This is all just a big splurge when I could have said "Aimlessness - Classic Or Dud?" and you'd have got the point. Or maybe it's that middle-class guilt I keep reading about!
― Tom, Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
― N., Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
Oh, I'm trying to think of a decent platitude here. Life is what happens while we are not making stuff of it. Does relentless achievement make is any happier? What I object to more is when my procrastination and general lack of lustre gets in the way of me doing what I want to do (missing a film last night because I left work five minues late...)
― Pete, Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
― Trevor, Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
Im hoping by the way that everyone will say "Yeah this anomie is part of the human condition" not "Stop whining bourgeois dog".
I think people in general would be happier once they acknowledge that they will never reach a state of complete fulfillment in their lives - aspiration is a bottomless pit, and if you start to feel like the pit is full, THEN I think you need to worry.
Daydreaming is leathal. You can spend hours sitting and creating a perfect existance, so when you stop living in your own head the real world seems terribly flat by comparison. You then get the added blow of knowing that not only do things feel flat, but you have just spent time that could have gone towards making your daydreams (or something like them) a reality sitting around on your own.
My head is firmly in the clouds today. I cannot dislodge it.
(Middle class guilt? I now feel terrible for posting the dreams question - sorry)
― Anna, Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
― Nicole, Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
That's odd. I did that last week. My misspelling is infecting your BRANE.
Fame and praise should be dispelled like mucous from your nose, because they delude you.
Because what arises now is the result of past actions, results will never match your present desires.
Friends, desirable things are like drinking salt water, they do not produce satisfaction. Therefore be content.
― misterjones, Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
― Emma, Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
To cut a long and boring story short, I passed it up in favour of a less stressful job to spend more time doing the things which make life worth living - family, friends, music, sport. I am a *different* person now. Despite feeling grateful that I no longer have to act the charade of corporate businessman,a role I never felt comfortable in, I sometimes get a nagging feeling that I *should* have knuckled down, gone for the big money and pushed on with my career. Isn't that what all those years of education were *for*?
― Dr. C, Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
― Momus, Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
In my case, I can point to specific things that I regret not doing (or, rather, not having done yet), it's not a totally abstract sensation. But yes, I think it does have something to do with the inertia induced by not having to worry unduly about where the next meal is coming from. Of course, identifying the problem is still only half the battle.
― Jeff W, Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
― Deadman, Tuesday, 5 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)
So for example: I've been going out with my girlfriend for a long time. It is possible that there are other people who I have not gone out with because of this. The Law of Regret above says that I should regret not going out with them more than my conscious choice to stay with my girlfriend i.e. it is a RECIPE FOR BROKEN HOMES and you should pay it no mind.
― jel, Wednesday, 6 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)