― Roman (Roman), Thursday, 29 May 2003 02:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― Evan (Evan), Thursday, 29 May 2003 02:40 (twenty-two years ago)
― electric sound of jim (electricsound), Thursday, 29 May 2003 02:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― Curt1s St3ph3ns, Thursday, 29 May 2003 02:44 (twenty-two years ago)
― keith (keithmcl), Thursday, 29 May 2003 02:47 (twenty-two years ago)
Geeze... it really was sad!
― Roman (Roman), Thursday, 29 May 2003 02:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― Roman (Roman), Thursday, 29 May 2003 02:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― keith (keithmcl), Thursday, 29 May 2003 02:58 (twenty-two years ago)
They were a band with potential who just came out at the wrong time and got lost in the mix.
I was thinking about Michael H. a couple days ago at a family gathering. My family was trying to relate to me and discuss things they think would interest me. I appreciated it, but it just struck me as weird how they assumed things that mattered to me in the past were still vitally important. They did not see me, they saw what they thought was me.
It has to be horrible to go through your middle adult life being defined by an image that you created when you were 17.
― Mike Taylor (mjt), Thursday, 29 May 2003 03:03 (twenty-two years ago)
God, I cannot get over how sad this makes me. I never had the albums or was a huge fan, but Valerie Loves Me and Diane came out right as I hit high school and started getting seriously into music. They were both huge hits in the pre-Nevermind sense of Alternative hits. They both received a lot of play from 120 minutes and 89x back in the day. Those two singles really meant a lot to me, in a very pivotal soundtrack of youth sort of way. They were both pop, but they always came across as bittersweet, and they some how made you feel uplifted and sad inside. It is such a pop cliché, but it is so totally applicable in this case.
They always gave me a very specific feeling. I am having a bit of trouble putting it into words. It is just a sub verbal feeling that accompanies a set of images of being about 14. Driving down certain streets in a car listening to Valerie, talking about covering it at a band practice when I was 14, thinking about it in high school, taping them on 120 minutes and watching it on video tape years and years later.
I never took a step towards those songs, those songs stepped towards me. They are a part of my musical life and I cannot shake them. I don't understand why his death, especially 7 years after the fact, is bothering me so much. The melancholy of those songs and the time in my life is washing over me. I do not know why it is bothering me so much, but it really is bothering me.
― Mike Taylor (mjt), Thursday, 29 May 2003 03:22 (twenty-two years ago)
― Roman (Roman), Thursday, 29 May 2003 03:28 (twenty-two years ago)
by the way, as I understand it, Nick Drake overdosed, and it's never been confirmed that it was on purpose. No note.
― roger adultery (roger adultery), Thursday, 29 May 2003 03:30 (twenty-two years ago)
So sad, as Acetone was surely one of the most overlooked bands of all time. Especially their last couple of albums.
― blutroniq (blutroniq), Thursday, 29 May 2003 04:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― todd swiss (eliti), Thursday, 29 May 2003 05:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― j.a.e., Thursday, 29 May 2003 05:38 (twenty-two years ago)
― jack cole (jackcole), Thursday, 29 May 2003 05:52 (twenty-two years ago)
― mig, Thursday, 29 May 2003 06:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Thursday, 29 May 2003 07:40 (twenty-two years ago)
Did Jeff Buckley intentionally step into the river knowing he was gonna be swept away by powerful currents? Or did he think he was a strong enough swimmer? His dad writing "Song to the Siren" is eerie though. ("Should I stand amid the breakers? / Or should I lie with death my bride?")
Did Lester Bangs accidentally overdose on Darvon or whatever that cough medicine was called?
And I'm not sure it was ever proven that Shannon Hoon intentionally overdosed, either.
Somewhere along the line I missed that Jeffrey Lee Pierce died in 96 or so (not suicide, just lifestyle catching up). I think it was around 99 that I finally clued in, and I was sad for weeks, I have no idea why. The Gun Club were great, but I stopped listening to them years before Jeffrey fell apart.
― David A. (Davant), Thursday, 29 May 2003 08:03 (twenty-two years ago)
― russ t, Thursday, 29 May 2003 08:27 (twenty-two years ago)
Just a couple of people I met once or twice briefly in the early 90s who seemed to have a hell of a lot going for them, personally and professionally, who were charming and funny, but who decided they couldn't go on.
― Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Thursday, 29 May 2003 08:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Thursday, 29 May 2003 08:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― tigerclawskank, Thursday, 29 May 2003 08:35 (twenty-two years ago)
― hamish (hamish), Thursday, 29 May 2003 08:40 (twenty-two years ago)
― Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 29 May 2003 09:05 (twenty-two years ago)
Fuck, yes, I just got a flood of memories from working with homeless people with psychiatric problems back in the UK. That was a common drug back then. You suddenly realize how much of a breakthrough Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, etc have been. Overdose is damn near impossible on SSRIs, I think.
So, given that it was easier to OD on amitryptilene, was Nick Drake's overdose accidental?
― David A. (Davant), Thursday, 29 May 2003 09:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― russ t, Thursday, 29 May 2003 10:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― dave225 (Dave225), Thursday, 29 May 2003 11:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― brian badword (badwords), Thursday, 29 May 2003 11:17 (twenty-two years ago)
― My name is Kenny (My name is Kenny), Thursday, 29 May 2003 11:36 (twenty-two years ago)
but perhaps it ain't quite right to name the late Band member on this thread?it wasn't exactly like "no one seemed to care" -- not after he was gone: Robbie Robertson and Clapton (of all people) both dedicated songs to him
― t\'\'t (t\'\'t), Thursday, 29 May 2003 12:41 (twenty-two years ago)
this was patently not the case in southern California, where all my friends grieved Darby pretty intensely
― J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Thursday, 29 May 2003 12:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― Kerry (dymaxia), Thursday, 29 May 2003 14:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― James Blount (James Blount), Thursday, 29 May 2003 15:10 (twenty-two years ago)
― James Blount (James Blount), Thursday, 29 May 2003 15:11 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ben Boyer, Thursday, 29 May 2003 15:20 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ferg (Ferg), Thursday, 29 May 2003 15:26 (twenty-two years ago)
Did this really happen?
― Mark (MarkR), Thursday, 29 May 2003 15:31 (twenty-two years ago)
Mebbe so, but ask the average joe on the street who Darby Crash was, and you'll get blank looks.
Quite sadly, Wendy O. Williams of the Plasmatics fits this thread to a T. Her self-inflicted gunshot would to the head (through the mouth, I remember reading) generated the minimum of press flurry (People Magazine gaver her a column and a pic), but by the end of the year obit roundups, she was nowhere to be found.
― Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 29 May 2003 15:41 (twenty-two years ago)
For someone as important, influential and downright fabulous as Sir Mackenzie, it should've been a national day of mourning.....
― russ t, Thursday, 29 May 2003 15:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― TMFTML (TMFTML), Thursday, 29 May 2003 15:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― jack cole (jackcole), Thursday, 29 May 2003 15:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― Roman (Roman), Thursday, 29 May 2003 17:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― Charles McCain (Charles McCain), Thursday, 29 May 2003 18:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― donut bitch (donut), Thursday, 29 May 2003 18:32 (twenty-two years ago)
― Chris Barrus (Chris Barrus), Thursday, 29 May 2003 18:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 29 May 2003 18:44 (twenty-two years ago)
*googling for that story about the remaining members of INXS asking Mike Patton to replace Hutchence & horrible mean hilarity ensuing*
― nickalicious (nickalicious), Thursday, 29 May 2003 18:48 (twenty-two years ago)
"I told them that the only way I would do it was if I came on stage and could rig up a noose and hang myself while I was singing," said the barking mad singer in an interview with US paper the East Bay Express.
Patton said he resorted to shock tactics after the Aussie band wouldn't take no for an answer.
"They got all uppity," he said. "And from that point on, I just tried to make fun of them at every available opportunity. I tried to talk as much shit as I could. 'What do you mean you said no? You didn't even consider it?' And I said, 'Would you?' And they said, 'Of course, we are one of the most prestigious Australian acts blah blah blah'. He'd ask me a few other questions, and then he'd go back to it. 'So really, about that INXS thing ...' I said, 'OK, look. I did consider it.' I told them that the only way I would do it was if I came on stage and could rig up a noose and hang myself while I was singing."
Patton really put his foot in it as his comments were reported on national radio back in Australia during the country's National Suicide Awareness Week. Needless to say Hutchence's parents were not amused.
"I was rough," continued the singer. "But hey, you can come out snarling when your back is against the wall, and plus they suck! Fuck them! They are fucking godawful! And not only that, I turned them down and they didn't want me to talk about that fact? Kiss my ass! Dingo-loving sons of bitches!"
― nickalicious (nickalicious), Thursday, 29 May 2003 18:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 29 May 2003 18:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― TMFTML (TMFTML), Thursday, 29 May 2003 19:04 (twenty-two years ago)
― don weiner, Thursday, 29 May 2003 19:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― j fail (cenotaph), Thursday, 29 May 2003 19:09 (twenty-two years ago)
― Eyeball Kicks (Eyeball Kicks), Thursday, 29 May 2003 20:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― Jordan (Jordan), Thursday, 29 May 2003 22:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― todd swiss (eliti), Friday, 30 May 2003 01:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― Curt1s St3ph3ns, Friday, 30 May 2003 02:00 (twenty-two years ago)
What a great man.
― David Allen, Friday, 30 May 2003 02:27 (twenty-two years ago)
― J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Friday, 30 May 2003 03:28 (twenty-two years ago)
― russ t, Friday, 30 May 2003 08:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Friday, 30 May 2003 09:17 (twenty-two years ago)
an early member of SPK who was schizophrenic had killed himself before Ian Curtis did, but he was no musician, mostly wrote the early crazy lyrics.
― Jrvision (visionjr), Friday, 30 May 2003 09:30 (twenty-two years ago)
― dave q, Friday, 30 May 2003 09:43 (twenty-two years ago)
that'd be Ne/H/il. i think he had a big hand in the SoliPsiK 7" that M Squared released which I like more than every other SPK song I've heard
― electric sound of jim (electricsound), Friday, 30 May 2003 10:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― Jrvision (visionjr), Friday, 30 May 2003 11:02 (twenty-two years ago)
For a drummer.
A whole page.
Wtf?
― Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Friday, 30 May 2003 11:10 (twenty-two years ago)
haha and so did Counting Crows on their last album but we certainly don't care about that.
― teeny (teeny), Friday, 30 May 2003 13:55 (twenty-two years ago)
wtf?
― Sean (Sean), Friday, 30 May 2003 14:03 (twenty-two years ago)
That's the guy that whats-his-name met while working in a mental hospital, right?
― Christine 'Green Leafy Dragon' Indigo (cindigo), Friday, 30 May 2003 16:05 (twenty-two years ago)
― Jrvision (visionjr), Friday, 30 May 2003 17:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― roger adultery (roger adultery), Thursday, 8 April 2004 02:13 (twenty-one years ago)
When Layne Staley died, I actually had a bit of a tear in myeye. And I'm not even an Alice In Chains fan - they're pleasant,but I don't own any of their records. But it was so damn foolishand sad, and the fact that his death had evident for years didn't"soften the blow," it made it even sadder. If you listen to hislyrics, he knew exactly what path he was on; "Wake up, youngman, wake up - slow suicide's no way to go," which is just oneexample out of many. Staley knew he was spiralling down into oblivion, but he felt there was nothing he could do. And that is soincredibly sad to me.
― Squirrel_Police (Squirrel_Police), Thursday, 8 April 2004 02:28 (twenty-one years ago)
― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 8 April 2004 02:29 (twenty-one years ago)
― Squirrel_Police (Squirrel_Police), Thursday, 8 April 2004 02:31 (twenty-one years ago)
― Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Thursday, 8 April 2004 02:32 (twenty-one years ago)
― latebloomer (latebloomer), Thursday, 8 April 2004 02:48 (twenty-one years ago)
― earlnash, Thursday, 8 April 2004 02:57 (twenty-one years ago)
― miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Thursday, 8 April 2004 03:00 (twenty-one years ago)
― Dan Selzer (Dan Selzer), Thursday, 8 April 2004 03:40 (twenty-one years ago)
― Mr. Snrub (Mr. Snrub), Thursday, 8 April 2004 03:49 (twenty-one years ago)
actually, Alex In NYC could probably post a good visual tribute to Mr. Bubbles
― Paul (scifisoul), Thursday, 8 April 2004 04:18 (twenty-one years ago)
― eleki-san (eleki-san), Thursday, 8 April 2004 14:46 (twenty-one years ago)
― mike a, Thursday, 8 April 2004 16:03 (twenty-one years ago)
― rumple, Thursday, 8 April 2004 16:10 (twenty-one years ago)
― jack cole (jackcole), Thursday, 8 April 2004 16:16 (twenty-one years ago)
Thank you for posting about Material Issue. I totally never knew who sang that song and I love it!!
― ken taylrr, Thursday, 8 April 2004 16:38 (twenty-one years ago)
― Canada Briggs (Canada Briggs), Thursday, 8 April 2004 16:39 (twenty-one years ago)