2) a thread is started about suicide methods. there are a number of self-indulgent posts by people lovingly describing exactly how they'd off themselves. protests are just now starting to filter in. no telling how long before somehow who has lost a best friend or parent or anyone else to suicide will find it.
3) an old thread jokingly started by ally but apparently at geoff's suggestion about necrophilia is revived. several smart-ass comments are made. marcello and one other person then complain that it is offensive to the bereaved and nick quickly apologizes for even posting to it. promptly after that, dg insinuates that it might be deleted.
― ethan, Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― jess, Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Momus, Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
1) i thought this thread was really vile but understandable to a degree, we've all been angry at public figures before and especially politicians, who were those mostly called out. certainly not to be deleted, although i think this about every legitimate topic.
2) i thought this certainly held more immediate 'danger' than the die you fucking bitch thread, but it's just gothy show-off crap and shouldn't be taken as anything more.
3) it's inexplicable anyone is actually concerned about about this, half of it is about richey manic's eyebrows for fuck's sake. i'm sure everyone on this board has had someone they love die but thankfully most of them aren't whiny assholes about it every time the topic is even vaguely approached. as i've had to learn myself, kidding about death is how you learn to actually deal with it, if you think you deserve to be protected from every funeral knock-knock joke for the rest of your life you're going to be a child forever.
2) made me feel uncomfortable
3) is a tough one. It depends whether you see IL* as a community or not. In a group of friends or family, obviously you won't go making flippant talk about death in the aftermath of someone's bereavement. Marcello is a regular on this board so I would instinctively err on the side of caution. But at any time, someone new, or someone who had kept their loss private might be on the board and I don't think you can always be walking on tiptoes about every possible offence that might be caused. Seeing as it's an open forum, it seems a bit wanky to give certain 'rights' to people depending on how long term/prominent a poster they are. I dunno. Like I say, I err on the side of pragmatic tact (except I fucked up).
― N., Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
Don't delete any of 'em, but wonder why they come up all of a sudden.
― Pete, Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
2) i'm hoping it's just gothy show- off crap. it's something i like talking about hypothetically, knowing there's an out, but not knowing if i should actually worry about the people who are posting this or what they're thinking when they post is not fun.3) missed this one. too busy watching movies with people being shot and beheaded.
― Maria, Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― , Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― DG, Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― N. Deed, Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Tracer Hand, Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
2) I am well aware that quite a bit of that thread is probably "show offy goth crap" but quite a lot of it probably isn't, Ethan. I find it a bit disturbing that people protest it and talk about how horrible it is instead of trying to help. Or do we have to post our own threads writing up big suicide letters about everything that's gone wrong in the past 6 months or so to get sympathy? I'm not trying to be flip, but some of those people MIGHT have problems, and I think calling them show offs and protesting the discussion is a bit...off. The sort of behavior that usually happens right before a suicide by family and friends, then they're all so shocked when it happens.
3) I don't know why anyone thinks that thread is insulting, we were all just kidding around. I mean does anyone actually think necrophilia is a classic? Thugh I haven't read any of the recent posts, I'll go double check it.
The bottom line is I think all this tip toeing around Marcello is obnoxious. I'm sorry, Marcello, what happened to you is terrible, but for god's sake terrible things happen to everyone and if we all flew off the handle or got horribly offended or used our grief or pain as an excuse to flame people and go apeshit, it'd be a disasterous existance. I understand that you are hurt, depressed, upset, any other word you want to use, but like I said bad things happen to everyone. You are not unique in having grief, and neither is anyone else on this board, and I'm just getting tired of all the protesting whenever anyone says something about death or such.
The bottom line is, many people have been offended by threads or discussions on this board for one perfectly valid (and sometimes not valid but who cares?) reason or another, and with very few exceptions jack all has been done about that. Why start now? I think DG is right to decide against censorship - it's just too touchy a subject. If we start now, isn't it a bit offensive to anyone else who was hurt by something in a thread or discussion? Just don't read it. We've all been told that enough times when we've said that something is gross/offensive/depressing/whatever, so let's just try it instead of creating meta threads about it. Capice? Good.
― Ally, Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
I should sue.
― Ronan, Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
I think you all should start calling me the Demolition Man, for the record. Not Ronan.
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― Kodanshi, Tuesday, 29 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― toraneko, Wednesday, 30 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Kodanshi, Wednesday, 30 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
Interesting.
― Abbott, Friday, 26 October 2007 22:52 (eighteen years ago)
the amazing thing about ethan is that he was only five when he wrote that shit
― J0hn D., Friday, 26 October 2007 22:55 (eighteen years ago)
lol
― gabbneb, Friday, 26 October 2007 22:56 (eighteen years ago)
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― Abbott, Friday, 26 October 2007 22:56 (eighteen years ago)
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― Abbott, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:02 (eighteen years ago)
wouldn't matter if thatch popped her clogs, her work is done.
― pc user, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:02 (eighteen years ago)
his head is like a combination of a calligraphy pen and an anvil!
-- ethan, Monday, January 28, 2002 8:00 PM (5 years ago) Bookmark Link
lol otm
― and what, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:03 (eighteen years ago)
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― Abbott, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:05 (eighteen years ago)
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― J0hn D., Friday, 26 October 2007 23:05 (eighteen years ago)
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― Abbott, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:06 (eighteen years ago)
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― Abbott, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:08 (eighteen years ago)
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― and what, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:08 (eighteen years ago)
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― Abbott, Friday, 26 October 2007 23:12 (eighteen years ago)
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― J0hn D., Friday, 26 October 2007 23:21 (eighteen years ago)