― rainy, Friday, 28 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― duane, Friday, 28 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
(it's harry potter lego: will she like that?)
― mark s, Friday, 28 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
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― Graham, Friday, 28 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
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― anthony, Friday, 28 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
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― rosemary, Friday, 28 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― youn, Friday, 28 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Ned Raggett, Saturday, 29 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― maryann, Saturday, 29 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
manny this is rainy: we are not scientists...we can't prove anything!!!!@!!!!!! see 7you in two days! I have the hiccups~!!!!!! love from rainy xxxxxxxxxxxxxs― rainy+sidey+andy, Saturday, 29 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― rainy+sidey+andy, Saturday, 29 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― rainy, Saturday, 29 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― carsmilesteve, Saturday, 29 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
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― Gale Deslongchamps, Sunday, 30 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― cameron, Wednesday, 2 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― maryann (maryann), Thursday, 12 August 2004 04:41 (twenty-one years ago)
― |a|m|t|r|s|t| (amateurist), Thursday, 12 August 2004 05:47 (twenty-one years ago)
― |a|m|t|r|s|t| (amateurist), Thursday, 12 August 2004 05:48 (twenty-one years ago)
Another more complicated idea is ... I think that when girls try to empathise with the male point of view, they empathise with the stereotype of the male point of view. I mean, someone who is powerful, cocky, the world is his domain, selfish, clever, witty. They don't identify with the true spectrum of masculine personae which seems to range a lot closer to the female point of view than girls realise. This is just a hypothesis - perhaps I'm the only one who has this problem. I mean when I try to predict how boys will respond to a situation - like this thread - I'm surprised to see how many boys respond from the caring, 'feminine' position. It's very difficult as a girl to imagine the male world. Because from the female point of view, it does seem as if the world belongs to men. Walk along the street, it's arranged for them - all the posters are for their pleasure, the girls are dressed for them (but not vice versa), the pornography is for them, work and play is for them ... If I imagine being a boy, it's a world of joy, even just turning on the television! So you sort of think that if you were a boy, you'd be selfish and completely unenlightened about other people's suffering, through not having had to experience it yourself. And misogynistic fun seems like a natural expression of that 'joy'. But that's not how it turns out to be.
-- maryann (maryann34...), November 3rd, 2003.
― |a|m|t|r|s|t| (amateurist), Thursday, 12 August 2004 06:06 (twenty-one years ago)
good to see you're still around.
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Thursday, 12 August 2004 07:43 (twenty-one years ago)
― |a|m|t|r|s|t| (amateurist), Thursday, 12 August 2004 13:38 (twenty-one years ago)
― maryann (maryann), Friday, 13 August 2004 02:44 (twenty-one years ago)
― youn, Friday, 13 August 2004 04:14 (twenty-one years ago)
not that fuckin soon! for fucks sake. happy birthday anyway. come back to dunedin & check out how different but sort of the same stuff here has gotten ok
― unknown or illegal user (doorag), Friday, 13 August 2004 05:42 (twenty-one years ago)
― unknown or illegal user (doorag), Friday, 13 August 2004 05:44 (twenty-one years ago)
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Friday, 13 August 2004 07:22 (twenty-one years ago)