Quitting a job without having something else lined up: C/D?

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Has anyone done this? I've always been so paranoid, and have always moved immediately into another. Now I think I want to quit and take a month off, do some budget travel, and then come back to find something I actually WANT to do, or even temp for awhile.

I live in an area with a very active, healthy job market, and my rent is really cheap. I don't have a whole lot of money saved up, but I can probably have more by june. No kids, no loans payments, nobody depends on me. I've done a lot to preserve my 'freedom' but find that I rarely utilize it... Soul-destroying office work is not a major goal of mine anyway.

Stories of success sought.

logged2out, Monday, 6 March 2006 21:16 (nineteen years ago)

Stories of success sought.

dude, this is ilx

hen fap, Monday, 6 March 2006 21:20 (nineteen years ago)

total dud in my experience - i guess part of it was that i was trying to find a new place to live at the same time, and i had a tough time doing both at the same time.

pssst - badass revolutionary art! (plsmith), Monday, 6 March 2006 21:21 (nineteen years ago)

Walking out of your job without working your notice and with nothing to go to - C/D

R.I.P. Concrete Octopus ]-`: (ex machina), Monday, 6 March 2006 21:38 (nineteen years ago)

Quitting Your Job When You Don't Have Another One Lined Up

lock thread k thx bi!

R.I.P. Concrete Octopus ]-`: (ex machina), Monday, 6 March 2006 21:39 (nineteen years ago)

I've done it more than once and wouldn't say out of hand that those were bad experiences. Listen to your gut as only you can really answer this question.

Miss Misery xox (MissMiseryTX), Monday, 6 March 2006 22:03 (nineteen years ago)

I was going to revive that first thread Jon linked to today. When your boss hints you're about to get a promotion and a payrise and your heart immediately sinks, its time to go.

Also, I worked thirteen hours today :/

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 6 March 2006 23:10 (nineteen years ago)

quick comment before the thread gets locked: try thinking about this in the long view.

i had worked in one company for a fairly long time, had a pretty responsible position, and made pretty good money. plus i was willing to "take a step back" to find something i was happier with.

but i'm having no luck with anything -- likely the worst decision i've ever made, were it not for how unhappy i was. a lot of my problem has to do with my particular field, perhaps, but still.

i would try get some idea what this "what you REALLY want to do" is before you quit -- start laying groundwork to get there now, unless all you will want is a paycheck.

mitya!, Monday, 6 March 2006 23:13 (nineteen years ago)

Thanks, I think that's wise. I cannot stay in my present position... it's getting uncomfortable as hell... but I want to leave in an adult manner so they don't fuck me over in references. I haven't had a proper vacation in years so I think it'd be good to take some time off before I jump back into a place where I won't expect any time off for a year or so.

logged2out, Monday, 6 March 2006 23:49 (nineteen years ago)

mitya OTM

I quit a relatively lucrative job in September of last year, with no interest in a new job in sight. I quit during a week of bad layoffs at the company, figuring that if I wasn't going to get laid off (I asked) that it was as good a time as any.

I spent a few months trying to figure things out, by traveling, looking for new work, looking for schools, etc. All and all, everything I ought to have done before I quit. Once my savings ran out around New Years, I sort of panicked and pulled a few favors to get a new job that I hated. I lasted all of nine hours.

Since then, I've found it possible to get by just fine without working a real job. Between freelancing and odd jobs, I pay the bills, and am not looking to go back to an office before the autumn. I have a lot of time to learn a new language, to read a lot, and to fart around on old-timey message boards like ILX. Its the good life.

The only regret I have in all of this is that I wasted the first months of my self-unemployment figuring out that I quit my job because I didn't really want to work like that any more. So quit your job, but before you do it figure out why you're quitting, and what it is you actually want to do. The rest (paying bills, keeping busy) is surprisingly easy once you do that.

(jacob) (ockle boc), Tuesday, 7 March 2006 00:54 (nineteen years ago)


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