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A simple question, an enormous topic, so it probably won't get many replies. What are your favourite love songs - and I'm meaning here actual love songs, songs where the idea is to express the singer's love for another human being, not meta-love-songs or love-song critiques. Cynical indie love songs will disappoint as answers but should not be excluded.

Tom, Sunday, 11 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

1. The Blue Nile - Tinseltown In The Rain Simply the most rapturous encapsulation of the stunned joy of love, all boiled down to that chorus: "Do I love you? YES I love you!"

2. Amira - My Desire (Dreem Teem Mix) The name says it all. "My Desire" does the whole yearning shtick as well as any indie record ever has, because it captures the texture as well as the narrative of the sentiment. For dancing with tears in your eyes.

The rest:

3. The Magnetic Fields - The Book Of Love 4. Bjork - Come To Me 5. Sparklehorse - Saturday 6. Aaliyah - One In A Million 7. The Smiths - There Is A Light That Never Goes Out 8. Joni Mitchell - A Case Of You 9. 10. Britney Spears - Born To Make You Happy

Tim, Sunday, 11 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Keeps changing. At present, let's say the Cure's "Trust" and Lamb's "Gorecki." The first for very personal reasons that veer between bliss and utter self-loathing (oh yes), the second both because the lyrics do ever so work right, much to my surprise, and because of the sweep of the music, sheer atmosphere and power combined. Separate answer later, I figure.

Ned Raggett, Sunday, 11 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

"Lilac Wine" as performed by Nina Simone on _Wild Is The Wind_. It's a sick kind of love song, about a can't-have obsession, but it's some kind of love just the same. An absolute killer. It's about getting drunk on a magic potion to hallucinate about a lost lover; the wine also bolsters confidence or pushes the drinker closer to death ("I feel I'm ready for my love"), which is never clear...the narrator is not sure if the lover is actually there or if she's going insane, another side effect. The narrative is all twisted and strange and sad. God, I'm getting choked up just thinking about it now. Also one of the all-time great drug songs along with "Lush Life."

Mark Richardson, Sunday, 11 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I would say "The Night Was so Young" by the Beach Boys...it's from the "Love You" album...so I think it's probably a love song. bye!

James E L, Sunday, 11 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

OK. Just a few that popped out of my head first on this chilly, windy February morning... "Seductive Barry". Is it rather a lust song? I dont know what most people think of it, but surely many find it ineffective because overdone or phony, like a caricature of a song. "TIHC"'s oneiric siamese twin, to me it's just swirling, grandiose, breathtaking. Oddly, I do believe in it. Actually, even against (my) better judgement, this might very well be my favourite Pulp song. Maybe it is because of the close emotional tie that I developed with this song through a series a circumstances that I cannot express here (and obviously, it is intimately attached to a particular somebody I spent many nights dreaming about ( then I'm gonna sleep for the rest...) Cynical indie tune? I dont believe so! "Famous Blue Raincoat" - one of my favourite songs ever, period. "Your enemy is sleeping now, and his woman is free". Powerful and humbling. Is that a meta-love-song, though? "I'll never need more than this" - Ike + Tina Turner: A proper pop love song, I guess. "And I'm all filled up with pride, loving you, loving you-ou-ou-oooou", that's awesome. (Plus the intro bassline sounds like the original blueprint for "Town Called Malice"). "From her to Eternity" - Cave & Co. Erm. Well. A-N-I-T-A! (she's wearing her bloo stockings i bet). Last but certainly not least, the Boss' "I'm on Fire", which has always had a certain effect on my girlfriends and myself. Fantastic song to put on a mix tape for a potential lover (last track on Side 1. Then start Side 2 with the oft-mentioned on this board "Another Girl, Another Planet". She'll be falling head over heels for you...)

"Dr Love", Sunday, 11 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

LAYLA, Only In Dreams, GOD ONLY KNOWS, Sandra (by Lotion; possibly the best stalker song ever), Madre Mia, Love to Love You Baby, I Want You to Want Me, LET'S GET IT ON, Can't Get Enough of Your Love Baby (along with Barry White's back catalogue), Stone In Love With You,Torture (JSBX), Center of Gravity (Yo La Tengo), STONE LOVE, YOU MAKE ME FEEL (LIKE A NATURAL WOMAN), Ooh Baby Baby (Smokey Robinson!), Maybe I'm Amazed (Live version. Duh.), Hold Me Thrill Me Kiss Me, SWEET CAROLINE, Higher and Higher, Betcha By Golly WOW! (Not the Prince vers.), Fade Into You...

It'd make a helluva mix tape, eh?

JM, Sunday, 11 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Most songs of Astrud Gilberto and Francoise Hardy. Mazzy Star's 'Into Dust', of course Spiritualized's 'I Think I'm in Love'/'Stay With Me'/'Broken Heart' triple love-whammy on "Ladies & Gentlemen...". But my favorite love-song of all-time is 'Lightning Boxer' by Royal Trux, the lines "your beautiful skin/ your beautiful spine/ you're beautiful all the time" get me every time.

Omar, Monday, 12 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Caetano Veloso/Mutantes "Baby," Dusty Springfield "The Look of Love", Pixies "La La Love You," Al Green "Call Me", Die Toten Hosen "Sie Warten Nur Auf Dich", Billy Bragg "The New Brunette"

brent d., Monday, 12 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Go-Betweens -- Quiet Heart

alex thomson, Monday, 12 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Ooh, "Gorecki". Fantastic tune, that one.

Other grand ones include "Somebody" by DM (natch), "In Your Eyes" by Peter G (natchnatch), "Just Like Heaven" by The Cure, "Forever In My Life" by Prince, "Adore" by Prince, "Safe From Harm" by Massive Attack (it IS a love song, dammit), "Caught Up In The Rapture" by Anita Baker and "One More Time" by The Cure (iIals,d).

Dan Perry, Monday, 12 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Kentucky Avenue by Tom Waits, simply the most heartbreakingly wonderful song ever.

However for those pished up indie *JOY* moments Just Like Heaven as previously mentioned and Million Miles by the Weddoes and Hit by The Sugarcubes.

Sadly two of these were big listens for me when i had my first girlfriend, never got over them...

CarsmileSteve, Tuesday, 13 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

the velvet underground -- pale blue eyes

the smiths -- there is a light that never goes out

sonic youth -- i love her all the time green light wish fulfilment

smashing pumpkins -- hummer

native nod -- tangled

unrest -- breather xoxo

team dresch -- screwing yer courage

the magnetic fields -- come back from san francisco the luckiest guy on the lower east side don't look away

fugazi -- do you like me?

what an alternawuss this question has made me

sundar subramanian, Tuesday, 13 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

The Style Council's "Changing of the Guard". A song that sends me emotionally every time, but one which only contrary bastards like myself seem to know.

The Cutwater Band Liberation Front, Tuesday, 13 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

"Message to my Girl" Split Enz (Neil Finn) Mr. Finn has written scores of other heartstopping songs that I'm tempted to mention, but to call any of them straightforward love songs would be innacurate. MTMG is one of the very few, but he still doesn't wanna say...

Claire by the Rheostatics... so many songs to consider. There's got to be something by Lou Barlow amongst my favourites since his voice is so melty and stuff. I'd have to think about it some more.

Kim, Wednesday, 14 February 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

two weeks pass...
"Midnight Confession" by The Grass Roots -- very seldom do songs sound so darn happy about being in love. "I love you" is said not with a coo, but an exclamation point. Also, "Save the Best for Last" by Vanessa Williams, which is the most mature pop love song which I know of, and perhaps one of the most mature love songs, period.

Sterling Clover, Monday, 5 March 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

two months pass...
after hearing the pixies' _bossanova_ for the first time, "velouria" is now one of my favourite love songs and one of my favourite songs.

don't know about the rest of the album though.

sundar subramanian, Saturday, 19 May 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

six months pass...
All I Wanna Do, The Beach Boys (Sunflower album)

odyshape, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-three years ago)

one year passes...
The Blue Nile, "Tinseltown In The Rain"

One of the first questions our very own Frank K asked himself (after he'd established which leg to move first when walking, clue: left) was why are there so many love songs? I've never read what he had to write, and I'm sure it went beyond any of boring answers that I'd further, I'm sure he noticed that more often than not love songs (unless they're breakup love songs) often insist on the infinity of love: the permanence: no reference to its ending. He would've noted, a lot more interestingly than this: that the Beach Boys song which starts "I may not always loves you" secures itself a reality and refreshingness by its concession of the temporaryness of love. I'm worried he wouldn't have been so crass as to say this, though: The Blue Nile took the Beach Boys bet and raised it, almost casting love as something painful, something that, actually, we might not want because of the troubles it causes: the gut cramps and relationship troubles: the almost certain impending dissolution: it's unproveability: don't worry, girl, "soon, this will all be over": time for leaving the parade. If he had have noted that, which I doubt because dude's dead old and that song probably wasn't written back then he would definitely scribbled something along the lines about exactly how painful this song just actually is.

Cozen (Cozen), Sunday, 27 April 2003 14:29 (twenty-two years ago)

What love songs do you love?

Cozen (Cozen), Monday, 28 April 2003 19:10 (twenty-two years ago)

The Coral - Dreaming Of You

zilverberg.tk (zilverberg.tk), Monday, 28 April 2003 19:40 (twenty-two years ago)

Ween's "She's My Baby" = gorgeous and perfect.

And damned near the entire Jill Scott solo album to thread!

nickalicious (nickalicious), Monday, 28 April 2003 19:56 (twenty-two years ago)

(some of these might not fit the usual definition of love, but they do for me)

Nick Drake, "Northern Sky"; Syd Barrett, "Dark Globe," "Golden Hair"; Bastro, "Decent Skin"; The Bee Gees, "To Love Somebody"; Chris Bell, "I Am the Cosmos"; pretty much all of Big Star's recorded output; Camper Van Beethoven, "June"; Captain Beefheart, "I Love You, You Big Dummy," "I Need To Find Me a Woman To Hold My Big Toe," that one song whose title I'm forgetting from Clear Spot; Codeine, "Sea"; Ornette Coleman, "Lonely Woman"; The Dead C., "Hell Is Now Love"; Echo and the Bunnymen, "Ocean Rain"; Electric Prunes, "I Had Too Much to Dream Last Night," "I Happen To Love You"; Eno, "I'll Come Running to Tie Your Shoe"; Galaxie 500, "Melt Away"; Grateful Dead, "Box of Rain"; Tim Hardin, "If I Were a Carpenter," "Lady Came from Baltimore"; Love, "My Little Red Book"; Lungfish, "Signpost"; Lynyrd Skynyrd, "Tuesday's Gone," "Free Bird"; Mercury Rev, "Car Wash Hair," "Everlasting Arm," "Opus 40"; Palace, Inc. "All Gone"; The Sea and Cake, "Parasol"; Sonny Sharrock, "A Portrait of Linda in Three Colors, All Black"; Shellac, "Doris"; Slint, "Washer"; Smog "To Be of Use," "Held"; Stone Roses, "She Bangs the Drums"; 13th Floor Elevators, "You're Gonna Miss Me"; Caetano Veloso/Gal Costa, "Baby"; The Walker Brothers, "The Sun Ain't Gonna Shine Anymore"; Scott Walker, "On Your Own Again," "The World's Strongest Man"; Neil Young, "Only Love Can Break Your Heart"

hstencil, Monday, 28 April 2003 20:04 (twenty-two years ago)

eight months pass...
The most awesome love songs are as followed:
The Bangles - Eternal flame
Bette Midler - The Rose
David Cassidy - I think I love you
Sammy Kershaw - The Love of my life
Firehouse - Love of a Lifetime
Sara Evans - No Place that far

Louann southern, Tuesday, 20 January 2004 18:35 (twenty-one years ago)

Firehouse - Love of a Lifetime

You're not at all well, are you.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 18:42 (twenty-one years ago)

"What A Man" by Linda Lyndell is the only real love song. It's the only song I'd ever want to hear sung about me.

Llahtuos Kcin (Nick Southall), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:07 (twenty-one years ago)

Yo La Tengo -- Nowhere Near
Yo La Tengo -- Our Way to Fall
MBV -- To Here Knows When
Spiritualized -- Broken Heart
Tindersticks -- City Sickness
Drugstore -- I Don't Wanna Be Here Without You
Mojave 3 -- Hard to Miss You

I've assumed that broken hearts are fair game in this thread

Barry Bruner (Barry Bruner), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:22 (twenty-one years ago)

"The You & Me Song" by the Wannadies
"You're My Best Friend" by Queen
"A Wish Away" by the Wonder Stuff
"When You're Near Me I Have Difficulty" by XTC
"If I Were With Her Now" by Spiritualized
"Dazzle & Delight" by Gavin Friday & the Man Seezer
"BeautifuL Love" by Julian Cope
"Love Her All I Can" by Kiss
"Rock'n'Roll With Me" by David Bowie
"Summerhead" by Cocteau Twins --- admittedly, I have no concept of what the mysterious Liz Fraser is actually singing about on this track, but it hits these ears as the most sublime love song ever to crack open the frowny, ice-slathered silence of an unforgiving realm of merciless cruelty.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:42 (twenty-one years ago)

Stevie Wonder "Isn't She Lovely" stands out among the many super-amazing lovely love songs he's concocted. It so well conjures that sunlight-cutting-through-clouds effect love can have.

nickalicious (nickalicious), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:47 (twenty-one years ago)

Yeah, but it's about a baby and babies stink, right?

Llahtuos Kcin (Nick Southall), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:48 (twenty-one years ago)

"Give Me the Reason" by Luther Vandross actually rips the heart from my chest and squeezes the bloody pathos out of it like an overripe grapefruit of embittered, unrequited angst. So simple, yet so sad.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:48 (twenty-one years ago)

Fondue? Luther Vandross??! What the fuck have you doen with Alex, you extraterrestrial motherfucker???!!!

Llahtuos Kcin (Nick Southall), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:50 (twenty-one years ago)

Hahahahaha.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:50 (twenty-one years ago)

Damn that Southall. I'm in physical laugh-pain here.

nickalicious (nickalicious), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:51 (twenty-one years ago)

Invasion Of The Body Snatchers is happening RIGHT NOW in New York. Who'll be next?

Llahtuos Kcin (Nick Southall), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:53 (twenty-one years ago)

Jody and Anthony have stopped going to restaurants. IT'S TOO LATE!

Llahtuos Kcin (Nick Southall), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:53 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm actually going to a new fondue restaurant in NYC tonight called DIP....watch this space for photos, you fire-dishonoring, fondue-phobic fuckers

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:54 (twenty-one years ago)

"Honour the Fondue (True Love Can't Wait)" by Alex in NYC (Llahtuos Kcin bodysnatcher remix)

nickalicious (nickalicious), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:57 (twenty-one years ago)

(now that the laughing is subsiding a bit)
More love songs wot I love a lot:

Morphine "All Your Way"
Ani DiFranco "Untouchable Face"
Wilco "I'm The Man Who Loves You"
Bjork "Venus as a Boy"
The Beatles "Within You Without You"
The Cure "Pictures of You"

nickalicious (nickalicious), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 19:57 (twenty-one years ago)

Anyone like Extreme's "More Than Words" or is that too cornball for this crowd?

bosie bos, Tuesday, 20 January 2004 20:28 (twenty-one years ago)

Oh god I've just remembered - last night's Simpsons was the one where Otto/Auto gets married, and when he proposes he gets his boombox out and hits play and it's "Every Rose Has Its Thorn" by Poison. I fell off my chair...

Llahtuos Kcin (Nick Southall), Tuesday, 20 January 2004 22:11 (twenty-one years ago)

"Pictures of you" seconded,

Pet Shop Boys - "Liberation"

Pet Shop Boys - "It always comes as a surprise" (underrated song from their underrated album Billingual)

This might fall more under the "meta-love-song" category but Bjork's "All is full of love" is gorgeous, especially the Plaid remix.

Seb, Wednesday, 21 January 2004 00:04 (twenty-one years ago)

three weeks pass...
Nick Drake - "Northern Sky," "Fly"

Curt1s St3ph3ns, Sunday, 15 February 2004 00:43 (twenty-one years ago)

three years pass...

"Daisy Bell" is my favorite love song of all time.

Pete Scholtes, Wednesday, 13 February 2008 17:23 (seventeen years ago)

Harvest Moon is my favorite.

our work is never over, Wednesday, 13 February 2008 17:31 (seventeen years ago)

"More Than This" -- Roxy Music

"In Perpetuity" -- Too Much Joy

another vote for "Pictures of You"

"Melt With You" -- Modern English

"I Wanna Be Your Boyfriend" -- Ramones

And I've noticed that some of the best love songs have an element of uncertainty to them. It's not "I definitely love you!", but more like "maybe I love you". The Beach Boys' "God Only Knows" opens with "I may not always love you...."; George Harrison's "Something (In the Way She Moves)" says "you're asking me will my love grow, I don't know....I don't know...."

eeyore19, Thursday, 14 February 2008 03:35 (seventeen years ago)

one year passes...

al green - "here i am (come and take me)" is on some profound real sexual spiritual shit all wrapped up in one package, then i'd pick "loving you" from the belle album for the sheer ecstatic joy of being w/ some one u love

Matt P, Wednesday, 18 November 2009 17:59 (fifteen years ago)

'silently' - blonde redhead
'sea song' - robert wyatt

Turangalila, Wednesday, 18 November 2009 18:19 (fifteen years ago)

Curtis Mayfield - So In Love. Loses nothing for being utterly straightforward.

calumerio, Wednesday, 18 November 2009 18:24 (fifteen years ago)

nine years pass...

CBC listeners pick the ten worst:

https://www.cbcmusic.ca/posts/20939/the-10-worst-love-songs-paul-anka-the-police

Mostly low hanging fruit, but I’m sure most are deserving (though I like the Police song, which is not even a love song anyway). I’ve still only know “Muskrat Love” as a punchline, not as a song.

Timothée Charalambides (cryptosicko), Thursday, 21 February 2019 01:09 (six years ago)

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Timothée Charalambides (cryptosicko), Thursday, 21 February 2019 01:09 (six years ago)


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