The homeless are lazy

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A debate I'm having on a livejournal, (of all places to debate, I know) with a person I know explaining their beliefs on the homeless. I went to high school with him, and didn't particularly like him there-- he was one of those assholes who was insanely into school spirit and incredulous at those who were not. A friend of mine made a post at the end. I'll try to make it as clear to follow as possible.

Him
2004-09-02 07:49 (link)
i know, i know. i am not very sympathetic toward the homeless.
a lot of people will give a dollar because they think, what if they have kids? give 'em up for adoption! were they born into poverty? hey, jewel made it, you can, too.
i still don't think it's right to stoop to a level of begging. he was sitting beside the ramp to the expressway. isn't that embarrassing? aren't there ways he can make a living? there are "invisible" jobs that don't require a high school education - such as janitors. even if a crime is on your record, it is still possible to get a job. and there are definitely many soup kitchens in downtown chicago.
i do, however, think philanthropy is a good thing. but it's important to donate money in the appropriate places where it will be distributed correctly.
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Me
2004-09-02 11:56 (link)
First off, I'm sure the idea of "getting a job" is not some spellbinding revolutionary concept to the homeless, which has yet to pass through their tiny, most likely minority brains. If they do somehow manage to get a job in the tattered clothes they wear to an interview despite their lack of transportation or place of residence, the minimum wage has been lowered so far they may as well starve anyway. Giving away a child to adoption isn't some simple, painless process either.

And to dismiss the cycle of poverty with the example of Jewel is almost as retarded as her poetry.
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Him
2004-09-02 19:18 (link)
the jewel comment was not supposed to be taken seriously.

but you make it sound as if it's hopeless. it's a cynical attitude to think they'll starve anyway. one hour of work could cover a meal at mcdonald's, even at minimum wage. i don't expect them to suddenly afford housing in downtown chicago, but there are opportunities out there, alternatives to begging. yes, the tattered clothing may be a turn-off in an interview, but if it's for an invisible job that does not require human interaction, how is their homeless identity relevent? i also did not know that you needed a residency in order to be employed.

i also am not familiar with adoption policies; all i know is that there are many people who can not find children to adopt.
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Me
2004-09-02 22:40 (link)
You imply that the idea of going and getting a job has never occured to a homeless person, which I feel is not only far more cynical, but is incredibly egotistical and patronizing.
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Him
2004-09-03 07:50 (link)
i'm sure they have considered getting a job. but most of them are probably too damn lazy. that may be a simple generalization, but i've always found that occum's razor almost always holds true and the simplest answer tends to be right. yes, this may be patronizing of me to look down on them, but you can't honestly say that a homeless person is on the same level as me or you in terms of ambition anyway. i'm not necessarily looking down on them as human beings - but it is clear that, as they sit in one place for hours on end, that they lack any motivation to improve their situation. and that is what gets me.
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Friend of mine
2004-09-03 11:11 (link)
That may be a simple generalization? Try definitive generalization. And don't try that Occam's Razor bullshit, it's not a matter of the simplest answer, you just have no fucking clue what you're talking about. How can you possibly be judge and jury of a man who sits on the street simply because of that fact alone? You have no idea why and how they got there. You can't imagine that because you've had a relatively stable life in good ol' suburbia. But that's keen that you've got no problem with the darkies, as long as they stay in their asphalt prisons of the big city where they belong ;-)

Take off your BK Kid's Club crown and grow the fuck up, babygenius.
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David Allen (David Allen), Friday, 3 September 2004 18:24 (twenty-one years ago)

Throw your thoughts in, if you'd like.

David Allen (David Allen), Friday, 3 September 2004 18:24 (twenty-one years ago)

this person doesn't seem to realize that most homeless people have mental issues, to put it politely.

hstencil (hstencil), Friday, 3 September 2004 18:31 (twenty-one years ago)

I only grazed the conversation .. but ..

If every homeless person was an able-bodied, chemically-balanced person with middle-class sensibilities, then I agree with "him".

Unfortunately, people tend to forget that not everyone thinks the same way.

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dave225 (Dave225), Friday, 3 September 2004 18:33 (twenty-one years ago)

or the fact that so many homeless programs really aren't that helpful to the people they're actually intended for. the hours are crap, over night stays are unsafe...etc.

kelsey (kelstarry), Friday, 3 September 2004 18:34 (twenty-one years ago)

Lots of homeless people have jobs.

Huck, Friday, 3 September 2004 18:35 (twenty-one years ago)

GREATEST HITS:

- there are "invisible" jobs that don't require a high school education - such as janitors. even if a crime is on your record, it is still possible to get a job.

- yes, the tattered clothing may be a turn-off in an interview, but if it's for an invisible job that does not require human interaction, how is their homeless identity relevent?

- you can't honestly say that a homeless person is on the same level as me or you in terms of ambition anyway

dean? (deangulberry), Friday, 3 September 2004 18:36 (twenty-one years ago)

huck, can you explain? i.e. should homeless = "homeless" and/or jobs = "jobs"

kelsey (kelstarry), Friday, 3 September 2004 18:37 (twenty-one years ago)

I think he means some people live in shelters and are technically "homeless" but do work at jobs.

hstencil (hstencil), Friday, 3 September 2004 18:39 (twenty-one years ago)

Kelsey, there are various gradations of homelessness, there are couch-surfers, squatters, car-dwellers, etc. I wound up homeless for a week in Mtl 4 years ago, and nobody really knew, especially not at work, where I showered and all that good stuff.

or yeah, basically what hstencil said.

Huck, Friday, 3 September 2004 18:44 (twenty-one years ago)

But that's probably not the category of homeless that the livejournal people were talking about, right? Perhaps the term is too narrowly defined in my head...I suppose I think of the couch-surfers & squatters of the world as people who are more likely to be able to obtain some kind of housing. the car-dwellers, for whatever reason, i tend to think of as more homeless.

kelsey (kelstarry), Friday, 3 September 2004 18:48 (twenty-one years ago)

which really has no basis in logic, by the way.

kelsey (kelstarry), Friday, 3 September 2004 18:49 (twenty-one years ago)

The two homeless guys near here seem to be hard at work tying things into knots. The black guy likes wool, but the asian guy likes newspaper and black garbage bags.

sexyDancer, Friday, 3 September 2004 18:50 (twenty-one years ago)

By couch-surfer, I didn't mean the hippy who wants to crash at yr pad or anything, I'm talking more about people, in Canada at least it's very often women, who sort of float from relative to relative, who have been cut off from social services. And, yeah, I was taking a very wide meaning of homeless.

Huck, Friday, 3 September 2004 18:53 (twenty-one years ago)

a lot of people will give a dollar because they think, what if they have kids? give 'em up for adoption! were they born into poverty? hey, jewel made it, you can, too

This is where I wouldn't have even bothered to reply to him. "It's a funny, honest" is bullshit - it's clearly indicative of his knowledge of and beliefs toward poverty, and for that he can go fuck himself.

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Friday, 3 September 2004 18:57 (twenty-one years ago)

On the other hand, if a little spare change here and there can help prevent another Jewel from happening ... have a heart, people!

briania (briania), Friday, 3 September 2004 19:07 (twenty-one years ago)

Hahaha! briania OTM.

Dan Perry '08 (Dan Perry), Friday, 3 September 2004 19:09 (twenty-one years ago)

I know "Him" is being ignorant and unfair in a lot of what he says, but I often wonder about whether it is actually a good idea to give money to the 5 or so homeless people a day I see begging for money. Is it better to give money to a homeless charity or direct to a person? Either way, you can't be sure how it'll be spent. My current solution to this dilemma seems to be to give nothing to anyone, and just walk quickly past.

Cathy (Cathy), Friday, 3 September 2004 20:29 (twenty-one years ago)

I would be more inclined to give money to the charity because:

- I would indirectly be helping more people;
- I am assuming that the charity's plan would be more organized and long-term than the homeless person's;
- if the charity ends up being a rip-off, I can sue them.

Dan Perry '08 (Dan Perry), Friday, 3 September 2004 20:31 (twenty-one years ago)

JEWEL IS GOING TO BE HOMELESS AGAIN

gainfully employed (ex machina), Friday, 3 September 2004 20:32 (twenty-one years ago)

There's a term for people like "him": Republican.

oops (Oops), Friday, 3 September 2004 20:33 (twenty-one years ago)

I always give money to people when asking, if I have any. Partly because I think it's right and can't equate charity donations with individual giving. No one gives money to a homeless person because they think it's going to make their world a better place or save them, but because it might help out right then.

Then it's partly out of privileged white-kid guilt. Which sounds bad, but if I'm in Deep Ellum going to a club or concert and someone obviously struggling asked me for a couple of bucks, I'd feel like absolute shit saying no. (If this is the emotion they're playing on, it works wonders.)

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Friday, 3 September 2004 20:51 (twenty-one years ago)

There's a term for people like "him": Republican.
-- oops (don'temailmenicelad...), September 3rd, 2004.

Well, he says he's really into Radiohead but they're a pretty left leaning band aren't they?

David Allen (David Allen), Friday, 3 September 2004 23:47 (twenty-one years ago)

His latest response:

Re: That makes no sense
wildchild47
2004-09-03 14:58 (link)
this is ridiculous, you are accusing me of stereotyping the homeless. the ONLY generalizations i made: homeless people are probably homeless because they are lazy and they lack motivation to make things better for themselves. i say this only because i look at a city like chicago and there are so many opportunities.

i didn't want to accuse you for putting words in my mouth, just because it's the standard method of retaliation, but good god, did i really call them the scum of the earth?

the thing is, you can't analyze the homeless dilemna on a person-to-person basis and expect to find a solution. you can't be "judge and jury" of each individual. it's just impossible. so when about 65% of the homeless population has a drug addiction of some kind, you can't approach this thinking, "hmm, what about the 35% who are clean?" funny thing is, you are playing devil's advocate here and nit-picking my views, but you'd be surprised, aside from two generalizations (that may be slightly condescending at most, and for that, i am sorry for being an awful human), we are pretty much on the same side of the fence. you might think you sound like the good guy - sensitive and compassionate toward the homeless plight - but really, you sound like you're here just for the sake of argument.

now, 50% of the homeless population were homeless as children: would i be completely off my rocker if i suggested that we need to take children off the streets?

David Allen (David Allen), Friday, 3 September 2004 23:50 (twenty-one years ago)

You should stop wasting your time arguing with this berk. My 2c

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Saturday, 4 September 2004 00:36 (twenty-one years ago)

Does this person live in Chicago?

It's probably much easier to get a 'janitor' job if you know someone. Most of the ones I know are immigrants and very presentable-looking.

Kerry (dymaxia), Saturday, 4 September 2004 00:57 (twenty-one years ago)

Are janitors unionized anywhere in the US?

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Saturday, 4 September 2004 00:57 (twenty-one years ago)

Actually, I think a lot of them are. The ones who work in my building are. Maybe it's different in smaller cities?

Kerry (dymaxia), Saturday, 4 September 2004 01:00 (twenty-one years ago)

http://draconis.weyr.org/~mystic_ether/jewel/jewel-059.jpg
hey, jewel made it, you can, too.

Fritz Wollner (Fritz), Saturday, 4 September 2004 02:49 (twenty-one years ago)

You have no idea why and how they got there. You can't imagine that because you've had a relatively stable life in good ol' suburbia.

That's the key point, really.

"You never really understand a person until you crawl into their skin and walk around in it."

oops (Oops), Saturday, 4 September 2004 05:54 (twenty-one years ago)

Dude we dont need to know about your Jaime Gumb fantasies;P

Trayce (trayce), Saturday, 4 September 2004 06:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Sure you do.

oops (Oops), Saturday, 4 September 2004 06:17 (twenty-one years ago)

"the ONLY generalizations i made: homeless people are probably homeless because they are lazy and they lack motivation to make things better for themselves."

Replace lazy with insecure and unable to see a change can (possibly) be made. I just read about homelessness and how society/we can live with it: To be able to disconnect from the world (incl homeless people) and return to a warm home/with people we love and connect.

jesus nathalie (nathalie), Saturday, 4 September 2004 06:33 (twenty-one years ago)

I love that "the only generalization" line! I need to start finding ways to use that. You accused me of overdrawing my point. The only point I overdrew was when I said you were dumber than a rock and would never ever be right about anything.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Saturday, 4 September 2004 06:34 (twenty-one years ago)

So, I just read the LJ argument. And I'm slightly confused.

This kid is still in high school?

I agree with everything that has been said about this whole thing, but seriously wait until he has to make rent and he can't because he drank (bought music, drugs... etc.) it all. I just don't see where this snap in logic can be relevant at a high school age. Things after high school don't happen to be as logical as trying to be accepted to a university and not knowing what to put in the essay.

Camtron (Cameron), Saturday, 4 September 2004 06:48 (twenty-one years ago)

the point about addiction is pretty well answered by the fact that yes, some start out that way, but there are whole families who live in their cars, most Americans are one paycheck away from homelessness, and the stress of living on the street would make *anyone*, including your clueless little argument-twat, take drugs or drink just to deal with the stress. battered women in shelters (and their kids) are also homeless. does he want to blame them? all homeless people don't stand by the road with signs.

Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 5 September 2004 05:47 (twenty-one years ago)


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