Also, was I the first person here to declare you an asshole? You were far less-assholish in person so I've gathered it's just a Web thang.
sorry, hijack
-- Miss Misery (texan...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 9:55 PM. (thatgirl) (later) (link)
You're right, Sam, but you're wrong to imply that I though that Lolita was responsible for her won exploitation. Humbert = monster, plain and simple. But weak and wrong in so many humorous and nearly understandable ways. That's why the book is one of my favorites, actually -- it's so much more complicated than any simple morality.
What I meant was, I've heard "lolita" used to describe young girls in many contexts, none of them true to the book's intention. The book's intention, as I read it, was that she was a young girl who aspired to dirtiness but had no idea what it meant. This certainly makes no less a monster of Humbert, who is IMO one of the greatest villians of literature, but it makes Lolita no more "innocent." So you have the dirty little girl and the exploitative old man. To cast Lol as a complete innocent is not.. right. Not getting it. Not getting the give and take that makes the book so interesting. Of course Humbert is an awful man, but throwing the word "lolita" around as if it has an unsubtle definition hurts the work of art that Lolita is. It doesn't get it.
Anyway.
Sam, has anyone already expressed the degree to which we're all happy you're back? I don't want to bandwagon or anything, but it's really nice to see you.
-- Kenan (fluxion2...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:11 PM. (kenan) (later) (link)
I dunno, Kenan. I think Nabokov wants us to sympathise with Humbert, and that (at least in my reading) he responds to her come-ons... she's party to her own exploitation; albeit as a naiive and playing-with-fire type. Nabokov is the type of author who loved to make his readership feel dirty, exploitative, and identify with a pederast before an abused child.
-- Remy (jcoomb...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:16 PM. (x Jeremy) (later) (link)
Wrong.
albeit as a naiive and playing-with-fire type
Makes all the difference, don't it? If you didn't read that book and think that Humbert was an awful man, however charming, there's something wrong with you, and I'm sure Nabokov would agree.
-- Kenan (fluxion2...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:19 PM. (kenan) (later) (link)
I mean, it's all laid out there in the end, isn't it? When Quilty reads him his own poem and mocks him all through it? Brilliant, so brilliant.
-- Kenan (fluxion2...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:21 PM. (kenan) (later) (link)
"Because you took advantage of a sinner because you took advantage because you took because you took advantage of my disadvantage when I stood Adam-naked before a federal law and all its stinging stars
Because you took advantage of a sin when I was helpless moultng moist and tender hoping for the best dreaming of marriage in a mountain state aye of a litter of Lolitas
Because you took advantage of my inner essential innocence because you cheated me--
Because you cheated me of my redemption because you took her at the age when lads play with erector sets a little downy girl still wearing poppies still eating popcorn in the colored gloam where tawny Indians took paid croppers because you stole her from her wax-browed and dignified protector spitting into his heavy-lidded eye ripping his flavid toga and at dawn leaving the hog to roll upon his new discomfort the awfulness of love and violets remorse despair while you took a dull doll to pieces and threw its head away because of all you did because of all I did not you have to die"
Read together the first and last lines. The rest is tapdancing.
-- Kenan (fluxion2...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:30 PM. (kenan) (later) (link)
Yes, I get it. I'm not just wandering into this argument, Kenan -- I think Nabokov's genius in this book is twisting a traditional innocent (Lolita) into a monster by way of her dramatic introduction, and a traditional monster (Humbert) into an innocent-by-way of the dramatic resolution.
-- Remy (jcoomb...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:34 PM. (x Jeremy) (later) (link)
No no no! UNRELIABLE NARRATOR ALERT! Humbert is not meant to be an innocent at any point in the book. Um... did you think he was an innocent when he fantasized for 20 pages about killing his wife? His wife that he married just so he could have sex with a minor? If you were so charmed by his language that you missed all that, I'm afraid of you.
-- Kenan (fluxion2...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:38 PM. (kenan) (later) (link)
(you must know, I don't mean that I'm really afraid of you. Pure ad hominem.)
-- Kenan (fluxion2...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:40 PM. (kenan) (later) (link)
Nabokov was a pedophile, Kenan. Sorry to rain on your parade.
-- From a Land of Grass Without Mirrors (aaronh...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:43 PM. (AaronHz) (later) (link)
(He was quite notorious in literary circles for checking into motels with underage girls)
-- From a Land of Grass Without Mirrors (aaronh...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:44 PM. (AaronHz) (later) (link)
I don't see how that changes the moral of the book at all. If Nabokov was a pedophile, he cartainly wasn't setting out to excuse himself with this book. If he was a pedophile, Lolita is some very acidic self-hatred.
-- Kenan (fluxion2...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:48 PM. (kenan) (later) (link)
we ('we' as readership, not royalty) recognize humbert is a monster, a pederast, murderer, and masterful manipulator. but strictly in the context of the book he's not just protagonist, he's an honest-to-goodness narative hero. and while we (again, 'readership we') recognize lolita as utterly victimized from our own a priori understanding of molestation, in the book she's (because of nabokov's willful subersion of the moralistic narratological paradigm) she's presented a willing participant.
-- Remy (jcoomb...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:49 PM. (x Jeremy) (later) (link)
let's move this to another thread?
-- Remy (jcoomb...) (webmail), November 3rd, 2004 10:50 PM. (x Jeremy) (later) (link)
― Remy (x Jeremy), Thursday, 4 November 2004 06:51 (twenty-one years ago)
I think that's probably exactly what it was. Authors exorcise their demons in their work all the time. See Burroughs, another pedophile.x-post to Kenan
-- From a Land of Grass Without Mirrors (aaronh...), November 3rd, 2004 10:50 PM. (AaronHz) (later)
― From a Land of Grass Without Mirrors (AaronHz), Thursday, 4 November 2004 06:53 (twenty-one years ago)
How could Nabokov done that accidentally, though? How can you read that from even the subtext of a book and not understand that it's the whole point?
― Kenan (kenan), Thursday, 4 November 2004 06:55 (twenty-one years ago)
--
I don't think any of it was accidental -- I think Nabokov's goading us into a comfortable pattern, into saying 'oh, isn't the pedophile terrible' as, practically, lip-service. Obviously in our world he is, but in the extremely constructed, extremely constricted universe of the novel, he's not ever presented that way.
― Remy (x Jeremy), Thursday, 4 November 2004 06:56 (twenty-one years ago)
― Remy (x Jeremy), Thursday, 4 November 2004 06:58 (twenty-one years ago)
OF COURSE NOT!
― Kenan (kenan), Thursday, 4 November 2004 06:59 (twenty-one years ago)
The narrator of the novel hates everyone except himself. The writer of the novel hates everyone including himself. That's a huge and important difference.
― Kenan (kenan), Thursday, 4 November 2004 07:04 (twenty-one years ago)
― Remy (x Jeremy), Thursday, 4 November 2004 07:05 (twenty-one years ago)
― jaymc (jaymc), Thursday, 4 November 2004 07:05 (twenty-one years ago)
― Remy (x Jeremy), Thursday, 4 November 2004 07:06 (twenty-one years ago)
― Kenan (kenan), Thursday, 4 November 2004 07:07 (twenty-one years ago)
― From a Land of Grass Without Mirrors (AaronHz), Thursday, 4 November 2004 07:07 (twenty-one years ago)
― Remy (x Jeremy), Thursday, 4 November 2004 07:08 (twenty-one years ago)
― jaymc (jaymc), Thursday, 4 November 2004 07:12 (twenty-one years ago)
― jaymc (jaymc), Thursday, 4 November 2004 07:13 (twenty-one years ago)
― Kenan (kenan), Thursday, 4 November 2004 07:15 (twenty-one years ago)
― Kenan (kenan), Thursday, 4 November 2004 07:16 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 15:39 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 15:43 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 15:49 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 15:50 (twenty-one years ago)
― Remy (x Jeremy), Thursday, 4 November 2004 15:54 (twenty-one years ago)
― Remy (x Jeremy), Thursday, 4 November 2004 15:55 (twenty-one years ago)
― Remy (x Jeremy), Thursday, 4 November 2004 15:57 (twenty-one years ago)
― roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Thursday, 4 November 2004 15:58 (twenty-one years ago)
was a good thread.
― the bellefox, Thursday, 4 November 2004 16:01 (twenty-one years ago)
― roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Thursday, 4 November 2004 16:09 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 16:10 (twenty-one years ago)
I agree with you up until you start talking about Nabokov's intentions. Again, my concept of his intentions might be colored by how he talks about himself in interviews and essays, so they could admittedly be wrong, but I see his intentions as more playful and mischevious than sadistic. I agree he's toying with his readers somewhat, but I think he also wants to draw them to a conclusion, and I don't think he wants to "sock 'em in the gut."
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 16:15 (twenty-one years ago)
― roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Thursday, 4 November 2004 16:15 (twenty-one years ago)
― roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Thursday, 4 November 2004 16:16 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 16:18 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 16:23 (twenty-one years ago)
― the finefox, Thursday, 4 November 2004 16:24 (twenty-one years ago)
I think the fact that the word "Lolita" has come to mean a debased version of what HH refers to in the book as the "nymphette" would have been amusing to Nabokov and horrifying to HH: HH wants his Lolita to be proclaimed as a singularly exulted being, a unique and precious child/goddess he has defiled, and to return her to her proper high place through his language; Nabokov knows that he (pronoun deliberately left imprecise) is doomed to fucking that up, to protraying more about himself than his unique individual subject.
Nabokov was a butterfly collector. So he knows all about taking pleasure in the destruction of innocent beautiful things, and then pinning them in a book so they can live forever.
― Colin Meeder (Mert), Thursday, 4 November 2004 16:35 (twenty-one years ago)
― s1ocki (slutsky), Thursday, 4 November 2004 17:13 (twenty-one years ago)
― roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Thursday, 4 November 2004 17:15 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 17:17 (twenty-one years ago)
OTM. HH suffers for what he does, it's not thought of as right. I think HH feels this too, but is flawed and turbulent. I do, however, feel no hatred for HH, only sadness for him and Lolita.
Do people think HH genuinely loves Lolita, at any point in the novel?
― Kevin Gilchrist (Mr Fusion), Thursday, 4 November 2004 17:21 (twenty-one years ago)
― roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Thursday, 4 November 2004 17:23 (twenty-one years ago)
― Kevin Gilchrist (Mr Fusion), Thursday, 4 November 2004 17:27 (twenty-one years ago)
H takes his pleasure because he can't not, and his pleasure destroys her. I think Nabokov leaves the question of whether there is pleasure in the very destruction open, but at the very least does want to show that any aethete suffers at least SOME sort of moral pain when destroying a beautiful thing. "The moral sense in mortals is the duty/we have to pay on mortal sense of beauty."
"or are you saying Nabokov took pleasure in writing this?"
I think he did, but I think he also considers the possibility that this is in itself pretty fucked up. He took pleasure in butterfly collecting, and he knows that the butterflies are dead. There is an eroticism in the writing, in the desire to WRITE Lolita into some kind of eternal existence (as Dante did to Beatrice) that also makes it completely impossible to really know who the hell Delores Haze was (and who the hell was Beatrice, anyway?)
― Colin Meeder (Mert), Thursday, 4 November 2004 18:09 (twenty-one years ago)
― s1ocki (slutsky), Thursday, 4 November 2004 18:36 (twenty-one years ago)
― Loose Translation: Sexy Dancer (sexyDancer), Thursday, 4 November 2004 18:47 (twenty-one years ago)
― Kevin Gilchrist (Mr Fusion), Thursday, 4 November 2004 18:49 (twenty-one years ago)
I think the novel is partly a dissection of all romantic love, not only paedophilia. Shifting balances of power, delusional objectification of the loved one, the ultimate selfishness of a certain kind of intense desire, these are all themes that can apply to any relationship.
― noodle vague (noodle vague), Thursday, 4 November 2004 21:42 (twenty-one years ago)
Take it up with Hunter S. Thompson. I can't be the only person who read that interview.
― From a Land of Grass Without Mirrors (AaronHz), Thursday, 4 November 2004 21:48 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 21:59 (twenty-one years ago)
― roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Thursday, 4 November 2004 22:02 (twenty-one years ago)
But unfortunately, someone is probably going to read that and believe you.
HST saying that in Rolling Stone vs. some schmuck like me repeating it on ILX. What if someone did believe it, so what?
― From a Land of Grass Without Mirrors (AaronHz), Thursday, 4 November 2004 22:09 (twenty-one years ago)
― From a Land of Grass Without Mirrors (AaronHz), Thursday, 4 November 2004 22:11 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 22:12 (twenty-one years ago)
― From a Land of Grass Without Mirrors (AaronHz), Thursday, 4 November 2004 22:13 (twenty-one years ago)
― From a Land of Grass Without Mirrors (AaronHz), Thursday, 4 November 2004 22:17 (twenty-one years ago)
― From a Land of Grass Without Mirrors (AaronHz), Thursday, 4 November 2004 22:18 (twenty-one years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Thursday, 4 November 2004 22:28 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 22:32 (twenty-one years ago)
― n/a (Nick A.), Thursday, 4 November 2004 22:35 (twenty-one years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Thursday, 4 November 2004 22:36 (twenty-one years ago)
Allegorically, how about the standard riff that Humbert is Old Europe to Lolita's New World, appalled and entranced and intoxicated by her freedom and vulgarity, and all that? Lolita came out just a few years after Bazin started Cahiers du Cinema -- there was that whole postwar European fascination with America as the immediate future, the embrace of American pop culture. (For that matter, Lolita also came out the year after "Rock Around the Clock" -- Humbert as Beethoven rolling over and telling Tchaikovsky he should check out this sweet young thing, yeah she talks too much but you should see her dance.)
― gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Tuesday, 9 November 2004 07:57 (twenty-one years ago)
― gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Tuesday, 9 November 2004 07:59 (twenty-one years ago)
― roxymuzak (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 9 November 2004 15:08 (twenty-one years ago)
the thing that in my opinion is so good about "Lolita" is that, apart from the OBVIOUS fact that Humbert H. is a charming, erudite monster with unfortunately some fairly defensible opinions about America and its inhabitants, the novel describes quite chillingly what happens when you get what you want without thinking about what you got to do to get it. There's a scene where Humbert recalls a painting of a big locomotive rushing through an imaginary America--his dream of the country--and then of course the reality was somewhat different, motels and cheapness (sure, beauty as well). And that's the spookiest thing about the novel, is imagining Humbert on the road in some godforsaken place and his recalling that dream-painting.
I've never read anything about Nabokov being a pedophile. He did have an affair, stepped out on Vera once. But he always seemed pretty busy and Vera certainly seems to have been a constant presence. So I dunno.
I mean, who'd want to read a novel about a writer who comes to America, struggles to find work and make a living, has a devoted wife, travels around the country and loves it, shares virtually none of the standard European disdain for American culture and intellectual attainment, becomes successful after writing a novel about what might have happened if he hadn't had the love of his wife and had been obsessed with old and rotten ideas left over from his romantic youth, and then continues to produce pretty good art up until his death? No one.
― eddie hurt (ddduncan), Tuesday, 9 November 2004 15:43 (twenty-one years ago)
But part of what's so grimly funny about Lolita is that it's almost not, in context, so monstrous. I can't remember if the two words are Nabokov's or someone else's or mine, but the world around Humbert and Dolores has this quality of "cheerful barbarism" that compares really interestingly to the relationship between the two of them. I haven't read this in years, but part of what kills about the ending, I think, is that the blank shrugging Lolita of the end seems to have been way fully inducted into that cheerful-barbarism America -- and there's room to wonder whether it's as a result of being "damaged" by Humbert or as an intractable destiny from the get-go.
― nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 9 November 2004 16:10 (twenty-one years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 9 November 2004 16:12 (twenty-one years ago)
― eddie hurt (ddduncan), Tuesday, 9 November 2004 19:01 (twenty-one years ago)