going out only with one friend to bars and clubs

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as opposed to going out with more than one...

― um, Friday, 24 June 2005 15:40 (twenty years ago)

i find going out with 6 to be better than going out with 5

― Sociah T Azzahole (blueski), Friday, 24 June 2005 15:49 (twenty years ago)

Almost posting "what is this goddamn fucking retarded shit?" and then deciding not to post anything at all — C/D?

― Rock Hardy (Rock Hardy), Friday, 24 June 2005 15:51 (twenty years ago)

Fuck off Rock Hardy.

― Low, Friday, 24 June 2005 15:54 (twenty years ago)

going out to clubs on your own = CLASSIC

going out to bars on you own = DUD(except in daytime, when it dont matter)

going out to clubs with only one friend = DUD, but sometimes has to be done.

going out to bars with only one friend = C or D depending on friend.

― Tannenbaum Schmidt (Nik), Friday, 24 June 2005 15:54 (twenty years ago)

Why would it matter how many friends you are with?

― Allyzay knows a little German (allyzay), Friday, 24 June 2005 15:55 (twenty years ago)

Um, isn't this what's called A DATE?

― n/a (Nick A.), Friday, 24 June 2005 15:56 (twenty years ago)

Numbers don't matter as much as gender distribution.

― Jimmy Mod Is Great At Getting Us Into Trouble (ModJ), Friday, 24 June 2005 15:57 (twenty years ago)

yeah check this. too common

think tannenbaum schmidt hit the nail on the head. except its mostly always has to be done. sort of depends why you want to go to clubs really, what are your objectives etc

― ambrose (ambrose), Friday, 24 June 2005 16:39 (twenty years ago)

Um, isn't this what's called A DATE?

not if you are both on the same team.

― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Friday, 24 June 2005 17:22 (twenty years ago)

then it's a man-date.

― teeny (teeny), Friday, 24 June 2005 17:23 (twenty years ago)

no, then it's baseball:

http://www.baseballhalloffame.org/education/units/images/teammates.jpg

― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Friday, 24 June 2005 17:25 (twenty years ago)

tannenbaum is correct, there's a huge difference between going to a bar alone and going to a club alone. dancing by yourself isn't all that different from dancing with a couple of friends nearby, whereas sitting by yourself at a bar is pretty DUD compared to having friends to chat with.

― J.D. (Justyn Dillingham), Friday, 24 June 2005 21:26 (twenty years ago)

so im going out with one friend to a club and this post has made me feel like its a dud thing to do. oh dear. whats wrong with two guys going out together?! i guess i shd admit that were on the pull (or perhaps that should be aspirational pull) but i dunno, i hope it doesnt look that bad. maybe its diff depending on whether youre in the UK or US

― um, Saturday, 25 June 2005 16:42 (twenty years ago)

nothing wrong with two guys going out to a club or bar together - i dont get why people are pouring scorn on it above! its totally cool. of course, bigger groups are better sometimes, but its cool to just go out with one mate too.

― ppp, Saturday, 25 June 2005 16:59 (twenty years ago)

even more classic if the two dudes are having a bromance!

If I'm with just one other girl I kind of feel like we're having a GIRLS NIGHT OUT, but I suppose it's still classic. Unless you are both being boring. Classic all around, there.

― gunther heartymeal (keckles), Saturday, 25 June 2005 17:02 (twenty years ago)

pub alone!!

i take a book and read it in the corner

if my friends turn up HURRAH
if not HURRAH

i have never tried this at a "club" as i find their light-to-read-by is generally unsatisfactory

― mark s (mark s), Saturday, 25 June 2005 17:11 (twenty years ago)

I have very rarely gone out to either with more than one or two other people. And any time I have been in a group of more than four it has been someone else who brought the group along.

In pubs and clubs I see these gangs of sometimes nearly ten people, and it is just an alien life.

I imagine that bigger groups just kind of talk among themselves. That is, they don't chat to people outside the group mostly. I dunno. Maybe they do. Maybe the world is just a fucking huge group of people and I haven't realised.

― Eyeball Kicks (Eyeball Kicks), Saturday, 25 June 2005 17:56 (twenty years ago)

i guess the point of this post would be 'pulling in pairs - C or D'

not sure if pulling in clubs is actually that great anyway

― ppp, Saturday, 25 June 2005 17:59 (twenty years ago)

I love going out with one friend, you can devote all your attention to them.

― rainy (rainy), Saturday, 25 June 2005 23:01 (twenty years ago)

ok, this was kinda uneventful. great night for bonding with my friend, had a really good laugh, exchanged gossip, revealed secrets etc etc, we got on great, we just didnt approach any girls! oh dear. im shit at doing that in loud places, it feels so forced, or rather i feel forced to do it, so i cant, plus im just shit at it so n/m. anyway thats hardly an ILE rarity-admission so ill leave it at that.

― um, Sunday, 26 June 2005 01:22 (twenty years ago)

Here is my tip: to begin with chat to girls you don't find that attractive. You will discover how easy it is to chat to girls. Or chat to boys! Try it! How open the world is to chatting! It is fun.

― Eyeball Kicks (Eyeball Kicks), Sunday, 26 June 2005 01:32 (twenty years ago)

ok, i will try that! i can do that anyway in general, just not in places where i think im 'supposed' to chat girls up. or in a place where going up to chat to them is usually instantly seen as 'chating them up' rather than just chatting. im a self conscious fuxor. but i spose testing it out on girls in bars i never want to shag would be helpful for starters.

― um, Sunday, 26 June 2005 01:37 (twenty years ago)

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going out only with one friend to bars and clubs - C or D?