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rolling #metoo thread for sexual harassment in the music industry so no one misses out when artists we don't give a fuck about like Tim Westwood and Bassnectar get caught

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It seems like a lot of the sexual harassment news of the last few years has either ended up in Weinsteins step down as Miramax CEOs or in individual artist threads like Ryan Adams and Swans: Classic or Dud? and Warped Tour 2004 and probably many more.

I just think it would do well to have a catch-all thread just for ILM. It seems like the news stories on this topic come and go and we don't get to see the full size of the issue. We could post news here or links to older revives in individual artist threads.

If this is a bad idea, feel free to let me know.

Anyways, here's Bassnectar:

No, I Do Not Want To Interview Bassnectar.

Here's Tim Westwood:

Tim Westwood = AWESOME

― peace, man, Thursday, 9 July 2020 15:52 (six years ago)

good idea!

― carin' (map), Thursday, 9 July 2020 15:53 (six years ago)

https://vignette.wikia.nocookie.net/fifthgear/images/7/70/Tim_westwood.PNG/revision/latest/top-crop/width/360/height/450?cb=20180520153702

let's not forget that Tim Westwood is only one year younger than Theresa May (another child of the clergy) and uses a lot more grecian 2000. The real tragedy is he when got shot, the bullet didn't go right through his testicles. It all seems to have gone quiet about him and his grooming game. What an utter stain.

― calzino, Thursday, 9 July 2020 16:02 (six years ago)

Whippin hard! What's my ride out music? pic.twitter.com/znI67xOcLO

— TimWestwoodTV (@TimWestwood) June 10, 2020

― calzino, Thursday, 9 July 2020 16:47 (six years ago)

he's supposedly got knocking on half a million followers yet his "whipping hard" tweet gets him 11 retweets ..hmmm

― calzino, Thursday, 9 July 2020 17:03 (six years ago)

the Minneapolis hip hop scene had a crazy week of blowing with all sorts of abusers getting outed

https://www.brooklynvegan.com/doomtree-prof-others-respond-after-members-of-minneapolis-hip-hop-scene-accused-of-abuse/

― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 9 July 2020 17:16 (six years ago)

pretty glaring free pass still given to surviving classic rockers about this, feels like a conversation people want to postpone indefinitely

― If you choose too long a name, your new display name will be truncated in (Left), Thursday, 9 July 2020 21:02 (six years ago)

yeah the independent radio station i used to do a show for would send out emails about not playing music by the ducktails guy (for example) when sexual abuse allegations came out, but then people would still play james brown and led zeppelin all the time

― na (NA), Thursday, 9 July 2020 21:18 (six years ago)

does listening to someone's music = giving them a pass? asking for a friend

― trapped out the barndo (crüt), Thursday, 9 July 2020 21:27 (six years ago)

not necessarily but fandom tends to do that especially when it gets loud enough to shout down critical voices

― If you choose too long a name, your new display name will be truncated in (Left), Thursday, 9 July 2020 21:52 (six years ago)

Prince is a big one no one wants to touch

― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 9 July 2020 22:19 (six years ago)

I still fuck with Prince, David Bowie, Motley Crue. Nugent, Zeppelin, Aerosmith to lesser extent. I don't know why this is, but some of the songs are so emotionally resonant to me that I can't divorce myself from them. I honestly haven't even looked into what Prince has done.

― peace, man, Thursday, 9 July 2020 22:44 (six years ago)

idk if it's a specific one thing, or just the general consensus that he was a humongous asshole, often abusive. but i'll let ums confirm

― I hear that sometimes Satan wants to defund police (Neanderthal), Thursday, 9 July 2020 22:45 (six years ago)

I'm sure that Prince was a terrible asshole in many facets of his life.

― peace, man, Thursday, 9 July 2020 22:57 (six years ago)

including the time when he was the symbol that he told the press they had to use the special font he gave them when writing about him, send them the special font in a file, then tried to sue people for using it in articles anyway.

― I hear that sometimes Satan wants to defund police (Neanderthal), Thursday, 9 July 2020 23:02 (six years ago)

https://pitchfork.com/thepitch/1117-heres-every-battle-prince-waged-against-the-internet-and-the-music-industry/

― I hear that sometimes Satan wants to defund police (Neanderthal), Thursday, 9 July 2020 23:14 (six years ago)

The Tim Westwood thread shows that a whole lot of ILXors really did give a fuck about him.

― The Fields o' Fat Henry (Tom D.), Thursday, 9 July 2020 23:32 (six years ago)

idk if it's a specific one thing, or just the general consensus that he was a humongous asshole, often abusive. but i'll let ums confirm

― I hear that sometimes Satan wants to defund police (Neanderthal), Thursday, July 9, 2020 5:45 PM (fifty minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink

No I mean grooming underage women

In 1990, 16-year-old Garcia met Prince backstage in Barcelona after he saw a tape of her dancing. After she graduated high school in Germany at the age of 17, Prince became her legal guardian.[14][4] Upon moving to Minneapolis, Prince and members of his team helped set her up with her own apartment. "At first, I stayed at the Sofitel, then they moved me to a nice little prairie house at the Country Suites, but I couldn't even make a cup of tea there, so they got me an apartment and rented furniture," she said.[15] At the age of 19, Prince instructed her to get on birth control thus beginning their sexual relationship.[4] After a four-year courtship, they married on February 14, 1996.[16]

― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 9 July 2020 23:36 (six years ago)

After she graduated high school in Germany at the age of 17, Prince became her legal guardian.

Ted Nugent pulled this same trick.

― but also fuck you (unperson), Thursday, 9 July 2020 23:39 (six years ago)

Oh, well...that part I didn't know. fuck!

― I hear that sometimes Satan wants to defund police (Neanderthal), Thursday, 9 July 2020 23:40 (six years ago)

xpost

― I hear that sometimes Satan wants to defund police (Neanderthal), Thursday, 9 July 2020 23:40 (six years ago)

xps to Tom

he is like funk flex yes, but singular and glorious in a way only england can be
― bob zemko (bob), Monday, 14 October 2002 07:27 (seventeen years ago) bookmarkflaglink

just imagine how singular and glorious funkmaster flex could have been if he was an upper middle class white English pedo still "doing it" at 62!

― calzino, Thursday, 9 July 2020 23:40 (six years ago)

Nona Gaye was 18 when they started dating (allegedly started)

― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 9 July 2020 23:41 (six years ago)

A woman I know knows a lot of people from Prince world, an R&B singer told her the story that Prince was producing her debut solo album in the early 80s

She had done vox on the Lipps Inc project and other things

Anyway

Prince demanded a blow job in the studio, she refused, he walked out, end of her solo career

― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 9 July 2020 23:43 (six years ago)

re: Doomtree, this is 100% shallow but my reaction to them after their set at the first Eaux Claires festival was “these people are terrible and I wish them all nothing but ill fortune”; I’m just sorry that their implosion is built on so much abuse and suffering.

― shout-out to his family (DJP), Friday, 10 July 2020 00:08 (six years ago)

I'd prefer to keep Bowie, James Brown and Prince out of this not because they're too beloved, just cause they're dead that seems like a different category of queasiness. unless someone here is a necromancer-for-cancellation? surely we already have a "separating the art from the artist?" thread already

― k*r*n koltrane (Simon H.), Friday, 10 July 2020 00:35 (six years ago)

but obv I'm not gonna make an actual effort to thread-police

― k*r*n koltrane (Simon H.), Friday, 10 July 2020 00:35 (six years ago)

I hear that Gesualdo guy was an asshole.

― pomenitul, Friday, 10 July 2020 00:36 (six years ago)

and yet he's still being played every hour, on the hour, on classic rock radio, sickening

― Kate (rushomancy), Friday, 10 July 2020 00:38 (six years ago)

'Moro, lasso, al mio duolo' is an undeniable jam, though.

― pomenitul, Friday, 10 July 2020 00:39 (six years ago)

Do these kids walking about with his face on their t-shirts even know though?

― The Fields o' Fat Henry (Tom D.), Friday, 10 July 2020 00:42 (six years ago)

Part of it is living in the middle of Minneapolis' Prince Industrial Complex and the endless hagiography gets old

― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Friday, 10 July 2020 01:39 (six years ago)

Gesualdo is obviously cancelled in my book

― If you choose too long a name, your new display name will be truncated in (Left), Friday, 10 July 2020 05:11 (six years ago)

didn't actually know any of the bad Prince stories, surprised i didn't see anyone make a lot of noise about them when he died

― ufo, Friday, 10 July 2020 05:33 (six years ago)

we all know rock n roll was partly built on this but it would be nice if we didn’t have to wait for the people to die, then wait for the mourning to die down, before any kind of minor reckoning with them. even nicer if it was their peers calling them out but that’s not happening & who else wants to deal with the threats

obv this is still going on in every genre/industry & statistically some of the ppl I like now are going to be creeps. which is shit but I’d rather know about it. lot more stuff is surely coming out soon, whether it will change anything idk. kids still love certain soundcloud dudes we knew about already. I hope they grow out of it

― If you choose too long a name, your new display name will be truncated in (Left), Friday, 10 July 2020 05:35 (six years ago)

Worth noting that Rodney P and Ty (R.I.P) relentlessly told us of Tim Westwood’s predatory nature...no one listened. #SurvivingTimWestwood pic.twitter.com/FWGxLABWMQ

— Michael Morgan (@mikewhoatv) June 22, 2020

I'd been wondering how Westwood managed to stay so protected - from the viewpoint of 2020 it feels weird to think of the extent to which he was the biggest and pretty much only gatekeeper for any British MC (and the only person playing most rap music in the UK full stop). We're talking about a 20-30 year period of dominance here.

The even grimmer conclusion is that because he was primarily targeting young black girls, no one really cared.

― Matt DC, Friday, 10 July 2020 10:04 (six years ago)

I'm surprised there isn't more concerted anger directed against him from some of the bigger grime stars (unless I've missed it) because he needs dragging down, what he gets away with is outrageous.

― calzino, Friday, 10 July 2020 10:37 (six years ago)

mind you as a much as a joke character as he he seems, he still obv wields a lot of power and influence

― calzino, Friday, 10 July 2020 10:54 (six years ago)

seeming like a joke character seems to help many people who wield a lot of power & influence

― If you choose too long a name, your new display name will be truncated in (Left), Friday, 10 July 2020 11:46 (six years ago)

Prime Ministers, for instance.

― The Fields o' Fat Henry (Tom D.), Friday, 10 July 2020 11:48 (six years ago)

The Prince stories, while unsurprising, are really bumming me out.

― shout-out to his family (DJP), Friday, 10 July 2020 13:32 (six years ago)

yeah it's depressing
I did watch Purple Rain for the first time in probably 20 years on Netflix and that whole movie is a real grab bag of red flags though, yikes I was kinda shocked at how horrible The Kid came off

to your Doomtree post, I think those guys (except Dessa, I think she was in a different lane) were super hard drug abusers

― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Friday, 10 July 2020 14:15 (six years ago)

I always felt like The Kid was supposed to look half horrible and not a model for behavior recommended by prince

but purple rain aside, djp otm. He was one of the few figures i would call a personal hero

― gnarled and turbid sinuses (Jon not Jon), Friday, 10 July 2020 14:23 (six years ago)

its hard to process when a huge part, maybe the hugest part, of an artist's project is how sexuality fits into the universe they constructed

― gnarled and turbid sinuses (Jon not Jon), Friday, 10 July 2020 14:27 (six years ago)

Yeah, my reading of Purple Rain was that The Kid was well on his way to becoming a piece of shit in the same vein as his father but music and Appolonia opened his eyes to his mistakes and gave him the strength to set his feet on a different path.

Also I don't mean to keep harping on this in the context of this thread but the Doomtree set was SO BAD, like half a step removed from Edina-Christian-youth-group-rapping-for-Jesus levels of bad

― shout-out to his family (DJP), Friday, 10 July 2020 14:27 (six years ago)

its hard to process when a huge part, maybe the hugest part, of an artist's project is how sexuality fits into the universe they constructed

I wouldn't say it's hard, rather that my take on it was that he was projecting a stage persona most of the time and I hoped/assumed he turned it off when it wasn't appropriate (which is of course naive when actually considered but still).

― shout-out to his family (DJP), Friday, 10 July 2020 14:28 (six years ago)

i'm starting to think that being a sexual predator / sexual power dynamics are like the quiet part of what being a successful pop star is or has always been about - the open secret. some people really seemed to relish it / some people were reluctant participants but obviously that doesn't change the end result - the pain of countless women (and queers) who suffered abuse.

― carin' (map), Friday, 10 July 2020 15:23 (six years ago)

'pop star' but also music industry exec etc.

― carin' (map), Friday, 10 July 2020 15:23 (six years ago)

this is a little out-of-bounds of this thread but i have my theories about why sexual abuse is so commonly done by people in these positions of power. part of it is the alienation of being an industrial exploiter in an exploitative capitalist framework - that very easily translates into sexual exploitation.

― carin' (map), Friday, 10 July 2020 15:27 (six years ago)

seems legit

― octobeard, Sunday, 23 August 2026 17:07 (one month ago)

Who is the Yves Tumor audience these days, I remember them dropping some cool noisy electronic stuff on Pan back in the day but now it looks they just make shitty art-rock?

― EsBeeKid (Whiney G. Weingarten), Sunday, 23 August 2026 18:17 (one month ago)

They're on last year's Rosalía album/single, that's pretty much the first time I heard them.

― coffee-themed romance ads (Eazy), Sunday, 23 August 2026 18:22 (one month ago)

Have never heard of this person tbh

― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Sunday, 23 August 2026 19:07 (one month ago)

He stood on my foot once while wearing six inch stilleto heels in a nightclub

― boxedjoy, Sunday, 23 August 2026 19:13 (one month ago)

Yves Tumor is a P4k fave. his last three full length albums have all been Best New Music, and two of them were in their year-end top 10.

― jaymc, Sunday, 23 August 2026 19:38 (one month ago)

https://x.com/reverendmoney/status/2090201667966751043?s=61&t=3Sco8Gmg4b4m0Dr9dGX4Ew

― every person shall be spared in whose home a jazz band is in f (President Keyes), Sunday, 23 August 2026 20:03 (one month ago)

Weird

https://x.com/reverendmoney/status/2090201667966751043?s=61&t=3Sco8Gmg4b4m0Dr9dGX4Ew

― every person shall be spared in whose home a jazz band is in f (President Keyes), Sunday, 23 August 2026 20:03 (one month ago)

Did we disallow twitter links?

― every person shall be spared in whose home a jazz band is in f (President Keyes), Sunday, 23 August 2026 20:04 (one month ago)

Yves Tumor is a P4k fave. his last three full length albums have all been Best New Music, and two of them were in their year-end top 10.

In 2026, this still doesn’t answer my question

― EsBeeKid (Whiney G. Weingarten), Sunday, 23 August 2026 20:46 (one month ago)

Weird

https://x.com/reverendmoney/status/2090201667966751043?s=61&t=3Sco8Gmg4b4m0Dr9dGX4Ew

it’s labeled “sensitive content” and you have to be logged in to see the tweet

― Oaf To Joy (Boring, Maryland), Sunday, 23 August 2026 21:38 (one month ago)

Ah. It’s a video a singer posted of Tumor grabbing her.

― every person shall be spared in whose home a jazz band is in f (President Keyes), Sunday, 23 August 2026 22:03 (one month ago)

And looking thoroughly rooted.

― coffee-themed romance ads (Eazy), Sunday, 23 August 2026 22:08 (one month ago)

(got my "zooted" autocorrected)

― coffee-themed romance ads (Eazy), Sunday, 23 August 2026 22:08 (one month ago)

the yves tumor revelations are not shocking to anyone who knew and/or has toured with him. its been unhinged for a long time. i did a small west coast tour with him in 2017 and literally ran from the afters seeing how he was spiraling on girls ...

— julianahuxtable (@huxtablejuliana) August 23, 2026

― Murgatroid, Sunday, 23 August 2026 23:21 (one month ago)

He's made a couple of ILX EOY polls is how I know about him.

― il lavoro mi rovina la giornata (PBKR), Monday, 24 August 2026 00:41 (one month ago)

Grim stuff coming out about Fat White Family’s Saul Adamczewski. Appears to have been swiftly dropped by promoters and labels.

https://thequietus.com/news/insecure-mens-saul-adamczewski-accused-of-assault-and-abuse/

― Composition 40b (Stew), Monday, 24 August 2026 09:58 (one month ago)

Horrible cunt. This stuff is relentless.

― Happiness is a warm gurn (Tom D.), Monday, 24 August 2026 10:29 (one month ago)

The woman shared screenshots of alleged message exchanges between herself and Adamczewski in which he appears to use abusive and insulting language towards her. You can find those screenshots here and here.

no you can’t.

(a comment on inadequate reporting, not on the claims.)

― uploading this content requires perseveration (sic), Monday, 24 August 2026 11:20 (one month ago)

I can see them.

― every person shall be spared in whose home a jazz band is in f (President Keyes), Monday, 24 August 2026 12:00 (one month ago)

see this is why we don't want embeds

― Serfin' USA (sleeve), Monday, 24 August 2026 12:10 (one month ago)

I think in 2026 a website can assume that their readers can access instagram.

― every person shall be spared in whose home a jazz band is in f (President Keyes), Monday, 24 August 2026 12:23 (one month ago)

I don't, by choice, thank god - and yes, you have to have an account to see anything

― Serfin' USA (sleeve), Monday, 24 August 2026 12:26 (one month ago)

I actually think that in a thread like this one, which is ostensibly about info sharing, adding barriers is decidedly not helpful in spite of how accessibly you think the info is. Doesn’t matter that much it’s just a barrier.

― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Monday, 24 August 2026 12:41 (one month ago)

good point, thank you

― Serfin' USA (sleeve), Monday, 24 August 2026 12:42 (one month ago)

Yves Tumor: https://www.reddit.com/r/yvestumor/comments/1vra0v7/new_allegations_police_report/

― Murgatroid, Wednesday, August 19, 2026 11:16 PM (five days ago) bookmarkflaglink

seems bogus

― out of the cradle endlessly party rocking (the table is the table), Sunday, August 23, 2026 7:01 AM (yesterday) bookmarkflaglink

gonna let this one age like piss in a used pappy van winkle barrel

― My homies buttthole surfers' record sounds like a f (Western® with Bacon Flavor), Monday, 24 August 2026 13:15 (one month ago)

I actually think that in a thread like this one, which is ostensibly about info sharing, adding barriers is decidedly not helpful in spite of how accessibly you think the info is. Doesn’t matter that much it’s just a barrier.

― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Monday, August 24, 2026 8:41 AM (fifty-six minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink

The links are in a Quietus article, not in this thread.

― every person shall be spared in whose home a jazz band is in f (President Keyes), Monday, 24 August 2026 13:39 (one month ago)

arguably tending to ... quiet us

― shaking babies (map), Monday, 24 August 2026 14:56 (one month ago)

idk who this is and not to make light of really horrifying things he did but the band name here is just too much

https://thequietus.com/news/insecure-mens-saul-adamczewski-accused-of-assault-and-abuse/

― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 24 August 2026 14:59 (one month ago)

It really fucking is!

― Ned Raggett, Monday, 24 August 2026 15:13 (one month ago)

sorry about the Tumor post— but when the original post is removed from Reddit, and there is apparent spamming of threads happening, then I tend to think that there might be something more to the story than “x person is a abuser.”

in this case i was wrong, and i am sorry.

― out of the cradle endlessly party rocking (the table is the table), Monday, 24 August 2026 16:17 (one month ago)

Max Bemis of Say Anything

https://www.theprp.com/2026/08/28/news/say-anythings-max-bemis-postpones-tour-as-allegations-circulate-online/

That story links to a really creepy account on reddit from a 17 year old.

― better than ezra collective soul asylum (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 1 September 2026 15:47 (three weeks ago)

maybe we should start a list of middle aged emo singers who DON'T have allegations

― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 1 September 2026 16:18 (three weeks ago)

Lol
Otm

― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Tuesday, 1 September 2026 16:27 (three weeks ago)

That story links to a really creepy account on reddit from a 17 year old.

There are multiple similar accounts on that reddit sub, not all of them were minors but all were young women - late teens and early 20s. One thing that I was somewhat heartened to see is that the majority of them recognised the behaviour for what it was and either didn’t respond, or called him out for the age gap and being a creep/told him to seek help.

I do like that Gen Z women on the whole are a lot more blunt and brave when these things happen, but it also makes me sad because they shouldn’t have to learn to deal with that shit in the first place.

― Roz, Wednesday, 2 September 2026 05:37 (three weeks ago)

it’s a positive imo that they’re more likely / able to call out egregious exploitation — bcz they’re already more likely to identify rotm male dickbaggery as contemptible

― uploading this content requires perseveration (sic), Wednesday, 2 September 2026 08:05 (three weeks ago)

Not sure it fits the thread, but something appears to be going on with Nirosta Steel, I'm afraid. Tone Glow just canceled their show at The Hideout.

― Paul Ponzi, Wednesday, 2 September 2026 20:37 (three weeks ago)

Steel's own post on it says they're trying to reschedule for January. Might just be scheduling.

― Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 2 September 2026 20:44 (three weeks ago)

Seeing a lot of chatter about his social media follows.

― every person shall be spared in whose home a jazz band is in f (President Keyes), Thursday, 3 September 2026 00:48 (three weeks ago)

People also wondering who the target of this Sparhawk vaguepost is:

That feeling you get when you keep seeing promo tweets for one of the most toxic-masculine musicians you’ve ever met. Part of it is jealousy, I suppose, but it’s wild how these guys still get rewarded and celebrated. Rock&roll means well but it still attracts narcissists.

— LOW (@lowtheband) August 10, 2026

― every person shall be spared in whose home a jazz band is in f (President Keyes), Thursday, 3 September 2026 16:11 (three weeks ago)

Was assuming it was Ryan Adams, but who knows.

― coffee-themed romance ads (Eazy), Thursday, 3 September 2026 17:47 (three weeks ago)

i don't use x -- has he been in the news/making promo tweets? why would anyone be jealous of disgraced ryan adams?

i would love to know who it is

― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Thursday, 3 September 2026 17:57 (three weeks ago)

He’s had ads on there in the past and has been promoting a European solo tour, but it was just a total guess. The downside of guessing who he meant is that someone he doesn’t intend to implicate could get implicated (say, Nick Cave or who knows).

― coffee-themed romance ads (Eazy), Thursday, 3 September 2026 18:14 (three weeks ago)

Queens of the Stone Age are ramping up a media cycle but that seems too easy

― Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 3 September 2026 18:16 (three weeks ago)

The shoe seems to fit to some degree but obviously who knows

― omar little, Thursday, 3 September 2026 18:30 (three weeks ago)

It's probably Weird Al.

― every person shall be spared in whose home a jazz band is in f (President Keyes), Thursday, 3 September 2026 18:35 (three weeks ago)

don't even joke about Weird Al man

― c u (crüt), Thursday, 3 September 2026 18:39 (three weeks ago)

not with Dolly gone, we have so little sunshine left

― My homies buttthole surfers' record sounds like a f (Western® with Bacon Flavor), Thursday, 3 September 2026 18:44 (three weeks ago)

Seriously

― Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Thursday, 3 September 2026 19:25 (three weeks ago)

two weeks pass...

Well since he's in the thread title

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ckx2zv0rx0nqo

― Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 22 September 2026 18:03 (four days ago)


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