Have you ever asked your relatives about their wartime experience?

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Turns out this was originally a Sandbox thread.

I took my little Sony stereo mic and a lecture recorder w/ me on the flight back to where my parents & grandparents live, and was able to sit down for about 2.5 hours w/ my grandpa.

So, I know that a few Ilxors have already posted, but has anybody else just tuning in done anything like this?

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 17:33 (eighteen years ago)

no, but I really want to. my own social isolation makes reaching out to relatives (esp distant ones) not too exciting.

Ms Misery (MissMiseryTX), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 17:36 (eighteen years ago)

yeah i talked to my grandmother about this stuff a bunch--although it was hard, she didn't want to talk about it. but i got some really interesting stuff out of it, and now that she's passed away (last month) i'm really grateful for it. i was aware that we didn't have much time left so i wanted to find out all i could before it disappeared.

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 17:36 (eighteen years ago)

Anyway, w/ my grandpa, he didn't finish his last year of high school, deciding to enlist in the U.S. Navy in February of 1942. Apparently you could sign up at age 17, which I didn't know. He talked about getting promoted to Electrician 2nd Class repeatedly, before always going into port(at Perth or somewhere in W.Australia), getting into drunken adventures, and always resulting in demotion.

Also, he made a quick ref to Midway & Coral Seas, but I found out that from my Dad later that Grandpa was actually on a surface ship during those Battles.

Grandpa later transferred to submarine school, and spent the rest of his time in on sub boats. Patrolling in the Sea of Japan for years, they even picked up a few Japanese sailors from some recently sunk vessels. Even tho no one on the boat spoke a word of japanese, they made it quite clear that the Japanese were to stay in the barracks until they hit port. No brig to speak of, you see.

Oh yeah, and all the boats went to sea w/ mascots: cats, dogs, and one even had a pot-bellied pig. The thing was too short to hop thru any of the hatches, so it had to wait for someone to come along, pick it up, and carry it thru.

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 17:54 (eighteen years ago)

I talked at length with my paternal grandfather before he died about his experiences in WWII and less so but enough with my enate grandfather. Also talked at length with my dad's mom but I don't really know what my mom's mother did during much of the war. My uncle was in Vietnam but, as even he will admit, he had a pretty dull time of it.

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 17:55 (eighteen years ago)

I did find out that my grandma went to school and worked at a doughnut shop, and didn't work at GM until after the war. My great-grandma, however, worked at Fischer Body.

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 17:57 (eighteen years ago)

as a kid i always wanted to ask my grandfather (a US army vet) about his wartime experience, and sometimes did, in a roundabout way. he would only tell us he had been in the motor pool in north africa and didn't see much action, and you could always tell he didn't want to talk about it, as if asking him excavated memories he didn't care to revisit.

imagine our shock when cleaning out his attic after he died and finding all these insane Nazi officer swords. they were mostly ornamental and denoted different ranks, whether these were men that died by his hand or just his share of war souvenirs from other servicemen's kills, i guess we'll never know.

tony conrad schnitzler (sanskrit), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 17:58 (eighteen years ago)

my granddad was in belgium during ww2 (he was a railroad dispatcher) and most of his war stories involve getting beaten up in bars for trying to pick up other dudes girlfriends

my other granddad fought in korea but hes been dead since 1967

and what (ooo), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 17:58 (eighteen years ago)

the funniest story is about one time when him & this other dude got their asses kicked and then the 2 guys girlfriends (the girls they were trying to pick up) dragged them into the womens bathroom when the cops came so their boyfriends wouldnt go to jail

and what (ooo), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 17:59 (eighteen years ago)

My grandfather was in Italy but wouldn't talk about it.

Dan Selzer (Dan Selzer), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:02 (eighteen years ago)

Grandpa's description of the Royal Navy and Royal Australian Navy sailors he came in contact with: "They were good guys, just kinda talked a bit funny."

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:02 (eighteen years ago)

My mother's father fought in the Pacific in World War II, and by accounts was an exemplary sailor. I have a horrible feeling something happened to him there, though, that he couldn't shake -- he killed himself when my mother was only five or so, towards the end of the 1940s. It is our family tragedy, and while I've never felt any direct emotional connection to it, I can't but wonder about it.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:04 (eighteen years ago)

basically my grandmother fled to siberia and hid out there (her father had been arrested and sent there as a spy) to avoid the concentration camps

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:05 (eighteen years ago)

Oh yeah, and this goes for any war: korea, vietnam, falklands, desert storm, etc.

Great-Grandpa was in the Great War, but I don't know what he did, and he died almost a half-century before I came on the scene. My parents had his doughboy helmet and saber on the wall of the family room for decades.

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:06 (eighteen years ago)

my grandfather apparently a partisan, as a bunch of other relatives, but nobody would ever talk about it

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:07 (eighteen years ago)

my grandfather apparently a partisan, as a bunch of other relatives,

whoa, where at?

Also, did anybody have any relatives who served in the Red Army?

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:09 (eighteen years ago)

My grandmother on my mom's side worked as a Rosie the Riveter in an airplane factory in Buffalo while my grandfather was in the army. My other grandfather was at Normandy, but he passed away before I was born. His wife (my gram) was a secretary for the mayor, and drove him around in a golf cart a lot. There's a really great picture of her driving the cart and wearing a civil police helmet.

molly mummenschanz (mollyd), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:10 (eighteen years ago)

one of my boyfriend's uncles was in the SS and sunk in a submarine during WWII.

Ms Misery (MissMiseryTX), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:10 (eighteen years ago)

I talk to my father (WWII Marine, fought in the Pacific) about it whenever I get the chance. They were landing at Okinawa and one of guys in his landing craft committed suicide.

He was part of the occupation force in Japan. Said he liked the beer.

lk (lawrence kansas), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:11 (eighteen years ago)

my mom's dad was in the german army in ww2. Awkward, as he had a wife and children in Canada at the time. He ended up on the Russian and Finnish fronts. He did manage to get back to his family in Canada, after a few years in POW camps in France.

my dad's dad was a navigator in an allied bomber at the same time, ironically enough.

unfortunately I never had the chance to talk much with either of them about their experiences, though.

pauls00 (pauls00), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:12 (eighteen years ago)

This is a distant relative (4th cousin, or something) of mine:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G%C3%BCnther_von_Kluge

molly mummenschanz (mollyd), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:12 (eighteen years ago)

For a history report, I interviewed my Grandmother about my Grandfather, who was shot down in the Pacific in late '44. She talked alot about the travelling across the country w/him (he had been an instructor before going back into action). Until recently, we had several of his pictures and the tribute letter JFK sent out hung up on the wall at my house. My Grandmother died last April.

The Dusty Baker Selection (Charles McCain), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:16 (eighteen years ago)

In the first time they shipped out, Grandpa said the smell from belowdecks of guys getting seasick during mess was so bad that the rest of them would take their mess trays back out in the open air.

After the war, they stopped by one of the pacific islands that the Australian Marines had fought taken. One of his shipmates picked up a skull as a memento(not knowing or really caring if it was an Australian or Japanese corpse), and would polish it in his bunk. That guy didn't last too long after this was reported.

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:19 (eighteen years ago)

My dad's father was a P52 mechanic and instructor. He taught all over the U.S. before being posted to East Anglia. He had a mostly good war, I think. My grandmother less so, though before the the U.S. entered the war she worked in an office that recruited American pilots for the Royal Canadian Air Force, which was apparently illegal at the time. My mother's dad told me a story once (he was in the Pacific somewhere in the adujant general's office) about a fearsome Japanese attack and how someone came into his office, threw him an M1 and told him to get out and help. Scared the pants off of him since he hadn't fired a weapon since basic training. My ex-stepfather was a navigator in B-24 Liberators bombing Germany. He had some frightening and some funny stories.

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:22 (eighteen years ago)

Suffice it to say, i got enough info to ask enough follow-up questions for 4-5 more hours of tape. Grandpa never saw my dad until my 6 months after my dad was born. Uncle Jack never really met his father until the age of 2.

It's kind of a trip thinking about my grandpa, this genial old salt who I always think of as a fireman, fisherman, and general expert in grandfathery things, being a sailor fighting in the midst of the greatest/most horrifying naval battles in history, or being on patrol for years, sinking Japanese merchant fleets.

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:27 (eighteen years ago)

As Kingfish asked about any war experience, my dad as y'all know worked mostly in subs during most of the Cold War from 1965 or so on; however pretty much he was engaged in the kind of detailed spook work this great book will tell you about, so I gather. Closest he got to open combat was some patrol work during Vietnam.

My dad's dad did not serve in WWII but his brother did, and volunteered to go back to the European theater even after having served there for a long while, and served in the 29th Infantry on D-Day (search by his name to find a brief record of some decisions on the day he made). He died later that year elsewhere in France.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:29 (eighteen years ago)

an office that recruited American pilots for the Royal Canadian Air Force, which was apparently illegal at the time.

Yeah, this was always one of my fave bits learning about WWII when growing up; about these american pilots who said "fuck it," risked imprisonment, and went to enlist in the RAF/RCAF to go fly Hurricanes & Spitfires against the Luftwaffe. They did this either out of a sense of moral duty or b/c they were seriously fucking crazy and wanted to fly the fastest thing with wings.

There's a book that just came out about this, called "The Few" or something, but I can't find it on Amazon.

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:32 (eighteen years ago)

Grandpa never saw my dad until my 6 months after my dad was born.

These stories always underline the sadness and sacrifice of war for me. My grandfather didn't even know he had a son or how his wife's pregnancy was going until late July or early August of '44. My dad was born 5 days before D-day and the Army blacked out all correspondance between the troops and home.

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:36 (eighteen years ago)

my grandparents got married in a DP camp in austria. they made the crossing to canada with a set of silverware, my great-granddad's engineering degree, and my unborn dad

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:38 (eighteen years ago)

Oh, I just loved talking to my grandfather about his wartime experience. I remember him showing me videos about WW2 when I was 6-7 years old and then telling me about what he did. He fled France aged 17-18 to go to Morocco. Got caught by the police in Spain, who were supposed to send him back to France. Managed to get away then reached N. Africa. He fought in Monte Cassino, came back to France with the landing in Provence etc. I could listen to him talkking about that for hours on. Also, his story was great because he met my grandma during the war which makes for a rather fine ending

Jibé (Jibé), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:42 (eighteen years ago)

I never got any story from either set of grandparents; they were all dead before I graduated high school, I think, and my paternal GF had several strokes so that even before he died he was down to a handful of words and gestures -- so I wouldn't have gotten far. He was in the Navy, had tattoos he was ashamed of, and had at some point fashioned a cuff bracelet for my grandmother out of a wing strut from a Naval bi-plane...which because of the salt air were made of STAINLESS STEEL. I'm wearing the bracelet in a lot of adolescent photos but my sister lost it at some point.

My dad, though, was an Air Force loadmaster who was stationed in Okinawa (for the off-duty weeks; they were on rotation to fly into and out of Vietnam from there) where he raced motocross bikes, restored boat engines for fun, and took lots of photos (I just saw most of them a couple of years ago, on slide film!). There are a number of good stories about his problems with authority, including one about him being asked to stand with a hose and water the lawn of some military base WHILE IT WAS RAINING. Yeah, I think that one ended in fisticuffs. He didn't talk about the service much during my childhood, which is why the slide photos were such a revelation. Some crazy shit in those slides.

Laurel (Laurel), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:43 (eighteen years ago)

I do have his motocross jersey, though, and I wear it from time to time with great pride. Best part is the Bultaco shoulder patch.

Laurel (Laurel), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:48 (eighteen years ago)

came back to France with the landing in Provence etc.

I was surprised by the size of the American cemetary in Grasse.

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:48 (eighteen years ago)

My dad only told me about Vietnam a year or so ago, and I really should get off my ass and record everything. When I was growing up, he refused to tell me anything about it. I was on the verge of attending West Point when he came up to me one day and told me he didn't want me to go. He is a very proud Marine but he always said that he didn't like people who spent their whole adult lives bragging about going to war.

One of my uncles freaked out in Vietnam. He did night patrol for almost two years and killed a lot of people. He was destined to be a loser until he turned 45 years old, and somehow got his life together. He never spoke of Vietnam until a few years ago, and I'm pretty sure he was in therapy for much of that time. Another uncle spent his year in Vietnam trying to score heroin.

don weiner (don weiner), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:49 (eighteen years ago)

Yeah, I think one of the reasons my dad tells stories about Okinawa is that the ones from missions flown into Vietnam are...much less tell-able. Like I said, there are some crazy photos though.

Laurel (Laurel), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:53 (eighteen years ago)

The only thing my grandfather wants to talk about from his time in the Pacific was playing baseball with Dom DiMaggio.

milo z (mlp), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:55 (eighteen years ago)

Anybody know how difficult it is to get a relative's service record from the U.S. Navy? My grandpa was on like 4 ships & 5 subs, and even he couldn't remember all their names any more. He always remembers one since he got a tattoo on his right bicep while crossing the Panama Canal.

Plus it'd be funny to see what he had been busted for doing.

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:58 (eighteen years ago)

Also, my dad's stories come up at really weird times...like there'll be a "military" "cargo" plane in a movie scene and he'll start about how that plane would never really have been carrying passengers, or something. Or just casually mention, "I flew through the eye of a hurricane in one of those, once." and you're like "DAD WTF? STOP MOVIE! SPILL STORY."

Laurel (Laurel), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 18:58 (eighteen years ago)

My father-in-law was drafted into the German Army in 1944 aged 15. Sent to the Russian Front, luckily only shot in the leg while his comrades were being slaughtered (usually gasping "Mother" as they died apparently), POW camp guarded by drunken Russian soldiers who would wake him in the night and stab rifles into his face while shouting incoherently. Befriended a nurse who took care of him somewhat (gave him some extra crusts and looked after his injuries). Eventually returned home to Berlin aged 17 to find it pretty much destroyed, no food, no economy that wasn't the black market. Had a piece of shrapnel removed from his body in the 90's. Has a low tolerance for bullshit historians and pro-Iraq politicians.

everything (everything), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 19:02 (eighteen years ago)

Anybody know how difficult it is to get a relative's service record from the U.S. Navy?

http://www.archives.gov/veterans/

You'll need his signature or your grandma's/parent's depending on who's next of kin.

milo z (mlp), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 19:08 (eighteen years ago)

My father wanted to go to Annapolis after graduating college in 1939, but couldn't swing a sponsorship (you have to be nominated by your congressman) so he joined the Merchant Marines instead. Most of the time he was working the North Atlantic run from the east coast to the UK and back with the occasional run down to South America.

He was torpedoed twice. The first time occurred when he was off-duty and sleeping in his bunk. After the explosion he didn't have enough time to grab his clothes before the ship sank - he ran for the window and managed to find a lifeboat with only a couple other survivors. Two weeks later they were finally picked up.

After that, he never bothered with the bunk - he always slept on deck. One evening the water was still enough that he could make out the periscope of a U-Boat a couple hundred yards distant and audible whir of a torpedo (he said that it was hard to describe the sound - there's nothing else like it). This time, the ship stayed afloat enough for everyone to transfer to a nearby rescue ship and in his words "I didn't even get wet."

After the two sinkings, my dad reasonably concluded that perhaps the Pacific would be a better place and worked the SF-Honolulu run. One weekend he and a shipmate of his picked up a couple girls in SF and took off for Yosemite for the weekend. They were late on returning and missed their ship - turned out that the ship was later torpedoed by a Japanese submarine and sank with all hands.

By then, my dad reasonably concluded that he had enough of the Merchant Marines and went back home to Ithaca and got a job making combat shotguns at the Ithaca Gun Company. My Rosie The Riveter mom was also working there and the rest is history...

As an aside: my dad didn't mind talking about his war experience at all. We saw Das Boot at least four or five times in the theater when it first came out.

Elvis Telecom (Chris Barrus), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 19:28 (eighteen years ago)

You'll need his signature or your grandma's/parent's depending on who's next of kin.

sweet, thanks

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 19:30 (eighteen years ago)

Also, this might be stretching the relative definition here, but my Godfather's cousin was General George Patton.

(I'm serious here. No joke.)

Elvis Telecom (Chris Barrus), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 19:31 (eighteen years ago)

We saw Das Boot at least four or five times in the theater when it first came out.

Anyone in the sub service pretty much swears by this thing; my dad had read the book at least a couple of times before the movie version came out. When my parents got their first DVD player this was the first disc he bought, almost immediately.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 19:34 (eighteen years ago)

My great uncle served in the Great War. He had joined the fledgeling Canadian Aviation Corps and then volunteered with the Royal Flying Corps as a reconnaissance pilot and geographer.

I don't really remember him well, I was four or five years old when he passed, but anyone flying anything in WWI is a totally badass in my book. He later went on to take part in the first aerial survey of Africa. I still have his map-making tools, some of his hand-drawn maps, and a monster-sized book of aerial photographs from his reconnaissance missions.

Elvis Telecom (Chris Barrus), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 20:09 (eighteen years ago)

My father-in-law was drafted into the German Army in 1944 aged 15.

jeez, getting swept in the Volksstrum and surviving a Soviet POW camp (which wasn't that easy, given the way the Red Army and the Wehrmacht treated each other's captured soldiers) is pretty hardcore.

Has a low tolerance for bullshit historians and pro-Iraq politicians.

yeah, I always wondered how most of these guys viewed the current slate of neo-con vainglory hounds. My grandpa's response was, "Well, you're too old to get drafted now, right?" Uh, no, grandpa, the draft age was raised.

but couldn't swing a sponsorship (you have to be nominated by your congressman)

yeah, this still happens. When a young me was applying to the Air Force Academy, I had to meet with a panel of vets & retirees working for my senators and my representative before the latter folks gave me the nod.

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 20:23 (eighteen years ago)

One of my in-laws was in the Merchant Marine during Vietnam, and one day witnessed something in the South China Sea that he and his shipmates still can't talk about.

Once a year someone from military intelligence calls and reminds him that he that he still has to keep shtum.

Stephen X (Stephen X), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 20:30 (eighteen years ago)

And, b/c I have nowhere else to post this, here's a neat little story that's on the Yahoo frontpage right now. It's bout an army vet getting his wallet returned to him in the mail. Said wallet was lost in an Army hospital in France in November 1944, and was found by a guy sorting thru his veterans dad's stuff. It still had francs, a soc. sec. card, and a newspaper clipping in it.

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 20:46 (eighteen years ago)

One of my in-laws was in the Merchant Marine during Vietnam, and one day witnessed something in the South China Sea that he and his shipmates still can't talk about.

Once a year someone from military intelligence calls and reminds him that he that he still has to keep shtum.

-- Stephen X (figmentfragmen...), January 10th, 2007 8:30 PM. (Stephen X) (later)

cthulhu??

seriously though that story kinda gives me the chills!

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 20:49 (eighteen years ago)

Yeah, I was about to say. Any context at all or is that literally all he's been able to tell you?

My dad dropped a couple of hints here and there and mentioned some really intriguing stuff about his work, but he's kept pretty quiet as well most of the time, though since the publication of Blind Man's Bluff, which I linked above, he's confirmed a few things here and there. There are a couple of names in the book I recognize as being among his fellow sub captains from Mare Island or Point Loma but that's the extent of it.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 20:53 (eighteen years ago)

My congressman was fucking pissed after I crusaded for the sponsorship and then decided to bail. Did you end up going kingfish?

don weiner (don weiner), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 20:54 (eighteen years ago)

A friend got into the Air Force Academy for fencing, rather than go through the nomination process. He quit two weeks into the summer program that starts before your freshman year.

milo z (mlp), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 20:56 (eighteen years ago)

I've wondered about it, but the guy's only said about six words in the nine years I've known him. This info is just what his wife and kids have been able to piece together over the decades.

There's always the possibility he's just making it up to cover up something shabby and dull, though.

Stephen X (Stephen X), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 20:57 (eighteen years ago)

I passed all my medical tests & whatnot for the Academy, but was pretty much too lazy to train for the physical fitness test(even tho I ran cross country that year and was in the best shape of my life). I was out running in the cold & rain four days before christmas, and thought to myself, "y'know what, FUCK this."

When I got home, I had an acceptance letter from the Univ of Michigan College of Engineering waiting for me, so I took the slack way and went to ann arbor instead. I couldn't get an AFROTC scholarship, so I decided not to join.

My liasion officer said that I had a good chance of getting in, not so good a chance at staying in. He was probably right.

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 21:00 (eighteen years ago)

I talked to my paternal grandfather at length about his WW2 navy experiences. He joined the navy before the waras a 17 year old corn farmer from idaho (after the recruiter falsified his failing score on the entrance exam). After his ship was sunk in Pearl Harbor he was transfered to another ship, but his records were lost so he lied and told his new crew he was trained to work in the engine room because he didn't like his previous post as a gunner's mate. By the end of the war he had made some high cheif engineer rank, and continued to serve in the navy for many years after the war. One time his bunkmate (they were hot-bunking, sleeping in the same bunk in shifts) convinced him to switch shifts with him, and while he was abovedeck and the other guy was sleeping, a kamakazi hit the ship, killing everybody who was in that bunkroom. I have a large signet ring he made out of Monel (some kind of stainless alloy used on the ship) and a bracelet he made out of a piece of a Japanese kamakize plane that hit the ship. Kind of grisly.

tylero (tylero), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 22:56 (eighteen years ago)

Yeah, it's weird how often shit like that happens. My grandpa was a naval gunner for a while, and not too long after he left to go to sub school, that gun emplacement he served in took a direct hit and was completely destroyed.

kingfish prætor (kingfish 2.0), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 23:01 (eighteen years ago)

my great-uncle served on a destroyer in the pacific during ww2 and wrote a letter to my grandmother which starts off as a description of mundane events during the previous day and then turns into a near-suicide letter.

‘•’u (gear), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 23:04 (eighteen years ago)

One of my grandfathers fought in the FFL during WW2 as I said above, but once the war ended, he quit the army. My other grandfather however stayed in the army for quite a while. He was too young to fight during WW2 but he fought in Indochina and Algeria, in the Air Force. Family rumour has it that he almost joined the military people who tried to take control of the country. He was also one of the first pilots to fly on the Mirage, a jet fighter plane.

Jibé (Jibé), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 23:04 (eighteen years ago)

When I was a kid I remember my dad told me this family legend about a relative who avoided fighting in the Russo-Japanese War by taking trains back and forth across Siberia and acting like an ignorant country bumpkin when military officials told him he was in the wrong place. In retrospect this sounds implausible as hell but whatever.

I know my maternal grandfather was an American soldier stationed in England in WWII (where he met my grandmother) but he died when my mom was a kid. I think one of my dad's uncles fought in Italy briefly and then spent the rest of the war writing for Stars and Stripes (he became an art historian after the war); another one had some other noncombat job but I don't know what.

This thread is really interesting for me because my family doesn't have much of a military background and I'm not at all close to my living relatives.

31g (31g), Thursday, 11 January 2007 00:16 (eighteen years ago)

onion belt style times

electric sound of jim [and why not] (electricsound), Thursday, 11 January 2007 00:19 (eighteen years ago)

my grandpa's WWII service is on the web as part of his oral history: http://www.ucrhistory.ucr.edu/pdf/babcock.pdf

Dunno about my other grandpa, he died when I was 5 and didn't serve I don't think (academia and all that). My maternal grandmother I'm not sure what she did, I should ask her (she's 96 and still sharp). My paternal grandmother died before I was born, but my grandpa's second wife (who effectively acted as my grandmother) did repeat some pretty racist "I saw Japanese people signalling boats off the coast of California"-type stories up until her death.

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 11 January 2007 00:23 (eighteen years ago)

I remember her taking me to see Empire of the Sun when I was a kid... that prompted some uh, interesting opinions.

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 11 January 2007 00:24 (eighteen years ago)

I asked my grandparents and then made a documentary about it.

It's a hard world for little things... (papa november), Thursday, 11 January 2007 00:25 (eighteen years ago)

Neither of my grandads fought in teh wars. One was South American and the other one didn't get called up for some daft reason, he was in construction and his boss said he was essential or something. The only member of my family to die during WWII was a great-uncle who was a messenger for the military in Scotland. He was ran-over by a truck while on his motorbike delivering a message. Two of my great-uncles were desert rats but I don't really know them very well so we don't really talk about anything.

jimn (jimnaseum), Thursday, 11 January 2007 02:02 (eighteen years ago)

My dad saw some action on the day of the military coup in Chile in 1973 and was imprisoned for 18 months a few weeks later. We've never talked about any of that but I have read his testimony in the case of two guys he was taken in with who were murdered (which Pinochet was indirectly involved with and being investigated about prior to his death).

jimn (jimnaseum), Thursday, 11 January 2007 02:04 (eighteen years ago)

Forgot to mention... Somewhere in storage I have some writings (photocopies, not the originals) of my seventh-generation grandfather who was a Captain in the Continential Army during the Battle Of Bennington.

Elvis Telecom (Chris Barrus), Thursday, 11 January 2007 02:18 (eighteen years ago)

My Paternal Grandfather was in the pacific during most of WWII. He was in charge of the guys who fixed airplane engines so he didn't see much action. He still never really talked about the war at all though. On his 86th birthday, my family came over to his house to celebrate over lunch. He pulled me aside after we were done eating and pulled a small, dusty notebook from his shirt pocket. It was a journal of sorts that he kept all during the war. It wasn't really anything more than dates and places - hardly a complete sentence in the whole thing. But as he turned through it he filled in the gaps telling me stories about sitting on the beach drinking beer in Hawaii (runs in the family) and being in Okinawa when the bomb dropped on Hiroshima. He told me about how he decided to go on one mission with some pilots "for the fun of it" and upon returning said "that wasn't so bad" (kind of his catch phrase). the pilots pointed out a few hundred bullet holes in the side of the plane that weren't there when they took off. he decided not to sit in on any more missions.

the cool part is that after the fact, my uncle, father, and grandmother all told me that they had never seen that notebook or knew of its existence. he didn't show it to any of my siblings either. it turned out to be the last time i spent any time with him as he died a few months later.

My grandmother on my mother's side signed up for the Red Cross along with her best friend and the two of them were stationed in France and Italy as Donut Girls during most of the war. their main job was to have hot coffee and warm donuts waiting for soldiers when they returned from flying missions. My mother has her diary from that time. There were a few dozen of these american women in the midst of thousands of american men. her diary is pretty hilarious in the way that it jumps from one crush to the next until it lands on her meeting my grandfather (name misspelled.) they were both from well to do chicago families and committed heresy by eloping in germany after the end of the war.

there's also some story she used to tell about how she was in allied-occupied italy (i think) and was riding a motorcycle from one base to the next when all of a sudden a few itallian soldiers who'd been holed up for weeks and were starving ran out and surrendered to her. apparently they had just taken a vote to surrender to the next allied forces they came across. she marched them to the nearby base with nothing but this tiny little pistol the red cross had issued her.

jambalaya backgammon (grady), Thursday, 11 January 2007 05:51 (eighteen years ago)

I think I posted these in the Sandbox before. Seaman Powell possibly on Wake Island sometime in 1944 - I found a cache of negatives in an envelope moving some of his stuff.

far right:
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/117/297139194_45df3701a6_b.jpg

ditto:
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/99/297144635_55a4c7e22d_b.jpg

third from left:
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/108/297130579_59d5155c42_b.jpg

milo z (mlp), Thursday, 11 January 2007 05:55 (eighteen years ago)

both my grandfathers were wwii veterans, but one died long before i was born and the other when i was about 9. but we have the letters that my mom's father wrote to her mother from europe, which are pretty cool.

my father was a conscientious objector during vietnam, which is a whole different thing but pretty fascinating itself. i tape recorded a long interview with him about it a few years ago, with an eye toward writing something eventually. i also talked to one of his friends, who was in the army, stateside, and not in any actual danger of being sent to vietnam but got so disgusted with the whole thing that he quit and made them charge him with desertion and lock him up.

gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Thursday, 11 January 2007 10:00 (eighteen years ago)

oh, and not relatives, but as a reporter i interviewed a bunch of d-day veterans in tennessee on the 50th anniversary. amazing stories.

gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Thursday, 11 January 2007 10:02 (eighteen years ago)

xxpost that middle picture is great but giving me slint like auditory hallucinations. ;-)

my granddad was in belgium during ww2

Where exactly?

I didn't and don't really ask/talk about the wartime. The relationship with my grandparents isn't the greatest and as such I'm not that interested in their past life (nor present one). If I'm not mistaken my husband's grandfather was in the resistance.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Thursday, 11 January 2007 10:06 (eighteen years ago)

i liked it when all the vietnam movies came out in the '80s 'cause i'd watch 'em with my dad and basically it was the only time he'd ever talk about it -- usually by saying stuff like "there were never any buildings that big, this is bullshit" during that sniper scene in 'full metal jacket.'

Michael J McGonigal (mike mcgonigal), Thursday, 11 January 2007 10:13 (eighteen years ago)

hate to hate but we have a thread on this already.

the original hauntology blogging crew (Enrique), Thursday, 11 January 2007 10:14 (eighteen years ago)

sometimes my dad would talk about what his dad did during the struggle for Irish freedom (and the struggle against people who wanted a different type of Irish freedom).

The Real Dirty Vicar (dirtyvicar), Thursday, 11 January 2007 14:34 (eighteen years ago)

eight months pass...

This is probably one of my favorite threads that I've ever started.

I have yet to transcribe those tapes from last December. I should probably get on that before heading back east this year w/ a new batch of questions.

I can't find the sandbox thread, but I know that there are two threads on here with the exact same title.

Still, thinking about this, it kind of astounds me that even though we ILXors are spread through-out the globe and the anglosphere, you go back two(or less) generations to find this common cause, this linkage. My American grandfather was stationed out of Perth for a long time, took part in a coupla of the biggest naval battles in human history, and more than likely was in a few scrapes shared by your grandpas, too. I just have this sense of wonder about this remote connection shared by so many thru this horrible event.

And it kind of boggles that so many of those who lived thru this tremendous period, this birth of modernity, are still with us(for a little while, at least), either going fishing with us or listening when we patiently try to show them how to check email or the bassmasters website or knitting afghans for us.

On another note, did Tuomas ever post if any of his relatives got involved during the Winter War and the Red Army invasion?

kingfish, Monday, 17 September 2007 07:53 (eighteen years ago)

my grandfather married my lithuanian grandmother and brought her back to england after the war. that's all i know.

Ste, Monday, 17 September 2007 10:50 (eighteen years ago)


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