I don't believe in you

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yes, its a song title..but I'm gonna ask a Q about relationships, feelings, intuition and intellect.

I'm in a relationship where my intuition tells me I am being deceived. Does that mean that I am being lied to? What do you trust your head or your heart?

mr smythe, Tuesday, 1 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago) link

intuition or subtle evidence? what evidence? or are you being randomly suspicious without adequate justification? Theres no point in thinking the worst if there is no pressing reason to do so...

Menelaus Darcy, Tuesday, 1 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago) link

Hi Mr. Smyth, I would follow my heart... reason the mind can play tricks on you but the heart never will.

Gale Deslongchamps, Tuesday, 1 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago) link

I'm not a suspicious type of person and take people for how I find them, so there must be some subtle evidence. Why else would this feeling come up? It's not as though I feel deceived by everyone I meet or have a relationship with.

Should I really be trying to intellectualize my gut feeling?

mr smythe, Tuesday, 1 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago) link

Confront person with feelings. No point in avoiding it. Deception doesn't necessarily mean end of relationship. That It is a choice you (both) make.

helenfordsdale, Tuesday, 1 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago) link

Deception = game over. Believe otherwise and you're a deceiver yourself.

Trevor, Wednesday, 2 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago) link


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