A moral question

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Is it wrong to kiss someone with his/her boyfriend/girlfriend standing next to you? It was only between friends, and the said gf/bf should probably know that. Then again, I once had a relationship with this person, and the bf/gf knows about that too... But she/he should also know that it's a totally finished chapter.

Everyone was obviously quite drunk. I'm not sure if I should feel guilty or not.

― outlogged, Sunday, 8 January 2006 15:21 (twenty years ago)

I wouldn't bother then. But don't do it again either.

― Alba (Alba), Sunday, 8 January 2006 15:26 (twenty years ago)

....isn't this more of an etiquette question than a moral question.

― peepee (peepee), Sunday, 8 January 2006 15:35 (twenty years ago)

Wouldn't it depend on the kiss?
Peck on cheek at greeting, vs oral exchange of boozy bodily fluids after a conversation about how you wish you'd never broken up, and that your current bf/gf sucks in bed compared to them, and you wake up in tears in the middle of the night thinking of what you've lost, etc etc etc.

― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Sunday, 8 January 2006 15:43 (twenty years ago)

You are still alive. Either the BF/GF didn't mind, or s/he's outside your door with a gun.

― StanM (StanM), Sunday, 8 January 2006 15:47 (twenty years ago)

Well let's just say it was more wet than dry. And I'm not worried about what he/she thinks rather than the boyfriend/girlfriend.

(x-post)

― outlogged, Sunday, 8 January 2006 15:49 (twenty years ago)

he/she had a part to play in this too, you know. It's not like you foisted this sloppy kiss on an unwilling recipient.
But maybe you should move to another country.

― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Sunday, 8 January 2006 15:55 (twenty years ago)

If people always acted morally, there probably wouldn't be any people left in the world to act morally.

― Momus (Momus), Sunday, 8 January 2006 15:58 (twenty years ago)

yeah this is no big deal

― don't start a RYE-OTT! (plsmith), Sunday, 8 January 2006 16:01 (twenty years ago)

Yeah I know it's not that big, I'm not burning with guilt here or anything. It's just that I'm used to physical intimacy with friends of the other gender, as is the person I kissed with, but I sometimes forget not everyone sees it the same way. It wouldn't be the first time someone's SO gets jealous because of me.

― outlogged, Sunday, 8 January 2006 16:11 (twenty years ago)

My advice? Stop being such a god damned pussy.

― ESTEBAN BUTTEZ~!!! (ESTEBAN BUTTEZ~!!!), Sunday, 8 January 2006 17:11 (twenty years ago)

does anyone else give a fuck? has anyone threatened to chin you? if so, don't do it again. if not, stop being such a goddamned ~~pussy~~narcissist.

― grimly fiendish (grimlord), Sunday, 8 January 2006 17:13 (twenty years ago)

oic

― ESTEBAN BUTTEZ~!!! (ESTEBAN BUTTEZ~!!!), Sunday, 8 January 2006 17:14 (twenty years ago)

You must remember this...a kiss is just a kiss.... as time goes by.

― pepektheassassin (pepektheassassin), Sunday, 8 January 2006 17:51 (twenty years ago)

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