i become the enemy of people: a poll

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i love mankind but i am amazed at myself: the more i love mankind in general, the less i love people in particular, that is, individually, as separate persons. in my dreams i often went so far as to think passionately of serving mankind, and, it may be, would really have gone to the cross for people if it were somehow suddenly necessary, and yet i am incapable of living in the same room with anyone even for two days, this i know from experience. as soon as someone is there, closeto me, his personality oppresses my self-esteem and restricts my freedom. in twenty-four hours i can begin to have even the best of men: one because he takes too long eating his dinner, another because he has a cold and keeps blowing his nose. i become the enemy of people the moment they touch me. on the other hand, it has always happened that the more i hate people individually, the more ardent becomes my love for humanity as a whole.

Poll Results

OptionVotes
disagree strongly 5
agree somewhat 3
disagree somewhat 3
neither agree nor disagree 1
agree strongly 0


Roberto Spiralli, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:59 (thirteen years ago)

i can begin to have even the best of men = i can begin to hate even the best of men. think that is the only important typo

Roberto Spiralli, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 17:00 (thirteen years ago)

it really depends. some days i agree, others i'm capable not only of loving individuals but of hating humanity as a whole.

contenderizer, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 17:05 (thirteen years ago)

i more often feel the opposite of this.

jed_, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 17:09 (thirteen years ago)

agree with contenderizer on the whole.

jed_, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 17:09 (thirteen years ago)

is being politically left-leaning, i mean in particular caring about the welfare of common society and putting that ahead of the individual, an expression of love for humanity?

Roberto Spiralli, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 17:13 (thirteen years ago)

are love and moral obligation separable?

contenderizer, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 17:22 (thirteen years ago)

i don't know, but i think they are. i wouldn't say that a sense of what all people deserve, of what we collectively owe one another, must necessarily be grounded in love. our regard for humanity in general could be viewed as a kind of non-local self interest.

contenderizer, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 17:30 (thirteen years ago)

love individuals and find it easier to be forgiving of their particular faults/foibles. mass of humanity, otoh, can go die

giallo pudding pops (Shakey Mo Collier), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 17:34 (thirteen years ago)

ie, its the aggregate of our combined faults that make us so loathsome

giallo pudding pops (Shakey Mo Collier), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 17:35 (thirteen years ago)

you just need to change up your definition of people

your native bacon (mh), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 18:31 (thirteen years ago)

this is basically narcissism, right, claiming to love people as humanity but hate them as individuals? something about it strikes a chord with me but something else rings false. i don't hate people but i don't care about a random individual in the same way that i think i care about humankind. there is not something that turns me away from people, it is more that there is most often not something that turns me towards people. i don't feel anything about the guy opposite me on the train but i strongly wish for and am maybe a little obsessed with improvement in the circumstances of humanity, of all of the units that comprise that mass, albeit by my own personal understanding of improvement. is this love, or is it just some kind of moral impulse, an instinct for a particular order in society? it feels like love but maybe that is just the most flattering interpretation. and why doesn't it filter down to the disaggregated level?

Roberto Spiralli, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 18:40 (thirteen years ago)

you can't accept the flaws of individuals, but seeing humanity as a flawed mass of people is easier.

so maybe you're projecting, and can't stand your own flaws, but hope that as part of humanity you have self-worth.

or you dislike your immediate peers

your native bacon (mh), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 18:43 (thirteen years ago)

i don't condemn individuals, it is more like disinterest. i wouldn't say i am disinterested in myself, or excessively interested in myself. but maybe caring about humanity that i am a part of is just within my range and caring about another individual within that humanity is a step of separation too far, unless there is a more direct link in-between.

i used to relate to that passage but reading it again it kind of repulses me too, and really i just don't know what i think.

Roberto Spiralli, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 19:03 (thirteen years ago)

Automatic thread bump. This poll is closing tomorrow.

System, Tuesday, 7 August 2012 00:01 (thirteen years ago)

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a hauntingly unemployed american (difficult listening hour), Tuesday, 7 August 2012 01:57 (thirteen years ago)

Automatic thread bump. This poll's results are now in.

System, Wednesday, 8 August 2012 00:01 (thirteen years ago)


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