OK, I accept in advance that every ILX thread on gender turns into a massive clusterfuck. But I really do need a wider sample of data on this, so I'm more interested in the results than the discussion.
Indulge me by taking the starting point that sex and gender are not necessarily the same thing. We have a biological sex, which is usually assigned at birth based on phenotype, and a sense of gender that is based on ... (herein lies the clusterfuck, over whether it is innate or societally conditioned, jury's out, have fun if you want to debate it. Every single innate v socialised debate I've ever encountered has turned out to be an and/both case, not an either/or. This is not the topic of this thread, but don't let that stop you from reaching for the Butler if you insist!)
But the quandary I wanted to get at is this: talking to trans people, they report having a strong sense of innate gender (and it being different from their birth-assigned sex). Fair enough, so far so good. Yet many people I've talked to about sex and gender, and trans and cis, and what it all means, report *not* having a clear sense of innate gender; non-binary gender; fluid gender; or even report gender being a set of external expectations imposed upon them. The specific friend whose conversation prompted this question (who is trans) theorised that most people *did* have a sense of innate gender identity, and if people thought that they didn't, it was due to their never really having to think about it. (Cis privilege and all that.) This just didn't come close to describing the experiences of myself, and people I knew who struggled with gender or felt that they had non-binary gender. Do I just have weird friends? It is possible. But we were both too biased by our own personal experiences to reach any meaningful conclusion. Hence my desire for more data from a much wider group of people!
I have tried to make the options as inclusive and non-binary as possible; if you don't understand the terminology used, wikipedia is your friend.
This is not about "what you think most people are like" so please keep this to your own personal experience: do you feel that *you* have a core or innate gender identity?
Poll Results
Option | Votes |
Assigned male at birth; I have a sense of being masculine gender | 114 |
Assigned male at birth; I don't particularly have a sense of innate binary gender | 23 |
Assigned female at birth; I don't particularly have a sense of innate binary gender | 15 |
Assigned female at birth; I have a sense of being feminine gender | 14 |
Assigned male at birth; I have a sense of being feminine gender | 2 |
Assigned female at birth; I have a sense of being masculine gender | 1 |
Intersex or non-binary at birth; I don't particularly have a sense of innate binary gender | 1 |
Intersex or non-binary at birth; I have a sense of being feminine gender | 0 |
Intersex or non-binary at birth; I have a sense of being masculine gender | 0 |
― Branwell Bell, Wednesday, 11 December 2013 21:50 (eleven years ago)