did gay always mean, well....gay?

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reading from the kenneth williams diaries, I wondered if his use of the word gay,when he's writing from the early 40s on, always has the sub-meaning of homosexual. as he was so sexually repressed thorughout his life on the one hand but on the other indulged in the use of palare in his camp acting it's sometimes difficult to find out what he means exactly? ("singapore was very gay")

since when did it have this sub-meaning in english? did anybody read his diaries or the orton ones? was the use of the sub-meaning a form of palar/polari too?

I'm dutch so english is not my first language (but maybe my first interest?)

erik, Monday, 15 November 2004 11:44 (twenty years ago)

I doubt it, he prob thought Singapore was fun and cheerful and so on. Nice to see you Erik

Andrew Blood Thames (Andrew Thames), Monday, 15 November 2004 12:05 (twenty years ago)

It's still 'frowned on' in Singapore, I believe.

So, it could have been a bit gay, but not 'very' gay in the more modern palare.

However, it is very cheerful and fun and so on.

mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 15 November 2004 12:32 (twenty years ago)

"Gay" meant "gay" as in "gay" to at least some gay people as far back as the 19th C., as I recall.

But "gay" also meant "gay" as in "delightful" for quite a while there. So it's hard to say.

Let's put it this way: if Cole Porter had used the word "gay" in a song in the 40s or even 30s (or even 20s) he would have meant it in both senses.

(Always nice to see you drop in, Erik. How is the drawing going?)

Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 15 November 2004 12:47 (twenty years ago)

It was also a popular girls name as well I believe.

Chewshabadoo (Chewshabadoo), Monday, 15 November 2004 12:53 (twenty years ago)

it's because it's a non-threatening name for the girls

ken c (ken c), Monday, 15 November 2004 13:02 (twenty years ago)

I was under the impression that the "handover" occurred sometime in the postwar period.

Girolamo Savonarola, Monday, 15 November 2004 13:07 (twenty years ago)

apparently there was a time when to be gay just meant to be homosexual.

DV (dirtyvicar), Monday, 15 November 2004 13:13 (twenty years ago)

I'm not sure when "gay" started generally meaning "gay" -- I believe it was around Stonewall (1969), but I'm not sure. I don't think any of the gay rights groups were using the term "gay" until the 70s.

I was just reading an article about this, I wish I could remember where.

"Gay" as in lively or merry has been around since Middle English.

Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 15 November 2004 13:21 (twenty years ago)

this is surprising. i was expecting some very NSFW image material:

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Rob Bolton (Rob Bolton), Monday, 15 November 2004 13:22 (twenty years ago)

("Gay" meant "gay" as in "gay" to at least some gay people as far back as the 19th C., as I recall. - Wohoo! There's a Methuselah amongst us!? ;)

Well I'm pretty certain that in the mid-to-late-ish 20th-century Soviet Union there existed textbooks of English whose Lesson One started with lines like "It is the 1st of September. Young boys and girls are going to school, all fresh and gay."

t\'\'t (t\'\'t), Monday, 15 November 2004 13:27 (twenty years ago)

Here you go...

1178, "full of joy or mirth," from O.Fr. gai "gay, merry," perhaps from Frank. *gahi (cf. O.H.G. wahi "pretty"). Meaning "brilliant, showy" is from c.1300. Slang for "homosexual" (adj.) is first recorded 1951, apparently shortened from gey cat "homosexual boy," attested in N. Erskine's 1933 dictionary of "Underworld & Prison Slang;" the term gey cat (gey is a Scot. variant of gay) was used as far back as 1893 in Amer.Eng. for "young hobo," one who is new on the road and usually in the company of an older tramp, with catamite connotations. But Josiah Flynt ["Tramping With Tramps," 1905] defines gay cat as, "An amateur tramp who works when his begging courage fails him" Gey cats were also said to be tramps who offered sexual services to women. The "Dictionary of American Slang" reports that gay (adj.) was used by homosexuals, among themselves, in this sense since at least 1920. Ayto ["20th Century Words"] calls attention to the ambiguous use of the word in the 1868 song "The Gay Young Clerk in the Dry Goods Store," by U.S. female impersonator Will S. Hays. The word gay in the 1890s had an overall tinge of promiscuity -- a gay house was a brothel. The suggestion of immorality in the word can be traced back to 1637. Gay as a noun meaning "a (usually male) homosexual" is attested from 1971.

Kevin Gilchrist (Mr Fusion), Monday, 15 November 2004 13:30 (twenty years ago)

Although the scots is wrong in that definition - gay or gey in scots means very, or immense - 'gey ugly' would be 'very ugly'

Kevin Gilchrist (Mr Fusion), Monday, 15 November 2004 13:32 (twenty years ago)

Yes, but what I was reading suggested that newer evidence pinned it a few decades before that cite. Usually I remember where I read these sorts of things.

Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 15 November 2004 14:08 (twenty years ago)

Before which cite? There's a 1920s Noel Coward play that uses it as a double entendre, and it's thought to be fairly widespread by then apparently. The female impersonator's use, while ambiguous, needs to be a double entendre or incredibly banal, and that's 1868. Anyway, certainly a word with a complicated history.

Kevin Gilchrist (Mr Fusion), Monday, 15 November 2004 14:12 (twenty years ago)

In late C19 London a "gay girl" was a female prostitute.

beanz (beanz), Monday, 15 November 2004 14:21 (twenty years ago)

...but wot could've been the C19 meaning of "lesbian boy", i wonder?

t\'\'t (t\'\'t), Monday, 15 November 2004 14:24 (twenty years ago)

his diaries are being serialised (with excerpts from his work) on radio 4 at the moment:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio4/comedy/ (near the bottom)

koogs (koogs), Monday, 15 November 2004 14:26 (twenty years ago)

xpost..

A guy from here?:

http://www.naturalist.co.uk/maps/Lesbos.gif

beanz (beanz), Monday, 15 November 2004 14:35 (twenty years ago)

Dude, it's Erik! He's back! (Or have you been back and I've missed it?)

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 15 November 2004 15:03 (twenty years ago)

::gasp:::

I'll never hear the Flintstones theme the same way again.

"WE'll HAVE A GAY OLD TIIIIIIIME!"

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Monday, 15 November 2004 15:06 (twenty years ago)

Erik hangs out at ILBooks sometimes.

Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 15 November 2004 15:07 (twenty years ago)

Why, you say this as if I should know the place. Hey, what's with that baseball bat? *flees*

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 15 November 2004 15:09 (twenty years ago)

the term gey cat was used as far back as 1893 in Amer.Eng. for "young hobo,"

Maybe they had the cold.

Onimo (GerryNemo), Monday, 15 November 2004 15:23 (twenty years ago)

http://www.lighthouse.cc/gayhead/GAYHM1.JPG

Nemo (JND), Monday, 15 November 2004 15:28 (twenty years ago)

I knew that Seward was up to no good on that island of his.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 15 November 2004 15:39 (twenty years ago)

I know! A beacon luring sailors from miles around to the delights of Gay Head!

Nemo (JND), Monday, 15 November 2004 15:46 (twenty years ago)

hobo = HOmosexual BOhemian?

@ned & chris: hello sailors!

erik, Monday, 15 November 2004 17:09 (twenty years ago)

Hoy ahoy, matey.

Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 15 November 2004 17:38 (twenty years ago)

HOW DO. (Actually, Erik, I will be swinging through Amsterdam in July if I can help it.)

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 15 November 2004 17:39 (twenty years ago)

You know, this whole question could very easily be solved if someone with an OED online subscription would bother to look it up.

Girolamo Savonarola, Saturday, 20 November 2004 20:51 (twenty years ago)

Remember Cary Grant in a fluffy nightgown in 1938's "Bringing Up Baby" exclaiming, "I've suddenly gone gay"?

"Gay" = gay just went mainstream after Stonewall. I remember John Simon lamenting the loss of "gay" in its old meaning. Dude, it wasn't that great a word...

Pete Scholtes, Sunday, 21 November 2004 19:19 (twenty years ago)

G. -- I have OED access, but my understanding is that there is new info that wouldn't be in the OED yet.

Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 22 November 2004 06:26 (twenty years ago)

six years pass...

I'm writing about something that I want to describe as "popular among gays." Something about the baldness of "gay" as a noun is bothering me, though.

Strangely, I don't have the same issue with "popular among gays and lesbians." But I'm not sure that's the language I want to use.

"...gay people"? "...homosexuals"? Help.

Tyler/Perry's "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" (jaymc), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:24 (fourteen years ago)

"in the gay community"?

max, Friday, 21 January 2011 17:25 (fourteen years ago)

those fancy dans

plax (ico), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:27 (fourteen years ago)

Don't worry about it, jaymc. Besides, we're not a "community."

Rich Lolwry (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:27 (fourteen years ago)

as long as gays can claim a fucko like me as one of their own, we won't be a community.

"Gays" is fine.

Rich Lolwry (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:28 (fourteen years ago)

"popular among gaybros"

max, Friday, 21 January 2011 17:28 (fourteen years ago)

I hate being called a "gay"

her hipster hair dude is making me pale ale (Stevie D(eux)), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:29 (fourteen years ago)

"in the gay community" is more ~correct~ but i'm w/alfred, always disliked the term.

lex diamonds (lex pretend), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:29 (fourteen years ago)

"homosexuals" is kind of hilariously clinical, though. Use that. Or the word "queer"

her hipster hair dude is making me pale ale (Stevie D(eux)), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:30 (fourteen years ago)

gives boners to guys who normally give boners to each other (>_o)

plax (ico), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:31 (fourteen years ago)

"something kevin spacey would probably like, ~just sayin~"

rufus is a tity boi (donna rouge), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:33 (fourteen years ago)

popular w/ the rainbow flag brigade

plax (ico), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:35 (fourteen years ago)

catamites, sodomites – fine with me.

Rich Lolwry (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:36 (fourteen years ago)

in the sphere of the queer

velko, Friday, 21 January 2011 17:41 (fourteen years ago)

"popular among friends of Dorothy"

her hipster hair dude is making me pale ale (Stevie D(eux)), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:41 (fourteen years ago)

"known to appeal to chutney-ferrets"?

"boffo with buggers"?

"in among inverts"?

the tune is space, Friday, 21 January 2011 17:48 (fourteen years ago)

"inverts" is so awesome. Yay, Proust!

Rich Lolwry (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:49 (fourteen years ago)

Don't worry about it, jaymc. Besides, we're not a "community."

Yes, I wanted to avoid the implication of monolithicism.

Tyler/Perry's "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" (jaymc), Friday, 21 January 2011 17:56 (fourteen years ago)

"with a notable gay following"

tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:00 (fourteen years ago)

I hate being called a "gay"

I would never use it in an individual context -- as in "Stevie, a local gay, told me..." -- because this reduces you to your sexual orientation. But pluralizing it in the context of a anonymous group seems to make it more acceptable, because that's what binds the group, that's the only reason the group is being talked about as a group.

Tyler/Perry's "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" (jaymc), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:01 (fourteen years ago)

Yes, I wanted to avoid the implication of monolithicism.

isn't the original statement the kind of generalisation that implies this already though?

i guess i might go for "...with a significant gay following" or something: conveys what you want it to without implying that every gay is a follower

lex diamonds (lex pretend), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:03 (fourteen years ago)

"with a notable gay following"

I like that in general.

However, I now have to admit that I didn't give you guys the exact wording.

It's actually, "...earned a loyal following, especially among teenagers and ____"

(You now may be able to guess what I'm writing about.)

Tyler/Perry's "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" (jaymc), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:06 (fourteen years ago)

isn't the original statement the kind of generalisation that implies this already though?

Yeah, probably. It's tough.

Tyler/Perry's "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" (jaymc), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:07 (fourteen years ago)

Yeah, the statement already implies a singular viewpoint, so I'd go with 'gay community' or 'gay people', rather than just 'gays'.

emil.y, Friday, 21 January 2011 18:08 (fourteen years ago)

are you writing about nicki minaj?

lex diamonds (lex pretend), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:11 (fourteen years ago)

Ha, no. About Glee.

Tyler/Perry's "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" (jaymc), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:12 (fourteen years ago)

(And, fwiw, my editor was the one who wanted me to insert this.)

Tyler/Perry's "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" (jaymc), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:13 (fourteen years ago)

ugh fuck glee fuck glee fuck glee, it does not have THIS gay following. fwiw a minor bugbear of mine recently has been seeing it associated with the gays!

lex diamonds (lex pretend), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:14 (fourteen years ago)

i was gonna guess "sex"

max, Friday, 21 January 2011 18:14 (fourteen years ago)

OK, just talked to another editor, and we decided to kill any mention of demographics at all. Which I think is probably the best decision.

Tyler/Perry's "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" (jaymc), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:22 (fourteen years ago)

gays totally love glee

plax (ico), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:24 (fourteen years ago)

i was gonna guess amyl nitrate tho

plax (ico), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:25 (fourteen years ago)

transcontinental side-eye for plax

her hipster hair dude is making me pale ale (Stevie D(eux)), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:26 (fourteen years ago)

OK, just talked to another editor, and we decided to kill any mention of demographics at all

thumbs up

lex diamonds (lex pretend), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:27 (fourteen years ago)

loooool @ amyl nitrate though. But no, it's true, Glee and Gaga seem to have become these huge signifiers of "the gay community" (the social one where ppl immerse themselves in being gay)

her hipster hair dude is making me pale ale (Stevie D(eux)), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:27 (fourteen years ago)

idk maybe the person who said it didnt realise that y was not out or gay or w/e and their blitheness implied that the closet as a barrier was sortof nbd w/n that soc. space.

plax (ico), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:43 (fourteen years ago)

uh wrong thread

plax (ico), Friday, 21 January 2011 18:43 (fourteen years ago)

lol max

Stop Non-Erotic Cabaret (Abbbottt), Friday, 21 January 2011 21:41 (fourteen years ago)

I wish teenagers were into amyl nitrate.

Stop Non-Erotic Cabaret (Abbbottt), Friday, 21 January 2011 21:41 (fourteen years ago)

I had no idea Glee had a huge gay following, apparently church-attending conservative homebodies are all gay.

Possession of Stolen Goods (pharoah slanders) (u s steel), Friday, 21 January 2011 22:14 (fourteen years ago)

The only thing I know about Glee is teens who like it dress like Orville Redenbacher. I say this with confidence as I get all my Teen News from "Gil Thorpe":

http://joshreads.com/images/11/01/i110105gilthorp.jpg

Stop Non-Erotic Cabaret (Abbbottt), Friday, 21 January 2011 22:16 (fourteen years ago)

Gil hasn't had a plot about poppers yet...I will let you know if it happens. It seems like the kind of thing that would happen in Milford.

Stop Non-Erotic Cabaret (Abbbottt), Friday, 21 January 2011 22:18 (fourteen years ago)

all i do is talk about glee to ppl

plax (ico), Friday, 21 January 2011 22:25 (fourteen years ago)

Back in my day, Glee used to mean happy...

http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2432/3749157820_606af569e4.jpg?v=0

I will always think of you, while (quite) fondly, myself (Evan), Friday, 21 January 2011 22:58 (fourteen years ago)


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