"cruelly you kissed me"

Does it matter - compared to who's doing it? I imagine that the shortest driest kiss from the one you adore is several moonbeams preferable to [whatever else] from [whoever else]?

If that's evasive, the supplementary question must be, how do you like to be kissed by the one you adore? I suppose the answer must be, as lengthily, as slowly and as wetly as possible.

But it's been a long time.

I have probably been kissed by fewer people than anyone on this board, but I'll try and answer.

I learned when I was 13 that a snog didnt count unless it was with tongues and I stand by that. I've been kissed (and have kissed probably) very well and very badly - the worst thing that kissers can do is not, um, synchronise their passion: for one tongue to be leaping like salmon and the other to be as limp as dead herring is, I think, DUD.

I like tounges and lips and noise. I want wet. It has to be passionite. This only applies to David
The double kiss on the cheek is common in my circle
the light peck among women only.
and the cheek kiss a bit longer but still chaste for family.

Kissing? Don't remember that one, please refresh my memory...

Sigh..........

If we're talking "big horny snog with someone sexy" then I like full lips, a bit of tongue, not too dry, not too wet and some noises - little purry noises. You know the ones I mean.

If we're talking "ancient female relative with beard" then I like a peck on the cheek, dry, no tongue.

What I'd like to know though (Emma made me think of this) when was the last time you kissed someone?

My last kiss was on 29 July 2001. It was my first kiss after over a year of no action. I made it worth my while.

i don't do kissing.

Mascara: 12th August 2001. A short goodbye kiss cos the car was illegally parked in a bus stop.

This morninng. Althoug it was not Daivid but my nephew.

Yesterday morning. Sigh.

A good kisser can vary their style but they get extra points from me if they do a good soft 'n' gentle. Round and round like a washing machine is a no no.

Most recent = just now, after lunch at gallipolli's (£5.40 each, lamb kofte in pitta, fantastic value). Lips, affectionate.
First kiss w.tongues = Nicki Cross in 1975/ 76. It was nice and so was she. I assumed at the time she was being kind (I was not the only one she snogged, at that party anyway): now I think she was more likely being exuberant and happy, and she probably quite liked me.

Last kiss was Sunday afternoon. Next will probably be Friday night, if I'm not still hellishly pissed off at him (I do hope "Psycho Friend" is reading this). I don't have a preference on kissing as long as it doesn't involve weird tongue movements. I can't describe them but I know what they are when I feel them and it makes me gag.

What about oral piercings? Tongue? Lip? How do they rate in the ILE viewing public?

(Why I have chosen this topic to post to repeatedly I will never know. Probably to do with 29 July.)

I'd get my tongue pierced but I don't think it improves the kissing any...in fact it can be a bit weird if you aren't expecting it. LIP piercings on the other hand are total duds for kissing in my opinion, they make it all weird and scrapy.

I got a PA and an infection set in. I will never perice again

Kissing -- a multiplicity of answers, surely? All depends on context. :-)

No slobberey kisses. No slobberey kisses! please!

Had a girl. Had wet lips. Cold, wet lips, like kissing a sea Bass it was (Or so I imagine. Y'know... ). And her kisses left cold snail trails wherever her lips went. Ugghhhh!

And electric eel tongues are unwelcome as well.

Otherwise: great! A snog-a-thon can be better than the sex that sometimes/usually follows. Sometimes.

Kissing skill is the most important single indicator of overall sexual skill. If a guy kisses well, I mean if his kisses (ALL BY THEMSELVES) make you all melty and dizzy, then you are in for some big fun. And the converse is true, sorry to say.

So. Show me a guy whose kisses are unhurried and gentle (especially at first) maybe with the fingers of one hand lifting your chin, maybe his hands on your waist (at first), those little soft purry sounds (yeah!), and *not too much tongue, dammit*, and I'll show you a keeper.

Tonsil hockey is for teenagers.

Joan talks some sense.

i haven't been tongue wipped for soooooo long.