What is your favorite kind of psychological violence!

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so what's your lifestyle baby? or talk about someone you know e t c

Poll Results

Option	Votes
silence	12
manipulation	8
neglect	5
jealousy	3
rejection	3
lie	2
intimidation	2
denigration	1
harassment	1
blackmail	0
anger	0
racism	0
control	0
threats	0

― Sébastien, Saturday, 14 July 2007 03:53 (eighteen years ago)

Does "neglect" really count as violence? All it does is make my house dirty.

― Abbott, Saturday, 14 July 2007 04:03 (eighteen years ago)

in the sense of affective neglect, like to one's kid; lack of attention disponibility stimulation affecting the kid cognitively affectively socially physically. i'M a big fan of violence!

― Sébastien, Saturday, 14 July 2007 04:10 (eighteen years ago)

few years ago i saw an jewfro mathrock guy walking on the sidewalk with a tshirt saying remove all violence from your life and I thought duh but then figured it could be an interesting experiment, to push this some more ; thought i made some progress with this then being on ilx made me regressed back to it and i then i blamed htensl.

― Sébastien, Saturday, 14 July 2007 04:25 (eighteen years ago)

stonewalling

― Heave Ho, Saturday, 14 July 2007 11:45 (eighteen years ago)

munchausen-by-proxy

― Dolores Haze, Sunday, 15 July 2007 17:32 (eighteen years ago)

my last relationship was 8 for 14, if "emotial blackmail" counts as blackmail

― max, Sunday, 15 July 2007 17:37 (eighteen years ago)

Got you beat, my last was 12/14!

― dan m, Sunday, 15 July 2007 19:36 (eighteen years ago)

best poll ever

― strgn, Sunday, 15 July 2007 21:03 (eighteen years ago)

passive aggressive

― Jarlrmai, Sunday, 15 July 2007 21:26 (eighteen years ago)

Neglect gets my vote.

― Matt DC, Sunday, 15 July 2007 21:27 (eighteen years ago)

same as "secret of comedy"

― sexyDancer, Monday, 16 July 2007 21:59 (eighteen years ago)

lying and silence are both forms of neglect

― El Tomboto, Monday, 16 July 2007 22:09 (eighteen years ago)

and manipulation/control/intimidation/threats/blackmail/harassment are also part of the same food group

poll is too granular

― El Tomboto, Monday, 16 July 2007 22:10 (eighteen years ago)

perhaps the thing with neglect being so terrible is that there's little to nothing the victim can do? seems like there's more opportunity for resistance and reversal in the case of people being more actively nasty

― El Tomboto, Monday, 16 July 2007 22:12 (eighteen years ago)

Automatic thread bump. This poll is closing tomorrow.

― ILX System, Saturday, 21 July 2007 23:01 (eighteen years ago)

Physical violence is always preferable.

― Oilyrags, Saturday, 21 July 2007 23:05 (eighteen years ago)

Sticks and stones may break bones, right?

SOUNDS GOOD TO ME!

― Oilyrags, Saturday, 21 July 2007 23:06 (eighteen years ago)

"granular"?

― wanko ergo sum, Sunday, 22 July 2007 00:02 (eighteen years ago)

dan m and max, i got you both beat - my ex was 13 out of 14! needless to say, that is why he is my ex.

― Rubyredd, Sunday, 22 July 2007 00:34 (eighteen years ago)

btw the abuse of in spelling &/c was a very much underlined irony yes yesyes more talk about exes , lol get into the details, get real <--denigration ?

― Sébastien, Sunday, 22 July 2007 03:41 (eighteen years ago)

a couple of days ago i meant to post about some of the nominees to fine-grain the poll but was not into it; will do so but now i'll say misogyny and homophobia are also barrels of fun of course

― Sébastien, Sunday, 22 July 2007 03:59 (eighteen years ago)

lying and silence are both forms of neglect

but lying and silence have to be active forms.

and manipulation/control/intimidation/threats/blackmail/harassment are also part of the same food group

that whole palette of psychological violence can be used during the realization of one of it's component ex: a manipulator that uses " anger", "to be sulky" and "intimidation" do his main thing, manipulation.

― Sébastien, Sunday, 22 July 2007 14:53 (eighteen years ago)

jus talking baout psychological violence

― Sébastien, Sunday, 22 July 2007 14:54 (eighteen years ago)

Automatic thread bump. This poll's results are now in.

― ILX System, Sunday, 22 July 2007 23:01 (eighteen years ago)

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