"Christian" adoption agency rejects Catholic parents; claims incompatible faiths

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Adoption Agency Rejects Catholic Parents

Fri Jul 15, 3:30 PM ET

A Christian adoption agency that receives money from Choose Life license plate fees said it does not place children with Roman Catholic couples because their religion conflicts with the agency's "Statement of Faith."

Bethany Christian Services stated the policy in a letter to a Jackson couple this month, and another Mississippi couple said they were rejected for the same reason last year.

"It has been our understanding that Catholicism does not agree with our Statement of Faith," Bethany's state director Karen Stewart wrote. "Our practice to not accept applications from Catholics was an effort to be good stewards of an adoptive applicant's time, money and emotional energy."

Sandy and Robert Steadman, who learned of Bethany's decision in a July 8 letter, said their priest told them the faith statement did not conflict with Catholic teaching.

Loria Williams of nearby Ridgeland said she and her husband, Wes, had a similar experience when they started to pursue an adoption in September 2004.

"I can't believe an agency that's nationwide would act like this," Loria Williams said. "There was an agency who was Christian based but wasn't willing to help people across the board."

Bethany, based in Grand Rapids, Mich., has 75 offices in 30 states, including three in Mississippi. The offices are independently incorporated and are affiliated with various religions, spokesman John Van Valkenburg said from the agency headquarters. He couldn't say whether any were Catholic-affiliated.

He said the Jackson office is affiliated with the Presbyterian Church of America.

"They included this practice of not including Catholics," Van Valkenburg said Friday.

Stewart told the Jackson Clarion-Ledger that Bethany's board will review its policy, but she didn't specify which aspects will be addressed.

The agency's Web site says all Bethany staff and adoptive applicants personally agree with the faith statement, which describes belief in the Christian Church and the Scripture. It does not refer to any specific branches of Christianity.

"As the Savior, Jesus takes away the sins of the world," the statement says in part. "Jesus is the one in whom we are called to put our hope, our only hope for forgiveness of sin and for reconciliation with God and with one another."

Sandy Steadman said she was hurt and disappointed that Bethany received funds from the Choose Life car license plates. "I know of a lot of Catholics who get those tags," she said.

She added: "If it's OK to accept our money, it should be OK to open your home to us as a family."

Bethany is one of 24 adoption and pregnancy counseling centers in Mississippi that receives money from the sale of Choose Life tags, a special plate that motorists can obtain with an extra fee.

Of $244,000 generated by the sale of the tags in 2004, Bethany received $7,053, said Geraldine Gray, treasurer of Choose Life Mississippi, which distributes the money.

"It is troubling to me if they are discriminating based on only the Catholics," Gray said.

The Bethany spokesman, van Valkenburg, said the offices in Mississippi do not receive any public money, but that some offices in other states do, for example, because they are involved in foster care.

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On the Net:

Bethany Christian Services, http://www.bethany.org

kingfish (Kingfish), Friday, 15 July 2005 23:02 (twenty years ago)

Welcome to Mississippi, you goddamn motherfucking papists.

Rock Hardy (Rock Hardy), Friday, 15 July 2005 23:13 (twenty years ago)

except that this is a michigan-based nationwide company.

kingfish (Kingfish), Friday, 15 July 2005 23:14 (twenty years ago)

Yeah, I know, but the rejected couples are in MS.

Rock Hardy (Rock Hardy), Friday, 15 July 2005 23:14 (twenty years ago)

HERITAGE NOT HATE GRAAAAAAHHHH

Rock Hardy (Rock Hardy), Friday, 15 July 2005 23:15 (twenty years ago)

is this really a shock? my mom still tells the story of how, as a teenager, she wasnt allowed to be the baton twirly girl at the front of some parade because shes catholic. I KNOW ITS NOT THE SAME THING.
peeps be hatin' catholism. at home we say DONT FUCK WITH THE FAMILY.

sunny successor (i dont get dirty with the bodies once i kill 'em) (katharine), Friday, 15 July 2005 23:21 (twenty years ago)

Yeah, protestants discriminate against Catholics, that's only been going on for, what, 400 years now?

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Friday, 15 July 2005 23:28 (twenty years ago)

i wonder how they feel about jews who want kids!

tehresa (tehresa), Friday, 15 July 2005 23:33 (twenty years ago)

(not that they'd really seek out kids from a christian agency, but still...)

tehresa (tehresa), Friday, 15 July 2005 23:34 (twenty years ago)

Yeah, protestants discriminate against Catholics, that's only been going on for, what, 400 years now

this is true, but it's a bit dramatic when it's that overt in modern america and when the group is taking money from the folks it's discriminating against.

Narcissism of Small Differences, indeed. Doesn't matter if you're also very conservative christian(conservative enough to pony up the dough for the dumb license plate); you have to be a christian of the right subdivision for them to accept you.

kingfish (Kingfish), Saturday, 16 July 2005 00:30 (twenty years ago)

"Yeah, protestants discriminate against Catholics, that's only been going on for, what, 400 years now?"

perhaps to be fair, we could say that both protestants and catholics have been INSANELY unchristian to eachother for quite a long time.

this ain't entirely a shocker, but it's pretty depressing. ugh.
m.

msp (mspa), Saturday, 16 July 2005 03:07 (twenty years ago)

http://www.mactonnies.com/badday.gif

latebloomer: lazy r people (latebloomer), Saturday, 16 July 2005 03:37 (twenty years ago)

this kind of thing pisses me off. opens up childhood shit.

latebloomer: lazy r people (latebloomer), Saturday, 16 July 2005 03:38 (twenty years ago)

yeah, well, that gif opens up the time i smashed my face in on a keyboard shit.

sunny successor (he hates my guts, we had a fight) (katharine), Saturday, 16 July 2005 16:04 (twenty years ago)

It's appalling and all, but I also kinda think that the more this shit happens, the more people might remember why we have the goddamn First Amendment. Do any Catholics really want zealots like these Bethany dipshits driving this boat, without some very very strict limits on church-state affiliation?

gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Saturday, 16 July 2005 17:00 (twenty years ago)

not surprised. grew up in an evangelical christian home, my mom was catholic for most her life and the move to christianity is seen as a very significant event

pete d, Sunday, 17 July 2005 06:00 (twenty years ago)

huh?

do you mean the move to a particular sect from another?

kingfish (Kingfish), Sunday, 17 July 2005 06:02 (twenty years ago)

well that's the thing, you'd think they were entirely different religions

pete d, Sunday, 17 July 2005 06:19 (twenty years ago)

workweek bump

kingfish (Kingfish), Monday, 18 July 2005 23:54 (twenty years ago)

conservative enough to pony up the dough for the dumb license plate

WHY THE FUCK does the government even have this license plate? Do they have a "PRO CHOICE" one too? WTF?

kyle (akmonday), Tuesday, 19 July 2005 01:05 (twenty years ago)


Of course shit like this backfires. I'm torn between feeling irritated by it and feeling that my suspicions are confirmed.

gerald r (dymaxia), Tuesday, 19 July 2005 01:11 (twenty years ago)


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