I've always thought British students were arseholes but I've recently started a year's exchange at an American university and have quickly realised that my compatriats back home have NOTHING on this lot.
Every single representation portrayed in every single American college movie is accurate and not in any way, as I had always assumed, a grossly exaggerated series of stereotypes.
Maybe I shouldn't have been so naive to the realities of this undertaking but still.....
The social scene, such as it is, consists of standing around in someone's apartment/house/dorm, drinking as much as you can, as quickly as possible with, so it seems, the aim of inducing vomiting or unconsciousness.
Don't get me wrong, I like a drink as much as the next guy (assuming the next guy isn't Shane McGowan) but I prefer them to be sipped gently in a controlled and measured fashion, as a supplement to conversation. If drunkenness results, as it often does, then it's a happy consequence of an extended period of sweetly lubricated socialising. I'm 21 and English goddamnit but I feel about 40 compared to these creatures. The novelty of drinking wore off about five years ago, the rebellious side of it got tired about the same time.
I long for some real people.....
Venting finished. Thank you so much for your patience.
― Upto11, Monday, 5 September 2005 21:46 (twenty years ago)
http://ilx.wh3rd.net/newanswers.php?board=86
― OMG it's ILX!, Monday, 5 September 2005 21:52 (twenty years ago)
― don't be jerk, this is china (FE7), Monday, 5 September 2005 21:56 (twenty years ago)
The novelty of drinking wore off about five years ago
I pity you.
― I Ain't No Addict, Whoever Heard of a Junkie as Old as Me? (noodle vague), Monday, 5 September 2005 21:57 (twenty years ago)
― Rockist_Scientist (RSLaRue), Monday, 5 September 2005 22:04 (twenty years ago)
more like scarface am i rite choo fuckin cockaroach?
― lololololololol, Monday, 5 September 2005 22:16 (twenty years ago)
― pr00de descending a staircase (pr00de), Monday, 5 September 2005 22:21 (twenty years ago)
― Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Monday, 5 September 2005 22:29 (twenty years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 5 September 2005 22:35 (twenty years ago)
― internet comedy novice (Matt Chesnut), Monday, 5 September 2005 22:36 (twenty years ago)
getting angry and telling them off was one option, but i decided to leave them alone and just feel free to make more noise myself. everybody wins!
― fortunate hazel (f. hazel), Monday, 5 September 2005 22:47 (twenty years ago)
― mike h. (mike h.), Monday, 5 September 2005 23:50 (twenty years ago)
― Peter Densmore (pbnmyj), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 03:12 (twenty years ago)
― Peter Densmore (pbnmyj), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 03:15 (twenty years ago)
hahahaha i imagine you do.
im 22, and finishing my final semester at a big american public university. this week past, the first week of classes, really opened my eyes to something. its been said that the generation entering college in america right now is the most supervised generation in human history. after this week, id have to agree. ive never seen a bigger group of souless consumers in clever t-shirts and blonde streaked hair. these people watch Laguna Beach without cringing. now, this could be revisionist history on my part, but when i entered school in 2000, just six years ago, people were a little different. there was at least a glimmer of fight in the kids. now its all gone, its everyone for himself because I'M THE MOST IMPORTANT KID EVER! MY PARENTS KNEW IT AND SO DO I! IM GONNA BE SUCH A HUGE FUCKING SUCCESS! etc. etc.
the paradox is that individuality is their only collective thought, which renders them all about as interesting as grains of sand.
so, upto11, i feel your pain.
― JD from CDepot, Tuesday, 6 September 2005 03:42 (twenty years ago)
― Homosexual II (Homosexual II), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 03:42 (twenty years ago)
― pr00de descending a staircase (pr00de), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 04:02 (twenty years ago)
― pr00de descending a staircase (pr00de), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 04:03 (twenty years ago)
and people love the show and the characters, which baffles me, but not nearly as much as it should.
― JD from CDepot, Tuesday, 6 September 2005 04:05 (twenty years ago)
― pr00de descending a staircase (pr00de), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 04:06 (twenty years ago)
― JD from CDepot, Tuesday, 6 September 2005 04:09 (twenty years ago)
― Peter Densmore (pbnmyj), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 04:35 (twenty years ago)
― pr00de, where's my car? (pr00de), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 04:36 (twenty years ago)
― k t (matchstick), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 05:14 (twenty years ago)
hahaha, no, it's not like that. i mean, to begin with this house doesn't have any neighbors. it's on a tiny cul-de-sac and across the street is a day school. my thoughts were more along the lines of "well, if it's 3am and i feel like listening to an album or watching a movie, i'm going to go ahead and do it."
― fortunate hazel (f. hazel), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 05:23 (twenty years ago)
― Trayce (trayce), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 05:56 (twenty years ago)
― jimmy glass (electricsound), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 05:57 (twenty years ago)
― J-rock (Julien Sandiford), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 06:08 (twenty years ago)
― Trayce (trayce), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 06:20 (twenty years ago)
― Cunga (Cunga), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 06:22 (twenty years ago)
― Bombed Out and Depleted / Kate (papa november), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 06:25 (twenty years ago)
(only half joking here)
― Trayce (trayce), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 06:30 (twenty years ago)
I think we can safely say this is revisionist history. ;-) It's always been like that. I remember a bunch of students at my university swigging beer and doing pot. It was all about discovering freedom, being away from your parents. I was never really bothered at that age. Maybe I should've, I discovered it about five years later.
― nathalie's pocket revolution (stevie nixed), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 06:39 (twenty years ago)
now, this could be revisionist history on my part, but when i entered school in 2000, just six years ago, people were a little different. there was at least a glimmer of fight in the kids.
I think there is a bit of truth in that statement. Rising tuition fees, overprotective parents plus incredible amounts of pressure, beginning early in high school, have changed the nature of the average incoming undergraduate. I've got friends finishing up graduate/professional degrees who tell of 1st years with their entire life plans already figured out, and parents ready to throttle any professor or administrator who dares mess with said plan. Formerly raucous dormitories have been silenced and campus counsellors are nearly overwhelmed at exam time by 18 and 19 year old kids worried that doing poorly on their first ever mid-terms will keep them from getting into an MBA program after graduation.
The kids are most definitely not alright.
― J-rock (Julien Sandiford), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 06:53 (twenty years ago)
Students have been saying that since the dawn of time though.
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 06:57 (twenty years ago)
Trayce, I do wonder if you're on to something, I think it's possible that kids' outlook wrt college has changed. But then, the value of a college education has changed -- it no longer guarantees you ANY job, much less a respectable position earning a living wage on which to raise a family. And a degree doesn't admit to you to any kind of intellectual elite like a classical education of old would have, because every idiot who could afford tuition has one. And god knows I've met college grads my own age who'd never learned to THINK, who couldn't follow a logical argument from point A to B.
In conclusion, I don't know what I'm saying, it's too early for me to be posting.
― Laurel, Tuesday, 6 September 2005 10:48 (twenty years ago)
― Ronan (Ronan), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 10:49 (twenty years ago)
― jeffrey (johnson), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 10:59 (twenty years ago)
― Peter Densmore (pbnmyj), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 14:25 (twenty years ago)
― xcvbnm,, Tuesday, 6 September 2005 14:27 (twenty years ago)
― Peter Densmore (pbnmyj), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 14:29 (twenty years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 14:37 (twenty years ago)
― Peter Densmore (pbnmyj), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 14:39 (twenty years ago)
There aren't many of my type here so for fear of alienating myself from these people any more than i already have I shall refrain from identifying it (and therefore myself) any more specifically than that.
I'm glad y'all feel my pain.
― Upto11 (uptoeleven), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 14:45 (twenty years ago)
― secondhandnews (secondhandnews), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 14:48 (twenty years ago)
Sure, I did, honestly. Plenty of that. A lot of people (bosses, friends of parents, etc.) will either look on this as quaint and eccentric, or kinda try too hard to find a way to justify a liberal arts degree as "useful" based on how much money I can make with it. whatevs..!
I feel like things have changed even in the past decade, when I was an undergrad at my liberal arts college it was generally kind of a weird, idealistic, free spirited sort of place.. I went back with some friends for an event there a few years after we'd graduated, and it was Friday night, the place was DEAD SILENT because a ton of people went home for the weekend, the campus had been all prettied up with some posh new buildings and a new student union that looked like a Barnes & Noble, and most of the students we did meet could've walked off the set of the O.C., it seemed. Kind of sad.
― dar1a g (daria g), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 15:59 (twenty years ago)
not to say that all college students are future republican voters (even-though a great many of them are), its that, for the most part, political debate doesn't exist on my campus. its either too hard to contemplate, or it won't make you any money so why care?
and yes, dar1a, they are trying to make every building on campus look like a barnes and noble: perfect in that sort of we-can-easily-wash-you-away-if-we-have-to sort of way.
― JD from CDepot, Tuesday, 6 September 2005 16:06 (twenty years ago)
― Lovelace (Lovelace), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 16:12 (twenty years ago)
Why, the professors, of course! Fortunately, though, now with No Child Left Behind: The College Years, they'll be too busy filling out evaluation forms to keep up with Chomsky...
― pr00de, where's my car? (pr00de), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 16:33 (twenty years ago)
― huell howser (chaki), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 16:37 (twenty years ago)
― british assholes, Tuesday, 6 September 2005 16:38 (twenty years ago)
― O'so Krispie (Ex Leon), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 16:39 (twenty years ago)
― emsk ( emsk), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 16:59 (twenty years ago)
― Peter Densmore (pbnmyj), Tuesday, 6 September 2005 17:22 (twenty years ago)
Superficially in the sense that they almost all are political lefties, but in practice they are part of the most conservative institutional culture this side of the US military.. It's quite an experience trying to communicate with a Marxist professor who turns out to be more important than everyone and can't be bothered to acknowledge your existence.
― dar1a g (daria g), Wednesday, 7 September 2005 01:24 (twenty years ago)
― Guymauve (Guymauve), Wednesday, 7 September 2005 02:11 (twenty years ago)
― Peter Densmore (pbnmyj), Wednesday, 7 September 2005 02:33 (twenty years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Wednesday, 7 September 2005 04:43 (twenty years ago)
HI DERE. But I do live about a 10 minutes drive from campus. Problem is so does EVERYONE ELSE and thus there are about 12 parking spaces for about 20,000 commuters.
― internet comedy novice (Matt Chesnut), Wednesday, 7 September 2005 05:31 (twenty years ago)
― robots in love (robotsinlove), Wednesday, 7 September 2005 07:09 (twenty years ago)
― algorhythm (algorhythm), Thursday, 15 December 2005 05:49 (twenty years ago)
― ¿Que?, Thursday, 15 December 2005 07:20 (twenty years ago)