Hanging around on ILM has brought home to me that I may be somewhat unusual in the amount of time I devote to something before I feel confident about how much I do or don't like it. I tend to feel baffled and skeptical anytime somebody listens to something once and then makes these grand pronouncements like "wow what a disappointment" or "I just listened to this artist's whole discography, these seven albums are trash but these five are good" or "yup this is the best thing everrr" etc etc. I revise my own thoughts on music so often that my instinct tells me these "knee-jerk" reactions are nonsense, but maybe I'm being ungenerous. It could just be a philosophy-of-listening thing, right? or even something that's out of our control, a "this is just the type of listener I am" kind of thing?
In my early twenties I had major issues with recency bias, but at some point finally understood that things I loved right away maybe weren't going to stay favorites forever, and also that things which sounded "eh" the first eight, nine times could grab me by the scruff o' the neck and throw me against the wall on tenth listen.
Poll Results
| Option | Votes |
| After three or four listens | 18 |
| After two listens | 12 |
| After one listen | 10 |
| After five listens | 6 |
| Six to ten somewhere | 4 |
| Ten plus | 2 |
― TheNuNuNu, Saturday, 24 October 2026 12:55 (two weeks ago)