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ok.. I started fooling around with this kid... and he automatically started thinking we're dating.. after two weeks i said... ok.. umm this isn't working out.. and i "broke up" with him... he kept on wanting to talk about it and blah blah... and then he said "i love you.. and if you stay with me i'll give up alcohol". what the fuck do i answer to that.. i said no.. you don't.. and you won't.. now everytime i'm around him i feel weird....please help

― Patricia, Monday, 31 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Moral of the story, don't fool around with people you don't like.

― Ronan, Monday, 31 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Er....that sounded preachy, do if you want, but don't be surprised when things get awkward or something.

― Ronan, Monday, 31 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

The Moral is to tell people when they are fuck buddies .

― anthony, Monday, 31 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I don't understand his give up alcohol thing. Anyway looks like he'll be drinking lots where you're sending him.

― Ronan, Monday, 31 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

"If you want to give up alcohol, that's a good idea; it'll be good for you. But trying to blackmail me into staying with you makes me less interested in even wanting to be your friend, not more."

― Douglas, Monday, 31 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

How do you answer to that? Tell him to grow the fuck up, that's how. "if you stay with me I'll give up alcohol"-please.

Sorry, that's my cranky response--it's sad he's heartbroken, but it's not your fault, especially only two weeks into the fooling around. Can't help you with the feeling weird problem--is this someone you can't help being around, a member of your crowd? If so, I'd just accept that it's going to be like this for awhile and try and be as considerate as you can without leading him on. If not, I would tell him you can't hang around with him till his feelings for you cool off.

― Arthur, Monday, 31 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

What is the age group? Because that is a factor. If he's under 17, tell him to shut up. If he's 18-24, tell him that he needs to take control of his own life before changing for others. If he's 24-28, tell him he should learn to be mature, becuase it's getting time. If he's 30, just look at him with a confused look. If he's 35 or older, buy him a bowling bag and change your phone number.If he's 40 to 45, buy him a copy of Herman Hesse's "Steppenwolf." If he's 50 or over, buy him a copy of Bukowski's "Women."

― Gage-o, Monday, 31 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

anyone buys me a copy of steppenwolf gets a sock in the snoot

― mark s, Tuesday, 1 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

You can send any copies of Steppenwolf meant for Mark to me!!

― Josh, Tuesday, 1 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I take it that 29-year olds can get away with ANY BAD BEHAVIOUR THEY LIKE then! Roll on March 23!

― Tom, Tuesday, 1 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

josh admits real age at last shocker

― mark s, Tuesday, 1 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

yeah yeah i know how you feel.. cause it's me! i just wanted to see how this thing looked like. this happened like a year ago and i really had a problem with it.. but now it's ok... i'm in looooove

― something cool, Wednesday, 2 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

with someone else! the best guy ever! I love him with all my heart.

― yeah yeah, Wednesday, 2 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

this is so strange.

― nancy b., Thursday, 3 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Just because I am a bibliophile doesn't mean I'm not a fresh-faced lad of 23.something, mark.

― Josh, Thursday, 3 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

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