Is it immoral to have children?

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Given the fact that the world is overpopulated, with all the disastrous consequences for the environment and ecosystem that this implies, and that furthermore we're going to face a major energy crisis sometime in the next 40 years, and that large areas of the world are extremely poor resulting in large numbers of children who can't be adequately looked after... doesn't all this make having children for us Westerners a bit immoral? After all, if we want to raise kids, there are probably millions of children in the third world who aren't properly cared for and could be adopted.

Koffi Olomide, Friday, 30 September 2005 12:37 (twenty years ago)

"Immoral" is a big stretch.

The Ghost of Black Elegance (Dan Perry), Friday, 30 September 2005 12:41 (twenty years ago)

So let those Third World people breed so we can steal their kids?

Dadaismus (Dada), Friday, 30 September 2005 12:42 (twenty years ago)

Maybe my children will grow up to be amazingly talented scientists who will solve all the world's problems. Then you'll be glad I had them.

C J (C J), Friday, 30 September 2005 12:42 (twenty years ago)

I think it is immoral, yes. But different strokes, man.

Also, children are annoying.

stewart downes (sdownes), Friday, 30 September 2005 12:43 (twenty years ago)

http://k-punk.abstractdynamics.org/archives/004518.html

ANTI-NATAL

Schopenhauer: 'If the act of procreation were neither the outcome of a desire nor accompanied by feelings of pleasure, but a matter to be decided on the basis of purely rational considerations, is it likely that the human race would still exist? Would each of us not feel so much pity for the coming generation as to prefer to spare it the burden of existence, or at least not to take it upon himself to impose that burden upon it in cold blood?

For this world is Hell, and men are on the one hand the tormented souls and on the other the devils in it.'

The Specials: 'Ain't he cute? No he ain't/ just another burden on the welfare state/ ... haven't you heard of the starving millions/ haven't you heard of contraception?'

The prospect of yet more exploitative taxes to support reproducer indulgence means that a questioning of the bio-political privileging of natality is long overdue.

Reproduction in the west is a lifestyle choice. It is certainly does not put reproducers into a special category of the morally superior for whose 'sacrifices' the rest of us should be grateful.

On the contrary, in fact. Ethically speaking, reproducing is immoral and irresponsible. Looked at coldly and rationally - i.e. the only way to look at it - the human population is something that needs to be dramatically reduced.

'In 1600 the human population was about half a billion,' John Gray points out in Straw Dogs. 'In the 1990s it increased by the same amount. People who are now over forty have lived through a doubling of the world's population.' What Gray, following Lovelock, calls 'human plague' exerts pressure on the world's scarce natural resources, amping up tension and conflict.

It's only through the utterly discredited logic of modernization that increasing population at this rate makes sense. Modernization - whether in its State- socialist or Kapitalist mode - assumed that all human needs could be met by increasing productive capacity. But as Green theorists have established, this is based on a fallacy. The productive capacity of human beings depends upon natural resources, and these are finite. No matter what market demand there is for oil, it cannot be spirited out of nothing.

While it's true that the oil-fixated super-short termist stupidity of current Amerikkkan economic thinking is due to hit the buffers imminently so that a change in global energy consumption will have to occur, simply changing energy sources will only deflect the problem of overpopulation, not alleviate it. Human plague will have to be reduced - and the planet has its means (disease, eco-catastrophe) even if homo rapiens desperately scavenging for resources don't themselves substantially reduce their own numbers through warfare.

The economic argument for encouraging people to have children is that there is an ageing population. If we do not shift the balance, then the economy will collapse under the weight of demand from those who need support but are no longer economically productive. But the obvious solution to this is not more children (who, at best, will be economically productive after sixteen years) but increased immigration.

In Britain, it is well known that there is a skill shortage now. Encouraging workers from abroad with suitable skills to immigrate into the UK would thus have a double benefit. Not only would the problem of the ageing population be addressed, the UK would also increase revenue from taxation (since such workers, unlike children, would contribute to the public purse instead of being a drain upon it). Again and again, statistics bear out the obvious truth that immigrants work harder than indigenous populations.

Of course, there is no prospect of anything like this happening under the current soft fascist Blairite regime. It's no accident that the sentimental indulging of people's alleged 'right' to have children goes alongside a hostility towards immigration. As the propaganda of two of its most obvious exemplars eminently demonstrate, fascist institutions are always rabid in their obsession with increased birthrate. The RCC's hostility to birth control and obscene vitalist lust for more children (no matter how poor or miserable their lives will be) is well-known. Similarly, Mussolini's 'battle for natality' is typical of the modernizing fascist impulse.

'Mussolini believed that his Italy had a smaller population than it should have. How could it possibly be a power to reckon with, without a substantial population and a substantial army? Women were encouraged to have children and the more children brought better tax privileges – an idea Hitler was to build on. Large families got better tax benefits but bachelors were hit by high taxation.

Families were given a target of 5 children. Mothers who produced more were warmly received by the Fascist government. In 1933, Mussolini met 93 mothers at the Palazzo Venezia who had produced over 1300 children - an average of 13 each!'

Reactionary political programmes always insist on the value of life as such. But this sacralization of life of course goes alongside a degradation of people's actual conditions of life. Don't complain, be grateful that you're alive, sing in gratitude to the heavens for allowing you to come into this Garden of Delights.

Seemingly paradoxically, those political systems which actually want to improve conditions for people tend to underrate the value of the sheer fact of life. This is partly because having children is a more or less explicit ratification of the essential goodness of the world. But to change things - or to want to change things - entails recognizing that there is something deeply evil about the world and the worldly. That is why many of the Gnostics thought that copulation itself was evil, since it recapitulated the original act of the deranged drunken demiurge who deluded himself into believing that he had created the world. (Besides, those with children are especially prone to reactionary thinking and behaviour: 'I would, but I've got to think of the kids.' But as Richard Pryor asks in Schrader's Blue Collar, 'What makes your family more important than everyone else's family?')

Indulging your atavistic selfish gene impulse to replicate is neither rational nor moral. The ethical choice is to adopt or foster children. There are many abandoned children already in this world who need that care. Meanwhile, if others want to reproduce, that is their choice (just as smoking should be), but the State should not be in the business of encouraging it.

Koffi Olomide, Friday, 30 September 2005 12:43 (twenty years ago)

"Kapitalist" - ha ha!

Dadaismus (Dada), Friday, 30 September 2005 12:44 (twenty years ago)

John Gray - ha ha ha ha ha!

Dadaismus (Dada), Friday, 30 September 2005 12:45 (twenty years ago)

Condescending left-leaning quasi-racist stances: C/D?

The Ghost of Black Elegance (Dan Perry), Friday, 30 September 2005 12:46 (twenty years ago)

Why not do something about immoral foreign policies of the US which refuse to fund things like birth control and family planning for these Third World Nations because the Religious Right disaproves?

How about the idea of doing something about the scraping povery of the third world instead of stealing the skilled workers - and now proposed even to steal the *children* of these people?

Those are far more immoral thing to me.

Anyway I don't want to get involved in DNFTT territory.

The Brocade Fire (kate), Friday, 30 September 2005 12:46 (twenty years ago)

I think it depends upon the individuals. I would like to offer free sterilisation to a number of people I know, but alas, too late, they have already spawned and passed on their hideousness to another generation. Those poor, poor, innocent babies.

I'm too deeply shallow (and it is far too late at the moment) to deal with the issue of 3rd world poverty. When I become world tyrant I will sort all this stuff out so you won't need to worry about it any more...

Menelaus Darcy (Menelaus Darcy), Friday, 30 September 2005 12:52 (twenty years ago)

OK, to scale back my question somewhat: "immoral" was obviously a bit provocative, and K Punk's analysis that I posted is a touch undergraduate. But there is the question of whether we should actually be encouraging people to procreate, given the circumstances I outlined above. After all, most Western governments do so by offering tax breaks, maternity leave, child allowance, free education and such like. If people want to have children, fine. But why shouldn't they then bear the costs of that decision? Why should everyone else have to pay for it?

Koffi Olomide, Friday, 30 September 2005 13:01 (twenty years ago)

In terms of the starving millions, if the Catholic Church rescinded their stupid views on contraception, there'd be a lot less of those. You've heard of rhythm and blues? It was Catholic ideology which brought them together.

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Friday, 30 September 2005 13:04 (twenty years ago)

Elizabeth Cheney has four children. We are tempted to keep going until our kids can cancel out the votes of her kids.

The Obligatory Sourpuss (Begs2Differ), Friday, 30 September 2005 13:20 (twenty years ago)

I don't intend on having children due to the whole overpopulation thing, however I realise it's a personal choice and I'd never push those beliefs on anyone else. The only time I ever express those views is on the bumper sticker on my car which reads, "Population Forecast - Increasing Crowdiness".

Bombed Out and Depleted / Kate (papa november), Friday, 30 September 2005 13:37 (twenty years ago)

is it immortal to have children?

stewart downes (sdownes), Friday, 30 September 2005 13:43 (twenty years ago)

Now is the time
Get on the right side
You'll be godlike.

Not En Esch (Ned), Friday, 30 September 2005 13:46 (twenty years ago)

I now have Princes of the Universe in my head. Thank you

Menelaus Darcy (Menelaus Darcy), Friday, 30 September 2005 13:51 (twenty years ago)

The Western World is not significantly contributing to overpopulation - aside from immigration, most Western countries have steady or declining populations.

Furthermore, the most significant factor in population is not actually number of children per household, but time between generations. Think about it, a mother who has 2 kids at age 14, whose two kids then each have two kids when they're 14 (and of course these are low numbers for the third world) creates a more significant population issue than a mother who waits until 30 and has four kids (which is not even that likely for someone who waits until 30 to have kids).

One of the best ways to improve the situation, it turns out, is to increase education and jobs for women, because educated and/or working women are much more likely to wait to have kids.

A better approach would maybe be to teach your kid to conserve energy, ride a bike instead of driving a car, etc.

Hurting (Hurting), Friday, 30 September 2005 13:56 (twenty years ago)

why not kill all the wops/spics/chinks/kikes/whites etc

am i right?, Friday, 30 September 2005 14:07 (twenty years ago)

it should be noted that the converse of the topic question has not only been asked, but answered definitively by certain folks.

do a search for "deliberate childlessness."

you'll find no shortage of American rightwing fundie whack-jobs who want to make this a political issue. they're even writing op-eds about it, having already framed it as a "Debate".

'Willful barrenness,' avoiding parenting, is a moral rebellion with a new face...

kingfish superman ice cream (kingfish 2.0), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:08 (twenty years ago)

only i should be allowed to have children, with the girls i choose. all other - thus inferior - men should be sterilised

ken c (ken c), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:17 (twenty years ago)

But what if the girls don't choose you?

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:18 (twenty years ago)

they're not allowed to not choose me because the fate of the world depend upon my excellent genes

ken c (ken c), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:19 (twenty years ago)

only i should be allowed to have children, with the girls i choose. all other - thus inferior - men should be sterilised
-- ken c (pykachu10...), September 30th, 2005.

Are ilxors deluded? (162 new answers)

Dadaismus (Dada), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:20 (twenty years ago)

Then it's home for a kebab and watch Freescreen. (xposT)

mark grout (mark grout), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:20 (twenty years ago)

T/S: Letting the human race die out vs. keeping the human race via half-sib incest.

Rock Hardy (Rock Hardy), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:22 (twenty years ago)

i think it is all about where ya put them. there are 4 people living in south dakota. it is the size of europe! maybe. it's really big though!

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:27 (twenty years ago)

i mean, yeah, the overpopulated places are really really overpopulated. but it's not like there isn't any room left. i don't know why more people don't want to move to canada. it's a great mystery. oh yeah, it's really cold. there is lots more empty space than there is space with lots of people. ( i could be making this up.)

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:36 (twenty years ago)

i dont think you are. kerry woulda won if you were.

AaronK (AaronK), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:36 (twenty years ago)

it is immoral to have children for breakfast

kyle (akmonday), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:38 (twenty years ago)

Why not do something about immoral foreign policies of the US which refuse to fund things like birth control and family planning for these Third World Nations because the Religious Right disaproves?
How about the idea of doing something about the scraping poverty of the third world instead of stealing the skilled workers - and now proposed even to steal the *children* of these people?

Absolutely.
What I find depressing on the homefront is the failure of our "first-world" (hah!) educational system to promote family planning. We're as backward as they come. Soon people will be adopting OUR babies.
Girls have babies for the dopiest pie-eyed reasons. I suppose it's the same all over the world. If you're stuck in poverty there's no reason NOT to have one and then another and another. It's not like you're going to achieve the good life if you don't. And pregnancy IS a miracle, with the grueling reality of childrearing not visible through the murk of hormones and sappy hopefulness.

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:38 (twenty years ago)

re willful barrenness: Time was when conservative Protestants equated big families with Roman Catholicism.

M. V. (M.V.), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:47 (twenty years ago)

Strictly speaking, not having children is immoral.

Don King of the Mountain (noodle vague), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:58 (twenty years ago)

Well, unless you're a nun or something.

Don King of the Mountain (noodle vague), Friday, 30 September 2005 14:59 (twenty years ago)

The UK has more people per square mile than the PRoChina, and there's still loads of room here. The problems in the poorer parts of the world don't have to do with space so much as lack of food, water, infrastructure etc.

he, Friday, 30 September 2005 15:12 (twenty years ago)

"Overpopulation" was used to explain poverty back in the 1790s. It was bullshit then, too.

Don King of the Mountain (noodle vague), Friday, 30 September 2005 15:13 (twenty years ago)

That wacky Malthus, what a kidder!

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 30 September 2005 15:14 (twenty years ago)

From what I understand, it wasn't so much Malthus' fault as the thrusting new capitalists who wanted an excuse when they discarded their human machinery.

Don King of the Mountain (noodle vague), Friday, 30 September 2005 15:16 (twenty years ago)

Choosing overpopulation as a cause of poverty (opposed to problems related to distribution of wealth etc) is like a guy stealing all the lifeboats on a sinking ship, and then claiming that there were too many people booked on the cruise.

he, Friday, 30 September 2005 15:17 (twenty years ago)

It's probably immoral to have children if you're a fucking asshole type who plans to just abandon the mother as soon as she's knocked up and expect the child's grandparents to shoulder the parenting costs/workload.

It's also quite likely immoral to have children if you're an absentee deadbeat or the kind of person who is likely to spend a majority of your offspring's early life imprisoned.

It's arguably immoral to have children if you don't have the means to see that they are properly fed, clothed and educated, but that's sort of a bourgie judgement, a sliding scale based upon individual definitions of the adverb.

It's also possibly immoral to have children if you know that those children are going to lead short, extremely unhappy lives due to an incorrigible disease.

And it is immoral of the state to prevent people from being able to use modern medical knowledge and proven technological or pharmaceutical methods to plan their families so that they may be able to adhere to their own choices regarding the morality of reproduction.

TOMBOT, Friday, 30 September 2005 15:25 (twenty years ago)

i think this is a very important question, and i think the schopenhauer quote above really gets at the point for me.

the paradox is: you're imposing existence on someone who doesn't exist. so the act of having a child can't be immoral (since there is no one against to commit the offense) until the child exists, in which case it is too late.

i often joke to my parents: "i didnt ask to be born! you imposed this on me!"

ryan (ryan), Friday, 30 September 2005 15:28 (twenty years ago)

it is immoral to "have" children

Britain's Obtusest Shepherd (Alan), Friday, 30 September 2005 15:29 (twenty years ago)

i guess im taking the thread title pretty much straight instead of the actual question being asked which is "is it immoral to have children under this or that circumstance"

ryan (ryan), Friday, 30 September 2005 15:32 (twenty years ago)

Ryan, when I tried the "I didn't ask to be born" line my mum decided to be perverse and quote obscure bits of mental mediaeval theology about how actually, yes, babies souls hang out in Limbo waiting to be born, so I must have asked to be born. Sigh.

The Brocade Fire (kate), Friday, 30 September 2005 15:34 (twenty years ago)

everything's immoral.

teeny (teeny), Friday, 30 September 2005 15:34 (twenty years ago)

Pet Shop Boys to thread.

The Brocade Fire (kate), Friday, 30 September 2005 15:35 (twenty years ago)

is it childish to have morals?

stewart downes (sdownes), Friday, 30 September 2005 15:49 (twenty years ago)


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