David Berman vs Gram Parsons

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continuing this self-indulgent poll idea of songwriters chosen for no other reason than they struck me as having some similarities one time when i was high.

both southern, both from well-off families, both troubled meeting tragic ends. the 2nd thing possibly having something to do with the 3rd. both wrote very tender and moving songs.

i think the music (playing and arrangements) parsons was involved with is richer but berman had a higher batting average with the lyrics. maybe this isn't a particularly 'sticky' poll after all.

Poll Results

OptionVotes
David Berman 21
Gram Parsons 11


five six seven, eight nine ten, begin (map), Wednesday, 4 June 2025 21:42 (two weeks ago)

good poll but I have never clicked with either artist in this case! I guess Parsons for the FBB album.

sleeve, Wednesday, 4 June 2025 21:44 (two weeks ago)

hold the world to its word

reggie (qualmsley), Wednesday, 4 June 2025 21:46 (two weeks ago)

Went with Parsons on the basis of the records he left behind, but Berman struck me as a wonderful and tragic human being, and it's not like his stuff wasn't great. (He gets brief mentions in the Pavement movie, and even in those moments he sounds pretty awesome.)

birdistheword, Wednesday, 4 June 2025 23:07 (two weeks ago)

lol this is the kind of dumbass poll I’d start

calstars, Thursday, 5 June 2025 02:00 (two weeks ago)

hottake: Parsons is boring

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Thursday, 5 June 2025 02:24 (two weeks ago)

“Yes, you loved me and you sold all my clothes”

calstars, Thursday, 5 June 2025 02:30 (two weeks ago)

I like Gram quite a bit but I love David.

Cow_Art, Thursday, 5 June 2025 04:46 (two weeks ago)

Big Gram fan but David Berman still hasn't gotten his due as one of the greatest songwriters ever.

Chris L, Thursday, 5 June 2025 12:39 (two weeks ago)

I have this problem thinking critically about Berman because all I end up doing is quoting my favorite lyrics.

He almost walked into a wall
Oh man, she was a sight to see

Heez, Thursday, 5 June 2025 13:02 (two weeks ago)

TBF I like some of the Emmylou Harris versions of Parsons songs

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Thursday, 5 June 2025 13:29 (two weeks ago)

xp that's one of only two songs that makes me choke up every single time I hear it, the other being Landslide

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Thursday, 5 June 2025 13:30 (two weeks ago)

Never heard anything by David Berman!

Blake the Messenger (Tom D.), Thursday, 5 June 2025 13:31 (two weeks ago)

The Gilded Palace of Sin is an all-timer, but Berman's catalog is deeper in every sense of the word.

Blood On The Knobs, Thursday, 5 June 2025 13:37 (two weeks ago)

Yeah, that damn song about the guy in thecoma has made me cry more than any other song. Almost every damn time.

“Little Green” is the only other song that consistently fucks me up.

Cow_Art, Thursday, 5 June 2025 13:43 (two weeks ago)

The line that always gets me is "And they slow danced so the needle wouldn't skip/unitl the room was filled with light"

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Thursday, 5 June 2025 14:06 (two weeks ago)

Gram in a heartbeat, and I say that as a DCB fan.

Go put on $1000 Wedding and then report back.

imperial frfr (Steve Shasta), Thursday, 5 June 2025 14:25 (two weeks ago)

Gram's voice makes me cry more than any other singer.

Ward Fowler, Thursday, 5 June 2025 14:29 (two weeks ago)

I know Berman will win with this group and I admit I haven't listened to much of his stuff but I've loved Gram since high school, he was my backdoor into country music and he basically birthed a whole genre, so this one's easy.

Evans on Hammond (evol j), Thursday, 5 June 2025 14:40 (two weeks ago)

Parsons, though I've only heard Tanglewood Numbers by Berman, which apparently isn't regarded as his best. Gram's voice, faltering though it is, nonetheless conveys feeling that I have to reach past Berman's singing to access.

Halfway there but for you, Thursday, 5 June 2025 14:42 (two weeks ago)

I only have one album by Parsons, the first Burrito Brothers album, but it’s a stone classic. I’ve never clicked with any music by Berman, but I’ve been impressed by some of his poems. So this one is easy.

o. nate, Thursday, 5 June 2025 14:48 (two weeks ago)

kind of unfair because david berman's career spanned multiple decades and everything that gram did happened in a 5-year span

gestures broadly at...everything (voodoo chili), Thursday, 5 June 2025 14:48 (two weeks ago)

i don't think they're particularly similar songwriters. i think malkmus has a much more parsons-y sense of melody

gestures broadly at...everything (voodoo chili), Thursday, 5 June 2025 14:50 (two weeks ago)

Sometimes you wanna enjoy a singer’s voice and solid, comfortable composition, you go to Gram

Other times you’re in the mood for poetry and turn of phrase, you go to DB.

Apples vs oranges, incomparable

calstars, Thursday, 5 June 2025 15:51 (two weeks ago)

he was my backdoor into country music

That’s funny because Berman played a similar role for me, particularly with modern country. I remember loving the lyrics to “Friday Night Fever”and learning that it was a George Strait song written by Dean Dillon. That opened up a whole new world of country music for me

Heez, Thursday, 5 June 2025 16:10 (two weeks ago)

Automatic thread bump. This poll is closing tomorrow.

System, Friday, 13 June 2025 00:01 (one week ago)

Automatic thread bump. This poll's results are now in.

System, Saturday, 14 June 2025 00:01 (one week ago)

yessssss

Cow_Art, Saturday, 14 June 2025 00:25 (one week ago)

Called it

Evans on Hammond (evol j), Saturday, 14 June 2025 03:56 (one week ago)

It’s crazy how on his game Berman was before he died. “Snow falling in manhattan” should be an American standard

Heez, Saturday, 14 June 2025 05:04 (one week ago)

the year ends in the next room
it is autumn, and my camouflage is dying

reggie (qualmsley), Tuesday, 17 June 2025 21:06 (one week ago)


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