― Paul Eater (eater), Thursday, 11 January 2007 15:57 (eighteen years ago)
Though I don't think I can quite place the tone that they are talking about.
― The Long Grey And Overcast Tea Time Of The Soul (kate), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:04 (eighteen years ago)
― jhoshea (scoopsnoodle), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:05 (eighteen years ago)
― The Long Grey And Overcast Tea Time Of The Soul (kate), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:07 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:09 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:10 (eighteen years ago)
― mark grout (mark grout), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:13 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:18 (eighteen years ago)
― jhoshea (scoopsnoodle), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:18 (eighteen years ago)
― jhoshea (scoopsnoodle), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:22 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:25 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:26 (eighteen years ago)
― jhoshea (scoopsnoodle), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:27 (eighteen years ago)
― jhoshea (scoopsnoodle), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:29 (eighteen years ago)
― Maria (Maria), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:31 (eighteen years ago)
funny how the article is basically the writer saying OMG SO ANNOYING and the linguists being interviewed all saying uh well yes ahem now here's my research.
― geoff (gcannon), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:31 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:33 (eighteen years ago)
― Paul Eater (eater), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:33 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:36 (eighteen years ago)
― Paul Eater (eater), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:36 (eighteen years ago)
― jaymc (jaymc), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:37 (eighteen years ago)
― geoff (gcannon), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:37 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:39 (eighteen years ago)
― trans pacific donkey cell phone (sleep), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:40 (eighteen years ago)
While one of the experts addresses this:
It is not surprising that women are spearheading the change in dialect. Many linguists said that women tend to be innovators of language. One widely held theory is that women are most sensitive to social capital and are the gatekeepers of the language, scolding children when they pronounce words incorrectly. The time may not be far off when mothers will be reprimanding their children for not inserting a "like" before an adjective.
...I am distrustful of any "sociological survey" which finds a way to make a bugbear of socially upwardly mobile females.
― The Long Grey And Overcast Tea Time Of The Soul (kate), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:42 (eighteen years ago)
― Alba (Alba), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:43 (eighteen years ago)
"this annoying," vs "an annoying?" Yes, a certain amount of it is now mainstreamed. But a LINE MUST BE DRAWN.
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:43 (eighteen years ago)
― The Long Grey And Overcast Tea Time Of The Soul (kate), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:44 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:45 (eighteen years ago)
― Laurel (Laurel), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:45 (eighteen years ago)
― Alba (Alba), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:45 (eighteen years ago)
― The Long Grey And Overcast Tea Time Of The Soul (kate), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:46 (eighteen years ago)
negating my whole crackpot theory upthread.
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:46 (eighteen years ago)
It's true that Horowitz is being deliberately shock=pejorative for a gossipy newspaper, where linguists would lovingly document and describe the phonemes and isoglossic spread nonjudgmentally.
― Paul Eater (eater), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:46 (eighteen years ago)
I think women who aren't afraid to come across like they know what they're talking about can rub people the wrong way—as "mannish" or competitive. We love self-effacement.
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:49 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:53 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:56 (eighteen years ago)
― Paul Eater (eater), Thursday, 11 January 2007 16:58 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 17:02 (eighteen years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Thursday, 11 January 2007 17:03 (eighteen years ago)
Human civilisation seems to exist as a dialectical process of annoyingness, but I like to think we're getting somewhere.
― Alba (Alba), Thursday, 11 January 2007 17:05 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 17:09 (eighteen years ago)
Surely the British have their own enlightening examples of class-fraught accent distaste.
― Paul Eater (eater), Thursday, 11 January 2007 17:11 (eighteen years ago)
― jhoshea (scoopsnoodle), Thursday, 11 January 2007 17:13 (eighteen years ago)
― Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Thursday, 11 January 2007 17:13 (eighteen years ago)
― Paul Eater (eater), Thursday, 11 January 2007 19:35 (eighteen years ago)
Trust me, it's not as if I don't crave the opportunity to inflict a little medieval torture on them before sending them to their wrong-headed maker, but I think it's pointless to complain too much.
― M. White (Miguelito), Thursday, 11 January 2007 20:03 (eighteen years ago)
― Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Thursday, 11 January 2007 20:22 (eighteen years ago)
but to my mind there's one version of this affect which is v dopey valley girl, and there's another.. um.. liberal arts/fashion people accent. stylist accent. you know? it's trying to sound sophisticated but it's kind of weird and unnatural.. alison from project runway has it
― dar1a g (daria g), Thursday, 11 January 2007 20:26 (eighteen years ago)
and i'm sure the dude has them! all his quotes from the linguists sound like they're responding to hearing them either on tape or over the phone.
― geoff (gcannon), Thursday, 11 January 2007 20:30 (eighteen years ago)
― Paul Eater (eater), Thursday, 11 January 2007 20:37 (eighteen years ago)
― Maria (Maria), Thursday, 11 January 2007 20:42 (eighteen years ago)
― lauren (laurenp), Thursday, 11 January 2007 20:42 (eighteen years ago)
http://www.probotproductions.com/RipleyFlamethrower1.gif
― Fleischhutliebe! like a warm, furry meatloaf (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Thursday, 11 January 2007 20:43 (eighteen years ago)
― Laurel (Laurel), Thursday, 11 January 2007 20:48 (eighteen years ago)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_-4FYVYVgs
― Paul Eater (eater), Thursday, 11 January 2007 20:50 (eighteen years ago)
― Fleischhutliebe! like a warm, furry meatloaf (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Thursday, 11 January 2007 20:51 (eighteen years ago)
That's not as egregious as some of what I've been hearing, but along the same lines.
― Paul Eater (eater), Thursday, 11 January 2007 21:04 (eighteen years ago)
― Dan I. (Dan I.), Thursday, 11 January 2007 21:22 (eighteen years ago)
― Dan I. (Dan I.), Thursday, 11 January 2007 21:25 (eighteen years ago)
― Chris H. (chrisherbert), Thursday, 11 January 2007 21:29 (eighteen years ago)
Possibly certain annoyances on this thread could be defused a little if we asked whether there's any related generational talking-shift for boys/men? Judging by the college I live by, the guys seem to either talk like Ashton Kutcher or have this hyper-verbal geeky conversationalist thing going.
― nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 11 January 2007 21:35 (eighteen years ago)
― Chris H. (chrisherbert), Thursday, 11 January 2007 21:37 (eighteen years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 11 January 2007 21:37 (eighteen years ago)
there's a gender-logic which seems to be this: speaking directly and like an adult is a bad thing for a woman because it's pushy and "no fun." but there's also a class logic, which is: you can't be seen to be trying too hard (ie being adult and direct and correct) because then it looks like there's something at stake in life (WHICH THERE IS), = the hyperbolizing over the trivial (all the BEST STOLI EVAAAR type quotes in the article) and sounding like a blase teenager.
― geoff (gcannon), Thursday, 11 January 2007 21:57 (eighteen years ago)
― Chris H. (chrisherbert), Thursday, 11 January 2007 21:59 (eighteen years ago)
THIS IS WHY I HATE KARAOKE.
― Laurel (Laurel), Thursday, 11 January 2007 22:00 (eighteen years ago)
― trans pacific donkey cell phone (sleep), Thursday, 11 January 2007 22:05 (eighteen years ago)
― M. V. (M.V.), Thursday, 11 January 2007 22:11 (eighteen years ago)
― M. V. (M.V.), Thursday, 11 January 2007 22:12 (eighteen years ago)
― Paul Eater (eater), Thursday, 11 January 2007 22:30 (eighteen years ago)
― M. V. (M.V.), Thursday, 11 January 2007 22:39 (eighteen years ago)
― patita (patita), Thursday, 11 January 2007 22:56 (eighteen years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 11 January 2007 22:57 (eighteen years ago)
(As soon as I finished typing that I realized I've started to WRITE this way, with question-mark uptalk and flippancy and shit: I don't talk like it, but I guess on a message board it's like some disclaimer of casualness?)
― nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 11 January 2007 23:56 (eighteen years ago)
http://languagelog.ldc.upenn.edu/nll/?p=5842
voiceover artist lake bell
OK, small soap-box moment. I have been personally ruptured and unsettled by the trend, the vocal trend that I call sexy baby vocal virus talking. So it's this is – not only is it pitch, so really high up, but it's also a dialect. It's like a speech pattern that includes uptalking and fry, so it's this amalgamation of really unsavory sounds that many young women have adopted. It's a pandemic, in my opinion.
― j., Thursday, 15 August 2013 14:01 (twelve years ago)