Female artists with male groupies? Is that a thing?

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Female artists with male groupies? Is that a thing?

LightUserSyndrome, Sunday, 19 January 2025 15:53 (one month ago) link

ILM is not your personal erotica site.

Loud guitars shit all over "Bette Davis Eyes" (NYCNative), Sunday, 19 January 2025 16:04 (one month ago) link

I read somewhere that Janis Joplin complained about the lack of this.

Halfway there but for you, Sunday, 19 January 2025 18:43 (one month ago) link

The Go-Go's have said they had groupies.

the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 19 January 2025 19:00 (one month ago) link

I understand Lydia Lunch indulged in this kind of thing back in the day.

bored by endless ecstasy (anagram), Sunday, 19 January 2025 20:56 (one month ago) link

There was an infamous Go-Go’s backstage video wasn’t there (trying to remember VH1 factoids from 1998)

papal hotwife (milo z), Sunday, 19 January 2025 21:06 (one month ago) link

I understand Lydia Lunch indulged in this kind of thing back in the day.


She still does!

sarahell, Sunday, 19 January 2025 21:21 (one month ago) link

good for her, in all seriousness

sleeve, Sunday, 19 January 2025 21:25 (one month ago) link

What does this have to do with the Fall?

Please play Lou Reed's irritating guitar sounds (Tom D.), Sunday, 19 January 2025 21:25 (one month ago) link

lol

iirc in her autobio Brix writes admiringly about Marcia Schofield's tenure in The Fall in these terms

sleeve, Sunday, 19 January 2025 21:27 (one month ago) link

esoteric erotica indeed

trm (tombotomod), Sunday, 19 January 2025 21:37 (one month ago) link

IIRC, the Go-Gos thing was that they couldn't find any male groupies, so they had to resort to going after roadies and guys in opening bands.

I remember reading an joint interview with Chrissie Hynde and Shirley Manson where the topic came up; Hynde said she'd never seen one, with Manson adding that men were too fragile to be groupies, and how they'd handle rejection by being sexually ruined for six months.

Okay, heteros are cutting edge this year, too. (C. Grisso/McCain), Sunday, 19 January 2025 21:46 (one month ago) link

Straight guys are stupid, pt. 2437

the talented mr pimply (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 19 January 2025 22:08 (one month ago) link

didn’t Joan Jett have many male admirers?

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Monday, 20 January 2025 01:07 (one month ago) link

This thread inspired me to read Rob Halford's autobiography, which includes a hilarious story of a glory hole encounter with a fan.

Instead of create and send out, it pull back and consume (unperson), Monday, 20 January 2025 01:11 (one month ago) link

Xp

Idk about admirers

salacious gossip

. I worked with a woman who hooked up w her I think more than once? She seemed like good people and not super interested in men.

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Monday, 20 January 2025 01:13 (one month ago) link

concurrent with us working together so spring 1998 iirc

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Monday, 20 January 2025 01:14 (one month ago) link

I remember Neko Case complaining about unhorny all her male fans were. They just wanted autographed cds.

ⓓⓡ (Johnny Fever), Monday, 20 January 2025 01:20 (one month ago) link

"I remember Neko Case complaining about unhorny all her male fans were."
Is that a common thing with the indie (pitchfork) acts?

― Please play Lou Reed's
If i knew, i'd tell ya, uh?!

LightUserSyndrome, Monday, 20 January 2025 17:53 (one month ago) link

IIRC, the Go-Gos thing was that they couldn't find any male groupies, so they had to resort to going after roadies and guys in opening bands.

The Go-Gos videotape involved a roadie, I think, and was supposedly nothing more than all of them drunk and trying (and failing?) to get him to either masturbate or use a sex toy. Never saw it but it was a staple of grey-market (e.g. Video Search of Miami) catalogs in the 90s, with the Chuck Berry tape.

gjoon1, Monday, 20 January 2025 21:13 (one month ago) link

Iirc, the Go-Gos succeeded in making the male roadie masturbate but he had difficulty completing the task.

bbq, Monday, 20 January 2025 23:34 (one month ago) link

ILM is not your personal erotica site.

― Loud guitars shit all over "Bette Davis Eyes" (NYCNative)

the video i started the patriarchy thread with literally talks about this phenomenon lol

Kate (rushomancy), Monday, 20 January 2025 23:48 (one month ago) link

This thread is gross and I regret contributing to it

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Tuesday, 21 January 2025 00:04 (one month ago) link

Dear ILM, you’re probably not going believe this, but in the ‘80s I was an the edge of seventeen…

Iza Duffus Hardy (President Keyes), Tuesday, 21 January 2025 00:41 (one month ago) link

Are female groupies horny ? I am sure some are, but that's not all there is to it ?
Otherwise pretty established that horniness is equally distributed, just the behavior differs and gender is far from the only factor there

Nabozo, Tuesday, 21 January 2025 07:29 (one month ago) link

I would recommend listening to the very popular podcast Groupies to answer that question.

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Tuesday, 21 January 2025 14:06 (one month ago) link

The Go-Gos video is about the tamest thing you can imagine. I think it was about 20 minutes long, and they’re sitting at the base of a bed while having an insane conversation with two or three guys. Everyone is likely loaded on alcohol/cocaine

beamish13, Tuesday, 21 January 2025 14:20 (one month ago) link

these guys are called 'stalkers'

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Tuesday, 21 January 2025 14:23 (one month ago) link

I would recommend listening to the very popular podcast Groupies to answer that question.

This? https://open.spotify.com/show/7mwisoVVp4UTqxvDq1zePg?si=30b84db0e87e4f58

Loud guitars shit all over "Bette Davis Eyes" (NYCNative), Tuesday, 21 January 2025 16:06 (one month ago) link

yes

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Tuesday, 21 January 2025 16:14 (one month ago) link

iirc Neko Case (?) planted a big old smoocharoo on an ilxor one time

ɥɯ ︵ (°□°) (mh), Tuesday, 21 January 2025 16:19 (one month ago) link


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