what's the earliest thing you can remember (for certain)?

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i can remember my third birthday, at which i received Ralph the stuffed polar bear (named him myself!). and my parents' wedding one week later: i wore a blue clip-on bow tie and was stuck sitting between grandmothers. my cousin was a couple months old and was in a basket on the table.

there are random memories that likely took place earlier, but i can't date them.

mookieproof (mookieproof), Saturday, 5 February 2005 20:46 (twenty-one years ago)

my fourth birthday party (it might have been my third) and ice cream....

I also remember looking at a little pom-pom toy bug thing stuck on the door of my room when I was two, but I'm not very certain about this, I might just think I remember it because my parents used to talk about it all the time (my first word was "bug" and I said it while pointing to this thing).

I didn't grow up with videotape (after my time) or home movies, I wonder if kids who did have stronger memory reinforcement of things that happened when they were very small.

kyle (akmonday), Saturday, 5 February 2005 20:53 (twenty-one years ago)

First memory I can definitely date: looking out of my bedroom window on Christmas Eve 1981, at about 6pm, and seeing the allotments at the back of our house, all covered in snow. It was about 6 weeks before my 4th birthday.

Earlier memories that I can't pin down as easily:

Our next-door neighbour visiting the house, just after her husband had died, to give us the things of his that she wanted us to have.

Being shown how to type programs into our first computer (a Sinclair ZX81), by my dad.

Telling a TV repair man to hurry up because there was something on TV that afternoon that I wanted to watch.

Asking my mum why the sky was blue (it was at night - I *really* wanted to know why it was light blue in the daytime and dark blue at night, but that might not have been what I heard) and being told that it was because it reflected the sea. My mum swears this never happened, though.

Playing with my mum's three-foot-high toy koala bear in her bedroom.

(all of these memories are definitely earlier than Christmas 1981, because they were in the house that we moved out of just afterwards).

caitlin (caitlin), Saturday, 5 February 2005 20:55 (twenty-one years ago)

Taking a bath in the kitchen sink.

Maria D. (Maria D.), Saturday, 5 February 2005 20:56 (twenty-one years ago)

xpost: I think it goes the other way. I have a definite mental image of my grandparents, three of whom died within a year of each other when i was 4-5. I don't know, though, to what extent I'm thinking of my actual memories of them, and to what extent I'm thinking of what they looked like in photographs.

The only memory I have of my maternal grandmother that's definitely of her and not of a picture of her is from the Christmas before she died; I know it's a genuine memory because we don't have any photos at all of her in her final months, when she was confined to a wheelchair (she had motor neurone disease, eventually dying of a secondary infection of her lungs). I can't remember anything substantial or detailed about her appearance, just the feeling around her: elderly, ill, paralysed, unable to speak properly.

caitlin (caitlin), Saturday, 5 February 2005 21:01 (twenty-one years ago)

A brief flash of being chased by my one-legged grandfather, who was going to hit me with one of his crutches. This probably would have been 1967, when I was 3 1/2 or 4.

Pushing the screen out of our front window, taking canned goods (and a jar of mayonnaise) out of a low kitchen cabinet and throwing them out onto the front lawn. Late '67 or early '68.

Curious George Rides a Republican (Rock Hardy), Saturday, 5 February 2005 21:07 (twenty-one years ago)

i can remember being in my crib as an infant, in my old room with the red, white, and blue vertical-striped wallpaper (mmmm bicentennial tackiness). i had one of those mobiles (dioramas) that spun around overhead, and an oversized soft plastic book with pictures of animals. i think i had a pink ragdoll too.

oskar shindig! (Jody Beth Rosen), Saturday, 5 February 2005 21:24 (twenty-one years ago)

Running around naked in the living room of our first apartment, while pouring a box of powdered milk everywhere. I couldn't have been older than three.

Tantrum The Cat (Tantrum The Cat), Saturday, 5 February 2005 21:33 (twenty-one years ago)

I have one memory of sitting in a baby carrier on my fathers back, looking over his shoulder into a long corridor. But that would have been when I was like one year old, so that may be a false memory.

But I do remember LOTS of things from the age of maybe 3, perhaps 2 1/2. We moved houses when i was four, last year I tried drawing all the rooms and floors and could do it almost perfectly, after 22 years.

Hanna (Hanna), Saturday, 5 February 2005 21:33 (twenty-one years ago)

I have a couple memories from an apartment that my family moved into when I was 3 and left when I was 4:

a) Meeting a girl at the playground across the street from our apartment and then going back to her place (that's right) to see her Barbie Ice Cream Maker. (I don't recall my parents being around anywhere, but surely they must have been?)

b) Walking into preschool with my friend Jay while imitating various animals

The first one is the one I usually cite when asked this question, because it's a more private memory than the second one, which my dad remembers (he was the one dropping us off at school) and has brought up on occasion.

jaymc (jaymc), Sunday, 6 February 2005 07:17 (twenty-one years ago)

I swear I have a memory of climbing out of my crib in the middle of the night... How long are babies/toddlers in cribs, anyway? Maybe I was 2 or 3.

Laura H. (laurah), Sunday, 6 February 2005 11:33 (twenty-one years ago)

I remember telling my wife I was going to the pub.

noodle vague (noodle vague), Sunday, 6 February 2005 17:00 (twenty-one years ago)

when i was 2 or 3 my dog pushed me down the basement stairs. i remember somersaulting as i fell all the way down. i thought it was funny. i remember my mom not thinking it was funny.

lemin (lemin), Sunday, 6 February 2005 17:06 (twenty-one years ago)

I was really sick as a baby, i had open heart surgery when i was 1 and was diagnosed with spinal menangitis when i was two. So i would have these night terrors and weird hallucinations.

The first thing i remember is I had just woken up from a reoccuring nightmare about a giant clock that had deafening tics. I was laying in bed and seeing my dad walk into his room outside the doorway, then seeing him walk in again.

I thought this was really strange and got up and started walking down the hallway and i felt like my body was freezing up like a robot, all the joints stiffened and it was the exact opposite of an out-of-body experience, like i was trapped in this machine. I kept liking it to being built into a small red wooden chair for some reason and this has remained in my mind ever since.

Adam Bruneau (oliver8bit), Sunday, 6 February 2005 18:13 (twenty-one years ago)

My earliest memory that I can date with any accuracy would be of me, sitting on the floor under a table, coloring a piece of paper with crayons while my mom talked to her father about grading college papers for his students. I would have been 4 at the time.

Aimless (Aimless), Sunday, 6 February 2005 19:18 (twenty-one years ago)

also taking a bath in the kitchen sink!

Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 6 February 2005 19:21 (twenty-one years ago)

I remember my first birthday pretty vividly, for some reason. I guess after that all my memories start around 3 or 4.

stephen morris (stephen morris), Sunday, 6 February 2005 19:29 (twenty-one years ago)

I remember being in bed with my mother beside me, and her breathing through her nose was blasting me somewhat. So I grabbed her nose. But she slept on. My dad was the other side of my mum. This would make me about 6 months old. This is not a fib.

mark grout (mark grout), Sunday, 6 February 2005 20:02 (twenty-one years ago)

Blimey, that stopped 'em.

mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 7 February 2005 08:53 (twenty-one years ago)

I remember walking through the big downtown Sears store (which since has closed and is now the site of our huge downtown library) while carrying around one of those boxes of popcorn Sears used to sell. I was looking around at the clothing and lost sight of my mother and aunt, who were accompanying me on this shopping excursion. I remember walking around aimlessly and in a confused state for awhile until I caught sight of my aunt, who then directed me to where my then-furious mother was. I got a real talking-to but I sorta felt like I was in trouble at the same time that my mother was super-relieved to see me. (You will remember that Adam Walsh was abducted while in the middle of a Sears shopping excursion.)

Oh, and I was anywhere from 18 months - 2 years old at this time.

I have vague memories of being nine months old and being carried by my mother while waiting to have my picture taken at (get this) another Sears and not enjoying the experience at all (but, odddly enough, I don't think I cried once throughout the picture-taking experience), but, once again, these are vague memories and I can't picture this episode clearly. Like, I know what I was wearing when I got lost at the big Sears, but not during this picture-taking moment.

(Oh! And I still remember what I was thinking when I got baptised, but that's the only memory I still have of that event.)

Surreal Addiction (Dee the Lurker), Monday, 7 February 2005 08:54 (twenty-one years ago)

(mark: Ha ha, no it didn't. *wink*)

Surreal Addiction (Dee the Lurker), Monday, 7 February 2005 08:55 (twenty-one years ago)

I was really sick as a baby, i had open heart surgery when i was 1

me too! im very glad we're both still alive

phil-two (phil-two), Monday, 7 February 2005 08:57 (twenty-one years ago)

My earliest memory is my third birthday in 1981 (though even that may be distorted by the large number of photos of that day I have subsequently seen).

I was wearing a red tartan dress with a cream pinafore thing over it, and one of my presents was a set of 'tennis' bats and a foam ball. The foam ball was hit over the garden wall during my party, and I clearly remember feeling cross and also guilty.

Archel (Archel), Monday, 7 February 2005 10:45 (twenty-one years ago)

My theory about mine was possibly that I remembered being a baby when I was a toddler, then remembered "remembering being a baby when I was a toddler" when I was six.

mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 7 February 2005 10:48 (twenty-one years ago)

I woke in the middle of the night and held on to the bars of my cot and called out for my mum. I must have been about 2 which I think is a bit early for earliest memories, so maybe I invented it later. It's very vivid though. Also from around that time I remember my dad carrying me and slipping down the stairs. He still cringes about that.

beanz (beanz), Monday, 7 February 2005 10:59 (twenty-one years ago)

Could I have been in the cot when I was 2? When do babies get taken out of cots? Why am I asking that here and not asking my parents?

beanz (beanz), Monday, 7 February 2005 11:07 (twenty-one years ago)

about 2 pm sunday?

hstencil (hstencil), Monday, 7 February 2005 11:17 (twenty-one years ago)

ba-dum tish

beanz (beanz), Monday, 7 February 2005 11:40 (twenty-one years ago)


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