anyone a member of a book club? C or D?

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im thinking of joining one, just dont know which to go for. are they worth it? are they fun?

reader, Sunday, 12 June 2005 16:41 (twenty years ago)

I'm a member of one, and it's been fun. I was already friends with the people there before the club started though, so our meetings usually include going out for a pint and other informal stuff. But the discussions themselves have been interesting too, and being in the club has made read some books I would never have grabbed otherwise.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Sunday, 12 June 2005 16:57 (twenty years ago)

I was for a semester freshman year but then we all took too many difficult classes the next fall (my extra course was a lit course anyway) and didn't make time to pick or read a book. It was really fun while it lasted though, it was better than any class I've ever had because the people in it had such interesting things to say.

Maria (Maria), Sunday, 12 June 2005 17:02 (twenty years ago)

oh yeah and like Tuomas I was already friends with the people (about half, anyway). If I wanted to do another one I would just recruit informally among my friends rather than trying to find an established one.

Maria (Maria), Sunday, 12 June 2005 17:03 (twenty years ago)

The funny thing was, the way people reacted to certain books made me find out more about their personalities. For example, one girl usually agreed with me on interpreting the books we read, while another one often disagreed with us two. Pretty soon I realized this was because the first girl was a romantic at heart - like me - whereas the other was a bit of a cynic.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Sunday, 12 June 2005 17:07 (twenty years ago)

tuomas in using book clubs to get ass shocker

caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Sunday, 12 June 2005 17:08 (twenty years ago)

Er, no! It was just interesting. And I ended up living (as flatmates, not a couple) with the more cynical girl anyway, and she's one of my best friends now.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Sunday, 12 June 2005 17:11 (twenty years ago)

But yeah, reading books is cool too. You should certainly try it.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Sunday, 12 June 2005 17:12 (twenty years ago)

i love reading books! i want to have a book club

caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Sunday, 12 June 2005 17:14 (twenty years ago)

I was in a pretty large one for a while in Leicester. Pretty middlebrow. Mostly older women - like 15% male, and probably 75% over 60. That doesn't mean they weren't interesting - much the most intelligent person there was a woman of 65 or 70, a retired philosophy professor. However, if you are younger than that, that wouldn't be a great group for social contacts. The depth of analysis varied widely. It was interesting enough, something to do, but of limited satisfaction for me.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Sunday, 12 June 2005 17:19 (twenty years ago)

remember the ilx book club? i think i read 2 books for it but had nothing intelligent to say. other people said really interesting stuff but i don't remember what happened to it, was it just that participation was low? it was a neat idea, anyway.

Maria (Maria), Sunday, 12 June 2005 17:39 (twenty years ago)

Yeah, it fizzled out, predictably.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Sunday, 12 June 2005 18:56 (twenty years ago)

Dan and I had a good time chatting over Invisible Man, I recall.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 12 June 2005 19:03 (twenty years ago)

I read two books with the ILB book club (Flaubert's Parrot and Sentimental Education). After that it seemed to fizzle out, or anyway, I don't remember if there was ever a third book. Now I'm in a "real life" book club that meets monthly. I like it pretty well - discussing books is a nice way to get to know people.

o. nate (onate), Sunday, 12 June 2005 22:16 (twenty years ago)

this seems like school to me

hstencil (hstencil), Sunday, 12 June 2005 22:18 (twenty years ago)

I read Flaubert's Parrot for the ilb book club. I would have gotten a lot more out of it had I read Flaubert first. I think it was kind of a weird choice.

Otherwise, never been in a book club. Always wanted to though.

mcd (mcd), Sunday, 12 June 2005 22:21 (twenty years ago)

It's not really like school, because for example people freely admit when they haven't read the book, and though there may be a little element of trying-to-impress-the-hotties-with-my-knowledge-of-literature involved, it's much less formal than a typical discussion class.

o. nate (onate), Monday, 13 June 2005 00:48 (twenty years ago)

that sounds like school to me

hstencil (hstencil), Monday, 13 June 2005 00:58 (twenty years ago)

I read two books with the ILB book club (Flaubert's Parrot

why does no one tell me these things? I tried to read F'sP a few years back (after the bar exam?) but didn't get very far (shocker)

gabbneb (gabbneb), Monday, 13 June 2005 03:12 (twenty years ago)

I think ILX should be more like school

gabbneb (gabbneb), Monday, 13 June 2005 03:12 (twenty years ago)

you flunk

hstencil (hstencil), Monday, 13 June 2005 03:13 (twenty years ago)

what would ILX offer degrees in?
m.

msp (mspa), Monday, 13 June 2005 03:50 (twenty years ago)

two years pass...

I have a book club with two of my friends. I think keeping it small is key, otherwise someone goes Stalinist on everyone.

Last time we accidentally just got blazed and played Mario Kart, though.

roxymuzak, Saturday, 22 September 2007 20:27 (eighteen years ago)

Stoners. What were you reading?

Ned Raggett, Saturday, 22 September 2007 20:28 (eighteen years ago)

French Lieutenant's Woman.

Last time we did Light in August.

We have only had two.

roxymuzak, Saturday, 22 September 2007 20:29 (eighteen years ago)

You need to be like me and read three books a week and then write about them on my blog and forget about them. Oops.

Ned Raggett, Saturday, 22 September 2007 20:32 (eighteen years ago)

Ha, lately I read nothing like that a week, because my name is Emily, and I am addicted to the internet.

roxymuzak, Saturday, 22 September 2007 20:50 (eighteen years ago)

Ned you do not have time to read even one book a week in between posting to ILX and blogging. I'm calling bullshit.

Matt DC, Sunday, 23 September 2007 12:33 (eighteen years ago)

It helps to be single, I think, if you want to read a copious amount of books. That's the excuse I make: married and one kid, you can't read that much anymore, unless you focus on *trashy* books. I'm lucky if I can finish a book in two weeks.

French Lt's Woman ist VERY rad! Read it in last year of high school for English class.

stevienixed, Sunday, 23 September 2007 13:05 (eighteen years ago)

Ned you do not have time to read even one book a week in between posting to ILX and blogging. I'm calling bullshit.

And how wrong you are!

Ned Raggett, Sunday, 23 September 2007 13:14 (eighteen years ago)

I mean, c'mon Matt, I *work at a library* -- this is like if I said I worked at Tower before it died and never got around to hearing any music there.

Ned Raggett, Sunday, 23 September 2007 13:15 (eighteen years ago)

Yes -- it was rad! But controversial, in our group.

roxymuzak, Sunday, 23 September 2007 16:19 (eighteen years ago)

one month passes...

I'm liking being in a book club for a few reasons

1) Forces me to finish books by a certain date

2) Alleviates that lonely "Oh well, I've finished the book and have no one to talk about it with," feeling

3) Drinks with some good people who I might not be hanging out with otherwise

Hurting 2, Wednesday, 31 October 2007 05:20 (eighteen years ago)

Yep. LOVE IT! Get to read and discuss cool books, sometimes ones I would never have picked for myself. The best thing about my book club is it is at my local library, thus there are all kinds of different people bringing their interpretations to the discussion. Currently reading Kafka on the Shore by Murakami. I'm loving this book too, really looking forward to the meeting.

gem, Wednesday, 31 October 2007 11:28 (eighteen years ago)

i like my book club, although half the time i have to keep saying 'LETS TALK ABOUT THE BOOK' cos everyone seems to get distracted or not want to talk about it. always one person each month doesnt bother finishing it or like it, which is fair enough as you cant like everything. but at least TRY! do other ppl with book clubs take polls to see what everyone likes so they can pick something likely to be more popular?

titchyschneiderMk2, Wednesday, 31 October 2007 23:43 (eighteen years ago)

We just take turns picking. I've only just done my second book with this club, but they've been at it for a while. Everyone else does give some input into the choices though. For example, my pick was Rabbit Run, before that someone picked the New York Trilogy, and apparently there had been a bunch of other books about lonely men too, so we all strongly discouraged the next person from picking The Moviegoer (which I had read anyway). Instead we're going to read Dog Soldiers, which is not exactly light, but at least it's not quietly sad.

Hurting 2, Thursday, 1 November 2007 02:09 (eighteen years ago)


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