Libra female, Scorpio male: Does anyone have anything good to say about this combination?

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Well? Most of what I read isn't very encouraging, though I have a history of crushes on Libras.

DeRayMi, Wednesday, 18 September 2002 01:21 (twenty-three years ago)

Anyone who possibly cares about such garbage should be ignored which will leave you free to have crushes on whomever you like.

Was that good enough for ya?

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Wednesday, 18 September 2002 02:45 (twenty-three years ago)

where does one learn the supposed characteristics of the zodiac signs? i mean to ask, how do most people with that knowledge come by it? do they search it out or are there people that are preaching the gospel of astrology? i had my chart read once and it was fun. i think that i am supposed to be stubborn and stuff because i am a taurus. that is all i know about it.

ron (ron), Wednesday, 18 September 2002 03:04 (twenty-three years ago)

there is a big cheez book on this where they have a description of every single day of the year and what people who were born on that day are like. the book was surprisingly accurate, and I found that I have the same birthday as Dostoyevsky!

AS for the OG question, the more you see these type of patterns, the more you will be predetermined to act a certain way. go have a drink and forget about it...

Aaron Grossman (aajjgg), Wednesday, 18 September 2002 03:41 (twenty-three years ago)

anything good to say ?

well at least neither one of you is a late july leo.

mike (ro)bott, Wednesday, 18 September 2002 04:27 (twenty-three years ago)

Ron, I'm a taurus also. My sister gave my a tiny little taurus hororscope book for christmas b/c it was small enough to fit in my christmas stocking with some other silly stuff. It says taurus is stubborn but good-hearted & faithful & prone to get pudgy b/c of laziness & liking to cook, and you should only date cancers or scorpios. The lazy bit sounds about right for me...

lyra (lyra), Wednesday, 18 September 2002 05:03 (twenty-three years ago)

i choose to believe that its a complete coincidence that i happen to behave a lot like astrology says i should

di smith (lucylurex), Wednesday, 18 September 2002 05:24 (twenty-three years ago)

lazy yes cooking no

ron (ron), Wednesday, 18 September 2002 06:25 (twenty-three years ago)

Does anyone have anything good to say about this combination?

None whatsoever, seeing as it describes my parents and even almost two decades apart can't manage a civil word. I blame incompatible record collections.

petra jane (petra jane), Wednesday, 18 September 2002 10:11 (twenty-three years ago)

I am a gemini, and I therefore think all astrology is bollocks. I can't help it, I was fated to not believe in it.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Wednesday, 18 September 2002 11:30 (twenty-three years ago)

My grandfather was an astrologer, I'm Aquarius. I think the characteristics stuff makes sense but the predictive stuff isn't worth remembering.

suzy (suzy), Wednesday, 18 September 2002 12:20 (twenty-three years ago)

i too am plural; a gemini, martin....

mike (ro)bott, Wednesday, 18 September 2002 15:50 (twenty-three years ago)

Suzy, would you include "compatibility" under the predictive side of astrology, or are you thinking of something more specific for the predictive side (e.g., don't sign up for a new ISP while Mercury is retrograde)?

Alex, I'm the idiot who is concerned about this stuff, not the person I'm dating, though actually she's pretty interested as well.

I always wanted to discuss astrology (in general) on ILE, but now it doesn't look like a promising topic. I will have to check the archives.

DeRayMi, Wednesday, 18 September 2002 16:16 (twenty-three years ago)

scorpio men are frightening... sorry!

jayne (jayne), Wednesday, 18 September 2002 22:19 (twenty-three years ago)

Jayne, you are transgressing the boundaries of my question.

DeRayMi, Wednesday, 18 September 2002 23:22 (twenty-three years ago)

two weeks pass...
I'm a scorpio who is quite contentedly married to another scorpio. I also tend to have very rewarding and deep friendships with capricorns. According to astrology, we scorpios pair well with other water signs (Cancer and Pisces) but I've never dated someone of either astrological persuasion. I once fell in love with a gemini but that didn't work out. Libra meanwhile, is an air sign (like gemini) and we're not supposed to get along well with them but apparently you've already proven that idea wrong.

Many years back I read a very good book by Linda Goodman called "Love Signs". I found it to be surprisingly accurate in terms of character typing according to astrological sign. Mostly though, I consider the field of astrology to be pure entertainment. There are so many different factors that can make or break a relationship -- I wouldn't worry near as much about astrological compatibility as I would about compatibility in areas of sex, money, religion, children, career, sense of humour, etc.

ragnfild (ragnfild), Monday, 7 October 2002 09:43 (twenty-three years ago)

three months pass...
Harsh combination in the long run. Can end up like a brother/sister couple. And Hey! That can be O.K. if your like into your families members.

Lorraine Vigil (Lorraine Vigil), Thursday, 9 January 2003 02:23 (twenty-three years ago)

if your like into your families members

Do I even need to call Dan to the thread? Shouldn't he just magically appear?

Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 9 January 2003 02:27 (twenty-three years ago)

scorpio men are frightening

Don't be afraid, it's just Sean... it feels good, doesn't it?

Sean (Sean), Thursday, 9 January 2003 02:39 (twenty-three years ago)

!!! So now we all know what happens when the lights are dimmed low in SF?

Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 9 January 2003 02:42 (twenty-three years ago)

(Ned, there's nothing I could possibly add to that.)

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 9 January 2003 02:42 (twenty-three years ago)

It is self-contained in its beautiful symmetry, isn't it.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 9 January 2003 02:43 (twenty-three years ago)

No. Please reserve Libras for us Aquarii. Thank you.

gabbneb, Thursday, 9 January 2003 05:31 (twenty-three years ago)

three months pass...
I'm a libra female....and now married to a Capricorn for seven years...became bored... slept with a scorpio male that i can not get enough of...although he and I are no longer 'fucking'... i yearn for his loving everyday...
e. v. e. r. y. d. a. y.
but life goes on and I'm back to being the boring wife...but hopefully he'll come my way again to 'fill me up'

joiedevivre, Thursday, 24 April 2003 04:08 (twenty-three years ago)

A disproportionately high number of the men I've dated/screwed/lusted after have been Scorps. No idea why this is.

Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Thursday, 24 April 2003 04:51 (twenty-three years ago)

Scorpios are the sex demons of the zodiac, aren't they? The ones I've known have mostly been annoying and short, however

Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Thursday, 24 April 2003 05:33 (twenty-three years ago)

ewww, my brother's a Scorpio, I don't wanna think about this.

(ladies, I'm a Libra)

hstencil, Thursday, 24 April 2003 13:06 (twenty-three years ago)

As am I, the gf's a scorpio, this means that in our relationship her birthday is always after mine.

Matt (Matt), Thursday, 24 April 2003 13:11 (twenty-three years ago)

Incidentally, as an update: I am still seeing a Libra I started dating back at the end of the summer. Things are going okay. I'm not in love, and I don't think she is either. I put up less protest about some things than I would if I felt more strongly about her (i.e., her going away this weekend to do something that seems to me should rank lower than spending time with me). I am possessive, and I don't even understand what's wrong with that; but given the overall tentative feeling of the relationship, I feel there's a limit to what I can demand.

Rockist Scientist, Thursday, 24 April 2003 14:31 (twenty-three years ago)

two months pass...
Posted Before....right up there about my Scorpio Lover...well I was born October 20th and It's been months since I've conversed...sexed or anythiing with my scorpion lover...although I still think about him and it's getting pretty bad you guys...I don't even want to sex my husband...does one call this love or lust...just wondering...because I have it pretty bad for this guy...Although he has treated me and my need for him very unpleasant....I'm suppose to understand that he and I are just a fuck thing....that's something I have yet to comprehend...that terminology doesn't sit well with me...I don't think I want my marriage to much anymore...Not because I've cheated and feel all of what i'm feeling for this other guy...It's simply not enough for me...I'm sure I will miss my Cappy Husband a great deal...he loves me sooo much...how could I possibly give all of that up...well I can't continue to feel unhappy in this marriage no matter how good he is to me...I want a change... A major change in my life now...and more excitement...Maybe it's freedom I seek most....
Along with my scorpion lover or I should say ex-lover...he hasn't been able to tolerate my leaving him to go home to my husband...
It's a damn shame what drama I've gotten into...
Being a Libra I guess I will have it no other way...
Later....

Joie De Vivre, Friday, 4 July 2003 07:23 (twenty-two years ago)

Simply ask him if he wishes to sex.

Matt (Matt), Saturday, 5 July 2003 00:28 (twenty-two years ago)

How about getting a divorce, or not cheating any more? Have you considered that option?

Rockist Scientist, Saturday, 5 July 2003 01:28 (twenty-two years ago)

Being a Libra I guess I will have it no other way

This is exactly what's wrong with astrology

J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Saturday, 5 July 2003 01:42 (twenty-two years ago)

I was born December 29. My astrological sign is Capricorn. I'm sure this is all just coincidence as well:

Capricorn is symbolized by the Goat. You're motivated, determined and practical. You see no need to take unnecessary risks. Career is a major concern for you; advancement and recognition are alluring concepts. You are ambitious and strong, but also somewhat conservative.

It's an amazing coincidence that this could easily describe me.

I have read up on my astrological sign mainly for fun, though. Astrology.com is fantastic for finding out more information about your sign. Most of what I read ends up applying very well to me, but some of the things I read are so laughably wrong I have to shake my head. It's all fun, though. Hmmm. What are my so-called "compatible signs"? I'd like to know just because I'm curious.

Innocent Dreamer (Dee the Lurker), Saturday, 5 July 2003 02:04 (twenty-two years ago)

astrology is for suckers. suckers.

faggotry (faggotry), Saturday, 5 July 2003 02:13 (twenty-two years ago)

It's all fun, though. Hmmm.

No it's not all "fun," not really "fun" at all. There's a lot of depth to the original science of esoteric astrology as it was practiced in one form or another in all of the ancient cultures, a lot of which is missing in its present Western incarnation, degenerated as it has into dumbed-down Sun Sigh brouhaha that uses modern psychology, instead of spiritual/astral realities, as its basis [in an unconscious attempt to win validation from the modern scientific establishment]. ::rolling eyes Perhaps using the tropical instead of the sidereal zodiac does make a great difference, as well as the woman's-magazining of occult truth that has become so prevalent in the past century, I suppose. I'm sorry, but one is never going to learn anything about synastry from Cosmo, despite what the "astrologer" scribbles in there.

"It's never a question of belief; the only scientific attitude one can take on any subject is whether it's true. The law of gravitation worked as efficiently before Newton as after him. The cosmos would be fairly chaotic if its laws couldn't operate without the sanction of human belief.
       "Charlatans have brought the stellar science to its present state of disrepute. Astrology is too vast, both mathematically [1] and philosophically, to be rightly grasped except by men of profound understanding. If ignoramuses misread the heavens, and see there a scrawl instead of a script, that's to be expected in this imperfect world. One shouldn't dismiss the wisdom with the 'wise.' "

- Sri Yukteswar, in Autobiography of a Yogi

Fuck you Linda Goodman. =)


Vic (Vic), Sunday, 6 July 2003 14:41 (twenty-two years ago)

My boyfriend is a Scorpio and I am a Libra... I am much more passionate than him. I think the whole Scorpio passion thing is really a myth... unless Scorpio is your Mars sign, like mine. Not a good combo from my experience.

Danielle Bryant, Tuesday, 8 July 2003 09:34 (twenty-two years ago)

three years pass...
I think scorpios are scary, there is one at work who keeps staring at me, reminds me of Scarlet O'Hara and Rhett Buttler, but he never asks me out. Is staring some kind of scorpio code and should I ask him out. How do scorpios feel about being asked out? I've never dated a scorpio, I've been engaged to two leos, aparently we are not compatible (no surprise there!). How is Taurus and scorpio on the compatibility charts?

Rosaline_law (Rostar), Monday, 10 July 2006 08:37 (nineteen years ago)

Sagittarius, and my name is Noodle. Now, I like a woman who loves her freedom, and I like a woman who can hold her own. And if you fit that description, baby, come with me.

Toad Roundgrin (noodle vague), Monday, 10 July 2006 08:45 (nineteen years ago)

that would be way more awesome if it was a scorpion at your work that was staring at you.

hella somethin' Gwen Stefani pantwork (haitch), Monday, 10 July 2006 08:57 (nineteen years ago)

I think scorpios are scary, there is one at work who keeps staring at me,

What did you expect, with that big zit on your face.

Astrology is ridiculous. I mean, shit yeah, Scorpios are supercool - just look at me - but apart from that WTFwhatevah.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Monday, 10 July 2006 11:06 (nineteen years ago)

Yeah it seems we Scorpios don't give a fuck about astrology except for that "sex demon" part.

scnnr drkly (scnnr drkly), Monday, 10 July 2006 15:42 (nineteen years ago)

Scorpios are most attracted to women who dress in animal suits and write Star Trek: TNG slash fanfiction. Singing classic 80s hair metal is also helpful.

Jessie the Monster (scarymonsterrr), Monday, 10 July 2006 16:24 (nineteen years ago)

PLEASE LET ME DROWN BEFORE THE GIANT SCORPIOS GET TO ME!

chap who would dare to start Raaatpackin (chap), Monday, 10 July 2006 16:29 (nineteen years ago)

I don't believe in astrology at all but I find it's useful for explaining to certain people why my boyfriend & I live together but have seperate bedrooms. Me: "We're both geminis." Astrologeek: "Ah, well no wonder."

Abbott (Abbott), Monday, 10 July 2006 18:38 (nineteen years ago)

Other scorpios scare me as much as I scare myself.

Tab Hunter loves to take his shirt off (kenan), Monday, 10 July 2006 18:43 (nineteen years ago)

Apparently The Scorpio/Taurus combination works as long as the Scorpio showers the Taurus with finery and performs sex demon duties with vigor.

Alicia Fucking Silverstone (sexyDancer), Monday, 10 July 2006 20:14 (nineteen years ago)

You can always tell bitter and probably ugly people by their nasty comments. Contrary to popular belief its not what you eat is what you are but what you say is what you are. I find scorpio women lovely and am friends with many but the males - so scary and mysterious.

Rosaline_law (Rostar), Monday, 10 July 2006 22:25 (nineteen years ago)

sun sign compatability is complete and utter bollocks.

if you're at all into astrology, you've got to do a full-on synastry reading (both partners' complete chart wheels).

cate flamingo (cate flamingo), Tuesday, 11 July 2006 07:25 (nineteen years ago)

It's all bollocks, obv

Zora (Zora), Tuesday, 11 July 2006 07:32 (nineteen years ago)

Astrology is complete junk science but it is very fun. And tarot cards are great lateral thinking problem-solving tools for the non-obsessive. I think a lot of the traits ascribed to certain signs *could* be genuine as they are describing the result of being born at X time of year. A baby born in the depths of winter is going to see the world very differently, or gain a different impression, than one born in summer.

My grandfather was actually an astrologer in the sense that he could do a full chart and explain it (the novelty of having a grandfather that would dimiss my idiosyncracies with 'yeah whatever, she's an Aquarius and you thought it would be easy?' while gutting minnows for fishing or something was not lost on me). He thought it was useful in a glancing kind of way.

suzy (suzy), Tuesday, 11 July 2006 08:01 (nineteen years ago)

A baby born in the depths of winter is going to see the world very differently, or gain a different impression, than one born in summer.

Most babies stay inside the first couple of months. And do you think it has a huge impact on their personality? I doubt it. It's still too passive.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Tuesday, 11 July 2006 09:34 (nineteen years ago)

Also summer/winter happening at different times in different parts of the world, and astrology not taking this into account, no?

Zora (Zora), Tuesday, 11 July 2006 09:51 (nineteen years ago)

I have something GREAT to say about this combination: my Mum and Dad.
http://static.flickr.com/49/143931606_dff3c93546.jpg

Mädchen (Madchen), Tuesday, 11 July 2006 09:59 (nineteen years ago)

Nipping that supercool scorpio theory in the bud.

Mädchen (Madchen), Tuesday, 11 July 2006 10:02 (nineteen years ago)

everyone is afraid of scorpios because, well, they dont lie but they do enjoy an omittance or half truth. they're the foxiest of the zodiac by a longshot though so it makes up for a lot. the taurean-scorp combo is considered the best in the zodiac IF it swings the right way. A T-S couple can take over the world together or end up killing each other. either way, you know you're going to have fun.

sunny successor (katharine), Tuesday, 11 July 2006 13:12 (nineteen years ago)


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