What music was playing when you lost your viginty?

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We want to have the lurid scenes played out in our heads with soundtracks.

― Ian Johnson, Wednesday, 4 December 2002 23:40 (twenty-two years ago)

Black Sabbath

― Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 4 December 2002 23:43 (twenty-two years ago)

Joao Gilberto.

― hstencil, Wednesday, 4 December 2002 23:47 (twenty-two years ago)

someone blasting C + C Music Factory downstairs, or Soup Dragons, or something.

― donut bitch (donut), Wednesday, 4 December 2002 23:48 (twenty-two years ago)

Oh my God, probably Guns'n'Roses 'Sweet Child O'Mine' or 'The Look' by Roxette or something by Hothouse Flowers or Melissa Etheridge.

Joao Gilberto, eh? Isn't that just classic debut music? With Stan Getz?

― Jay K (Jay K), Wednesday, 4 December 2002 23:55 (twenty-two years ago)

silence.
m.

― msp, Thursday, 5 December 2002 00:10 (twenty-two years ago)

I think really bad ska. You can cringe for me.

― Carey, Thursday, 5 December 2002 00:18 (twenty-two years ago)

what about music playing you were losing your vigity, or you vigit, or your vgi, or your

― donut bitch (donut), Thursday, 5 December 2002 00:21 (twenty-two years ago)

lemme get back to you on this, mmmkay?

― Justyn Dillingham (Justyn Dillingham), Thursday, 5 December 2002 00:28 (twenty-two years ago)

not during, but afterwards - Unbelievable Truth.

just when you thought it couldnt get any more disapointing...

― Wyndham Earl, Thursday, 5 December 2002 00:29 (twenty-two years ago)

'careless whisper' by george michael, i'm sad to say. next lifetime, i'm choosing the music.

― angelo (angelo), Thursday, 5 December 2002 00:31 (twenty-two years ago)

what?!!?? "Careless Whispers" is a fantastic song, surely the only admirable tune from an otherwise execrable career...

― Shakey Mo Collier, Thursday, 5 December 2002 00:35 (twenty-two years ago)

The sound of children crying.

that was for my boy jpl

― Vic Funk, Thursday, 5 December 2002 00:40 (twenty-two years ago)

None, but I *was* wearing a Depeche Mode T-shirt that day.

― Kim (Kim), Thursday, 5 December 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago)

Sex Machine!

― William R Henderson (Cabin Essence), Thursday, 5 December 2002 02:55 (twenty-two years ago)

gg allin

― brains (cerybut), Thursday, 5 December 2002 03:00 (twenty-two years ago)

Hahaha Duran Duran's Notorious I think. If there is music playing, it's always Duran Duran and I find that confusing - I've had sex to Notorious, A View To A Kill, Ordinary World and Save a Prayer and not all in one session or even with the same person, it's totally bizarre.

― Ally (mlescaut), Thursday, 5 December 2002 03:09 (twenty-two years ago)

first kiss was to stupidass pearl jam's 'black.' ugggh.

― Claire (Claire Miccio), Thursday, 5 December 2002 04:09 (twenty-two years ago)

I think, actually, Billy Joel's "Vienna." I was trying to have it be "Purple Rain," which had just been released THAT WEEKEND, but she was not to be denied. It was her favorite song.

― Matt C., Thursday, 5 December 2002 04:10 (twenty-two years ago)

Screaming Nymphos Volume 11, track 8. I forget the artist but I think it was me.

― Tom Millar (Millar), Thursday, 5 December 2002 04:18 (twenty-two years ago)

The sound of the wind blowing just outside the door. (Insert multiuse "blowing" joke here.)

― Christine "Green Leafy Dragon" Indigo (cindigo), Thursday, 5 December 2002 04:41 (twenty-two years ago)

insert? multiuse? this is GOLD

― electric sound of jim (electricsound), Thursday, 5 December 2002 04:44 (twenty-two years ago)

A softly skipping needle at the end of a record. The Searchers I think.

I so totally win this thread.

― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Thursday, 5 December 2002 04:47 (twenty-two years ago)

Um, how?

― Ally (mlescaut), Thursday, 5 December 2002 05:38 (twenty-two years ago)

Because I just gave the sweetest most evocative and adorable answer humanly possible.

― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Thursday, 5 December 2002 06:11 (twenty-two years ago)

Should we pinch your cheeks, Sterling?

Slowdive in my case. I CARE NOT WHAT YOU THINK.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 5 December 2002 06:25 (twenty-two years ago)

What I think, Ned, is that that is totally fucking awesome!

― Clarke B., Thursday, 5 December 2002 07:10 (twenty-two years ago)

pinch his arsecheeks!

erm, can't remember. although she later complained about ALL of the music i put on every time - the lyrics in hip hop were too distracting, trip-hop is too boring, limp bizkit is horribly off-putting (ok that one was a freak accident, and i agreed with her). i remember once reading in details that "orange" by jon spencer is the best record to have sex to. erm, i guess i'll never find out, since i was never quite willing to take that risk.

if i ever find a girl who likes to do it to that Mocky song, though, I *will* marry her.

― Dave M. (rotten03), Thursday, 5 December 2002 07:35 (twenty-two years ago)

Tape of Beatles and Van Morrison.

Later tried White Rabbit as apparantly its designed with that in mind but it didn't work as its only 2 and a half minuites long.

― tigerclawskank, Thursday, 5 December 2002 12:06 (twenty-two years ago)

an episode of cheers.

― stevie (stevie), Thursday, 5 December 2002 12:22 (twenty-two years ago)

The Cure "Rainsong".

― Chris V. (Chris V), Thursday, 5 December 2002 12:57 (twenty-two years ago)

Peter Gabriel - Passion...I consider myself very, very lucky on that one.

Hmmm....this gives me an idea for another thread...

― nickalicious (nickalicious), Thursday, 5 December 2002 13:57 (twenty-two years ago)

Metal Box by PiL

― Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Thursday, 5 December 2002 14:19 (twenty-two years ago)

if i ever find a girl who likes to do it to that Mocky song, though, I *will* marry her.

What if she wants to act it out? I mean, it's all good right up until the "you shit on my face" part, at which point I would be forced to toss her out of the nearest window.

― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 5 December 2002 14:32 (twenty-two years ago)

The squeaking of bedsprings.

― Colin Meeder (Mert), Thursday, 5 December 2002 14:46 (twenty-two years ago)

KMFDM

― Jonathan Williams (ex machina), Thursday, 5 December 2002 14:48 (twenty-two years ago)

I think it was Are You Experienced. Heh. I can't say I'm a big fan of music during.

― teeny (teeny), Thursday, 5 December 2002 15:06 (twenty-two years ago)

Thank God no one has said "Thieves"!

― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 5 December 2002 15:16 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm waiting for someone to admit it was NIN's "Closer."

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 5 December 2002 15:41 (twenty-two years ago)

Not during--there was no noise until I started to weep--but it was the following morning that Cobain's headless body was found.
So that's pretty cool. Cuz it was an important little space of time for me personally and at a generational level.

― Horace Mann, Thursday, 5 December 2002 15:46 (twenty-two years ago)

Not during--there was no noise until I started to weep--but it was the following morning that Cobain's headless body was found.

That's some mind-blowing sex!

― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 5 December 2002 15:52 (twenty-two years ago)

Quite literally.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 5 December 2002 15:56 (twenty-two years ago)

Mogwai - Come On Die Young

― Callum (Callum), Thursday, 5 December 2002 16:01 (twenty-two years ago)

(haha Come On Di Young)

― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 5 December 2002 16:08 (twenty-two years ago)

Oh lord... Weezer's first album.

― Aaron W, Thursday, 5 December 2002 16:10 (twenty-two years ago)

i remember something about "venus in furs" but i was a bit distracted. and no, there weren't any boots of leather, bleeding for anyone, etc.

― ron (ron), Thursday, 5 December 2002 16:19 (twenty-two years ago)

That disgraceful Smashing Pumpkins double album. I really regret wasting the soundtrack to something so good on something so lame. Though I got the bus home whistling 'Waterloo Sunset' by the Kinks so I prefer to say that.

― Ian SPACK (Ian SPACK), Thursday, 5 December 2002 16:32 (twenty-two years ago)

*sweet* music

― michael wells (michael w.), Thursday, 5 December 2002 16:43 (twenty-two years ago)

I know it hasn't been said in a while, but it bears repeating.

DAN

PERRY

VERRRRY

BAD

MANG.

― Dave M. (rotten03), Thursday, 5 December 2002 17:39 (twenty-two years ago)

Merzbow. Oh, wait, that's how I FOUND my virginity.

― briania, Thursday, 5 December 2002 18:20 (twenty-two years ago)

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well at least SHE had good taste!

― J.D. (Justyn Dillingham), Wednesday, 3 March 2004 22:11 (twenty-one years ago)

I want to change my answer to Make It Big by Wham...

― Born-Again Pubescent Undercover Pocket Nihilist Crochet Ninja (mjt), Wednesday, 3 March 2004 22:16 (twenty-one years ago)

with any luck i should find out soon.

― duke jupiter, Wednesday, 3 March 2004 22:18 (twenty-one years ago)

two months pass...

I was told it was Bauhaus "Burning From the Inside Out" but I was focused on other stimuli at the time.

― sexyDancer, Wednesday, 12 May 2004 15:37 (twenty-one years ago)

a happy hardcore mixtape. it was over pretty fast.

― don (don), Wednesday, 12 May 2004 15:45 (twenty-one years ago)

whoa. Peter Gabriel, Passion, and no, it wasn't with nickalicious

― mookieproof (mookieproof), Wednesday, 12 May 2004 16:46 (twenty-one years ago)

Pretty sure it was something from the Top Gun soundtrack.

― Mark (MarkR), Wednesday, 12 May 2004 16:49 (twenty-one years ago)

"Time now for your local weather, on the eights!"
[Cue generic new age music...]

― Pleasant Plains (Pleasant Plains), Wednesday, 12 May 2004 16:55 (twenty-one years ago)

g n' r - CHINESE DEMOCRACY.

― latebloomer (latebloomer), Wednesday, 12 May 2004 18:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Well, actually, the movie The Hunger was on, and while Bauhaus had their appearance in the movie for some of it, it would have mostly been the soundtrack, I guess.

How may goth points do I get? ;)

― kaliflwr (kaliflwr), Wednesday, 12 May 2004 18:13 (twenty-one years ago)

Sonic Youth - Evol

― noodle vague (noodle vague), Wednesday, 12 May 2004 21:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Silence. Well, groans and stuff, I guess.

― Atnevon (Atnevon), Thursday, 13 May 2004 00:38 (twenty-one years ago)

I would just like to say that the Duran Duran thing wasn't my fault, btw. I don't actively put on Duran Duran during sex.

― Allyzay, Thursday, 13 May 2004 02:35 (twenty-one years ago)

i just noticed that i fucked up the thread title. goddamnit.

― Ian Johnson (orion), Thursday, 13 May 2004 02:37 (twenty-one years ago)

I happened pretty unplanned so there was no music, this was early 90's Canada - now the kids learn to shave "the chinese symbol for power" or something like that into their pubes by the time they're twelve and learn to lick a nigga ass to the Colette soundtrack by fourteen!

― LC, Thursday, 13 May 2004 02:47 (twenty-one years ago)

I first received, shall we say "oral pleasure" to the sounds of "I Got My Mind Set On You" by George Harrison. Strange.

― frankE (frankE), Thursday, 13 May 2004 17:58 (twenty-one years ago)

Astral Weeks

― shookout (shookout), Thursday, 13 May 2004 18:02 (twenty-one years ago)

Ian, "viginty" is perfect and has entered by lexicon as the word for that state of pre-sexuality. I think I'm in my second viginty.

Oh, and it was precious folk music -- Si Kahn, Rosie Hardmon or suchlike.

― briania, Thursday, 13 May 2004 18:13 (twenty-one years ago)

Smashing Pumpkins, Siamese Dream

― scottontharox (scottkundla), Thursday, 13 May 2004 21:04 (twenty-one years ago)

It was either some people playing Cure outside the tent at a festival but that time wasnt much success. Second time it was Hole - Live through this. STrange because every girlfriend since seems to have liked Hole one time or another.

― heroes + villains, Thursday, 13 May 2004 22:49 (twenty-one years ago)

x-post

I think that George Harrison record would have rendered me incapable of maintaining an erection.

― noodle vague (noodle vague), Friday, 14 May 2004 07:50 (twenty-one years ago)

eight months pass...

Silence. Ideally, though, I wish it were to Scritti Politti.

― Ian Riese-Moraine (Eastern Mantra), Saturday, 22 January 2005 17:19 (twenty years ago)

Or Cocteau Twins' "Whales Tails" on repeat.

― Ian Riese-Moraine (Eastern Mantra), Saturday, 22 January 2005 17:20 (twenty years ago)

If I remember correctly, we didn't put music on because we both had our ears set to "Spider-Sense" for the sound of her parents coming home. High school-age sex is the worst - three times with the same girlfriend, then I wasn't sexually active again 'til college.

― Tantrum The Cat (Tantrum The Cat), Saturday, 22 January 2005 17:45 (twenty years ago)

The sound of wind and nylon (we were in a tent). And I'm not ashamed to admit I probably listened to Pearl Jam and Smashing Pumpkins on the ride home.

― miss chevious grin (miss chevious grin), Saturday, 22 January 2005 18:36 (twenty years ago)

At least you had high school age sex, Tantrum. Not that I'm bitter.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Saturday, 22 January 2005 18:40 (twenty years ago)

At least you had high school age sex, Tantrum. Not that I'm bitter.

I'm still not sure it was worth it, as it was "Oh, crap, her parents are due home soon so we'd best get to it and we'd better not get totally naked." Add to that the fact that I'd never put a condom on before in my life, and that no one had informed me about lube, and the fact that a virginal 15-year-old girl could *LIKELY* use some, and you've got a winning night on your hands.

This is probably way too much information - sorry.

― Tantrum The Cat (Tantrum The Cat), Saturday, 22 January 2005 19:52 (twenty years ago)

Ned, you got to do it to Slowdive = I AM JEALOUS AND YOU SHOULD NOT COMPLAIN

Ooh, thread idea: interrupting foreplay to program cd, C/D?

Whoa, did this thread happen?

I think Tantrum and I had identical adolescences, right down to the parents being wary of our Depeche Mode obsessions until they realized that all our female friends also liked them.

For me, it may been the Orb, but the tape may have stopped before the truly kinky stuff started. In fact, I can't remember the precise soundtrack to any first-time with anybody (some of them were in silence, though), with one exception -- one gf and I first had sex to Saint Etienne's "Hobart Paving". That was nice.

― MindInRewind (Barry Bruner), Saturday, 22 January 2005 20:11 (twenty years ago)

An 8-track tape of Led Zeppelin IV, stuck on the track with "When The Levee Breaks" on it. The 8-track player was the only music device in the cabin we were in.

― joygoat (joygoat), Sunday, 23 January 2005 05:03 (twenty years ago)

Ooh, thread idea: interrupting foreplay to program cd, C/D?

flipping sides, you young 'uns.

of course, 8 tracks were the best because you didn't have to do anything.

― hstencil (hstencil), Sunday, 23 January 2005 06:53 (twenty years ago)

a vinyl bootleg of sam fox singing "locomotion".
i wrote to jive and they confirmed it was her but no official release.
sam fox ,kate ceberano, jewel are gr8 for intimacy .

if anyone wants a mp3 post a message here

― sam ceberano, Sunday, 23 January 2005 07:01 (twenty years ago)

A couple whose wedding I DJed at insisted* on having Exit Music (For A Film) played at their reception (!) as their last dance (!!!)
* - actually it was all him, her only permitted contribution was to have I Turn To You by Mel C included somewhere in the playlist between various Radiohead and Travis atrocities

Worst. Wedding Music. Ever.

-- El Diablo Robotico (nicolew1...), March 3rd, 2004.
does the radiohead "exit" sound like army of lovers"crucified' ?

― sam ceberano, Sunday, 23 January 2005 07:03 (twenty years ago)

MY ROOMIE HAD THE BATMAN FOREVER SOUNDTRACK PLAYING!!!
-- LITTLE LAMB [Jon Williams] (william...), March 3rd, 2004.
did u come during jewel ?
i bet you had flaming lips...hahahaa!!

― sam ceberano, Sunday, 23 January 2005 07:06 (twenty years ago)

shine on you crazy diamond, and all the stuff in between. I'm not that good, I just don't climax

― dave q (listerine), Sunday, 23 January 2005 07:31 (twenty years ago)

Stewart Osborne's choir post upthread really cracked me up.

― Bimble... (Bimble...), Sunday, 23 January 2005 07:54 (twenty years ago)

"To Here Knows When"

― Nic de Teardrop (Nicholas), Sunday, 23 January 2005 11:00 (twenty years ago)

was: probably portishead or some such un-imaginitive sex music for teens.
wish it was/try vehemently to orchestrate: the stooges: fun house/stooges

― scout (scout), Monday, 24 January 2005 06:06 (twenty years ago)

Shrek

― thank god i ain't too cool for the safe belt (smile), Monday, 24 January 2005 06:24 (twenty years ago)

a vinyl bootleg of sam fox singing "locomotion".
i wrote to jive and they confirmed it was her but no official release.
sam fox ,kate ceberano, jewel are gr8 for intimacy .

if anyone wants a mp3 post a message here

of the sex noises or of s. fox locomoting? either way yes please.

― kit brash (kit brash), Monday, 24 January 2005 12:10 (twenty years ago)

a tape copy 'best of the rolling stones'. I don't remember a single track, and that's unusual for me

― nick.K (nick.K), Monday, 24 January 2005 16:06 (twenty years ago)

U2 the bitch.

― Eyeball Kicks (Eyeball Kicks), Monday, 24 January 2005 17:09 (twenty years ago)

six years pass...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1llNP7D5rfA

― I thought that I heard you loling, I thought that I heard you steen (crüt), Thursday, 11 August 2011 13:31 (thirteen years ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QKK47bK_WA

― full on... mask hysteria (history mayne), Thursday, 11 August 2011 13:36 (thirteen years ago)

Jane's Addiction 'Nothing's Shocking'

― Death To False Camp (Doran), Thursday, 11 August 2011 13:38 (thirteen years ago)

R Kelly - Down Low

― streetball technician in the flesh (Spottie_Ottie_Dope), Thursday, 11 August 2011 16:31 (thirteen years ago)

Candyflip - Redhills Road

― Colin Allstations (PaulTMA), Thursday, 11 August 2011 16:34 (thirteen years ago)

Jane's Addiction 'Nothing's Shocking'

Must have made the 'sex is violence' part a bit interesting in context.

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 11 August 2011 16:37 (thirteen years ago)

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/f/fa/Skidrow-st.jpg

― kkvgz, Thursday, 11 August 2011 16:43 (thirteen years ago)

side b

― kkvgz, Thursday, 11 August 2011 16:44 (thirteen years ago)

simplythebest.mov

― bruce actual springsteen (schlump), Thursday, 11 August 2011 16:46 (thirteen years ago)

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