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Another JTS dilemma thread.... I got my A2 results today... overall I have BBB which means I didn't get into Cardiff but I have got into Sheffield. Then after I told everyone I was going to Sheffield, I phoned Cardiff to reject the single honours course they offered instead, they said I should take that course ("I wanna have you Josh"), and then have it changed to the one I originally applied for (dual honours) after 1 year. This is the uni I would have most likely have gone to if I got the grades. I've never even been to the city and had been secretly hoping I would go to Sheffield all along as I have a lot of friends living up there, the English course was quite good and the whole uni seemed really great when I visited... all my family however seem to think that Sheffield is dead rough (even though it's quite near here) and that I'll get murdered within 0.023434 seconds of living there, whereas Cardiff would be "lovely" because of my Welsh roots. The choice is a major dilemma for me and I have basically no time to decide. As if the stress of actually having to start out on my own isn't enough... :(

I don't know what to do, maybe someone with a better understanding of this kind of thing could help??? Where will I stay the next 3/4 years of my life - Wales or the north?

JTS (JTS), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:06 (nineteen years ago)

I recommend the Hokkaido variety, it's a bit darker and more bitter at first taste... but complexly dissolves into a subtle yet rich flavor.

Steve Shasta (Steve Shasta), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:09 (nineteen years ago)

sheffield. what's in wales? nuthin' that's what.

jed_ (jed), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:10 (nineteen years ago)

(i've never been to sheffield or cardiff)

jed_ (jed), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:12 (nineteen years ago)

I recommend the Hokkaido variety, it's a bit darker and more bitter at first taste... but complexly dissolves into a subtle yet rich flavor.

Oh, for goodness "sake" :)

JTS (JTS), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:13 (nineteen years ago)

T/S: The Manics vs. Pulp

Scourage (Haberdager), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:13 (nineteen years ago)

I know people who went to uni in Sheffield and had a brilliant time. They didn't mention it being particularly rough and it didn't seem so when I visited.

theantmustdance (theantmustdance), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:14 (nineteen years ago)

Bits of Cardiff can be rough as arses so you should ignore the "might get killed" factor in your decision.

Onimo (GerryNemo), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:17 (nineteen years ago)

Cardiff, home of the 'Soul Crew', most notorious hooligan collective in Britain. Sheffield, home of that funny-shaped music museum. depends whether you wanna live life on the edge, bro

Scourage (Haberdager), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:18 (nineteen years ago)

Sheffield uni has a building with a lift that doesn't have doors - you just jump on and off when you get to your floor. Don't know whether that would affect your decision?

theantmustdance (theantmustdance), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:22 (nineteen years ago)

I have friends who loved Sheffield. I think that's what you want us to say, too.

Earwig oh! (Mark C), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:24 (nineteen years ago)

a paternoster lift

xp

jed_ (jed), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:25 (nineteen years ago)

Sheffield: Sex City

(just in case the lift didn't have you convinced)

Scourage (Haberdager), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:27 (nineteen years ago)

Sheffield uni has a building with a lift that doesn't have doors

YES! That was in the languages building. The best thing about my visiting day... I must have spent at least half an hour in that thing. Does it flip over when it gets to the top/bottom to go the other way?

JTS (JTS), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:28 (nineteen years ago)

Go to Cardiff:

cheapest City for Students in the UK
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/wales/5251632.stm

Has one of the largest Student Union Buildings of any UK University

University buildings are a short walking distance to the City Centre

I went 1988-91, amazing 18 years ago !

Back in those days there were no mobile phones, no internet [and social networks like myspace and bebo], no email accounts, essays were hand written rather than word processed, hardly any students worked part time jobs in the term time, there were no tuition fees, means tested student grants existed, for 88-89 [year 1] and 89-90 [year 2] student loans didn't exist, beer cost 70p pint in the SU. How times have changed !

DJ Martian (djmartian), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:29 (nineteen years ago)

http://www.dartfordarchive.org.uk/technology/magnified/cyclic_elev.jpg

jed_ (jed), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:29 (nineteen years ago)

That lift worries me. If you stuck your chin out JUST a leetle bit too far, you might end up being decapitated by a rapidly rising floor.

Scourage (Haberdager), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:31 (nineteen years ago)

That lift worries me. If you stuck your chin out JUST a leetle bit too far, you might end up being decapitated by a rapidly rising floor.

depends whether you wanna live life on the edge, bro

theantmustdance (theantmustdance), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:33 (nineteen years ago)

sheffield vs cardiff, and this is somehow even a choice


-- (688), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:34 (nineteen years ago)

you know that sheffield is an actual CITY, right?

-- (688), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:34 (nineteen years ago)

I am American and I wish it were possible to run the first post through some sort of British to American translation software. I assume this is about going to college or something????

askance johnson (sdownes), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:35 (nineteen years ago)

DJ Martian do you remember Cerys Matthews? She was there in exactly those years... so was my neighbour Nerys (Cerys' best friend at the time, due to the rhyming names). She is fundamentally pro-Cardiff in every thing I ask about university, she probably be morbidly disappointed if I didn't go....

JTS (JTS), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:35 (nineteen years ago)

theantmustdance wins. :-)

Scourage (Haberdager), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:36 (nineteen years ago)

yay!

theantmustdance (theantmustdance), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:40 (nineteen years ago)

Yeah that was pretty good and scarily accurate. That thing ain't safe!!

JTS (JTS), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:42 (nineteen years ago)

Cardiff Wins: 10 Reasons

Millenium Stadium
Cardiff Bay Developments
Better City Centre Shopping
Spillers Records
Cheaper City to live in
A more buzzing City Centre
Fast trains to London
Wide choice of Student Accommodation
Chicken Curry and Chips available at 3am in Caroline Street
and devolved power: National Assembly for Wales

DJ Martian (djmartian), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:46 (nineteen years ago)

Sheffield has nice areas and rough areas like any other city, but oddly these areas are entirely segregated. Most of the centre is just a big campus really, the students outnumber the locals and it's practically as safe as living in a selfconained campus like UEA or wherever. It's rough out in the suburbs, but unless you know people who live there you won't feel the need to go explore them.

I've been here 4 years, have absolutely no regard for personal safety,and only come a cropper once (and only from teenagers in a shortcut alley)

Nightlife here is pretty great, starting to get included on more and better tour schedules + homegrown music scene is consistently interesting (arctic monkeys aside)

Also, i dunno where you're from, but from Sheffield you have easy transport links to leeds, manchester (trains home at 2am and 4am, i go clubbing there sometimes and sleep in my own bed afterwards!), nottingham etc. The peak district! Spoilt for northern choice really.

Everyone i know that's been to uni in Wales quit before their second year thru boredom and went home (ok this was bangor and not cardiff, but still)


Oh and you'd get a good education here too, probably!

Slumpman (Slump Man), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:47 (nineteen years ago)

Thanks Slumpman.... :)

Another thing, due to the cheapness of Cardiff, my student grant is cheaper than what would be required for Sheffield...... is it worth the debt? Can I get the grant topped up maybe?

JTS (JTS), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:54 (nineteen years ago)

Also Mark Sutherland - who later ruined the Melody Maker ! was at Cardiff Uni during my first year 1988-89 - I had no idea at the time !

The year i joined the two existing universities UWIST and UCC were merged into UWCC - University of Wales: College of Cardiff [or Cardiff University as everyone refers to it] there were over 10,000 students

No idea about Cerys ! I was on a BSc Business Administration course, and I can imagine her doing something in Humanities, correct?

DJ Martian (djmartian), Thursday, 17 August 2006 22:58 (nineteen years ago)

Eddie Izzard went to Sheffield!
He has an honourary doctorate in "funnies"!

Slumpman (Slump Man), Thursday, 17 August 2006 23:03 (nineteen years ago)

In 1989, the paternoster in Newcastle University's Claremont Tower was taken out of service after a passenger undertaking an up-and-over journey fouled himself on the drive chain, necessitating a rescue by the Fire Service. A conventional elevator was subsequently installed in its place

Paul Kelly (kelly), Friday, 18 August 2006 06:41 (nineteen years ago)

Sheffield is a great city. Never been to Cardiff.

Son of Spam (noodle vague), Friday, 18 August 2006 06:47 (nineteen years ago)

Sheffield...How do you know Cardiff will keep their 'promise' to let you transfer over to your original course at the end of the year?

Bob Six (bobbysix), Friday, 18 August 2006 06:51 (nineteen years ago)

sheffield is a really cool town. never been to cardiff.

i swear there was a thread somewhere about paternoster lifts. we had one at uni of essex.

wogan lenin (dog latin), Friday, 18 August 2006 07:10 (nineteen years ago)

What Noodle and Dog Latin said.

Forest Pines (ForestPines), Friday, 18 August 2006 07:19 (nineteen years ago)

I've never even been to the city and had been secretly hoping I would go to Sheffield all along as I have a lot of friends living up there

go to sheffield, then. end of story!

cardiff's an interesting and likeable city, in my limited knowledge of it; the beer's very good. but sheffield FUCKING ROCKS and IMHO beats it hands down.

is that paternoster lift still there, dudes? i'll be down there in october and I MUST GO ON THAT FUCKING LIFT. then i can die happy. where is this "languages building" of which you speak? oh wow.

grimly fiendish (grimlord), Friday, 18 August 2006 08:06 (nineteen years ago)

There was a paternoster lift at Salford too. Thems things ain't funny when you're tipsy.

NickB (NickB), Friday, 18 August 2006 08:08 (nineteen years ago)

I have lived in Cardiff since 1998, having also gone there for uni purposes. It has its good and bad points. A lot of things are pissing me off about it at the moment. Spillers, its only 'general' independent record shop, is up for sale as of about two days ago. It wouldn't surprise me if no-one bought it. It's not violent unless you go looking for it, I got mugged once about two years ago down the bay area and have had no other trouble ever (and the dude let me put my wallet back after giving him some notes). I haven't been to Sheffield, it seems OK.

DJ Mencap (DJ Mencap), Friday, 18 August 2006 08:18 (nineteen years ago)

one of my friends did english at sheffield and enjoyed it. also my sis seemed to be tempted to change to there from cambridge at some point, so it must have some stuff going for it.

otoh I visited cardiff for the first time a couple of weeks ago, and jeez, what a shithole!

toby (tsg20), Friday, 18 August 2006 08:44 (nineteen years ago)

I did a postgrad in Sheffield and loved it to bits. I think it's a great place to be a student. I injured myself in the paternoster lift, mind.

Alba (Alba), Friday, 18 August 2006 09:13 (nineteen years ago)

goddamit. has everybody in the world been on this lift except me? going on a paternoster lift is my raison d'etre. i dream about the things. (it was playing "wacky waiters" on my friend's vic-20 in 1982 that did it.)

grimly fiendish (grimlord), Friday, 18 August 2006 09:19 (nineteen years ago)

I have seen this lift, but didn't get a ride in it.

Forest Pines (ForestPines), Friday, 18 August 2006 09:26 (nineteen years ago)

what, because it was too full of other ILX0rs going "wahey!" and occasionally injuring themselves? :)

grimly fiendish (grimlord), Friday, 18 August 2006 09:37 (nineteen years ago)

Was Alba the person who fouled himself inside the lift then?

Earwig oh! (Mark C), Friday, 18 August 2006 10:01 (nineteen years ago)

No, I was on a guided tour of the university and didn't get chance.

Forest Pines (ForestPines), Friday, 18 August 2006 10:08 (nineteen years ago)

yeah, when we visited, toby kept saying 'thank god i didn't go to uni at cardiff'. seriously.

i have to say that i didn't like cardiff nearly as much as i'd expected (and i'm a fan of decaying/regenerating cities). but if you're an outdoorsy type and have a car, the surrounding countryside is pretty nice.

colette (a2lette), Friday, 18 August 2006 10:43 (nineteen years ago)

Sheffield's pretty great for outdoorsy stuff too though. Right on the edge of the Peak District - lots of scope for climbing/walking/mountain biking/drunken picnics.

NickB (NickB), Friday, 18 August 2006 10:47 (nineteen years ago)

There was a report a couple of days back about how Cardiff is the most expensive place in the UK to live when expressed as a percentage. However it had the average monthly wage at about £1100, and the cost of living (ie 'essentials') at about £1070. So that means that the average Cardiffian has about £1 per day to spend on non-essential items, according to this report. Errrrr.

DJ Mencap (DJ Mencap), Friday, 18 August 2006 11:01 (nineteen years ago)

maybe non essential items are really cheap in cardiff

ken c (ken c), Friday, 18 August 2006 11:28 (nineteen years ago)

They have a pound shop.

Onimo (GerryNemo), Friday, 18 August 2006 11:34 (nineteen years ago)

Handheld fan one day, pacamac the next day, repeat until year is over

DJ Mencap (DJ Mencap), Friday, 18 August 2006 12:04 (nineteen years ago)

Oh and Spillers is being sold, but not because it's dying on its arse (AFAIK). The couple who owned it are divorcing and can't agree who gets it in the settlement

DJ Mencap (DJ Mencap), Friday, 18 August 2006 12:06 (nineteen years ago)

JTS, just seen this:

Univillage Launches UK Facebook
http://mashable.com/2006/08/21/univillage-launches-uk-facebook/
Univillage, which launched officially on August 16th, is the first social networking site aimed squarely at UK university (equivalent of US college) students - pretty clearly, it’s trying to be the UK’s Facebook. The service is available to those with a ac.uk email address, but you can sign up with any address for the first few weeks. The reason for that - and the choice of launch date - is that English high school students received their results last week. New students can now network well in advance of Fresher’s Week, where they would normally meet for the first time.

Univillage
http://www.univillage.com/Home.jhtml

DJ Martian (djmartian), Monday, 21 August 2006 11:46 (nineteen years ago)

Laugh at the American blogger, "English high school students"

...what about Welsh, Scottish and Northern Ireland students !

DJ Martian (djmartian), Monday, 21 August 2006 11:49 (nineteen years ago)

50 free music downloads? Could I deal with such guilt?

Seriously, though, the UK's Facebook is, erm, Facebook. It's HERE. Univillage might try but it won't succeed. It's also got 'village' in the title. Village. It just SPEAKS of mediocrity.

Scourage (Haberdager), Monday, 21 August 2006 11:51 (nineteen years ago)

I grew up in Sheffield and was murdered precisely seventeen times over eighteen years. That's a pretty good average. Go there.

steal compass, drive north, disappear (tissp), Monday, 21 August 2006 11:55 (nineteen years ago)

so students will be turned off by the naff branding then?

DJ Martian (djmartian), Monday, 21 August 2006 11:56 (nineteen years ago)

"I've seen you on Facebook" is cringeworthy enough.

"I've seen you on Univillage" = end of conversation.

Scourage (Haberdager), Monday, 21 August 2006 11:57 (nineteen years ago)

Scourage OTM. Claiming to have seen someone's Myspace is bad enough, they usually get shifty or extremely embarrased. Plus we use Internet community sites to get away from things like education, don't we??

And by the way, I chose Sheffield in the end. Cardiff seemed way too conditional. Death lift here I come!!!

JTS (JTS), Monday, 21 August 2006 13:30 (nineteen years ago)

Univillage is a bag of shite. I'm on a mailing list for people who work at universities and it was on fire because it seemed like a whole bunch of institutions were missing from their dropdowns on the front page, including some really big ones like Manchester and also the place where I work. After a couple of emails to univillage, it transpired that they had listed a number of institutions under T. For 'the'.

Mädchen (Madchen), Monday, 21 August 2006 13:33 (nineteen years ago)

They've fixed it now. But still, everyone uses facebook.

Mädchen (Madchen), Monday, 21 August 2006 13:34 (nineteen years ago)

To get the best answer to your question, I'd recommend you get in touch with the alumni officers for Sheffield and Cardiff and ask to be put in touch with a recent graduate who studied the course you want to do. They'll give you specific, relevant advice as opposed to the "I went there once and got into a fight" comments you'll get from ilx ;)

Mädchen (Madchen), Monday, 21 August 2006 13:39 (nineteen years ago)

three weeks pass...
Wow, was that really only one month ago? At present I'm sitting in my room in the (brand new) Forge building in Sheffield. Today was my first day!

JTS (JTS), Sunday, 17 September 2006 00:07 (nineteen years ago)

How did it go? When do the Freshers' Week shenanigans kick off in earnest? Any hotties/otherly desirable sorts within immediate range of your living area?

Space Gourmand (Haberdager), Sunday, 17 September 2006 00:16 (nineteen years ago)

Yes, even though most people haven't arrived yet, the "Bar-one" was full to burst. I just seemed to make friends with "everyone" and that wasn't a drunken exaggeration (I'm saving myself for the "Forge Bar Crawl" tomorrow night...), people just bump into you and then give you their number. It's unreal, I've never witnessed socialising in this way before :) The only niggle is the self-catering aspect... looks like I'll be living off Asda Own Brand Bony Hake Bake for a while......

JTS (JTS), Sunday, 17 September 2006 00:31 (nineteen years ago)

Yeah, you'll find yourself with more friends than you can maintain. It's all ok though; the darwin-esque selection process is tacitly acknowledged by every student, and acquaintances, even moderate friends can slip away without any regret on either side.

You may only realise who your great mates are two or even three terms in. Enjoy this one, while it lasts, as much as you can, and by thunder get involved.

And learn how to cook pasta. Carbohydrates fuel the eager student.

Space Gourmand (Haberdager), Sunday, 17 September 2006 00:36 (nineteen years ago)

you're in a nice location! london road and ecclesall road are two of the best student locals in the city, and you're right next to both of them.

Freshers keep walking past my house carrying duvets and dishes, i feel old :(

Get yourself down to Offbeat on tuesday night (its in the raynor lounge within bar-one), wonderful indie club night.

Slumpman (Slump Man), Sunday, 17 September 2006 10:36 (nineteen years ago)

people just bump into you and then give you their number

that makes me feel really OLD. my "number" in first year was an oft-broken payphone shared with two floors' worth of other freshers!

louis OTM about the selection-process thing. i remember making about 20 new "friends" on my first night and thinking, woah, i'm set up for ever here. within a couple of weeks, the whole dynamic had changed ... then it changed again ... oh, it was fucking wonderful. i'm all nostalgic now!

and i'm still in touch with one person i met on that first night!

grimly fiendish (grimlord), Sunday, 17 September 2006 10:46 (nineteen years ago)

you made the right choice :)

get yourself down to the Black cat for some fantastic beer.

Porkpie (porkpie), Sunday, 17 September 2006 10:57 (nineteen years ago)

Fat Cat, surely?

danski (danski), Sunday, 17 September 2006 11:22 (nineteen years ago)

um, Devonshire Cat?

Slumpman (Slump Man), Sunday, 17 September 2006 11:53 (nineteen years ago)

you gotta be careful, these pubs and clubs in university towns change name every coupla years...

Space Gourmand (Haberdager), Sunday, 17 September 2006 11:55 (nineteen years ago)

yeah, fat cat sorry, I was thinking of something else. The one down near Kelham Island anyway :)

Porkpie (porkpie), Sunday, 17 September 2006 13:57 (nineteen years ago)

I went to Sheffield Uni too (1998-2001). If the Sunday comedy nights at the Cavendish (?) are still on, get down to those. Sheffield's a nice city, friendly people and a few decent places to go. Best advice is to find yourself the best little alt bar in the city and become a near-permanent fixture. I don't know if it's still open but I spent a lot of time at the Casbah and met local pop heroes from bands like Cabaret Voltaire and more. The more time you spend outside of uni-related stuff the better person you'll become. I was bitterly disappointed with 99% of my fellow students (Playstation-playing, Pamela Anderson postered-walls, vaguely likeable but empty-headed future middle-managers) and as soon as I broke off from them my uni life became tons better.

Other things.. the city library has a great collection of films, dvd, cds and books - devour them. I've never been so can't vouch for it, but check out a night called Razor Stilleto.

You're in a good position for getting to places like Manchester, Leeds and Liverpool so find a gang of likeminded people and make regular trips out. (As good as Sheffield is, Manchester's nightlife trounces it.)

Affectian (Affectian), Sunday, 17 September 2006 15:13 (nineteen years ago)

Go, Sheffo

danski (danski), Sunday, 17 September 2006 18:06 (nineteen years ago)

Sheffield's a great city. I really must get back to the Sheffield Munch some time.

Forest Pines (ForestPines), Sunday, 17 September 2006 18:09 (nineteen years ago)

http://www.dontgo.co.uk/fanzine/issue3/6.jpg

danski (danski), Sunday, 17 September 2006 18:15 (nineteen years ago)

Is Sheffield Britain's most cutting edge city?
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/5324458.stm

DJ Martian (djmartian), Sunday, 17 September 2006 18:16 (nineteen years ago)

It was, but a lot of the cutlery factories shut down (ho ho ho etc)

Forest Pines (ForestPines), Sunday, 17 September 2006 18:17 (nineteen years ago)

I'm sorry, re #10, you need a gay friend to get into Dempsy's? How do they verify? (actually, please don't answer that)

xxpost

ailsa (ailsa), Sunday, 17 September 2006 18:17 (nineteen years ago)

To be honest, I think it's a bit of a lottery where you go. No one really gives a toss what degree you get at the end of it, and how much you enjoy yourself really depends on your personality and sheer luck rather than the city itself (although that helps).

For more exciting stories, and some magical diary action, check here.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Sunday, 17 September 2006 18:23 (nineteen years ago)

also - get one bottle of Henderson's relish, gods own condiment

Porkpie (porkpie), Sunday, 17 September 2006 18:26 (nineteen years ago)

Made for a 100 years!

danski (danski), Sunday, 17 September 2006 18:26 (nineteen years ago)

First part of Matt's post should in theory be OTM, but I get the feeling that some of us are fed through a 'machine' to get to the top universities. I myself could in fact be said to have partaken of this process. I don't think it matters, though, what degree you get, although some employers may beg to differ, and I plan to do as well as I can without compromising my sociability or enjoyment.

I may, however, have some Mickey-esque 'i am so embarrassed right now' tales to tell on that other thread...

Space Gourmand (Haberdager), Sunday, 17 September 2006 18:32 (nineteen years ago)

I'm sorry, re #10, you need a gay friend to get into Dempsy's? How do they verify? (actually, please don't answer that)

time was, you'd need to come in with an existing member to get yr membership card, they've abandoned that since losing a lot of their punters to a new gay bar.
As i see it, the bouncers take a look at you and decide whether you can come in or not -which sounds awful but considering it's a (very) cheap late bar there are a lot of tossers who try their luck.

Slumpman (Slump Man), Sunday, 17 September 2006 20:23 (nineteen years ago)

Thanks for all the advice and feedback guys. This morning the rest of my flatmates turned up and we all got on quite well... I seem to have several "initiations" in store before the week is out.
Tonight was simply amazing, my halls arranged a pub crawl involing at least 5 or 6 different places (I love the irresponsibility of halls staff!!!): The "R+R club", Canvendish, Vodka Revolution and Gatecrasher to name a few. We did pass the aforemntioned "Devonshire Cat" on the way to the Gatecrasher. I was lucky enough to win permission to go on the balcony above the Gatecrasher which was bizarre and incredibly euphoric. Coming back to the room I feel like I have been here for ages, when actually I've been here for just over 2 days...... weird, huh?

I'll keep you posted as the first days progress..... nothing is making me think that Sheffield wasn't the right choice, everything is just gelling perfectly.

JTS (JTS), Monday, 18 September 2006 00:46 (nineteen years ago)

OH, the initiations. I remember (just about)...

Off to bed now, but good luck with whatever they force you to do. And pray that it only involves alcohol...

Space Gourmand (Haberdager), Monday, 18 September 2006 00:48 (nineteen years ago)

eight months pass...

Oh God, what a hell of a year that turned out to be. Now my major dilemma is, do I slave away over the summer doing coursework (when there are next to no tutors/administrators around to receive it), or just repeat the first year, which my personal tutor believes is a must if I wanted to have adequate knowledge for the second year. Don't get me wrong, I did work hard, I was just so out of touch with some areas of the university and university procedure in general, I didn't realise how one essay could affect a whole module, and also took some of the loopholes in the rules a little too seriously. I also developed a bad case of anxiety/depression after being attacked (in the Moor Shopping Centre!), which happened around the time most people could have sorted out these problems.

The control over myself, my reputation and my spending has whittled away to below 0 and there are some who believe that uni may not have been for me after all. I am guilty of doing manic things like hopping on a train to Inverness while drunk, realising at Durham and having to buy another ticket there bound for my home town, not cheap. Please tell me that is expected usual drunken hi-jinx of someone my age and I'm not going crazy, because that is how I feel right now.

Please help, thank you....

JTS, Monday, 4 June 2007 04:41 (eighteen years ago)

Plus the module choices I made were horrific and not proportionate to each other in terms of units at all. If I repeated the year I could choose them a bit better.

Being a year older than everyone else, and the fact of still being in education in the year 2011 is something I can't get my head around though.

JTS, Monday, 4 June 2007 06:28 (eighteen years ago)

Please tell me that is expected usual drunken hi-jinx of someone my age and I'm not going crazy, because that is how I feel right now.

hmm, i'm almost 32 and i still wouldn't rule out doing something like that myself, so ... nah, i wouldn't worry too much. might want to go somewhere nearer and more fun than inverness, mind.

in all seriousness, though, this is the sentence that sticks out like a bad hangover:

The control over myself, my reputation and my spending has whittled away to below 0

you've gotta sort that out first. how you do that is up to you, but you might consider giving up drinking for a month. i did, just after my 30th birthday, and it gave me perspective like you wouldn't believe. drastic measures, but hey :)

i do think that repeating the year is probably your best idea, actually. clean slate, and all that.

grimly fiendish, Monday, 4 June 2007 14:06 (eighteen years ago)

i went to uni straight out of high school: moved cities to do so, and coming from a strict family, i went CRAZY - not just the first year, but also the second. out of 12 courses over 2 years i only passed 2 (and that was by the good grace of departmental fuck-ups). i dropped out, went and worked for a few years, then went back and started all over again at the ripe old age of 24. had to be in classes with 18yr olds, which sucked, but glad i did it. now almost finished my english lit degree!

don't stress about it - you're self-aware enough to realise things are getting a little out of hand, and that's a good start. maybe get some counselling and take a break from the partying for awhile, till you get you head sorted. but don't punish yourself for things that have already been done and can't be changed.

Rubyred, Monday, 4 June 2007 14:15 (eighteen years ago)

Not sure what course you're doing, but your first year grades doesn't count toward the final grade do they? It's there to let people get used to uni life and it's the years afterwards that really count, or it does in the world of arts degrees anyway.

Don't use 'drunken hijinks' as a get-out clause, if it's affecting you (and others) in a bad way, sort it out.

NI, Monday, 4 June 2007 15:08 (eighteen years ago)

My first year marks didn't count towards my final result, but boy were those modules the foundation for the next three years.

Madchen, Monday, 4 June 2007 15:27 (eighteen years ago)


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