, a form of therapy and source of delight for all. (And will make you feel in control.) I hope whatever you do makes you feel better, though.

― Maria, Friday, 9 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Just sit around your room. Seriously. Listen to your favorite music, write a little, learn to cook something nice, try to feel self- sufficient for a while. Than after a few days/weeks, go out again.

― turner, Friday, 9 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

On top of all the other advice, you might also want to wank. Do it. Self-suffient? There's nothing finer.

― Mascara, Friday, 9 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Wanking=excacerbates neediness. Try to forget you have a penis.

― turner, Friday, 9 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I just assumed you were male, J.lu.

― turner, Friday, 9 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Wanking=excacerbates neediness.

I couldn't agree less. Don't you feel better afterwards? I definately do.

― Sean, Saturday, 10 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Me needy? Never, oh no. I know what you mean about repulsing yourself.

― Ronan, Saturday, 10 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Thanks for the suggestions. As it happens, 1) I'm female; and 2) I can't afford to stay home from work, but this weekend I'm giving myself permission to stay in Saturday night.

― j.lu, Saturday, 10 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Turn off the lights. Wear all black garments. Play romantic soundtrack music... say Danny Elfman stuff. Then proceed to waltz around your room until your existence is undermined. Alcohol helps. It's like... gothic zen and it really zaps those needs goodbye.

― Honda, Saturday, 10 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

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