Lance Loud R.I.P.

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He died on Saturday after battling AIDS and hepatitis C for something like 20 years. Hard to believe people in America still die from HIV, but they do. Lance was a member of the Loud Family--not the SF pop group, but the *real* Loud Family from the early 70s PBS documentary An American Family. The, uh, groundbreaking reality TV series where they filmed the upper middle class Santa Barbara family over a period of 7 months, to their eternal regret. Now they'll probably run it again. It's 30th anniverary time, I believe. Watch it--it's boring, it's painful, it's really funny. And Lance is the star.

He was the first real gay person I ever saw on TV. Probably the first real gay person anyone my age saw on TV. And he loved Warhol and the Stones and all the things I was just getting into. He rocked! I remember watching Lance and his sister sitting around listening to the Kinks and thinking everyone in California was rich and glamorous. Later he moved to NY and formed the Mumps, who never get enough credit as one of the original mid-70s NY Max's/CBGB bands. I guess they were too poppy, too faggy. I dunno. He also wrote some hysterical articles for Hit Parader and Circus way back when.

Later on I became friends with him for a spell. And he was quite a character and I'll miss him.

Arthur, Wednesday, 26 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

loud was my first indicator of a life outisde of my burg, a world of camp and bitch and art and emotion and cleverness, this is truly sad.

anthony, Wednesday, 26 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I was just thinking about him last night as well when Sean and I were talking about Jobriath. I mostly knew of him by reputation, but he seemed to have a good head on his shoulders. RIP indee

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 27 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

My local public TV station aired the entirety of An American Family back on New Year's Eve, 1991. I idly caught the first program at 9 o'clock at night and ended up sitting still in horror and amazement until well until the morning. Arthur hits it right on the head: it is oh so boring, painful and funny and GODDAMN poignant as you watch these poor little rich Californians negotiate their lives in front of the merciless camera eye. (Out-loud-and-proud Lance comes off as being perhaps the most even-headed of the family -- God bless his soul.) One of my very favorite television shows ever.

I don't hold much hopes for a repeat any time soon. Apparently after it was first shown, PBS would only handle the show with latex gloves and a clothespin on the nose. There was the original run, a repeat, and then PBS abandoned its bastard child until the 1991-1992 airing I caught. As far as I know, aside from a completely unadvertised late- night showing a year or two later, PBS hasn't shown it since. Back in the day, it received a LOT of negative controversy and charges of exploitation, plus, as the unwitting grandfather to a shitload of godawful "reality" programming, no doubt PBS thinks of it as somehow declasse compared to another airing of the latest round of motivational speakers, over-the-hill opera singers, and gutless nature shows.

(There was a redux of An American Family a couple years ago, with a interracial couple from New York as its subject. It was longer and more ambitious than the original, yet also got fairly lukewarm promotion. I never even got a chance to see it.)

Michael Daddino, Thursday, 27 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I am stunned that Lance and I will never enjoy the reunion I have hoped would eventually happen over the past 15 years. He was one of my closest friends and greatest inspirations from 1974 to 1985, when I stopped travelling to LA from NYC and his trips East did not bring us together again.

We shared a close relationship with Norman Fisher, a fantastic character who collected fine art, kitsch, and celebrity friends with equal enthusiasm. Norman died of karposi's sarcoma in 1980 before AIDS was named as a syndrome. But all of us were well-acquainted with a variety of STDs, had friends mired in (or dead) from drug abuse, or simply dealing with the stigma of being gay and/or different.

Lance never really got over not becoming a rock star, and while he always wrote and his writing got better over time, he loved cameras on him and being interviewed. He had a incredibly active "love life" that he never discussed with me in detail, and after Norman's death he was determined not to fall ill as so many of his friends were doing.

Despite carrying the effects of several bouts with hepatitis, Lance, always a handsome, virile man, became the picture of health. Despite the distance between us, I was always very proud of his survival and the quality of life he maintained.

Lance was the funniest, best-looking, sweetest and most talented friend I ever had: I miss him terribly and I know that his wonderful family will cherish his legacy of entertainment and honesty.

Ron Ross, Friday, 28 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Hey Ron, thanks for your note. Quite the tribute, and a sign of his quality, clearly. :-) For you or anyone else -- is there a collection of his music available?

Ned Raggett, Friday, 28 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Yeah, Ron, thanks. My brief description up there didn't really do him justice. And when I said the Loud family did the show "to their eternal regret", that wasn't quite correct. I'm sure Lance was both thrilled and dismayed by the attention and subsequent pigeonholing he received from the series.

Ned-the Mumps compilation is called Fatal Charm. It's on Eggbert and it's still in print. And it is quite charming. My old roommate Kristian, the one you'll someday meet, wrote most of the songs.

Arthur, Friday, 28 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)


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