― grueling pace, Sunday, 3 April 2005 10:35 (twenty years ago)
― kate/thank you friendly cloud (papa november), Sunday, 3 April 2005 10:37 (twenty years ago)
― Sven Basted (blueski), Sunday, 3 April 2005 10:44 (twenty years ago)
― kate/thank you friendly cloud (papa november), Sunday, 3 April 2005 10:48 (twenty years ago)
― grueling pace, Sunday, 3 April 2005 10:52 (twenty years ago)
― 'haitch' (haitch), Sunday, 3 April 2005 10:53 (twenty years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Sunday, 3 April 2005 10:53 (twenty years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Sunday, 3 April 2005 10:55 (twenty years ago)
― nathalie doing a soft foot shuffle (stevie nixed), Sunday, 3 April 2005 10:58 (twenty years ago)
― Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 3 April 2005 11:52 (twenty years ago)
― Curious George Finds the Ether Bottle (Rock Hardy), Sunday, 3 April 2005 13:23 (twenty years ago)
― ery, Sunday, 3 April 2005 13:43 (twenty years ago)
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Sunday, 3 April 2005 13:58 (twenty years ago)
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Sunday, 3 April 2005 13:59 (twenty years ago)
― Will(iam), Sunday, 3 April 2005 14:25 (twenty years ago)
― peepee (peepee), Sunday, 3 April 2005 14:42 (twenty years ago)
― shookout (shookout), Sunday, 3 April 2005 14:43 (twenty years ago)
so true. And to clarify, I meant I wouldn't have a problem dating someone who's politics fall somewhere to the right of my own. But someone who actively supports/ defends Georgie (eg "Blogs for Bush")? Not me, Jack.
― Will(iam), Sunday, 3 April 2005 14:53 (twenty years ago)
― What we want? Sex with T.V. stars! What you want? Ian Riese-Moraine! (Eastern Ma, Sunday, 3 April 2005 15:05 (twenty years ago)
I once dated a girl who voted for Bush, but that was in 1993.
― Pleasant Plains /// (Pleasant Plains ///), Sunday, 3 April 2005 15:26 (twenty years ago)
― youn, Sunday, 3 April 2005 15:55 (twenty years ago)
― Curious George Finds the Ether Bottle (Rock Hardy), Sunday, 3 April 2005 15:58 (twenty years ago)
― Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:10 (twenty years ago)
― keith m (keithmcl), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:38 (twenty years ago)
unless they're a democrat, obv.
― hstencil (hstencil), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:39 (twenty years ago)
― kingfish van pickles (Kingfish), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:46 (twenty years ago)
― hstencil (hstencil), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:47 (twenty years ago)
If you think you like her then you should certainly get to know her a little better, find out exactly where she stands, and whether you can tolerate that sort of thinking.
― MindInRewind (Barry Bruner), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:48 (twenty years ago)
wonder what he thinks now, as someone who knows all about patients and their rights, given the terri schiavo debacle. what a dum-dum.
― hstencil (hstencil), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:50 (twenty years ago)
― hstencil (hstencil), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:51 (twenty years ago)
― caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:53 (twenty years ago)
― miccio (miccio), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:54 (twenty years ago)
― hstencil (hstencil), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:54 (twenty years ago)
― caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:55 (twenty years ago)
― caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:56 (twenty years ago)
http://www.stel.ru/stalin/images/1935-february400.jpg
"WELL I SEE YOUR POINT, COMRADE"
― hstencil (hstencil), Sunday, 3 April 2005 16:57 (twenty years ago)
Assuming discourse does not mean one person complaining, this is important, which actually would rule out many of the liberals I know. I've had bad experiences with them just complaining non-stop for entire hour car rides where everybody else in the car kept on trying to change the subject.
― A Nairn (moretap), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:06 (twenty years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:10 (twenty years ago)
― A Nairn (moretap), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:22 (twenty years ago)
HAHAHAH bit of a conceptual leap and lumping together there, mate. so obvious is it that someone not caring for the gubmint telling gay folks who them could not legally marry would provide a causal effect on the number of time they sucessfully procreate.
....
waitasec, how is "pro-birth control" an actual stance?
― kingfish van pickles (Kingfish), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:29 (twenty years ago)
― hstencil (hstencil), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:29 (twenty years ago)
xpost - i'm not sure he means that these people will have fewer children because they are pro-choice or gay or use birth control, i think it's just that they have fewer children anyway.
― caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:30 (twenty years ago)
― kingfish van pickles (Kingfish), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:31 (twenty years ago)
xpost
― caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:31 (twenty years ago)
yeah, that's true. Many children actually tend to be opposite their parents.
― A Nairn (moretap), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:32 (twenty years ago)
ask the Catholic church too
― A Nairn (moretap), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:34 (twenty years ago)
yeah, statistically speaking they are inferior in the amount of offspring they have.
― A Nairn (moretap), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:38 (twenty years ago)
― caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:44 (twenty years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Sunday, 3 April 2005 17:47 (twenty years ago)
This is gorgeous. Or would be if it wasn't so chilling.
― Nag! Nag! Nag! (Nag! Nag! Nag!), Sunday, 3 April 2005 22:51 (twenty years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Sunday, 3 April 2005 22:58 (twenty years ago)
x-post
― RS £aRue (rockist_scientist), Sunday, 3 April 2005 23:00 (twenty years ago)
But they're anti YOu having sex and pro YOU fighting a war, so now the tables have turned, and the master becomes the student or something.
RE: question.. Doubt it - but it's possible. maybe she's just not really interested in politics an d voted for Bush out of ignorance. OK strike that, I wouldn't date someone ignorant.. But maybe she has a good reason .. ask her why she voted for the chump .. and really listen. Then either laugh at her or get busy gettin busy.
― dave225 (Dave225), Sunday, 3 April 2005 23:01 (twenty years ago)
BETTER = buttsex w/ a bushco supporter, and shouting out @ orgasm, "you realize that THIS IS WHAT BUSH IS DOING TO THE COUNTRY, RIGHT?!?"
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Sunday, 3 April 2005 23:03 (twenty years ago)
― Matt Chesnut (Matt Chesnut), Sunday, 3 April 2005 23:05 (twenty years ago)
― RS £aRue (rockist_scientist), Sunday, 3 April 2005 23:13 (twenty years ago)
I guess the low profile (?) of genuinely disinterested media is important, but the concept of US citizens withdrawing from or trivialising political discourse circa 2005 is a little unsettling.
― Nag! Nag! Nag! (Nag! Nag! Nag!), Sunday, 3 April 2005 23:47 (twenty years ago)
― peepee (peepee), Monday, 4 April 2005 00:36 (twenty years ago)
No. And if I shagged one by accident I'd be quarantining myself for six months.
― Autumn Almanac (Autumn Almanac), Monday, 4 April 2005 00:39 (twenty years ago)
― Autumn Almanac (Autumn Almanac), Monday, 4 April 2005 00:40 (twenty years ago)
There is someone I've known for some years around here in my neck of the woods who, while not being anywhere near a classic stereotype of a OC Bush voter -- has a brain, uses it, likes to talk and learn about many things, has a spirituality I'd characterize as New Age more than anything else -- is still nonetheless a Bush voter, very open about it, extremely impassioned about him to the point where, though she has voted GOP in general for some times, watching Fahrenheit 9/11 actually made her specifically register as a Republican, such was her annoyance with the film and its conclusions. (Other friends, like my good friend Stripey, who know her interests and her discussion in other areas are often quite surprised to find this out -- she simply doesn't fit the stereotype, as I said.)
We've had our arguments at points -- strong-willed ones but not shouting matches, points of view are heard out and responded to rather than being cut off -- but at the same time we've hung out together or in mixed company, gone on a date a couple of times, admitted an attraction (she is, frankly, quite hot). This feels more like a long-time friendship with a frisson at most, but it's a salutory reminder, I think, that differences even in certain profound ways need not call a halt to things, or shut the door -- after all, she's still talking with me as well as many other close friends who are much more to the left, it's not like she's rejected a lot of *us* out of hand!
To illustrate in my own family history, as I've mentioned elsewhere, my dad was generally speaking very much more GOP as I grew up, my mom Democrat or independent. There were many political discussions at the dinner table where it was clear much disagreement existed between them on the political front -- but it was not done in the spirit of trying to win an argument, to seek a power play, to escalate into slammed doors and anger. Beliefs were strong but the opposite point of view was willing to be heard out -- and, I think unsurprisingly, it was less the difference than the commonalities in their approaches to thinking and discussing, as well as the many other things in common they had (which didn't include religion either, over time), which provided the keystone to their immensely successful marriage, still strong at almost forty years.
So maybe there is no answer here and, quite arguably, perhaps the current stakes are so high as to prevent many from feeling comfortable with the idea of someone being so close and yet so far away. Still, though, I would not be so immediate to prejudge as many here.
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 4 April 2005 03:54 (twenty years ago)
― Maria (Maria), Monday, 4 April 2005 04:17 (twenty years ago)
― Autumn Almanac (Autumn Almanac), Monday, 4 April 2005 04:18 (twenty years ago)
― Maria (Maria), Monday, 4 April 2005 04:20 (twenty years ago)
I admit perhaps I would feel more annoyed if I did not live in a state that voted for Kerry (and, four years ago, Gore).
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 4 April 2005 04:24 (twenty years ago)
― Autumn Almanac (Autumn Almanac), Monday, 4 April 2005 04:28 (twenty years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 4 April 2005 04:30 (twenty years ago)
― kingfish van pickles (Kingfish), Monday, 4 April 2005 04:33 (twenty years ago)
eh?!? i thought that you were an australian?!?
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Monday, 4 April 2005 04:49 (twenty years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 4 April 2005 04:50 (twenty years ago)
― Autumn Almanac (Autumn Almanac), Monday, 4 April 2005 05:20 (twenty years ago)
It's not necessarily a matter of prejudging, Ned, it's a matter of judging.
― RS £aRue (rockist_scientist), Tuesday, 5 April 2005 22:45 (twenty years ago)
― RS £aRue (rockist_scientist), Tuesday, 5 April 2005 22:47 (twenty years ago)
― RS £aRue (rockist_scientist), Tuesday, 5 April 2005 22:48 (twenty years ago)
― Autumn Almanac (Autumn Almanac), Tuesday, 5 April 2005 22:53 (twenty years ago)
― RS £aRue (rockist_scientist), Tuesday, 5 April 2005 22:54 (twenty years ago)
http://www.podster.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/fotos/tv_ruk.jpg
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Tuesday, 5 April 2005 22:58 (twenty years ago)
― Pleasant Plains /// (Pleasant Plains ///), Tuesday, 5 April 2005 23:03 (twenty years ago)
And in the context of internet-people that say "I Love Everything" they generally don't share values with people that support Bush. Or they assume they generally don't.
― A Nairn (moretap), Tuesday, 5 April 2005 23:20 (twenty years ago)
― adolf nixon, Tuesday, 5 April 2005 23:31 (twenty years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Tuesday, 5 April 2005 23:32 (twenty years ago)
except that the title of the board is all ironic n' shit, donchaknow...
― kingfish, Tuesday, 5 April 2005 23:56 (twenty years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Tuesday, 5 April 2005 23:59 (twenty years ago)
― RS £aRue (rockist_scientist), Wednesday, 6 April 2005 00:13 (twenty years ago)
― RS £aRue (rockist_scientist), Wednesday, 6 April 2005 00:22 (twenty years ago)
Are so many of you so prejudiced that you'd exclude about half of the dating pool (unscientific, I know) because they voted for the wrong cousin last November? Are the parties really so different that you'd exclude people like that and treat them like sub-humans?
#1 If they support Bush, nothing else matters. It's like marrying an axe murderer or a Scientologist.
#2 I don't want to be sleeping with the enemy.
Why don't we just gas them along with those filthy Jews?
― Cunga (Cunga), Thursday, 26 May 2005 07:55 (twenty years ago)
um, hello? politics is genetic now?
― N_RQ, Thursday, 26 May 2005 08:01 (twenty years ago)
― Konstantin Ustinovich Chernenko (Konstantin Ustinovich Chernenk), Thursday, 26 May 2005 09:10 (twenty years ago)
http://www.bordersstores.com/data/bstores/features/images/rcnsp108.jpg
― Konstantin Ustinovich Chernenko (Konstantin Ustinovich Chernenk), Thursday, 26 May 2005 09:11 (twenty years ago)
― Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 26 May 2005 09:14 (twenty years ago)
― AdrianB (AdrianB), Thursday, 26 May 2005 09:16 (twenty years ago)
― Konstantin Ustinovich Chernenko (Konstantin Ustinovich Chernenk), Thursday, 26 May 2005 09:16 (twenty years ago)
― N_RQ, Thursday, 26 May 2005 09:18 (twenty years ago)
― Konstantin Ustinovich Chernenko (Konstantin Ustinovich Chernenk), Thursday, 26 May 2005 09:23 (twenty years ago)
We are doomed to live in a world dominated by a superpower controlled by an ever increasing extent by people like this
http://www.townhall.com/acimgs/webimages/annblack.jpg
― Konstantin Ustinovich Chernenko (Konstantin Ustinovich Chernenk), Thursday, 26 May 2005 09:27 (twenty years ago)
― nathalie's baby (stevie nixed), Thursday, 26 May 2005 09:40 (twenty years ago)
I think you might be overstating yr case a bit there! I mean not that yr the only one, but still...!
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 26 May 2005 10:09 (twenty years ago)
And refusing to date someone is hardly equivalent to "treating them as sub-humans"
― Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Thursday, 26 May 2005 10:44 (twenty years ago)