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popshots75: Yeah, I'm vaguely bitter.
Dubplatestyle: my last two have basically cheated on me. (okay, one wasn't basically...one was a blowjob behind the refrigerator at work.)
popshots75: Dang.
popshots75: And she came clean about the details?
Dubplatestyle: oh hell no.
popshots75: So how'd you find out (if you don't mind me asking)?
Dubplatestyle: hold pleez
*************** Dubplatestyle: how did i find out you cheated on me again?
Cherry Isosceles: huh?
Dubplatestyle: do you need a diagram?
Cherry Isosceles: ummm i have no idea what you're talking about
Dubplatestyle: hey, marni. you may not remember this, but WE DATED ONCE.
Cherry Isosceles: yes...but what's with the cheating part?
Dubplatestyle: oy.
Dubplatestyle: why i broke up with you.
Cherry Isosceles: yesssss?
Dubplatestyle: HOW DID I FIND OUT BECAUSE I CANT REMEMBER ?
Cherry Isosceles: oooooooh
Cherry Isosceles: you read it in my journal
Dubplatestyle: ah. right. you ho.
**************** popshots75: Would this lovely lass be THE ex?
Dubplatestyle: yes.
popshots75: That's a healty relationship.
Dubplatestyle: obv. we're on speaking terms now.

― jess, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

would you? have you? have you been cheated on? would you/did you forgive the person?

― jess, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I was with a girl last year a few times who had a boyfriend, I felt like a dick, particularly because he is a nice guy. However I liked her alot at the time. I now realise she was a bitch. I don't think I'd cheat. I'm not even "officially" going out with the girl from my class yet and I can't imagine kissing anyone else, I just wouldn't want to, I've passed up a fleeting opportunity already. I've never cheated, but then I've only had a few relationships anyway, er....give me time or something.

― Ronan, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I wouldn't cheat and I think it's pretty shitty and immature to do so. Lying sucks.

What I want to know is why Jess has lately felt it necessary to share his chat conversations with us.

― Samantha, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

best. tv. ever.

well, at least until one of the people starts to cry.

― maura, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Was the journal in which Jess read this online or not? This is urgent and key in terms of CONFIRMING MY PREJUDICES.

I've never cheated. I don't think I ever would. But I'm hardly beating them off with a stick so I've not really been tested.

― Tom, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Obviously, it's an attempt to share my sparkling wit with y'all.

― David Raposa, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I hope not. No. Not as far as I know. I doubt it.

― Ally C, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

yes. yes. yes. yes.

― fritz, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

As for Jess' other two questions - not exactly, and depends. On what? How much I wanted the relationship to go on, basically.

― Tom, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

If I liked them I'd forgive them, probably too easily.

― Ronan, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

No. Yes (with a married woman, no less). No. Yes.

― Sterling Clover, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

No, No, Yes, Yes-whilst ending relationship.

― stevo, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

how can one answer 'no' to 'would you?' and 'yes' to 'have you?'

does 'would you?' mean 'are you capable of cheating?' or 'are you planning on cheating (again)'?

I have cheated, so it is something capable of doing. It's not something I ever want to do again.

― fritz, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I like the idea of open polygamy. These monogamic relationships get really messy. But of course no one else agrees with me so how do I get stuck?

― Maria, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Maria -- flirt of the year.

― Sterling Clover, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

In days when these things were easier, I was at a party where my best friend and his girlfriend of all of, ooh, three weeks were in the proces of splitting up. So basically I thought I'd move in for a quick snog - only to be told in no uncertain terms that they hadn't broken up yet. Didn't take long after that...

I also snogged my school quiz team captin's girlfriend, but in my mind at least I had an excuse. You see, she was the Girl From Waitrose who had been my first kiss, and I felt that 3 years earlier we hadn't really done it properly. So we made up for lost time in the mail carriage of a late night train from Waterloo. I did feel a bit of a heel afterwards, but as far as I know, he never found out, so I ddn't really beat myself up about it.

I'd like to say I wouldn't cop off with someone else's girlfriend, but I think if I were single, pissed and she was coming on to me, I probably would forget my morals. Absolutely not if it was a friend, though, or even someone I knew.

Mark (a bit ashamed really)

― Mark C, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

sharing chats = much less work than "cleverly" rewriting the same sentiments/stories.

tom, no it was not online. (nb: it was about 4-5 yrs. ago.)

― jess, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

no i'm not capable of cheating or being cheated on.

― hamish, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I doubt if I could cheat on anyone...I'd be a mess of regret and sorrow.

― james, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I agree that relationships that are open or polygamous, at least initially, can be a good thing. But it really depends on how one feels for the other, and how in sync they are with those feelings.

Otherwise, if one really feels for the other, and the other doesn't feel as strongly back, then polygamy can sorta mess things up right away.. then again, better right away than further down the road.

Ideally though, a really good monogamous relationship is where it's at, as rare as they come.

― Brian MacDonald, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

oh no we're not going to debate monogamy again are we?

― hamish, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

monogamy is to polyamory what veganism is to cannibalism: discuss

― mark s, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Mark S, you tease.

I found myself so terribly tempted by a couple of people back in 1992 that I *had* to break up a relationship because I wasn't being honest with my feelings anymore. That was a mess.

― Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

In answer to Jess's questions: No, No, Yes, and It Would Depend. That's about as specific as I would prefer to get.

― Nicole, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Half of my relationships have ended that way. Interest in others -> temptation to cheat -> broke up because wasn't being honest about my feelings -> went out with this "other" person -> repeat until fade

― electric sound of jim, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i have cheated once. i vowed never to make the same mistake twice. and to this day i haven't.

― di, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Does the vegan analogy above mean that monogamy can put people in a bind? (Speaking of pissass attempts at humour...)

― David Raposa, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

no, never;no, never, yes; no, never.

― chris, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Are people here answering solely from the point of view of cheating on their partner or are they also answering - as Mark C did in his Best Relationships Poster bid above - the v. interesting question "Would you be the other man/woman?"

― Tom, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

To answer your question Tom, no I would never be the other man, I've been on the receiving end and it was all just so horrible, tore a lot of friendships apart and created havoc and a lot of suffering, I'd never want to put someone through that, It took me long enough to feel ok about it.

― chris, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

no. no. probably. kind of.

as for being 'the third party', thats kind of different maybe? i haven't really been in that position as such, but if you want ot apportion blame in cheating, then the third party shouldn't get any really, they haven't made any commitments to anyone, i suppose they hace cheated on someone they don't know.

― gareth, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Are you being sarky, Tom?

As for would I cheat, the answer is no. I have done before (though not for 8 years, or to my last two long-term girlfriends), but the guilt is astonishingly intense, so whatever the temptations, it just wouldn't happen. I'm a flirty person by nature, and alcohol has been known to make me a bit over-flirty, but I'd hit a brick wall before I could actually BE unfaithful.

― Mark C, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Actually no Mark I wasn't - I think your postings to relationship threads are usually interesting, funny, and candid without being self- indulgent, which is a tough balance to strike. So there - your compliment for the day.

― Tom, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I have to add my name to this list for sure. I did cheat briefly and my X knew about it, because I told him. It was not probably for the reasons you would expect though as I could take sex or leave it. My X knew this as well. I think he cheated on me as well but would not tell me. ( He had more fun just going out and keeping it to himself.) My X & I weren't close anyway. He would tell me we were there cos we had no other place to go.... He was right. When my children left , so did I.

― Gale Deslongchamps, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I belive in open realtionships and recogninze that monogomy is unhealthy . i am a bad catholic.

― anthony, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

unhealthy for you anthony. don't apply universals to everyone else!

― gareth, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

well if you have a 50 per cent failure rate it would suggest something is wrong ?

― anthony, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

if you can't apply universals to everyone else what can you apply to everyone else?

― duck s, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Take this in whichever way you want - but I actually feel right now that I wouldn't WANT to cheat in any way with anyone else, ie, the thought just made me wrinkle my nose and go "like, why"? As opposed to certain OTHER relationships HA where I wouldn't consider the odd fling to mean anything. But now... there's just no desire on my part to stray. Only to GRAZE. (EH?) I think if you're stuck in a bad relationship, cheating seems more trivial and less hurtful than it would in a good one. Anyway, sod monogamy. Monopoly is where it's at. Both mono AND poly! Now if anyone can figger THAT one out...

― Sarah, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Monopoly = capitalism's answer to droit de seigneur?

― Tom, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Speak in English!

― Sarah, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

More like Belle de Seigneur. Especially if it's a long game.

― Will, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

would you? have you? have you been cheated on? would you/did you forgive the person?

1) no, never again. way too messy. 2) yes, my life has been torn apart by infidelity, I wanted to see what it was like, what one could possibly get out of it. 3) Unfortunately, yes. Discovered that I was both cheated on, and being cheated on with in the course of the same relationships (don't ask). 4) Hell no. Some things are unforgivable.

As said in the monogamy thread, it's not even the sex that's the unforgivable. It's the dishonesty and the lack of trust that destroys things.

― kate, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

No / No / Yes / Yes
But what about the dream I had on Sunday night? I'm in a relationship. I can't remember having a dream like it, it wasn't about sex. One of those that seems to take place over a long period of time, and when I woke up I was so shocked and upset that it was over I sat in the front room till dawn. Can we fall in love in our dreams? Was I cheating? Should I feel bad about it? (I don't.)

― K-reg, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Yes probably, no, no, N/A.

I have no faith in my personal morality.

― N., Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

if you can't apply universals, what can you apply to everyone else?

Suntan lotion. Liberally.

― Sterling Clover, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i have been the other woman once too but i never wanted to be. the guy told me he was single at the time, if i'd known the truth i wouldna dunnit.

i have never been cheated on sexually but i have been cheated on emotionally and thats far far worse.

― di, Thursday, 13 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

five years pass...

In this week's Savage Love, Dan Savage makes points that may arouse controversy. I agree with him whole-mindedly, if not whole-heartedly.

For the past three years I have been in a stable relationship with a great guy. Our relationship is uneventful. He is always there for me; he has never cheated on me. It is the kind of relationship that some girls dream of. The sex is okay.

But I'm only 24 and I'm feeling suffocated. A coworker and I recently started to do things socially. We have a lot in common and have a great time together. This past weekend, we admitted that we were attracted to each other. We ended up kissing. He is in a relationship and isn't thinking about leaving. So it would work out perfectly; we could be like fuck buddies.

I am feeling conflicted. If it goes further with my coworker, I don't think I would tell my boyfriend because I don't want to hurt him. But I wanted to get your feelings on getting some on the side. What are the pros and cons of cheating?

Some On The Side

The pros? Sex, excitement, variety. The cons? Discovery, breakup, hellfire. Every idiot knows those pros and cons, SOTS, including you.

But here's a pro that's rarely acknowledged: Sometimes cheating can save a long-term relationship. Sometimes only cheating makes it possible for a sexually rejected partner to stay in a relationship that's worth preserving for other good, valid reasons—like kids, for instance. And sometimes only cheating makes it possible for a person whose partner has a chronic, debilitating illness to stay put and stay sane. In these cases, cheating isn't just the right thing to do; it's the decent and honorable thing to do.

Some fuckwits, of course, piously insist that Cheating Is Always Wrong. To the CIAW crowd, I say this: Fuck you, you self-righteous Pollyanna fucktards. I am so sick of CIAW types insisting with one breath that sex and sexual exclusivity are hugely important. Even the contemplation of an affair, to say nothing of its consummation, represents an unforgivable betrayal. And then in the very next breath, CIAWers insist that sex is so unimportant, so colossally trivial, that a person should be able to go without—forever!—if their mate is unwilling or incapable.

You can't have it both ways, CIAWers. If sex is hugely important then people can't be faulted for wanting some; if it's unimportant then it shouldn't be seen as a huge betrayal when some poor fuckers, under duress, are forced to get their needs met elsewhere.

That said, SOTS, I'm not gonna give you a pass. You're not done with sex, he's not dying, you don't have kids—cheating under your particular circumstances can't be justified. Regardless of what happens with your coworker, SOTS, you need to end this relationship. You're not all that attracted to your boyfriend emotionally or physically, and you don't have the kind of entanglements—biological or durational—to rationalize having a fuck buddy. You need to do the right thing, SOTS, and break up with this guy.

― Jesse, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:07 (nineteen years ago)

SIX YEARS

― David R., Monday, 12 March 2007 20:15 (nineteen years ago)

so what do you not agree with?

― Ms Misery, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:15 (nineteen years ago)

Nope.
I once made out with a girl I didn't know well and felt terrible....and I wasn't dating anyone.

If it happened to me, I'd probably end it instantly and I might end up with a misdemeanor conviction if I knew the guy personally.
MIGHT. It would depend on how successful was in the beating and if it was reported.

― Windy G Moisture, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:16 (nineteen years ago)

"how successful was in the beating"?

― s1ocki, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:18 (nineteen years ago)

http://daria.no/skole/doc/html/7001.doc-filer/image004.jpg

― kenan, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:21 (nineteen years ago)

haha dave that was my first thought too

― strongohulkington, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:21 (nineteen years ago)

six years and many broken hearts

― strongohulkington, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:22 (nineteen years ago)

Umm Savage doesn't mention whether the hypothetical chronically ill sex-rejector here knows the partner is looking elsewhere, which makes most of his logic pretty idiotic. If the partner knows and understands, it's not really cheating. If the partner doesn't know and would really, really mind, I'm not sure how you're saving your relationship any more than you would be under normal circumstances. (Sure, maybe getting it elsewhere makes it possible for you to say in this relationship, but surely the point of the other person really, really minding is that if you're getting it elsewhere then they'd rather you not be in the relationship.)

― nabisco, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:22 (nineteen years ago)

It's hard for me to reconcile what I believe about circumstances under which cheating would be OK with how I feel, which kind of goes, "OMG! CHEATING! NO NO NO!"

But if I were deathly ill and couldn't have sex, I think my partner should not suffer. However, I would not want to know. Being lied to can be very kind. And I also agree that there are good reasons to stay together, even while cheating. Maintaining an emotional bond, even in the absence of a sexual attraction, for example. Or for the kids, potentially.

― Jesse, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:40 (nineteen years ago)

Nabisco, is it really surprising to see Savage pull out some bonged-out 2nd-semester-freshman logic on sexual justification?

― HI DERE, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:42 (nineteen years ago)

Jesse you're running up on a vast epistemological problem, which is that your partner cannot know whether you want to know without, like, being told.

But thankfully now it's on the internet, which meant that if you really do become deathly ill and cannot have sex, then your partner can do whatever and not consider it cheating. That post is like a living will allowance for sex.

Unless some years pass and maybe you feel differently, in which case this person would have to ask again.

― nabisco, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:44 (nineteen years ago)

I cheated on one girl. Several times. Once with two girls at the same time.
I don't regret it.
I know for a fact she'd cheated on me twice before I ever did it to her and it was really the only way I could justify staying with her because I really liked her. We dated for 4 years.

About 6 months after I broke up with her I asked her about the cheating. That was a fun conversation.
Seriosuly - it was fun!

― The Cursed Return of the Dastardly Thermo Thinwall, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:45 (nineteen years ago)

I think in the case of any cheating, the other person better do me the favor of 1.not making a habit of it, and 2. keeping it a complete, undetectable secret.

― Jesse, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:46 (nineteen years ago)

xpost I dunno Dan, usually Savage either makes some rudimentary level of sense or is just visibly funny / contrarian / whatever -- this one seems like he thinks he's making sense and he's just, like, not. Seriously, though, Living Sex Wills, they'd clear everything up. (Haha plus if you could effectively negotiate one with somebody then clearly the two of you can work your way through anything.)

― nabisco, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:46 (nineteen years ago)

3. End with a triple lutz/triple salchow combination

― HI DERE, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:47 (nineteen years ago)

...on my schlong

― Jesse, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:48 (nineteen years ago)

Maybe I just don't understand this sexual exclusivity thing, but if I was confronted with an ultimatum like "You can only ever put your penis in me, and only me, forever" I'd be GONE.

― elmo argonaut, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:49 (nineteen years ago)

I'm currently imagining a really funny scene with a bride, and priest, and Elmo going "wait wait wait, hold up, I'm agreeing to WHAT???"

― nabisco, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:51 (nineteen years ago)

Maybe that ultimatum should be in the vows, for the sake of clarity.

― elmo argonaut, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:51 (nineteen years ago)

living sex wills = honest communication, right?

― Ms Misery, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:52 (nineteen years ago)

I dunno Dan, usually Savage either makes some rudimentary level of sense or is just visibly funny / contrarian / whatever -- this one seems like he thinks he's making sense and he's just, like, not

Pretty much every single one of Savage's columns come across to me as illogical stand-up routines predicated on the fact the most normal people either A) would never condone or countenance the situation being discussed; or B) would have a blatantly obvious reaction to the situation and the person is looking for self-justification to make the "wrong" decision from an expert. I don't think it works as a real advice column (which is fine, btw; I think his column is really fun to read).

― HI DERE, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:52 (nineteen years ago)

I'm currently imagining a really funny scene with a bride, and priest, and Elmo going "wait wait wait, hold up, I'm agreeing to WHAT???"

nabisco on Monday, March 12, 2007 1:51 PM (57 seconds ago)

this works on a lot of levels

― river wolf, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:53 (nineteen years ago)

I'm currently imagining a really funny scene with a bride, and priest, and Elmo going "wait wait wait, hold up, I'm agreeing to WHAT???"

This is what my brain says. And my penis. Makes no sense.

But my tender, traditional heart (and conscience) doesn't agree.

I'm kind of conflicted, but I sort of think of my addiction to monogamy as a hangup.

― Jesse, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:55 (nineteen years ago)

Um, I think I really quoted the wrong thing!

― Jesse, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:58 (nineteen years ago)

Maybe I just don't understand this sexual exclusivity thing, but if I was confronted with an ultimatum like "You can only ever put your penis in me, and only me, forever" I'd be GONE.

That's what I meant!!

― Jesse, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:59 (nineteen years ago)

Wait, did Nabisco mean our elmo or Seesame Street Elmo? Because I think I just went to a very awful, wrong place.

http://msnbcmedia.msn.com/j/msnbc/Components/Photos/060915/060915_elmo_vmed.widec.jpg

"Elmo doesn't want to give up the punani smorgasboard!"

― HI DERE, Monday, 12 March 2007 20:59 (nineteen years ago)

fuck you dan

― Mr. Que, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:00 (nineteen years ago)

YOU ARE EVIL

― Mr. Que, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:00 (nineteen years ago)

http://nycphoto.interactivenyc.com/archives/photos/BEA/creatures/elmo-thumb.jpg

"Fuck marriage, Elmo wants the nappy dugout!"

― HI DERE, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:03 (nineteen years ago)

FUCK YOU

― Mr. Que, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:05 (nineteen years ago)

I AM LAUGHING SO HARD

― Mr. Que, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:05 (nineteen years ago)

I wholeheartedly endorse the debasement of this beloved children's TV character.

― elmo argonaut, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:05 (nineteen years ago)

nappy dugout?

are you shitting me?

what the fuck?

― David R., Monday, 12 March 2007 21:06 (nineteen years ago)

To think that a thread with such a lovely beginning would end up like this...

― Nicole, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:07 (nineteen years ago)

i never mentioned this but elmo was one of the girls who ended up cheating on me

― strongohulkington, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:11 (nineteen years ago)

wait, WHAT?

― elmo argonaut, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:12 (nineteen years ago)

surely I would have remembered!

― elmo argonaut, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:12 (nineteen years ago)

not you, you egomaniac

― strongohulkington, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:12 (nineteen years ago)

never cheated. (ok maybe once, sorta, in like, the eleventh grade)

I've been cheated on twice. Both incidences happened in the last two years and the two girls ARE ROOMATES NOW. whores of a feather, etc...

― will, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:21 (nineteen years ago)

That sounds like a really depressing version of Three's Company.

― Nicole, Monday, 12 March 2007 21:23 (nineteen years ago)

Never cheated/been cheated on. Well, kind of once, high school BF broke up w/me to try out a really revolting hippie dipshit girl who called herself "fairy mermaid child." (She was not any of the three.) Foolishly I started dating him after he got sick of her. My excuse is I was 16. I still really regret that, I still have dreams about the whole thing now 7 years down the road & many boyfriends between.

I just hate cheating, that's all. Even other people's, my friend fucked a married guy and it kind of made me lose respect for her. You shouldn't lure people out of their relationships any more than you should cheat.

― Abbott, Monday, 12 March 2007 23:04 (nineteen years ago)

Daver, you can't tell me you've never heard/read "nappy dugout" before!

― HI DERE, Monday, 12 March 2007 23:17 (nineteen years ago)

http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c163/wvferrell/mrfurley6bmp_1.jpg

― will, Monday, 12 March 2007 23:35 (nineteen years ago)

my outlook on this whole issue has changed so drastically in the last five years.

― ^@^, Monday, 12 March 2007 23:51 (nineteen years ago)

'read it in my journal' or 'read it in my LIVEjournal'?

― milo z, Tuesday, 13 March 2007 00:00 (nineteen years ago)

Chance are if I am in a relationship with you I will cheat on you.

― Kate, non masonic, Tuesday, 13 March 2007 00:02 (nineteen years ago)

http://www.coldhardflash.com/images/homestar-cheat.jpg

― Abbott, Tuesday, 13 March 2007 00:06 (nineteen years ago)

http://whatintarnation.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2006/07/thecheat.jpg

― Abbott, Tuesday, 13 March 2007 00:07 (nineteen years ago)

http://www.hrwiki.org/images/thumb/6/64/cheat_commandos01.png/220px-cheat_commandos01.png

― Abbott, Tuesday, 13 March 2007 00:08 (nineteen years ago)

...and put to bed for another 5 years.

― Jesse, Tuesday, 13 March 2007 07:05 (nineteen years ago)

(By the way, I am not jess, who started this thread.

― Jesse, Tuesday, 13 March 2007 07:34 (nineteen years ago)

)

― Jesse, Tuesday, 13 March 2007 07:34 (nineteen years ago)

Abbott made this thread good.

― g-kit, Tuesday, 13 March 2007 11:28 (nineteen years ago)

seven years pass...

Cheating is vile.

― ∞, Wednesday, 9 July 2014 20:57 (eleven years ago)

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