c/d: Having to watch your Ex hook up with someone knew throughout the various stages and being powerless to do anything about it despite still having feelings for her

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dud times one million

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 07:47 (sixteen years ago)

well you could kill her.

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 07:57 (sixteen years ago)

This is that Airborne Toxic Event tune, innit?

― kingfish, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:00 (sixteen years ago)

hmm...isn't killin against the law in most states...

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:00 (sixteen years ago)

well - it is theoretically within your power to kill her to prevent this painful series of events from progressing any futher - y'know - just sayin'

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:01 (sixteen years ago)

Well who else is she going get with? It wouldn't feel any better.

― The reverse TARDIS of pasta (Niles Caulder), Friday, 29 January 2010 08:01 (sixteen years ago)

is it someone you "knew" or someone "new"? The typo is confusing me.

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:03 (sixteen years ago)

yea but if i kill her i'll just imagine all of the dudes she's sleeping with in Hell. i'm gonna go back and time and make my dad have sex with a sheep instead of my mom

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:03 (sixteen years ago)

soooooooooooooooo classic imo

― i am under no illusions that my opinions are even that interesting to me (dan m), Friday, 29 January 2010 08:03 (sixteen years ago)

someone new, sorry yea I typoed

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:04 (sixteen years ago)

do people have sex in Hell? I guess that's a question for The Church and not ILE.

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:04 (sixteen years ago)

ooo personal. yeah if i understand you right, i've had this a couple of times, once with someone i met through the ex, once with someone the ex met through me. both are dud. the former was worse coz it feels like there was this potential relationship all along with who knows how deep roots. the latter was better despite the increased "that's not cool" feeling towards both parties, because "lol i know that ain't gonna be better than me, have fun u loser"

― zvookster, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:04 (sixteen years ago)

why do you have to watch?

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:05 (sixteen years ago)

oh i read it as "someone we knew throughout the various stages" NEVER MIND THEN *walks away innocently*

― zvookster, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:07 (sixteen years ago)

there is a school of thought that advises avoiding exes you still have feelings for as much as possible, and your situation is one of the reasons that this is advisable.

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:10 (sixteen years ago)

Change country

― The reverse TARDIS of pasta (Niles Caulder), Friday, 29 January 2010 08:13 (sixteen years ago)

i'm just gonna cut off my balls and move to the Himalayas

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:16 (sixteen years ago)

seriously - why do you have to watch this? Unless you're a sockpuppet and are only conscious when you are manipulated by this woman's hand?

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:17 (sixteen years ago)

Always a good way to wake up

― The reverse TARDIS of pasta (Niles Caulder), Friday, 29 January 2010 08:18 (sixteen years ago)

i don't 'have' to. i got caught offguard this week.

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:19 (sixteen years ago)

so the various stages - are we talking relationship or casual hook-up?

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:20 (sixteen years ago)

so far it looks like the latter. the guy is a bit of a obnoxious doofus...and that's not me being bitter, generally speaking i give new beaus a fair shake...even someone else that met him agreed with me.

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:24 (sixteen years ago)

why bother making it your business?

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:26 (sixteen years ago)

it isn't. i ain't going to interfere or nothin....i don't believe in that

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:26 (sixteen years ago)

is this something you, in fact, enjoy?

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:28 (sixteen years ago)

deep down probably. i'm a glutton for punishment. it runs in my family...

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:31 (sixteen years ago)

how do feel about Saint Sebastian?

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:32 (sixteen years ago)

i want to eat his children

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:33 (sixteen years ago)

http://www.churchtimes.co.uk/uploads/images/Guido%20Reni%20%20Saint%20Sebastian%20_BOTTOM%20PIC%231%23.jpg

http://saints.sqpn.com/wp-content/gallery/saint-sebastian/saint-sebastian-01.jpg

which is better?

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:34 (sixteen years ago)

he kinda looks like a girl in this one:

http://happyasamonkey.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/carlo_crivelli_-_saint_sebastian.jpg

the face is weird

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:38 (sixteen years ago)

the last one

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:40 (sixteen years ago)

in order to be free you must wish your ex and Ponger13 all the best and then walk away with your head held high.

― estela, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:42 (sixteen years ago)

which head

― Ponger12, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:44 (sixteen years ago)

the one that looks like a girl's on a muscular man's body.

― sarahel, Friday, 29 January 2010 08:44 (sixteen years ago)

in order to be free you must wish your ex and Ponger13 all the best and then walk away with your head held high.

― estela, 29 January 2010 08:42 (1 hour ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

yes but in order to get over it you must get some friends (if they're mutual but more on your side so much the better) and bitch and drink about what dicks they both are.

― genial anarchy (darraghmac), Friday, 29 January 2010 10:27 (sixteen years ago)

you can still turn this around by sleeping w/one of her best friends/family members imo

― ogmor, Friday, 29 January 2010 10:45 (sixteen years ago)

fine balancing act as to whether you want to take that route though- how much do you trust your family?

this process is even worse if your ex turns from an accountant to a leather clad biker chick within 6 weeks btw

― genial anarchy (darraghmac), Friday, 29 January 2010 11:08 (sixteen years ago)

hook up with your ex's mum

― The smile on my face, disguises the case, I bury the truth deep down in (ken c), Friday, 29 January 2010 11:09 (sixteen years ago)

OMG xpost

― The smile on my face, disguises the case, I bury the truth deep down in (ken c), Friday, 29 January 2010 11:09 (sixteen years ago)

No, their younger prettier sister. That'll show em.

― The reverse TARDIS of pasta (Niles Caulder), Friday, 29 January 2010 11:10 (sixteen years ago)

didn't see that post from ogmor for some reason

― The smile on my face, disguises the case, I bury the truth deep down in (ken c), Friday, 29 January 2010 11:10 (sixteen years ago)

no if you hook up with her mum and get married with her you can then formally disapprove her relationship with the doofus guy

― The smile on my face, disguises the case, I bury the truth deep down in (ken c), Friday, 29 January 2010 11:11 (sixteen years ago)

the daughter's relationship that is

― The smile on my face, disguises the case, I bury the truth deep down in (ken c), Friday, 29 January 2010 11:11 (sixteen years ago)

nobody is powerless if they are prepared to sleep their way to the top

― The smile on my face, disguises the case, I bury the truth deep down in (ken c), Friday, 29 January 2010 11:12 (sixteen years ago)

sleep with your president/prime minister etc and get them to ban relationships with doofii

― The smile on my face, disguises the case, I bury the truth deep down in (ken c), Friday, 29 January 2010 11:13 (sixteen years ago)

Sorry, but this works on a number of levels for me:
http://www.padulcofrade.com/monograficos/san_sebastian/iconografia/dibujo_y_fotografia_s_xx_y_xxi/grant.jpg

― gnothi sautée (suzy), Friday, 29 January 2010 11:38 (sixteen years ago)

i think in the guido reni painting Momus is on the other side of the tree

― antexit, Friday, 29 January 2010 11:56 (sixteen years ago)

This one looks like a girl too:

http://www.best-horror-movies.com/image-files/carrie-mom-crucifixion.jpg

― what of the fuck you talkie bout (Pancakes Hackman), Friday, 29 January 2010 13:47 (sixteen years ago)

http://giodibe.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/the_boy_with_the_arab_strap.jpg

― The smile on my face, disguises the case, I bury the truth deep down in (ken c), Friday, 29 January 2010 13:51 (sixteen years ago)

Once you've been part of a thoroughly incestuous cluster of people who seem to have all dated one another at some point, you find that these feelings lack the sharpness that they once did. So give that a try, maybe?

― SNEEZED GOING DOWN STEPS, PAIN WHEN PUTTING SOCKS ON (Deric W. Haircare), Friday, 29 January 2010 14:02 (sixteen years ago)

once you're over 16 drama isn't the primary motivator it once was

― genial anarchy (darraghmac), Friday, 29 January 2010 14:06 (sixteen years ago)

once you've been impaled by multiple arrows your ex being impaled by some doofus's throbbing veiny cock wouldn't seem so bad in comparison, so give it a try?

― The smile on my face, disguises the case, I bury the truth deep down in (ken c), Friday, 29 January 2010 14:12 (sixteen years ago)

up there with leeching robin hood, that approach

― genial anarchy (darraghmac), Friday, 29 January 2010 14:33 (sixteen years ago)

wait was robin hood leeched or did they just loosen his bandages i misremember

― genial anarchy (darraghmac), Friday, 29 January 2010 14:35 (sixteen years ago)

he was leached, after that he spent the remainder of his days broadcasting the lifestyles of the very people he had once robbed.

― estela, Friday, 29 January 2010 14:39 (sixteen years ago)

i'm afraid that one's passed me right by.

― genial anarchy (darraghmac), Friday, 29 January 2010 14:47 (sixteen years ago)

http://www.chainleader.com/articles/blog/180000418/20090412/419228761517lifestyles-of-the-rich-and-famous.jpg

― vacation to outer darkness (Abbott), Friday, 29 January 2010 19:28 (sixteen years ago)

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