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Here's where we start delving into my twisted psyche. I'm attracted to disability. Deformities, various braces, amputees, wheelchairs...

And I don't mean it'll just make me attracted to someone with one of those things on the spot...just like someone whose says they like blue eyes doesn't automatically have a crush on someone with blue eyes. Also, similarly, it's not a REQUIRED thing...but I find it very attractive.

I'm wondering if I'm alone in this weirdness...

So detail any similarly odd/twisted attractions...

― Melissa W, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I think my fetishes are boringly calm in comparison, sorry...

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I like spanking, clerical uniforms and being written on.

― anthony, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

My fetishes are so boring they're barely fetishes, but I'll list them anyway. I'm attracted to women in suits, jailbait, and women who don't like me. Attracted to women who are visibly pissed off and angry. Attracted to anyone with whom a hook-up would be completely unlikely. Attracted to women with whom hooking up would be some kind of act of betrayal. Attracted to women who are the opposite of my type. I'm not too into deformities, but I definitely think lisps are really fucking hot.

― Otis Wheeler, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Oh god yes, lisps are wonderful. Not total...but if it's slight and someone is really soft-spoken.

― Melissa W, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i was thinking lisps before i even read what you guys said about lisps. lisps are hot.

― ethan, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

It's a preference not a fetish, but I'm attracted to plump women. Actually it's more of an inflection even than a preference. Whatever.

But the point is it's not - shouldn't be - a 'fetish' but it does get treated as such occasionally. It shouldn't I don't think even be seen as an unusual attraction - but then why am I so worried about a preference being seen as a fetish? (Possibly because like every other nice liberal boy I want to believe I'm a personality-first type of guy).

― Tom, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

How plump?

― Melissa W, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I don't know exactly, cos it's dependent on height partly and also cause I'm useless at guessing weight. Um um um - UK dress sizes 16-24 maybe?? But it's not something I can put limits on really.

Why?

― Tom, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Well because I'm a plump girl. But I'm wondering if I'm too plump.

― Melissa W, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Mine are not really fetishes either but things i find pleseant when they happen. Does a Fetish not mean it is required to get happy ?

― anthony, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I wouldn't say I'm the arbiter of all plumpnesses, i.e. there's not some scale which has a fixed 'too plump' end and all men who like plump women will go that far and no further. This is actually why I'm so reluctant to talk about it cuz the only real way to calibrate it would be to say do you fancy X and Y and Z and even then there are so so so many other factors. The safest thing to say is that a correlation is not a cause - plumpness seems to increase a person's chances of being fancied by Tom.

― Tom, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Girls with short hair. Sorry, nothing too unusual.

― tarden, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Tom - me too, though I prefer the terms 'chubby', or 'Rubenesque'. I confessed this to a friend once, a Burundian, who told me in his land women with more rounded figures were regarded as the ideal and he struggled to understand European concepts of feminine beauty.

― stevo, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I like girls with unique noses, thats it really.

― james e l, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Most people I know consider *all* my qualifications for attraction are slightly twisted. I mean, OK, not in the JG Ballard territory of yourse, Mel ::ducks::

Attraction and beauty are really not quantifiable things. This is where I think that the mass media's homogenised idea of beauty really hurts us- not only do we think we're freaks if we don't meet those criteria ourselves (us girls in the 18 to 24 range) but we think we're freaks if we're *attracted* to non-standard beauty ourselves.

― masonic boom, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I don't know quite how to explain how this attraction works. It's kind of separate from standard attraction.

Like it's not like Jonny Greenwood would have to lose a leg for me.
He's perfect regardless.
However, were I to see a Jonny Greenwood type standing on a street corner wearing a backbrace, I might not be able to contain myself.
Um...
Come to think of it, Jonny does have that lovely armbrace and a slight lisp...

And then Thom has his eye. Did I have a point at all?

― Melissa W, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Like I always say, it's the imperfections that makes someone truly beautiful as opposed to merely pretty.

― masonic boom, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I always find myself attracted to things that are imperfect (sorry Kate!!!). It's just more interesting that way. I mean, if someone's perfect what do you talk about?

― Paul Strange, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

"if someone's perfect what do you talk about?"

Well you could bitch about other people's imperfections.

― Tom, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

That's true. Or share comments on how easy/difficult it is to be perfect. Or why aren't more people perfect? Or perfection: help or hindrance?

The list's endless really...

― Paul Strange, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

You mean all that time spent telling me that I was "perfect" was just a hideous ruse to get into my curry last Friday night? ::weeps bitter tears::

― masonic boom, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

"Get into my curry" is the best euphemism EVA.

― Dan Perry, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I've always wanted to fuck a deaf woman, I think it might be something to do with removing music from the equation.

I'm also attracted to *exactly* your level of plumpness, Mel.

Was down about not being able to pull, but recently worked out I've *had* every single person I really (properly) wanted in my life. The endings might be no better but I'm never going to complain about being unable to score again.

― chris, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Agreed, Dan -- it's, you know, so SPICY.

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Military uniforms. But not military men.

― Ally, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

A nicely-tailored women's suit is WOW, but not as WOW as leather.

― Dan Perry, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i like troublemakers i think. Although I don't like raver kids w/ big baggy pants and orange hair and glitter, i am secretly attracted to punk rockers and skateboard punks who are skinny and wear bondange pants (the plaid ones!), although i would never (even before I was married) kiss or date one and it's not really a fetish then. i just like to watch them and their crazy antics. I lived with one who was 4 years younger than me when I was at school last year, I and thought he was the coolest thing. I gave him one of my guitars for a present, so he could make punk music. I hope I have a kid who turns into a punk rocker and is really into science.

― marianna, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Also, the only time I ever got asked out in college, was when I was really pissed off about having to go to a party, and then decided instead of dressing up to wear my black trousers/shirt and tightly fitting army jacket, and big clunky boots.

All dates which were had as a result of this outfit were horrible, as they were all guys who seemingly wanted me to be their Mom.

― marianna, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

It wasn't just your curry I was trying to get into, Kate! ;)

Besides, though you may not be perfect, you'll always be perfect for me.

You may now all be violently sick.

― Paul Strange, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

short hair, interesting clothes , dreads, an interesting look, a bold look

turned away by makeup, or at least obvious make up although sometime really bold unaturally colors and styles can be quite attractive, and perfume.

all this being said I'm much more attracted to an interesting viewpoint and an intelligent line of conversatuion.

the stats show that north american women are way more attracted to me that british women. (there is limited data to analyse though)

― Ed, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Melissa, have you ever broken your own leg or arm and then...oh, you know.

― tarden, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I'm a smelly underarm man - guy or girl, if it's a stink, but not a stench, i'll be yr wench.

― Geoff, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I like unibrows.

― Arthur, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Well, I didn't know it until I met my fiance, but I apparenly have a thing for chest hair... maybe it's because I twirl my own hair so compulsively? I don't know, but I do know that it's incredibly sexy to run my fingers through his chest hair... *blush*

― Danielle, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

girls who have hair in bright unnatural dyed colours.

― junichiro, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Well, I didn't know it until I met my fiance, but I apparenly have a thing for chest hair...

At the risk of offending someone, I was EXTREMELY RELIEVED to get to the end of this and realize that a man was being discussed and not a woman. Women with chest hair aren't my bag.

― Dan Perry, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Um, excuse me, Dan, but... how could the chest hair thing NOT tip you off that I was talking about a man? I didn't even know it was *possible* for women to have chest hair...

― Danielle, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Yes, I know I was being kind of dense. Still, I've seen women with full goatees thicker than mine, so it can't be too far outside the realm of possibility...

― Dan Perry, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Yow, that's some pretty scary facial hair, I'm sure! Well, in that case Dan, I will forgive you your denseness. :)

― Danielle, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I once knew a woman with thick black hair on her bottom. Remarkable.

― Paul Strange, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I love lizard faced ladies.

― Mike Hanle y, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I am strangely attracted to 12' lizards, especially when they run world conspiracy agencies like the Bilderberger Group!

― Kate the Saint, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Kate - stop this rumour that I'm a giant lizard! It's like living in V: The Miniseries...

― Paul Strange, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I don't think she's implying you're a 12 foot lizard, just admitting she is secretly attracted to Sean Price and his alien controllers.

― Richard Tunnicliffe, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

BWAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes, there's nothing sexier than a man who can't keep in rhtythm.

― Kate the Saint, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I've always thought it would be keen to have meaningless sex with a Scientologist girl.

― tOM p, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

You do realise that Sean e-mailed me about that remark!!! That took some complaining. He's really very nice, you know!

― Paul Strange, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

What, AGAIN?!?!? Sheesh, man, get a sense of humour...

― Kate the Saint, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Well now that Nicole Kidman is free, Tom, the world is your oyster.

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I am currently watching a Channel 5 masterpiece called www.sex.com or somesuch thing like that, which is a "documentary" on the online fetish porn industry.

Let me tell you...

*NONE* of you have weird attractions, compared to this shit.

"Foot Job". I didn't need to know that.

― Kate the Saint, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

The Twelve Foot Lizards have no need for a sense of humour. How would humour assist them in their quest to take over the London indie scene? Finding things funny would only serve to distract them from the more important task of exploring the world contained within Badly Drawn Boy's hat.

― Richard Tunnicliffe, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

OK, I've seen rubber fetishes before, but there's a bloke on here who likes wearing rubber inflatable outfits. Very, very interesting, let me tell you.

― Kate the Saint, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Damn, I miss all the good shows when I'm at work!!! Argh! It'll probably be GMTV by the time I get home... :(

― Paul Strange, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I knew a girl who liked to go to the toilet on her boyfriends. Number twos. First date sex must've been very awkward.

― Paul Strange, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i would like to second the scientologist comment.

― ethan, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Man, I hate Channel 5 sometimes... they just *said* that they were going to show a film about a nude American woman next, but now they're showing footie. Bor-RING!!!

― Kate the Saint, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i just discovered canibal incest porn on the net - well, not discovered, it was already there - but fuck it's weird.

― Geoff, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i claim this cannibal incest porn for spain.

― ethan, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Jeez... now why wasn't *that* on Channel 5? I imagine that'd really be the sort of thing they'd go for. But alas, no, all we got was blokes in rubber inflatable suits, and girls in leather gear getting their tits whipped. ::yawn::

― Kate the Saint, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

My Life With the Thrill Kill Kult is back? What?

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I often like to be called a wristwatch as I wrap my turbulent body around a giant bottle . Call me weird if you will! Its the erotic charge why I do it.

― Mike Hanley, Thursday, 19 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

My anglophilia = fetishization of girls w/fucked teeth

― Tracer Hand, Friday, 20 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

If you are into scat there are services. You do not date the general popualce.

― anthony, Friday, 20 July 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

five months pass...

Yall are fucked up. Especially the dude who said he wanted to fuck a Deaf girl ... I'm one of them and trust me sex is no different than havin sex with a normal girl.

― Lisa, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Why do I have a feeling Lisa is going to be heavily propositioned now?

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)

it's the "fat ass" part that did for me. and she can't hear the horrible things i'll be saying about her...bonus!

― jess, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Scars can be (and often are) very sexy things.. especially if there's a story behind them....

― electric sound of jim, Thursday, 17 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)

God, the deaf sex thing had never really occurred to me before, but yeah.

― N., Saturday, 19 January 2002 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)

two months pass...

Hmmmm....when I'm on top of a guy and having sex with him, I sometimes have this compelling urge to slap him...HARD...across his cute little face. Strange?

― T, Monday, 15 April 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Not if your name is Nicole Kidman and this happened sometime in the past 10 years.

― Dan Perry, Monday, 15 April 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

five months pass...

fetishes... well mine's odd.

I like really femenin (sp?) guys, and guys who are very slim, un-muscular and... pretty! So Im always attracted to gay guys, where's my love? Well, I also like chicks, but I just cant help but LOVE little cute guys, they're so... yeah.

― Froggie D, Friday, 11 October 2002 07:05 (twenty-three years ago)

I fully endorse the widespread adoption of this attraction by more women. The very slim and relatively un-muscular, often mistaken for gay stuff anyway. (Is this really considered a fetish? Gack.)

― sundar subramanian, Friday, 11 October 2002 07:33 (twenty-three years ago)

I like necks, I get very aroused having my neck touched and I love guys necks. They have to look a certain way though, you know that little bit of hair going down into a point that some guys have? Fwoarrrgh!!!

― Plinky (Plinky), Friday, 11 October 2002 08:02 (twenty-three years ago)

I like women who i have major disagreements with.

― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Friday, 11 October 2002 09:44 (twenty-three years ago)

I like menm with really strong hands

― luna.c (luna.c), Friday, 11 October 2002 09:47 (twenty-three years ago)

men, as well

― luna.c (luna.c), Friday, 11 October 2002 09:49 (twenty-three years ago)

Julio, are you hitting on me?

― Melissa W (Melissa W), Friday, 11 October 2002 15:59 (twenty-three years ago)

haha mel beat me to it.

― jess (dubplatestyle), Friday, 11 October 2002 16:01 (twenty-three years ago)

hehe...

― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Friday, 11 October 2002 16:05 (twenty-three years ago)

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