Fathers who "feel left out after the birth of their child": Classic or STFU?

OKAY, apologies if this brings up painful memories for anybody here who I actually like, but I just heard a classic whinging post-yuppie d-bag on Women's Hour whining on about how "he wanted to be a part of it but there was nothing he could do and their baby was growing inside his partner and she was so connected to the whole experience and wahwahwahwahwahwah." People spout this shit on TV and radio every so often, they really need a slap. In the balls. ;__;