watching someone cheat on their significant other: c/d/just kinda weird?

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this just happened/is happening to me. it's a good thing i'm not lusting after cheatee, or i'd prob be sobbing right now, as opposed to just feeling a little strange about the whole... affair.

― m. (mitchlnw), Thursday, 2 December 2004 21:34 (twenty-one years ago)

reminds me of this

― Yanc3y (ystrickler), Thursday, 2 December 2004 21:41 (twenty-one years ago)

oh and do mirrors count?

― Yanc3y (ystrickler), Thursday, 2 December 2004 21:53 (twenty-one years ago)

I think it's the season for people to cheat on their significant others, and indeed break up with them and start dating new and dynamic friends, that they hang out with and flirt with alot.

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 2 December 2004 21:56 (twenty-one years ago)

Down Ronan, down.

― Anna (Anna), Thursday, 2 December 2004 21:57 (twenty-one years ago)

haha

― cºzen (Cozen), Thursday, 2 December 2004 21:58 (twenty-one years ago)

I didn't kiss Mitch's friend.

― Ronan (Ronan), Thursday, 2 December 2004 21:59 (twenty-one years ago)

i should not that the cheater is doing this in plain view in front of me, no voyeurism/mirrors/periscopes/fingerprint detection involved - i don't know his gf very well at all (it's a long distance relationship), so there's no chance of my squealing, plus that ain't my steelo.

xx... x post

― m. (mitchlnw), Thursday, 2 December 2004 21:59 (twenty-one years ago)

actually, even odder, i'd count both parties involved as friends!

― m. (mitchlnw), Thursday, 2 December 2004 22:00 (twenty-one years ago)

its even worse when you're egging them on.

I had a friend who had an awful boyfriend who I thought useless and crap, and one night her and I went out and I urged her to hook up with some slimey emo dude, and she did, and I was like "AWWWWRIGHT, CHEAT! CHEAT! CHEAT!"

― jill schoelen is the queen of my dreams! (Homosexual II), Thursday, 2 December 2004 22:29 (twenty-one years ago)

I watched my best friend do this more than once. I didn't give a shit, frankly. 'Course, when I saw some cheeseball cheating on his girl (who was my friend), I immediately told her the next day at school.

― Je4nne ƒury (Jeanne Fury), Thursday, 2 December 2004 22:36 (twenty-one years ago)

jeanne is HARD

― Yanc3y (ystrickler), Thursday, 2 December 2004 22:40 (twenty-one years ago)

i watched someone do this a little over a year ago. it was bad, i probably didn't express fully exactly how bad it was at the time. worse because there was marriage and children involved. dud, because it makes you feel tainted too.

― kyle (akmonday), Thursday, 2 December 2004 22:43 (twenty-one years ago)

i watch my roommate do this on a daily basis. he has a girlfriend in new mexico who came to visit. he also has a girlfriend here, and neither of them know of each other. my other roommate asked him, "does [girlfriend 2] know about new mexico?" he said, "she knows about the state of new mexico, i'm sure." i hate this, it makes me want to vomit. we don't speak to each other anymore. DUD.

― caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Thursday, 2 December 2004 22:47 (twenty-one years ago)

I had a flatmate who was seeing a girl we all assumed was his g/f, because she was often around, they'd hung out together a long time etc. He never made any noise about it being secret or whatever.

Anyway unbenknownst to me and other friends of his, what he was doing was seeing another ex of his whom he'd talked into getting back with him "it'll be different this time, you're the only one for me etc etc". Because I had no idea about this other woman, I made a comment about the first one being over, in my blog. The second one emailed me the next day after she read it saying "well that certainly wasnt ME at your house wtf is going on!?"

From there on in I came to realise my flatmate had a few on the boil, and it was hard to tell who didnt know and who jsut didnt care, but ugh it was unpleasant. I ended up asking him to move out cos I was caught up in this mess.

― Trayce (trayce), Friday, 3 December 2004 04:39 (twenty-one years ago)

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