Laundry Facility Etiquette

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There has to be a thread on this, already, but I can't get the search engine to work, so here goes:

When living in a place where there's a shared laundry facility (in, say, an apartment complex), what is the acceptible thing(s) to do when:

A - some bloody idiot leaves their clothes in the washer and you need to get your laundry going? Can you take it out? Are you obligated to put it into the dryer and pay for the dryer, too?

B - some bloody idiot leaves their clothes in the dryer and you need to get your (now wet) laundry dry? Should you fold the idiot's laundry on their behalf? What if the dryer has stopped but their clothes are still damp?

Also, how long should you wait before assuming that the idiot has forgotten all about their laundry and taking your own drastic actions?

And, does your gender and the (presumed, based on the articles of clothing in the washer/dryer) gender of the idiot make a difference (such as, is it okay for a woman to fold another woman's laundry but not okay for a man to fold a woman's underwear) in what you should or should not do?

(Yes, it's after midnight on a Saturday night/Sunday morning and I'm still doing laundry because of some bloody f-ing idiots and all I want to do is sleep but all of my bed linens are soaking wet!)

I'm Passing Open Windows (Ms Laura), Sunday, 5 November 2006 08:11 (nineteen years ago)

Dump the laundry out into a basket, or failing that on top of the machine or the floor, get yours done.

(probably the best way to find the old thread is to search for 'wtf you crazy americans don't have washing machines in your houses')

Ed (dali), Sunday, 5 November 2006 08:18 (nineteen years ago)

Thanks for the search hint *grinning* We USED to have our own washer and dryer, but when we moved from the house in Florida to the apartment in California, there were no laundry hook-ups and so we sold our washer and dryer set. Grumble. Grumble.

Actually, I'm really hesitant about taking out someone else's laundry, 'cause last time I did that (after waiting for an hour and half!) I started feeling guilty and so I folded the young lady's clothes. She walked into the laundry room when I was about 3/4 done with the folding and when she saw what I was doing she burst into tears. I don't know which of us felt worse at that moment.

I'm Passing Open Windows (Ms Laura), Sunday, 5 November 2006 08:28 (nineteen years ago)

I'm staying in a hotel with shared laundry while working in the LA area. There are signs all over the place about not leaving your laundry in the machines, and so far people have been fairly good about it. But not last night. I hauled my stuff down there to find three washers in use/being loaded, and two washers stopped with stuff in them. Left my stuff in its basket on the shelf, went and did something else for 20 minutes, came back, stuff still in the machines. Lacking patience, I took it out and put it on the table. And found $60 in wet bills in this tiny, female person's stuff to complicate matters.

For A) - if people are thoughtless enough to leave their stuff in the machine for 20 - 30 minutes, you can take it out, leaving it somewhere that's not the floor, but you're not obligated to dry it.

For B) - Hm. If it's dry, I'd say just take it out, no folding. If they've left it, they don't care about creases. If it's still damp, it might depend on how badly I needed mine to finish. I'd probably put some quarters in and finish it drying, then remove it to someplace not the floor.

As to what to do with a wet pile of someone else's money - I debated leaving it at the front desk, but in the end just flattened it underneath the wet clothes on the table. The pile was still there when mine finished nearly 2 hours later.

Jaq (Jaq), Sunday, 5 November 2006 13:55 (nineteen years ago)

Clearly it was someone who knows the value neither of money nor clothing.

As a general rule I think it's ok to take someone's laundry out if they leave it - as a courtesy I try to wait maybe 10-15 minutes and see if another one opens first or if they come back, but the real laundry etiquette question is whether it's rude to leave your clothes in the laundromat in the first place, and it is, very much so - you're depriving other customers of their time and you're depriving the laundromat owner of money.

A-ron Hubbard (Hurting), Sunday, 5 November 2006 14:19 (nineteen years ago)

It's perfectly ok to move their laundry somewhere clean and use the washer or dryer. Putting their newly washed clothes on the floor is horrible, though.

Maria (Maria), Sunday, 5 November 2006 16:17 (nineteen years ago)

I've always been megaparanoid about my shit being stolen in laundromats so I always sat there thru the whole cycles and took my stuff when I was done. I'm amazed people will be blithe enough to just stuff a wash in, and leave it for an hour or 2 and not worry their stuff might get stolen or rifled thru by some weirdo!

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 6 November 2006 09:31 (nineteen years ago)

But this is why everywhere I've lived I make damn sure I have the taps and drain for a machine of my own. Fuck a laundromat.

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 6 November 2006 09:32 (nineteen years ago)

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Hello Sunshine (Hello Sunshine), Monday, 6 November 2006 10:05 (nineteen years ago)

as someone who has virtually no ability to keep time i am reluctant to label people who leave laundry in machines as idiots! the answers seem obvious, take the stuff out and leave it somewhere clean, but don't bother to fold. this doesn't seem like too much of an imposition and speaking as someone who's had this done to me, it's not something to get remotely offended over. the girl who burst into tears was probably a complete mentalist.

The Lex (The Lex), Monday, 6 November 2006 10:12 (nineteen years ago)

Update: So I finally emptied three of the dryers late last night (about 1 AM) and dumped in my laundry. After my stuff was dry, the three piles were still there, so I just put them back in the dryers.

Then, this morning (er, closer to this afternoon, really), I was walking by the laundry room and saw that someone else had taken the clothes out of those dryers and piled them - AGAIN. And as of about 2AM the clothing's still there. So someone really forgot or got called away on an emergency or something. I'm glad I didn't wait.

And you're right - I shouldn't have called the person(s) an idiot - I was just frustrated as hell. Actually, I live with someone who's always forgetting that they've laundry going and just expects that someone else will pile it somewhere if they need to use the machines. So I can see it from both sides, but I still feel odd about touching someone elses clean clothes - it's this level of intimacy with a stranger that just makes me feel uncomfortable - not wrong or dirty, just uncomfortable.

Jaq - how long are you going to be in So Cal?

I'm Passing Open Windows (Ms Laura), Monday, 6 November 2006 10:28 (nineteen years ago)

Just 'til this Friday on this trip, but then back on the Monday following Thanksgiving for a short spell. FAP maybe? I'd love to know more about your critter rescue efforts.

Jaq (Jaq), Monday, 6 November 2006 14:28 (nineteen years ago)

It's perfectly ok to move their laundry somewhere clean and use the washer or dryer.

Agreeance. I am usually on top of these things, but if I get distracted and don't make it downstairs to change over the laundry in time, I am totally okay with someone else moving my clothes over (either into the dryer or on top of it but yeah, please not on the floor, that's just vindictive). The few times someone has folded my laundry, I've wanted to find them so I could kiss them in gratitude. I'm thinking that Ms. Laura's crying woman had other issues that day.

Party Time Country Female (pullapartgirl), Monday, 6 November 2006 14:36 (nineteen years ago)

The kind thing to do is to leave a basket on top of the washer or dryer you're using if you think you might be running late. That way, whoever empties the machine has somewhere to put your stuff.

Then again, in less reputable laundry facilities, your basket gets stolen.

mh. (mike h.), Monday, 6 November 2006 17:50 (nineteen years ago)

I can't believe the girl burst into tears! That's making me sad.

wordy rappinghood (roxymuzak), Monday, 6 November 2006 18:42 (nineteen years ago)

I have folded someone else's laundry once, in college, so that I could use the dryer; he arrived just after I finished (as I was putting my stuff in the now-empty dryer), and seemed touched and grateful.

lurker #2421, inc. (lurker-2421), Monday, 6 November 2006 22:32 (nineteen years ago)

I think I would've been afraid of being labeled a perv had it been a woman's laundry, though.

lurker #2421, inc. (lurker-2421), Monday, 6 November 2006 22:32 (nineteen years ago)

A few weeks ago, I put clothes in both dryers for 50-minute cycles (the shortest option available), set my watch timer for 50 minutes, and went upstairs. I walked back into the laundry room before my watch alarm had even gone off, and found (a) my damp clothes scattered on a table, plus (b) both dryers already running and showing less than forty minutes remaining.

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 6 November 2006 22:59 (nineteen years ago)

IT'S BEEN HOURS, SOMEONE PLEASE VALIDATE MY MURDEROUS RAGE OVER SLIGHT WORKADAY-CHORE INCONVENIENCE

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 03:57 (nineteen years ago)

I wouldn't have been able to resist the urge to take scissors to the intruder's clothes.

milo z (mlp), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 04:02 (nineteen years ago)

We have two tables in our dorm's laundry room... We have 5 washers and 5 dryers for about 350 people, and a lot of people put in 3-5 loads at once. So yes, if it's been more than 10 minutes, I absolutely take their shit out and put it on one of the tables.

And if I have to leave mine in a washer/dryer and go somewhere, I perfectly expect someone to do the same.

Although I have to admit it's kinda weird if it's a girl's stuff w/ like underwear in it, and I'm always scared she'll walk in in the 10 seconds it takes me to move it, and I'll look like a total asshole.

less-than three's Christiane F. (drowned in milk), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 04:11 (nineteen years ago)

Nabisco, turnabout's fair play here. Open those dryers, take out their damp clothes and finish yours up. Take a book and a folding chair and camp out down there 'til your clothes are finished.

Then, put the offending party's damp clothes back into the stopped dryers.

Jaq (Jaq), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 05:48 (nineteen years ago)

IT'S BEEN HOURS, SOMEONE PLEASE VALIDATE MY MURDEROUS RAGE OVER SLIGHT WORKADAY-CHORE INCONVENIENCE

buy a clothes horse, dry in the air of your apartment, save money, energy and rage

Ed (dali), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 07:55 (nineteen years ago)

Yeah, I almost never leave my clothes unattended in laundrettes. That's just asking for trouble. I take a book or a newspaper and watch like a hawk.

Dear Cafes of London (kate), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 10:24 (nineteen years ago)

After living without a drier for 4 years now we're planning our new kitchen and I don't think we'll be getting one. Not quite sure how we'll dry sheets and duvets as there's no banister in the new house, but I'm sure we'll manage.

I remember laundry hassles in halls at uni. I remember one bloke slagging off someone's pyjamas, and I thoroughly embarrased him when I told him that they were mine. I did end up getting a clothes horse in the end.

Vicky (Vicky), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 10:28 (nineteen years ago)

I do my sheets over the doors of the rooms or the wardrobes. They come out more wrinkled than over a banister, but they are only sheets.

Ed (dali), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 10:34 (nineteen years ago)

Nabs, that is completely unconscionable. In a case like that I would've assumed (almost 100% correctly*) that the person stole the dryers before your clothes were done. Their clothes get thrown in the trashbin with the lint and the empty detergent bottles.

* the only way this is impossible is if there was a malfunction with the dryer and it turned off during your cycle somehow.

Allyzay Eisenschefter (allyzay), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 15:33 (nineteen years ago)

Just had a launderette etiquette decision to make. My washing machine spilt quite a lot of water on to the floor, and it took me a while to notice. It is quite likely that the problem was caused by my having not closed the door properly.

Anyway, when the woman who works there brought out a mop, should I have volunteereed to do the mopping? I just stood there awkardly, watching her do it.

Eyeball Kicks (Eyeball Kicks), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 18:12 (nineteen years ago)

No, it's your job to supervise. Let her know if she misses anything or if you think she's slacking off.

Thermo Thinwall (Thermo Thinwall), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 18:48 (nineteen years ago)

That's what I thought.

Eyeball Kicks (Eyeball Kicks), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 18:53 (nineteen years ago)

Vicky, get a Sheila Maid!

Mädchen (Madchen), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 19:23 (nineteen years ago)

just buy new clothes when the ones you have get dirty. expensive yes, but your manners will be unassailable.

Kim (Kim), Tuesday, 7 November 2006 19:38 (nineteen years ago)

one year passes...

Laundry Room Overflow!

Fucking laundry room.

gabbneb, Thursday, 28 February 2008 05:50 (seventeen years ago)

I wore a pair of jeans for like 5 years w/o ever having them touch soap, just airing them out once in awhile. Couldn't get away with that for shirts, tho.

libcrypt, Thursday, 28 February 2008 06:59 (seventeen years ago)


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