14% rise in sex crimes year-on-year. Binge drinking becoming much more prevelant amongst women.
Is this the same as accusing rape victims of dressing too provocatively?
If you go out and get lathered, pissed, wankered, bollocksed, hammered, smashed, trashed, battered, shitfaced, fucked, cunted etcetera etcetera ad infinitum (take any word in the English language and add 'ed' as a suffix and it suddenly means "very drunk"), are you compromising your own safety? If you shatter your own judgement by filling your body with sugary poison are you inviting sexual predators? Are people who say things like this making excuses for young men with disgustingly base instincts which can't be controlled?
wtf is wrong with our culture that people feel impelled to go out on a Friday and/or Saturday night and drink excessively? Is our country really becoming richer, smarter, more prosperous, happier and healthier if things like this are becoming much more prevelant in our society?
― Jimmybommy JimmyK'KANG (Nick Southall), Friday, 17 September 2004 05:17 (twenty-one years ago)
― hstencil (hstencil), Friday, 17 September 2004 05:18 (twenty-one years ago)
― hstencil (hstencil), Friday, 17 September 2004 05:21 (twenty-one years ago)
― supercub, Friday, 17 September 2004 05:23 (twenty-one years ago)
I suspect it's the fallout of "just say no" campaigns that have no information for kids other than meaningless "drugs are bad" statements
― Gator Magoon (Chris Barrus), Friday, 17 September 2004 05:28 (twenty-one years ago)
Its not great and I blame, in the main, cheap sugary alcopops and beer that has been creeping up in strength and loosing any last vestiges of flavour.
― Ed (dali), Friday, 17 September 2004 05:35 (twenty-one years ago)
A man in a car pulled up beside me and started asking me questions and at first I thought he was asking directions (he was speaking Japanese, so I can't be totally sure). I was a little sketched out, so I lied and said in Japanese that I didn't understand and I was going to my boyfriend's house nearby. He said OK, and goodbye, and went to shake my hand (which lots of people do here randomly because I'm foreign), at which point he tried to pull me into his car.
I don't think this was very cool at all. But I don't think there's anything wrong with me getting smashed on a Saturday night with friends, and I think this asshole would have tried his stunt whether I'd been drinking or not.
Anytime you have a few, your judgment and reactions will be impaired; its just a matter of degree. Try to be reasonable, avoid stupid situations, and then just live your life because smart, sober, modestly dressed women get raped all the the time too and you can't spend every goddamn minute second-guessing yourself.
― Laura E (laurae55), Friday, 17 September 2004 05:38 (twenty-one years ago)
Now city centre pubs are owned by entertainment companies they want to make money by any means. Couple that with a nee in the early 90s to compete with E and you get vile cheap to make, brightly coloured, sugared booze and then pile this high and sell it cheap.
― Ed (dali), Friday, 17 September 2004 05:45 (twenty-one years ago)
― Ed (dali), Friday, 17 September 2004 05:50 (twenty-one years ago)
― the surface noise (slight return) (electricsound), Friday, 17 September 2004 05:58 (twenty-one years ago)
― Ed (dali), Friday, 17 September 2004 06:11 (twenty-one years ago)
― Jimmybommy JimmyK'KANG (Nick Southall), Friday, 17 September 2004 09:34 (twenty-one years ago)
― Craig Gilchrist, Friday, 17 September 2004 09:45 (twenty-one years ago)
― Jimmybommy JimmyK'KANG (Nick Southall), Friday, 17 September 2004 09:47 (twenty-one years ago)
― Danger Whore (kate), Friday, 17 September 2004 09:48 (twenty-one years ago)
― Dadaismus (Dada), Friday, 17 September 2004 09:50 (twenty-one years ago)
yes, no, yes, no, no.
― HKM, Friday, 17 September 2004 09:51 (twenty-one years ago)
― Jimmybommy JimmyK'KANG (Nick Southall), Friday, 17 September 2004 09:52 (twenty-one years ago)
I don't buy the notion that UK drinkers were more restrained before the big bad PubCos and alcopops appeared on the scene. They may have exacerbated things but Wetherspoons etc would never have prospered if there hadn't been a considerable market for them there in the first place. It strikes me as a bit of a convenient scapegoat - Wetherspoons would never work in, say, Italy, would they?
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 17 September 2004 09:54 (twenty-one years ago)
― Dadaismus (Dada), Friday, 17 September 2004 09:54 (twenty-one years ago)
― HKM, Friday, 17 September 2004 09:55 (twenty-one years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 09:56 (twenty-one years ago)
― HKM, Friday, 17 September 2004 09:58 (twenty-one years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 09:59 (twenty-one years ago)
I am minded to link this piece by Dave Q.
― Jimmybommy JimmyK'KANG (Nick Southall), Friday, 17 September 2004 09:59 (twenty-one years ago)
Anyway, in answer to (some of) the question: I do drink quite a lot (hence my cocktail-induced hangover today) and it tends to be in a binge style, at least partly because I tend to be out in pubs with a large proportion of blokes in the group, and hence the round system gets you into a steady pattern of fast (for me) pint drinking. However, this social setting also means that the group disperses at the same regular time, and there are pretty invariably other people going my way home, so I don't find myself particularly vulnerable. Also I can hold my drink, ho ho.
However, if going out to a more traditionally sexually predatory venue, I'm certainly more choosy about what I drink and how I behave. This is a reaction to a couple of mildly unpleasant experiences while a cheap-drunk student. And even the drunkest girl surely knows by now not to take a dodgy mini-cab ride alone (or at all, preferably).
― Liz :x (Liz :x), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:00 (twenty-one years ago)
― suzy (suzy), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:01 (twenty-one years ago)
― Liz :x (Liz :x), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:03 (twenty-one years ago)
wait, so when you go out drinking with your friend, and she may or may not have pulled and they're going home you'd go and break them up?
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:04 (twenty-one years ago)
As for binge drinking itself - it's the only way I drink. I have a young family and don't have the 5-7 nights a week social life I used to have, so any chance to go out usually results in "WOW! I'M OUT! LET'S GET FUCKING HAMMERED!" I've yet to wake up on the couch at 4am with my wife ravishing me :-(
― Onimo (GerryNemo), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:04 (twenty-one years ago)
xpost
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:05 (twenty-one years ago)
― Liz :x (Liz :x), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:07 (twenty-one years ago)
― Dadaismus (Dada), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:08 (twenty-one years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:09 (twenty-one years ago)
― Dadaismus (Dada), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:10 (twenty-one years ago)
hem hem xpost but it's kind of funny
― Liz :x (Liz :x), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:10 (twenty-one years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:10 (twenty-one years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:11 (twenty-one years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:12 (twenty-one years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:13 (twenty-one years ago)
― Dadaismus (Dada), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:13 (twenty-one years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:14 (twenty-one years ago)
― HKM, Friday, 17 September 2004 10:14 (twenty-one years ago)
I am one of the least sensible drunks I know, especially with regard to what happens between the pub and my bed. Particularly memorable events have involved trying to pay a white van driver a fiver to take me from the station to my flat, going off to the other side of London with random strangers met at night bus stops, falling asleep on numerous bus routes and getting into all sorts of dodgy cabs. I'm frankly amazed this hasn't got me into more trouble than it actually has, but if I were female I think I'd probably be dead by now.
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:14 (twenty-one years ago)
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:15 (twenty-one years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:15 (twenty-one years ago)
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:16 (twenty-one years ago)
i've pretty much stopped drinking this year, much prefer being stoned and hate the hangovers, and i ain't too haelth-conscious diet wise and it wasn't doing me any good. also, i noticed booze was just making me tired and miserable. fuck that. but being out sober is a really fucking horrible experience sometimes. drunk people are a fucken mess on that train ride home, and behave like idiots at a moment's encouragement. i don't mean to be getting remotely judgemental like this, but, yes, not getting fucked up and then having to negotiate a possibly-dangerous journey home is now a part of why i don't really drink anymore.
― stevie (stevie), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:17 (twenty-one years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Friday, 17 September 2004 10:18 (twenty-one years ago)
i just ate some liver sausage in the hopes that this will make me all okay again.
might have to not drink for a few days..............
― ken c (ken c), Monday, 26 June 2006 10:40 (nineteen years ago)
A London hospital says there can be no exceptions to its rule that liver transplants are only provided to patients who are alcohol-free for six months, despite a plea from a Co Down man whose son’s liver failed after a drinking binge.
Building contractor Brian Anderson has appealed to King’s College Hospital in London to perform a liver transplant on his son, Gareth (19), who was admitted to the Ulster Hospital in Belfast just over two weeks ago after a weekend binge.
Mr Anderson from Newtownards went on the Stephen Nolan Show on BBC Radio Ulster and also spoke to The Irish Times urging the hospital to make an exception to its rule.
“I need a life saved here urgently,” said Mr Anderson who fears his son will not survive for six months.
Gareth’s doctor Tony Tham said the Ulster Hospital again contacted King’s College Hospital yesterday but was told there could be no exceptions and its protocol could not be changed.
“There are many patients of all ages waiting for liver transplants. Livers are a scarce resource and demand exceeds supply. Liver transplants in certain settings associated with alcohol are risky and have a poor outcome,” he said in a statement yesterday.
.......
The boy's father said Gareth started drinking at 16 but his alcohol intake was no different than other people his age. Mr Anderson said young people drank too much.
“It was a trend when I was young too; so you know, boys do party, girls do party,” he said.
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:12 (sixteen years ago)
http://www.irishtimes.com/newspaper/frontpage/2009/0821/1224253026787.html
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:13 (sixteen years ago)
I could understand if it were like an adult, but as if a teenager could forsee fucking liver failure.
― Shakim O'Collier (kingkongvsgodzilla), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:28 (sixteen years ago)
Odds that within the week this comes up as a topic in the U.S. health care debate? Anyone?
― Shakim O'Collier (kingkongvsgodzilla), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:31 (sixteen years ago)
kid coming home drunk from the age of 15, dad pretty blasé about this in radio interviews.
i can still see the POV of having this regulation though- lots of people want/need liver transplants, long waiting list, etc. hard to see someone jump a line ahead of you because they abused themselves to this extent this early in their lives.
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:36 (sixteen years ago)
The dad's gonna have to go before the death panel, cap in hand.
― Susan Tully Blanchard (MPx4A), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:37 (sixteen years ago)
they abused themselves to this extent this early in their lives.
Yeah, but he's a kid. Not legally, but 19 year olds are practically babies!
― Shakim O'Collier (kingkongvsgodzilla), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:41 (sixteen years ago)
yeah, i can't find a pic online but he looks younger tbh. and yellower.
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:42 (sixteen years ago)
Not that the article itself is putting too much spin on it, but aren't KCH just saying "you can't jump the queue and it might be too risky at this stage anyway"? Could you not just write a corresponding article about the guy who was denied the liver transplant he was due because they let a drunk teenager push in front of him?
― Susan Tully Blanchard (MPx4A), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:45 (sixteen years ago)
I mean presumably it would be the Daily Mail writing that article but still.
― Susan Tully Blanchard (MPx4A), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:46 (sixteen years ago)
Ideally it would be a retired brigadier being denied a liver transplant so they could save the life of an immigrant teenager who got drunk celebrating how easy his A-levels had been.
― Susan Tully Blanchard (MPx4A), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:48 (sixteen years ago)
Well, it was the parents' responsibility to step in. They didn't and now the son pays the price. There is alcohol abuse here, not some genetic disease or something similar. Choices have to be made, as hard it is.
― Nathalie (stevienixed), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:52 (sixteen years ago)
you can see the editorial meeting- "yeah, but what's our angle"
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Friday, 21 August 2009 13:55 (sixteen years ago)
hmm. the hospital's position is looking more reasonable by the minute.
BINGE DRINK TEEN LEFT HOSPITAL BED AND WENT TO PUB
By Ian Graham, Press Association
A critically ill teenager being treated for liver failure after binge drinking left his hospital bed and went to the pub opposite for a drink, it was revealed today.
While the father of 19-year-old Garath Anderson fights to overturn NHS guidelines which mean his son has to be alcohol free for six months before getting a liver transplant, a publican confirmed he went to her pub last Wednesday looking for a pint.
He was still in his slippers and with the needle from a drip in his hand.
Staff in the Old Moat Inn opposite the Ulster Hospital in Dundonald on the eastern outskirts of Belfast refused his order, gave him a coke, alerted the hospital and took him back.
The teenager from Newtownards, Co Down was transferred to Kings College Hospital in London on Friday and doctors have told his father, Brian, he could have as little as two weeks to live.
An exasperated Mr Anderson said: "I don't know what he was thinking about, I don't think he knows.
"He said 'I don't know why I did it, I just walked out and walked across to the pub'."
He said his son first told him he had a coke, but when pressed admitted trying to order alcohol first.
"I said 'What were you thinking about son' and he said ' I don't know, I just don't know'."
Mr Anderson said he was trying to get his son psychiatric help.
"I don't know what is going on in his head, he needs mental help as well."
Old Moat Inn manager Lorraine McMillan said : "He walked into the bar on Wednesday and the staff immediately recognised he was from the hospital - he had a needle in his hand, was wearing slippers and was still wearing his hospital name band.
"He was very young and didn't look very well. He asked for a pint or possibly a vodka. He was refused a drink and he said that was OK he would take a coke.
"I contacted the hospital and one of the staff walked him over and he was met at the door."
She said patients sometimes came in and the pub had a policy of never giving them alcohol in case it interfered with their treatment.
The incident last week came before Mr Anderson finally told his son that he could be dead in a couple of weeks unless he got a liver transplant. He has since sworn never to drink again.
Garath suffered acute liver failure earlier this month after drinking 30 cans of lager on a weekend binge-drinking session and had to be rushed to hospital.
Although it is common medical practice in the UK to insist that liver patients whose conditions are linked to alcohol abuse go without a drink for six months before going on the transplant waiting list, it is only a guideline and not a formal rule.
Mr Anderson insists the policy should apply to older patients with chronic alcoholism, not a teenager who has never before needed medical treatment for a drink related illness.
He plans legal action to get the rule overturned. He was expected to launch a judicial review in the High Court in Belfast this week, but may now have to take the legal action in London following his son's transfer to King's College Hospital.
Mr Anderson, who has been at his son's bed side almost constantly since he was admitted to hospital, said he was undergoing a liver biopsy later today as doctors continue to assess his condition.
― joe, Tuesday, 25 August 2009 13:55 (sixteen years ago)
yes, yes it does. feel sorry for the dad, but jesus as a doctor with that decision to make i wouldn't be going near him.
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Tuesday, 25 August 2009 16:47 (sixteen years ago)
oO 30 cans? WTF.
― Nathalie (stevienixed), Tuesday, 25 August 2009 19:42 (sixteen years ago)
He was still in his slippers and with the needle from a drip in his hand
It's interesting to know that there is a point when even pubs won't act as facilitators.
― Ned Trifle II, Tuesday, 25 August 2009 20:55 (sixteen years ago)
okay that is crazy
also I don't buy the "he's a teenager" defense at all but that's just because I was precocious.
― I have a set of penises leftover from some bach party somewhere (HI DERE), Tuesday, 25 August 2009 21:03 (sixteen years ago)
not that I've ever downed 30 cans but it's not that much is it, if you were out for long enough? I am positive I have a few friends who've downed an entire crate of cans over a sustained period of time.
myself on a really huge session rolling into 24 hour long maybe would have that much, tho those sort of sessions are rare.
obv leaving the hospital is fucking mental.
― I for one welcome this new Nazi ILX (Local Garda), Tuesday, 25 August 2009 21:04 (sixteen years ago)
It's not that much over a sufficiently-long period of time, but in order to come close to that in a reasonable amount of time I'd have to consume quickly enough that puking would become a factor well before alcohol poisoning.
― I have a set of penises leftover from some bach party somewhere (HI DERE), Tuesday, 25 August 2009 21:06 (sixteen years ago)
I get pretty drunk after about 6 drunks, and of my peer group, I'm the one usually the most sober enough to walk everyone else home. So 30 drinks in 1 night is fucking mental.
― Samuel (a hoy hoy), Tuesday, 25 August 2009 21:10 (sixteen years ago)
Yeah obv if you hammered that amount into it's a massive issue. I guess my point is it must be hard and unusual to alcohol poison yourself with beer.
x-post everyone is different and it's weird the way it hits. when I was unemployed and I was drinking v regularly I noticed I was getting drunk more easily but would pretty much stay at one level for ages.
― I for one welcome this new Nazi ILX (Local Garda), Tuesday, 25 August 2009 21:13 (sixteen years ago)
It was over a weekend, not one night. Not that I'm excusing it, but it's perfectly doable.
― ailsa, Tuesday, 25 August 2009 21:15 (sixteen years ago)
over a weekend? yeah same, can't defend it in the cold light of day but ffs people bring 48 cans to a festival or whatever all the time.
― I for one welcome this new Nazi ILX (Local Garda), Tuesday, 25 August 2009 21:19 (sixteen years ago)
yeah, clearly his liver was already shot.
30 cans is a big night by any standard but not uncommon in this part of the world, hell Ive had mates whose claim to fame rested on their ability to knock back 24 cans during a rugby match, and still kick on to town.
― Kiwi, Tuesday, 25 August 2009 21:29 (sixteen years ago)
yeah bigtime, some people are total machines. does eating play a role in this? he should have had a healthy batter burger packed full of vitamins and iron.
― I for one welcome this new Nazi ILX (Local Garda), Tuesday, 25 August 2009 21:31 (sixteen years ago)
Pints should have been Guinness, that's like a meal in itself. It's good for you! Toucans say so, and they know what's what.
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/39/78010110_0328b66c2b.jpg
― ailsa, Tuesday, 25 August 2009 21:32 (sixteen years ago)
he should have had a healthy batter burger packed full of vitamins and iron.
^why I love ilx
― Kiwi, Tuesday, 25 August 2009 21:36 (sixteen years ago)
guys you are making light of a very serious issue.
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:24 (sixteen years ago)
30 cans over a weekend doesn't seem that much. I think the most beer I ever drank in a night was 26 bottles of Stella. My poor liver :'-(
― 123456789 (jim), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:37 (sixteen years ago)
thread about take a "braggin about our most disastrous alcohol consumption" turn. excellent!
two naggins of vodka in a night when i was 17 and they were there. learning curve.
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:42 (sixteen years ago)
oh actually probably more alcohol consumed the night i drank a 2 litre bottle of frosty jacks, 6 cans of stella and a half bottle of grouse. Pretty much blacked out for about 12 hours and I believe pissed myself.
― 123456789 (jim), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:44 (sixteen years ago)
Are you people all like 6'10 285lbs or something? If I drank ten beers in one night I would probably die.
― Susan Tully Blanchard (MPx4A), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:44 (sixteen years ago)
downed pint of vodka on a bet the week before. i never got round to calculating which was worse, tbh.
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:45 (sixteen years ago)
's ok though, i had my liver replaced by some mug a year later YAAAAH
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:47 (sixteen years ago)
I think I drank five or six pints of Stella and a double whiskey on an empty stomach when I was a teenager, and then kung-fu kicked somebody in the face in a bad nightclub. It was a guy I knew, and I was really annoyed at him for not talking to me afterwards.
― Susan Tully Blanchard (MPx4A), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:48 (sixteen years ago)
While we're braggin', 30 pints in a weekend is a piece of piss, or at least it was when I was 19, if I do that now I get awful pains in my kidneys for a few days. That's probably not a good sign.
That kid's a lightweight.
― someone who is ranked fairly highly in an army of poo (Colonel Poo), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:49 (sixteen years ago)
oh yeah, absolutely. darwinism at its best, i say.
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:53 (sixteen years ago)
i mean, if he started at 5pm on friday, and we'll give him until say 3am on Monday morning, how many per hour is that? a half pint?
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:54 (sixteen years ago)
I always used to hear the story that you only need one glass of orange juice, two glasses of milk and 47 pints of Guinness to get your entire nutritional requirements for a day. Anyone up for trying it?
― Number None, Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:54 (sixteen years ago)
i tried, doctor, but i hadn't room after drinking the bath etc
― Amateur Darraghmatics (darraghmac), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 10:57 (sixteen years ago)
While we're braggin', 30 pints in a weekend is a piece of piss, or at least it was when I was 19, if I do that now I get awful pains in my kidneys for a few days. That's probably not a good sign.That kid's a lightweight.― someone who is ranked fairly highly in an army of poo (Colonel Poo)
― someone who is ranked fairly highly in an army of poo (Colonel Poo)
Mmmm, kidney pains. Only time I've ever had them was a couple of years ago: I had about 5 pints on Thursday, maybe 7 on the Friday , and then at least 10 over the course of Saturday. I felt really rough on the Sunday, but it wasn't until Monday that I noticed I had pains where my kidneys are.
Bit of a reminder that I'm in my thirties, not my twenties any more!
Not drunk that much over a 3 day period since.
― Chewshabadoo, Wednesday, 26 August 2009 12:43 (sixteen years ago)
oof, I had those kidney pains when I was in the UK on a business trip 2 years ago; it was kind of terrifying and def. slowed down my alcohol consumption
― I have a set of penises leftover from some bach party somewhere (HI DERE), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 13:05 (sixteen years ago)
I have some soreness in my kidneys/lower back every morning when I wake up, but I've always assumed it was from drinking water or tea before bed and having to hold it until morning. Happens whether I've been on a boozer or not. Iiiiinteresting.
― The Lion's Mane Jellyfish, pictured here with its only natural predator (Laurel), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 14:01 (sixteen years ago)
Definitely get that checked out if I were you.
― Chewshabadoo, Wednesday, 26 August 2009 14:14 (sixteen years ago)
i mean it took george best 30 to 40 years of serious drinking before he had to get a transplant. 30 cans (yeah a lot, but) over a weekend doesnt seem an outrageous amount.
― Michael B, Wednesday, 26 August 2009 15:19 (sixteen years ago)
What if it was 30 cans of tennants super?
― Ned Trifle II, Wednesday, 26 August 2009 15:40 (sixteen years ago)
Or the legendary Crest Super for that matter.
― Ned Trifle II, Wednesday, 26 August 2009 15:45 (sixteen years ago)
If it was 30 bottles of Ace cider I'd be impressed.
― someone who is ranked fairly highly in an army of poo (Colonel Poo), Wednesday, 26 August 2009 16:37 (sixteen years ago)