a little early but gives people time to think of stuff.
I wound up losing myself in 07, finding myself, losing myself again, finding myself again, and then realizing fuck it, I'm extremely insecure and a mental mess so I might as well just live with it and realize that other than my job, I'm a pathetic wank.
you?
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Saturday, 29 December 2007 16:06 (eighteen years ago)
I moved across the country. I have no friends where I live now. Kind of lame.
As for ’08, I may or may not want to see myself in Baghdad or Kabul. I’m not sure.
P.S. My girlfriend who lurks ILM/E thinks you’re here friend Bo Jackson from St. Louis. Not only does she have a friend whose real name is Bo Jackson but she was unaware of Bo ‘Knows’ Jackson.
― Mr. Goodman, Saturday, 29 December 2007 16:13 (eighteen years ago)
My conscience is clean.
― Dom Passantino, Saturday, 29 December 2007 16:14 (eighteen years ago)
^^^^^
― Alfred, Lord Sotosyn, Saturday, 29 December 2007 16:21 (eighteen years ago)
Mine would be if I didn't know that I have an ulterior motive for everything I do.
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Saturday, 29 December 2007 16:22 (eighteen years ago)
Professionally it was a good year: wrote a book, proofed final edits before the end of December, finished album, several successful tours, etc.
Personally this year can go to Hell and I am going to burn it in effigy on Tuesday. Family health problems, loss of my mother-in-law who was far too young to go, lots of other stuff. When I remember this year later the main thing I will remember is how much it took from me. Glad to see it go.
― J0hn D., Saturday, 29 December 2007 16:27 (eighteen years ago)
sorry to hear about that dude.
so, what was the book?
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Saturday, 29 December 2007 16:35 (eighteen years ago)
this here
― J0hn D., Saturday, 29 December 2007 16:52 (eighteen years ago)
well that doesn't seem to have worked. This? : http://www.continuumbooks.com/Books/detail.aspx?ReturnURL=/Series/default.aspx&CountryID=2&ImprintID=2&BookID=131531
i'm sry to hear that too john! maybe this year will be extra great to you.
i had an OK year -- my conscience is finally kicking in, and i'm struggling with issues of morality/values. my bf moved in and we're happy, and i have the best cat i could ever want. job is good if static, and my music has developed very well. bad: i'm about to embark on a lot of dental work and i still haven't managed my health like i should.
biggest lesson learned: value time above all else, cuz it will run out. this might be a typically 24th-year-of-life realization, but it felt very revolutionary to me.
― Surmounter, Saturday, 29 December 2007 16:53 (eighteen years ago)
(oh and i got an iPod finally which is big)
broke up with my girlfriend, got back together with her, gained about 15 pounds, went to italy (twice), two 4.0 semesters, started cooking again, met a bunch of ilxors, saw daft punk (twice). still felt like a shitty year, mostly because of relationship bullshit. lessons learned: be honest about your feelings, take care of yourself when youre stressed out, enjoy physical pleasure (not just sex!) because its just about the only thing you ever have going for you
― max, Saturday, 29 December 2007 17:03 (eighteen years ago)
it's the small things
― Surmounter, Saturday, 29 December 2007 17:04 (eighteen years ago)
oh john, i'm so sorry.
for me: - came out of deep deep depression in March after a visit to Miami (hangin out with elan) for the WMC, visited San Francisco and pretty much determined that I shall move there soon, got a gig writing for a magazine, started a relatively successful techno/house blog, worked with kids for the summer, went back to college and finally graduated!!, came out to my parents, got a nice little relationship with a wonderful boy started, stopped drinking so much, started cutting my pills in half....
yeah, pretty ace year.
2006 was awful, glad that this year was better.
― the table is the table, Saturday, 29 December 2007 22:33 (eighteen years ago)
on the other hand, both my parents started to show signs of age with many illnesses for both. kinda weird to realize that they're not going to be around forever.
― the table is the table, Saturday, 29 December 2007 22:34 (eighteen years ago)
regeneration.
― s1ocki, Saturday, 29 December 2007 22:35 (eighteen years ago)
came out of deep deep depression in March after a visit to Miami (hangin out with elan)
You must visit again!
― Alfred, Lord Sotosyn, Saturday, 29 December 2007 22:40 (eighteen years ago)
worst year of life so far lol
― That one guy that hit it and quit it, Saturday, 29 December 2007 23:06 (eighteen years ago)
Had a cool internship at a fancy cultural institution. Got engaged. Graduated from college (7 years behind the rest of my high school class, but hey...). Took a great trip to Sequoia National Park - peak experience of year. Got disengaged. Moved back in with parents in total ignominy. Went to a lifelong friend's wedding. Got a job that doesn't pay much, but that I really like. Drank an ocean of coffee. Started tucking in my shirts. Drinking beer from a glass. Went to the library a lot. Eat more vegetables than I used to.
2007, it's been emotional.
― kingkongvsgodzilla, Saturday, 29 December 2007 23:09 (eighteen years ago)
Oh Alfred, I certainly will visit again. Maybe if elan will have me, for the WMC in March? i hope it's during his spring break. (I NO LONGER HAVE SPRING BREAK HOLY FUCK)
― the table is the table, Saturday, 29 December 2007 23:40 (eighteen years ago)
I'm trying to think of any meaningful way that my life is different than it was a year ago. Nothing's ringing any bells. I guess the biggest change in my life is that I started eating fish occasionally for the first time since 1998.
I turned 30. I feel much wiser now!
― polyphonic, Sunday, 30 December 2007 00:03 (eighteen years ago)
visited mongrels got a job played soccer football for the first time in decades first full year of marriage was counseled to little effect first full year in nyc didn't read enough didn't play hockey didn't even touch a basketball, weird spent too much time on interweb first slurping of raw oysters (yummy) got magazine work published endured visit from mom and ex-step-aunt noticed grey hairs lost the ability to remember things had a totally effective surprise birthday party met hott ilx0rs
ehh, it was a year i guess
― mookieproof, Sunday, 30 December 2007 00:13 (eighteen years ago)
On average a pretty good year. Decent health for myself and most of my loved ones. No catastrophes or noteworthy setbacks. A fairish amount of vacation and enough income to get by. Good food and a roof over my head.
I only wish I had been able to spend a bit more time hiking and camping than I did, but in truth I spent a lot of time hiking and camping this year, so I can't really complain.
― Aimless, Sunday, 30 December 2007 00:18 (eighteen years ago)
discovered the internetz met an amazing guy, fell in love properly for the first time lost my depression fat stop lurking on ilx and started posting didn't freak out when i ran into the crazy ex who ruined my life for 3yrs backslid somewhat by returning to my old job for $$$ failed more classes than i passed rediscovered my love of art made TONS of amazing awesome cool new friends started to plan moving my life to other side of earth
best year of my life so far, in all honesty. lots of changes, mostly internal, but stuff that needed to happen. i think next year will be even better.
― Rubyredd, Sunday, 30 December 2007 00:27 (eighteen years ago)
met several far-flung ILXors on their too-brief visits to Seattle moved from suburban-feeling remote south Seattle to downtown Seattle downsized by 400 sq ft and 1 storage container learned to sleep through "Heavy Metal Madness" Mondays and "Punks n Pints" Tuesdays saw multiple aging British punk rockers in live shows spent 1/3 of life away from home working too close to a landfill read quite a lot, and utilized library instead of buying books cooked/baked far too little in surprise move, quit job
not a bad year, but not the best.
― Jaq, Sunday, 30 December 2007 00:29 (eighteen years ago)
most intense year of my life, probably did MLA job interviews taught at san francisco art institute did campus visits for academic jobs graduated from grad school took job offer from johns hopk1ns toured europe and america moved from san francisco to baltimore started new job as professor daniel taught first class at hopk1ns more shows and conferences in europe wrote a book on Throbbing Gristle finished a new Matmos album tried to not go crazy doing all of the above possibly I am crazy anyway
― Drew Daniel, Sunday, 30 December 2007 00:30 (eighteen years ago)
finally got over a two year bout of depression got some self esteem stopped being so cranky started an amazing new job
― homosexual II, Sunday, 30 December 2007 00:42 (eighteen years ago)
we're having a baby girl! angst grew about well paying job i am coming to hate which is all of a sudden indispensable (see #1). i learned how to dress a little better.
― tremendoid, Sunday, 30 December 2007 01:22 (eighteen years ago)
fucking just lost a booklet full of notes, poems and messages from friends
― Just got offed, Sunday, 30 December 2007 01:26 (eighteen years ago)
Ah shit L0uis, I was going to ask how that went, too bad :(
2007 has felt kind of tepid but with perspective I'll know that's only up against the consistent awesomeness of 2006.
2007 sort of felt it was chugging along going nowhere in particular (work especially) but the last month has been kind of WAU! Trip to New York, new housemates and new friends, hopefully developing situation with cute new girl etc etc. I'm actually kind of looking forward to 08 in that I have no idea whatsoever where it's going.
― Matt DC, Sunday, 30 December 2007 01:35 (eighteen years ago)
But actually, my happiest moment of 07 still involves dancing in the woods in Devon, and possibly the whole weekend around that moment. Idyllic in the way nothing else in 07 has managed.
― Matt DC, Sunday, 30 December 2007 01:40 (eighteen years ago)
sounds wicked! how did the pub crawl end up btw?
― Just got offed, Sunday, 30 December 2007 01:44 (eighteen years ago)
louis what happened??
― Rubyredd, Sunday, 30 December 2007 01:46 (eighteen years ago)
there was a booklet which contained a load of messages from people i went to summer camp with, it was my last course and the messages meant quite a bit. in the spare pages i'd taken notes on books i'd been reading in the british library, relevant to my degree, and i'd also written quite a few poems, three of which i hadn't typed out. i've spent the past few hours trying to remember them. only one has returned in its entirety, and the best one has had to be reworked into something really short. :(
― Just got offed, Sunday, 30 December 2007 01:54 (eighteen years ago)
lost as in 'misplaced it and have no idea where' or 'irretrievably gone and no hope of return'? dude that really sucks :( :( :(
― Rubyredd, Sunday, 30 December 2007 01:59 (eighteen years ago)
well i'm gonna phone the three pubs i went to tomorrow, and if it ain't there then there's the tiniest of chances it will have fallen into the hands of our rail network's lost property bureau. i'd say 10-1 on that it's been disposed of by a cleaner of some description.
― Just got offed, Sunday, 30 December 2007 02:03 (eighteen years ago)
or, worse, reappropriated by some charlatan intent on stealing my words.
― Just got offed, Sunday, 30 December 2007 02:04 (eighteen years ago)
did you have any contact details written in it?
― Rubyredd, Sunday, 30 December 2007 02:07 (eighteen years ago)
Pros: Got a truckload of paid music production finished. Reconnected with a childhood friend who has grown up to be an amazingly awesome woman. Completely buried the hatchet with someone who broke my heart a few years back. New contacts & musical endeavours set to roll in '08. Rediscovered house music. Became an exponentially better drummer than I ever was in my twenties. Hip Hop Karaoke!!!
Cons: My little brother dying way too fucking young. My Mom's increasingly poor physical & emotional health, which have only been made worse by the loss of her son, culminating in an episode in which I almost threw my own mother out of my home. The end of what I thought was a healthy business partnership with someone I used to really trust. The bizarre, on-again-off-again relationship with my daytime job continues.
― Tantrum The Cat, Sunday, 30 December 2007 02:13 (eighteen years ago)
fuckin charlatans
lj what's yr football team? i'm sure this is obvious on other threads, but i've no patience for wading. with any luck it isn't everton after today's result...
― mookieproof, Sunday, 30 December 2007 02:15 (eighteen years ago)
no but my name is clearly louis. might change my fbook profile as a last resort. xxpost.
mookieproof my football team is Charlton Athletic and today we scraped a 1-1 draw away at Leicester City. 2007 has seen them heartbreakingly relegated from the Premiership, before mounting a semi-convincing promotion campaign this season. We'll see how it pans out in 2008, doubtless. you an evertonian?
― Just got offed, Sunday, 30 December 2007 02:19 (eighteen years ago)
tried to drift along but pissed away all my money and credit on booze in the process, grew increasingly withdrawn and scared of people, realized i won't be able to have a successful relationship with anyone anytime in the near future, tried to figure out why i'm in graduate school and failed (again), figured out how to turn my furnace on, did not show any ambition or initiative because of general paralysis, etc.
― strgn, Sunday, 30 December 2007 02:21 (eighteen years ago)
no, but i am somewhat anti-arsenal after a nightmarish episode ten years ago that involved scalping tickets only to discover that the match had been postponed (to the day i was flying home), then being told by the remaining scalpers to place my tickets between two pieces of bread to make a sandwich. and as the fan of an american baseball team that should long since have been relegated, i can sympathise.
i did see eduardo's two and then everton's fuckup that led to arsenal's third goal today.
anyway, good luck with your journal. i do have faith, however, that you'll find more words.
― mookieproof, Sunday, 30 December 2007 02:28 (eighteen years ago)
Well, as I returned home prematurely from the ILX/FT pub-crawl it did occur to me that creativity was to be found in the act of destruction (what have Einsturzende Neubauten taught us?). What's come back to me is probably just as good as what I lost, but the notes and the messages won't ever return. More food for poetry, mind!
That is bloody nightmarish! Have you gotten to see many live league games in Britain while you've been here? To be honest Arsenal 10 years ago weren't quite as glamorous or exciting as the current model, even if they did win the double.
Which baseball team is it? The Mets?
Eduardo's two were both great finishes, although he did handle one clearly. Everton were their own undoers to be honest. There's been some truly disgraceful defending in the Premiership in the past couple of weeks. You'd have thought they'd get the basics right!
― Just got offed, Sunday, 30 December 2007 02:36 (eighteen years ago)
take it to email dickwad
― strgn, Sunday, 30 December 2007 02:38 (eighteen years ago)
tantrum, jess and others: hope you guys pull through.
Still trying to rid myself of m insecuritities/panic attacks.
Got pregnant. Delivered. Sleep deprived and happy as a result.
― stevienixed, Sunday, 30 December 2007 02:46 (eighteen years ago)
hey strgn: eat my fuc
it is the pittsburgh pirates, who have had fifteen straight losing seasons and are headed, optimistically, for at least a few more
― mookieproof, Sunday, 30 December 2007 03:01 (eighteen years ago)
I don't really know how to rate 2007.
I am still fucked with health but in the second half of the year I have begun to go back to a normal life and my normal social life and stuff just by force of will which has felt good. I now feel, tentatively, that even if I stay sick I can live with it. At least, I've got better at dealing with it and it can't get any worse, or doesn't seem to be doing so.
As for career, 2007 has been a pretty great year I guess. I've done a lot of music writing and that's been good, started a column and stuff and done all of the music writing I want to do really, perhaps more than I want to do.
Then in the last month I got a job I applied for with the BBC in London, which has basically bowled me over and made this year a brilliant one.
As for personal life, broke up with gf of 2 and a half years about 2 months ago and that has been hard, I don't really know how to be single anymore or what sort of person I am when it comes to wanting to meet new people for relationships but I guess I'll find out in time.
I sort of feel like I am coming through the end of the worst ordeal of my life, this sickness, without the cause actually ending. As such I don't really know who I am much anymore, which is both good and bad.
I'd have to say a good year all in all though, everything being relative and such.
― Ronan, Sunday, 30 December 2007 03:25 (eighteen years ago)
cheers ronan
― mookieproof, Sunday, 30 December 2007 03:32 (eighteen years ago)
Indeed. Great news about the job offer!
Pretty good year all in all, looming feelings of geopolitical dread notwithstanding. Cooked a lot more, saw my family a lot, got published via the Marooned anthology, saw a hell of a lot of bands, listened to god knows how much music, started writing for the OC Weekly at last, maintained old friendships, made new ones, enjoyed life, etc. Sure I'm forgetting a lot but hey, can't complain.
― Ned Raggett, Sunday, 30 December 2007 03:33 (eighteen years ago)
wtf are you doing awake?
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Sunday, 30 December 2007 11:26 (eighteen years ago)
im watching svu personally
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 30 December 2007 11:27 (eighteen years ago)
I wake up ungodly early most days
― J0hn D., Sunday, 30 December 2007 11:31 (eighteen years ago)
i thought i saw you posting a couple hours ago, figured you'd been up all night.
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Sunday, 30 December 2007 11:36 (eighteen years ago)
2007 has been a heck of a year for me, very intense in a lot of ways. so much has changed. this time last year the only thing in my immediate life that didn't need changing was my home life, which has stayed the same and is still pretty much perfect. an incredible work opportunity and challenge fell from the sky in march (ok i guess i put myself in the right place to catch it) which i grabbed and ran as far and as fast as i could with, and it seems i have kept hold of it, for the time being at least. fell headfirst helplessly in love and for the first time it seems it's reciprocated, although the situation is complicated and it brings me as much turmoil as it does happiness. i'm more responsible, more motivated and have a touch more self-confidence than a year ago. i turned 29 in august, maybe this is my saturn return happening. bring on 2008.
― emsk, Sunday, 30 December 2007 11:53 (eighteen years ago)
career reinvention continues at slow/steady pace one writing project deep-sixed after couple frustrating yers new ^^ started w/guarded enthusiasm family trip to wyoming w/inlaws a success reconnected w/my mom's family @ fun june wedding xmas gathering w/siblings surprisingly argument-free marital relations on even keel for a change parenting grows more challenging & complex -- "tweens are the new teens" no kidding overall I'm starting 2nd half century in good spiritz
― m coleman, Sunday, 30 December 2007 13:15 (eighteen years ago)
2007 was the worst.
broke up with girlfriend -- necessary but very sad convinced company to hire me as consultant -- very exciting went to quit day job, promised me whatever i want to get me to stay quite fun but very stressful period of job negotiatons fun turned into nightmare as i slowly lost grip on reality, ended up in psych ward diagnosed with manic episode + bipolar disorder consulting job offer collapsed as suddenly needed health insurance to pay bills summer came huge scary depression, basically unable to function quit day job, couldn't handle it returned home to parents for 3 months to recover
things looking up at the moment -- went back to nyc in november + reconnected with friends + life...
hoping 2008 will bring better things!
― nicenick, Sunday, 30 December 2007 13:26 (eighteen years ago)
strgn= jess?
Yeah, maybe not, in retrospect. I took my cue from this comment that follwed strgn's: "tantrum, jess and others: hope you guys pull through." (emphasis mine). No other comments from a "jess" (or "strongo"), so I figured strgn=jess.
― Daniel, Esq., Sunday, 30 December 2007 14:11 (eighteen years ago)
- change the locks on the useless leech "housemate". - miss opportunity at really obvious romantic liaison. - grow increasingly weary of broken promises and inept management at job; slack off, come in late etc. - buy a lot of records. - get prompted to apply for new, exciting but part-time job. umm and aah over it; decide that i can't really cover the bills by only working 3 days a week. - get prompted again - "if you're that good, the old job will still want you 2 days/week, easy". apply. get job! quit old job, get pay rise to stay there part-time. - credit card gets identity thefted, $2k of charges rung up in 48 hrs. - new job is great, but two jobs at once strenuous. - mentalist housemate stops speaking to me; decision to move out confirmed when rent gets jacked up 20%. - meet lots of interesting ppl through new job. - more records. - eventually axe the old job when new employer offers more hours. - credit card nonsense slowly working its way through the system. - get nice bag for christmas. - rental market is hard; may have to move in temporarily with parents.
i dunno, fair to middling? so much better than '06 though, which was just a total disaster.
― haitch, Sunday, 30 December 2007 14:56 (eighteen years ago)
Struggled with illness which resulted in me losing my job. Bought a new house which is approx 10000000x better than the old one. Got to post on the "this is the thread where we curse cancer" thread. Had a couple of excellent holidays and a couple of great trips to London. Lost touch with some old friends. Made some excellent new friends. Couldn't be arsed doing much over most of the latter part of the year. When I did do things, like going to my first camping festival for years or going ice-skating in the park, they were terrific fun.
It was mostly shit, with some pretty good bits thrown in to alleviate the shitness. Next year I hope that the good things outweigh the bad for the first time in a long time.
― ailsa, Sunday, 30 December 2007 15:37 (eighteen years ago)
A good year, especially in comparison to the deep lows (albeit countered with huge highs ) of 2006.
Steady, but good.
Got kinda headhunted and given a £3.5k payrise out of nowhere, saving me from a job I was really hating and putting me into one I kind of like.
Finally saw Boredoms live.
Formulated potential relocation type plans with the missus (dependent on her getting on her chosen MA course).
Out to a gig a week.
On the downside I put maybe another stone on, and am feeling older than my age generally in a physical sense (only).
― Mister Craig, Sunday, 30 December 2007 15:54 (eighteen years ago)
lost job turned 27 rock bottom free wii
― remy bean, Sunday, 30 December 2007 16:38 (eighteen years ago)
Not sure whether it was a good year or a bad year but certainly a significant one:
1. Fell in love with learning 2. Figured out what I really want to do with my life 3. Graduated 4. Got a proper grown-up job that I don't hate and that enables me to peruse ILX all day long at my absolute leisure 5. Left Brighton :( 6. Began heading towards some semblance of financial solvency 7. Fell in love (again) with someone I shouldn't have 8. She left the country 9. Shagged hot lead singer of awesome californian band which made me feel marginally better about 7 and 8
― Upt0eleven, Sunday, 30 December 2007 16:45 (eighteen years ago)
Started year as happy as I've ever been. Took new job working night shifts. Crashed car. Kind of fixed car, but my car looked like an ugly beater from them on out. Turned 21. Took much-needed vacation to SF. Didn't tell the girl of my dreams who quite obviously had a thing for me how I felt about her. She left for Texas. Had falling out with roommate. Moved back in with parents. Dropped classes because job was leaving me exhausted. Bought new car. Got laid off. Spent a couple weeks fixing up the house after it got flooded in the great storm. Got an ipod for Christmas. Ended year broke, bored, lonely, and frustrated.
The last two-three months were kind of a bummer.
― The Reverend, Sunday, 30 December 2007 17:09 (eighteen years ago)
very intense year got first ever book project, dream come true, except for '80,000 words in 3 months' deadline break up with girlfriend in very traumatic circumstances a week before book is due. finish book (150,000 words, 4 months) but essentially wish i was dead, culminating in interminably bleak 48 hour work trip in las vegas with Fall Out Boy (they were lovely, LV was not) where I realise things cannot be as were, so deal. freelance writing tough to get back into, money very tight, morale sinking. book publication delayed till 2008, along with last third of advance fee. money gets tighter. begin teaching again, and find i am finally confident enough to begin enjoying it. morale skyrockets. work begins to come in again. phew. get sent early copy of book, reread it in a day. do not hate it. begin to feel jan-may not quite such a pointless and depressing grind after all. meet most awesomest girl in November and amazing things happen.
mixed bag, full of hard work with little immediate reward and grim emotional stuff that, in retrospect, had to happen, but was no fun at the time. last month or so has seemed insanely great, though - the happiest and most stable since family bereavement in 2002. though i don't believe in luck/fate, feels as if a curse/cloud of some kind has lifted, and that 2008 has potential to be as great as the last eight weeks or so.
Hope all who had a tough one this year are on the mend, or on the road to on the mend, or just know that that road is out there.
― stevie, Sunday, 30 December 2007 18:04 (eighteen years ago)
Good year - best in a while for me: Started going to gym, lost much weight have steady job I enjoy released a couple of 12's and a CD which were succesful went to Detroit for DEMF and saw/met a few musical heroes - all excellent people
Can't expect the same for '08 but my fingers are crossed
― Capitaine Jay Vee, Sunday, 30 December 2007 18:13 (eighteen years ago)
2007 = broke even
― rrrobyn, Sunday, 30 December 2007 18:33 (eighteen years ago)
not a single day in rehab or shelter or under the bridge 2007 way better than 2006 making some friends locally now terrible year by anyone else's standards but better than I ever thought it could be
― wanko ergo sum, Sunday, 30 December 2007 18:39 (eighteen years ago)
^^^^ pretty much
im pretty stoked and positive right now, and im having trouble identifying with all the times i felt shitty this year. i think this is a new cognitive development and i love it. also im on ecsatsssssyyy
― 69, Sunday, 30 December 2007 18:47 (eighteen years ago)
all your brief accountings are good to read even if they involve brutal things .life.
music making & performing radio doing community & friendship building yoga discoveries alignment with non-fiction writing process self-worth plummets, valleys and small hills too much indoor summer time work & procrastination re: work body a hypersensitive war zone awesome cat died better at emotions became a master of teh arts saw familllyy again yaay new glasses = seeing clearly became less poor body in peace keeping zone, mind getting there horizon clearing possibilities opening
― rrrobyn, Sunday, 30 December 2007 18:51 (eighteen years ago)
saw a LOT of texas, my home state, for the first time reunited with my cat, so wonderful somehow through total debasement came to accept myself
― wanko ergo sum, Sunday, 30 December 2007 19:05 (eighteen years ago)
2007 = big time 4-5-1. disappointingly un-noteworthy, achieved very little, let myself go too much, lost touch with certain people for various reasons, career at dead end stop and for the first time i've not really known what i want to do anymore, got v jaded and depressed and stressed/anxious to get a damned rash. totally bored with my life and require transitions but there were still some good times socially (inc. great beach holiday and camping weekend) and some great music and TV kept me entertained. but am more grateful than i sound for it not being much worse and considering the things that have happened to some other people i know. bleh.
― blueski, Sunday, 30 December 2007 19:12 (eighteen years ago)
Bought house. Fathered child. Started own business. I trust '08 will be marginally less stressful.
― Matt, Monday, 31 December 2007 00:00 (eighteen years ago)
- Had the most satisfying set of close friends since, well, ever basically - Broke up with longterm GF which was both good and bad. We are still living together for the next few weeks which is pleasingly OK - One of my friends got hit by a car and died which sucked a lot - My uncle who I'd not seen for a good five years died which sucked but was inevitable - Put on some good shows without losing shitloads of money, which was a novelty - Went absolutely nowhere, forward or back, in terms of career, finance, general lifestyle - One of my cats went missing for 10 weeks and then came back which was shockah (overall kinda good cos he was really nervous but seemed to gain a bunch of confidence doing whatever the fuck he was doing in that time)
Overall it was Ok I guess
― DJ Mencap, Monday, 31 December 2007 00:11 (eighteen years ago)
- maintained 4.0 gpa in pre-nursing classes, passed state CNA exam, made a bunch of awesome new friends at school - stood by helplessly while long-time social group began to slowly disintegrate; came to the conclusion in December that most of the friendships will continue even if the group itself breaks apart over stupid, tangentally related bullshit - got kids launched in 4th grade and kindergarten (respectively) in the fall; over the summer I realized that me being home with them 24-7 is unhealthy for everyone - husband got promotion and raise at his job... and a ton more stress - celebrated 12 year wedding anniversary the same day husband ran Twin Cities Marathon (husband did not die despite horrible heat and humidity) - didn't read nearly enough books, but did see a lot more movies than I would have due to 3x/week treadmill-and-tv watching plan
Overall: pretty decent year despite a lot of hassles and saying "will you two stop fighting!?" way too often to my kids
― Sara R-C, Monday, 31 December 2007 00:30 (eighteen years ago)
erm ok looking at the whole year didn't make enormous strides academically but REALLY sharpened up my ideas about life, friends, aims and self-worth music taste went through several radical revolutions, mind continued to open (how much stuff IS there?) started going to gigs regularly (lol sheltered life) joined the uni radio station committee = POWER & INFLUENCE edited a magazine for the first time POPPAGE first kiss as well circumstances of first kiss get plastered all over hands the internets, everyone IRL finds out too, general mirth/derision/handwringing get into some seriously wack poetry, own writing changes accordingly write play, direct it in college bar work as a temp at a sports website = A+ work experience attempted to form band XD found some consistency in my leg-spin bowling which was nice goalkeeping sturdier than ever started wearing contact lenses, also now have good clothes and a stubble trimmer, look at photos of me aged 10 and some crazy ugly duckling shit has come about had a girlfriend for a few weeks, not really who i wanted but hey you gotta start somewhere all the ones i wanted passed on by ;_; but i am still young basically 2007 wasn't awesome but it will almost certainly enable future years to be TOTALLY awesome therefore it was pretty awesome
― Just got offed, Monday, 31 December 2007 00:35 (eighteen years ago)
- no real harsh negatives, except for um maybe a bit frustrated by whole years totally melting into each other as unremarkable perhaps? lol middle age? + w/wife visited NYC for the first time and it was AWES + met bunch of (now mostly rarely) ilxors in London
― anatol_merklich, Monday, 31 December 2007 00:42 (eighteen years ago)
Didn't see close friends as much as I'd liked. Started off pretty badly (our cat died of cancer & my wife got fired the same week in January) but apart from that it's been pretty good. Much better than last year anyway. We're finally getting out of our pit of debt, I got a pay rise & my wife is getting taken on permanent at her new job next month, so woo! Didn't get arrested either, which is always a bonus.
― Colonel Poo, Monday, 31 December 2007 00:47 (eighteen years ago)
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― The Reverend, Monday, 31 December 2007 00:51 (eighteen years ago)
Finally made some progress with writing after seven years Lack of pain/pleasure in personal life worrying Realized where I grew up was harsh but made me strong, other soil makes me weak Tried to take refuge in the three jewels, sort of worked - thanks Buddha
― symbebekos, Monday, 31 December 2007 01:25 (eighteen years ago)
broke up w/ long-term bf at very beginning of year maintained friendship w/ him anyway, despite rough going for awhile at first went to west coast for first time ever graduated college drank way too much began applying to grad schools still working awesome library job also working internship that i have mixed feelings about several romantic liaisons that went basically nowhere uncle passed away vague sense of disconnect w/ family steadily growing went to see a lot of movies and art shows went to germany again started buying records semi-regularly again re-connected with some people i haven't seen in awhile lost touch w/ others completely, tho i'm sure not for good and met a couple of ILXors so hey, there's that
not bad overall.
― impudent harlot, Monday, 31 December 2007 01:47 (eighteen years ago)
Great trip to Amsterdam, meeting up with friends. Otherwise, a holding pattern. Big nuthin'. 10 lbs. heavier, a year closer to the grave. Whoopie.
― Rock Hardy, Monday, 31 December 2007 02:03 (eighteen years ago)
crashed car finished grad school got two job offers took one went to aunt's funeral sold car moved to astoria lived happily ever after?
― Virginia Plain, Monday, 31 December 2007 02:05 (eighteen years ago)
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― Noodle Vague, Monday, 31 December 2007 02:10 (eighteen years ago)
:(
― Just got offed, Monday, 31 December 2007 02:12 (eighteen years ago)
Ach, it's nothing that sleeping properly and thinking about other people for a change won't turn around. Maybe. There were small victories along the way too.
― Noodle Vague, Monday, 31 December 2007 02:17 (eighteen years ago)
i'm rereading A Thread for Posting Brutally Pessimistic Quotes by Anguished Philosophers always worth a plug
― wanko ergo sum, Monday, 31 December 2007 02:18 (eighteen years ago)
I think that thread was where I found out about Cioran to be honest.
― Noodle Vague, Monday, 31 December 2007 02:21 (eighteen years ago)
me too. that thread has provided me some consolation tonight, thx brocephus.
― wanko ergo sum, Monday, 31 December 2007 02:23 (eighteen years ago)
in order:
made a record fuck a valentines day went on tour started djing started book club moved lost BFF got a thunderbird bass met a nice dude
― roxymuzak, Monday, 31 December 2007 02:35 (eighteen years ago)
Broke up with much loved bf of 4 years due to other romantic entanglement I should have had more wisdom not to tangle myself in, dealing with awesome highs and lows from both all at once Had somewhat of an emotional breakdown as a result, skipped ton of work, drank lots, lost plot Gave up caring about said (terrible) job Got "fired" (they made me resign) Nan had stroke Dad lost job Realised that very good friend of 5 years who was about to become my flatmate was someone I actually loved a fuck of a lot Ended up in relationship with said friend
2007 was a deeply fucked up year for me, but it has ended reasonably well (job shit notwithstanding) so bring on 2008, it can't come fast enough.
― Trayce, Monday, 31 December 2007 02:41 (eighteen years ago)
Waited for laparotomy Submitted 33 1/3 outline Had operation Recovered Was rejected by 33 1/3 Visited London for Easter holiday Programmed a set for Poptimism and was complimented on it, which was very nice Put on provera for unusual reasons (ie not for birth control) Began tutoring French Prepared for wedding Got married to MC Mom broke hip Am moving to London to live with husband next year, so YAY 2008
― 2for25, Monday, 31 December 2007 02:47 (eighteen years ago)
Took me half way through that post before I realised who you were so hello anyway. Also yay 2008.
― Matt DC, Monday, 31 December 2007 03:07 (eighteen years ago)
to me, 2007 is like a college friend who you got to know real well and definitely changed you in plenty of ways and you probably also had a few really good times with... but basically was a drag and you wish you didn't have to see so often and when graduation day comes you're going to say "see you later" but you're so stoked that you never have to see that asshole ever again.
i'm ready for 2008.
― gr8080, Monday, 31 December 2007 03:12 (eighteen years ago)
gr8080 8080
― remy bean, Monday, 31 December 2007 03:14 (eighteen years ago)
yep
― rrrobyn, Monday, 31 December 2007 03:30 (eighteen years ago)
too much tv too many w33d binges inane conversations etc
― rrrobyn, Monday, 31 December 2007 03:37 (eighteen years ago)
2007 was a crushingly pivotal year for almost everyone wasn't it? The amount of long term breakups and deaths has been staggering.
― Trayce, Monday, 31 December 2007 04:26 (eighteen years ago)
life, etc.
― gr8080, Monday, 31 December 2007 04:31 (eighteen years ago)
tedious, absurdly stressful year but i achieved a shitload of good things so oh well
― electricsound, Monday, 31 December 2007 04:34 (eighteen years ago)