when your ex seems to kinda hate you and you pine madly for her even though you broke it off

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i broke it off, i was unhappy, she says she wasnt totally happy either but i think she was happier than i was, now she thinks i totally just used her or whatever, so seems to have a lot of resentment or anger towards me, we still email and text occasionally but its all bollocks, and kinda empty, it about nothing in particular, and i cant really keep in contact if its going to be like this. oh well, i suppose thats what happens, you tell someone why youre breaking it off, and you have to give reasons, and it cant always be right and not hurt people. i wish we were still friends though, i miss her a lot. only been about 3 months since breaking up though, so maybe it will come with time. maybe it wont though. sorry if this doesnt make sense.

― sexless, Wednesday, 6 July 2005 20:37 (twenty years ago)

get a new one

― Tigerstyle Shamanic Vision Quester (sexyDancer), Wednesday, 6 July 2005 20:41 (twenty years ago)

classic

― dahlin (dahlin), Wednesday, 6 July 2005 20:44 (twenty years ago)

er, thanks. i think.

― sexless, Wednesday, 6 July 2005 20:58 (twenty years ago)

Dud.

― Ian Riese-Moraine has been xeroxed into a conduit! (Eastern Mantra), Wednesday, 6 July 2005 23:17 (twenty years ago)

yeah, complete dud

― shine headlights on me (electricsound), Wednesday, 6 July 2005 23:17 (twenty years ago)

classic for the lady b/c she feels validated and vindicated, dud for the dude b/c it sucks

― matlewis, Thursday, 7 July 2005 02:04 (twenty years ago)

im not sure if she does feel validated and vindicated, maybe shes pissed off at me still for ending it with her. maybe me telling her i miss her would be vindicating, although im trying not to say stuff like that too much as i dont want to confuse the feelings. still dud for me though, yeah.

― sexless, Thursday, 7 July 2005 10:01 (twenty years ago)

Look, mate. Emotions are funny. My ex and I broke up over a year ago. In fact, it might just be a year to the week. But when the explosions started going off in Central London, half a block from his house, I *RAN* up there as fast as my legs could carry me to make sure his house wasn't blown up.

― MIS Information (kate), Thursday, 7 July 2005 10:03 (twenty years ago)

I think that if she hates you theres still feelings on her side, if she doesn't care anymore and is getting on with her life, it's over.

― The New and Improved / Kate (papa november), Thursday, 7 July 2005 10:05 (twenty years ago)

i know its over, i still care though and wish we were still friends. i suppose thats idealistic though, isnt it. cant always work out like that. prob too early to say too

― sexless, Thursday, 7 July 2005 10:48 (twenty years ago)

Let's see you say *you* broke it off and you're calling yourself 'sexless'?

Uh, yeah. tough luck.

― Miss Misery (thatgirl), Thursday, 7 July 2005 12:59 (twenty years ago)

WANG DANG DUDDLE

― David R. (popshots75`), Thursday, 7 July 2005 13:43 (twenty years ago)

you just haven't earned it yet, baby.

― ai lien (kold_krush), Thursday, 7 July 2005 14:31 (twenty years ago)

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